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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Ladymillion(f): 12:52pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
HumbleTrader:u dey mind him? Rushing to Nairaland Supreme court like we were there when he rendered the alleged help to the girl 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by BigIyanga: 12:52pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Free rider go try own luck separately. She cant bring u as a dependent if you’re not married. Only you can bring yourself as a single person. Go and buy TOEFL…. Study and take the exam. Helping your gf with the hope on riding on her success is pure delusion. Try and challenge your luck. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Ed12(m): 12:53pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
RUN AND FOCUS ON YOUR LIFE MORE.. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nobody: 12:53pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
It might be cheaper for you to marry her than apply for study visa. So, the ball is in your court technically. My 2cent |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Kelvin3476: 12:54pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Jennyclay:BT U WILL SUDDENLY START CRYING WHEN THE CASE IS REVERSED. WOMEN ARE THE DEVIL THEMSELVES. VERY WICKED 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by NEUDUDE: 12:54pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Lol, here you are as usual |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by bdon123(m): 12:54pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Thief |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by worldclass68(m): 12:55pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Breakfast for u already...sorry bro |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by usj(m): 12:55pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:bro she sees you now as a liability. To her you going with her would jeopardize her chances of get a richer guy over there. Cut your losses and move on. 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Kekenary: 12:55pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
O.t.i.l.o. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by saintgp(m): 12:56pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
rickpat:I agree completely with you bro,d girl is naive,she no know say visa approval is the koko and not even the admission 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by dapadawee: 12:56pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Omoapena:Am I buhari |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by RZArecta(m): 12:57pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits She's no longer your girlfriend. You're not "ambitious" enough for her if not you would have used all that time, money and effort to process your own travelling plans knowing fully well she could have sorted herself out through relatives. Right now, she's looking for a way to dump your âss and blame it on you so she'll have a clean conscience. Don't argue with her or bring up marriage topic again, apply for studies yourself and write that TOEFL without telling her. If she brings up the topic (she won't), tell her everything I told you here and that you're only protecting your heart and interests since it's obvious she's tactically weaning herself from you then listen to her blab 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by LORDKing001: 12:57pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Ode |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by BRATISLAVA: 12:58pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Golddigger. She used her intellect to get there. You want to leech off her. Use your brain and get there. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Phemzyl: 12:59pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Oga you go dey trust eve 😂 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Ferdinandu(m): 12:59pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Getting admission abroad is easier than getting it in Nigeria. It is getting visa that is the issue. She never get visa and she is already acting up. Boy it is time you know your priorities 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by bigcasava1(m): 12:59pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
You should be happy that God has exposed who she is, my guy double ur hustle. There something about women when they are btw 18 and 25 their brains no dey allow them see the future. Guy go make the money na you go select women as you want 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by ModCaller: 1:01pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Only a Nigerian fool applies for US student visa. Don't waste your money |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Kento4ken: 1:02pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
You be mumu |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Kingzy4pep(m): 1:04pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Just relax and watch her trying to gather what's left of the relationship after visa denial.. For God's sake, Admission is not visa. US visa nor be beans o.. She never loved you. Move on bro. 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by 3pointsagree: 1:04pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
My guy let her go Mine did this thing to some years ago Today am married with children and blessed with a profitable business Any woman who des not want you let her go 4 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nobody: 1:04pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Weak men everywhere.. so that's why you are crying like tata..? Oga leave that bitch Alone.. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Gboom: 1:05pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits:Borrow yourself sense. Admission to school is not a guarantee for visa, she will still need you like someone commented before. I remembered a girlfriend I wanted to help like 15 years ago, she was working as a contract staff in a bank and she used to complain every time, I took her CV to another bank where my friend works and within 2 days, they called her for interview, and she passed the first stage. After some weeks, she told me that those people did not employ her and I told her that she only wrote a test and has not gone beyond that stage only for her to tell me that she has passed 2 stages more, she has seen the M.D and he rejected her despite the fact that they came from the same place. From that moment my feelings for died. I even went back to my friend to narrate her ordeal but she rebuked me that what happen to my own cv that I should prefer a girlfriend to myself. Once again, zero you mind and try to push yourself first 3 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Nobody: 1:05pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Our eyes go clear very soon! Speak with your girlfriend abeg. Talk one on one with her.. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by MimiSheWrote(f): 1:07pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
HumbleTrader:sometimes in life you just need a third party opinion/advice! that's what he needed, Which you have already contributed to without knowing it(probably) by telling him to talk to his partner. This life is very simple sir! Na humans just dey make am difficult. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by mastermaestro(m): 1:08pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
CrownOfClay724: You couldn't have said it better. Dude had zero plan for himself all along. He laid his entire being on another person's plan, which I find very stupid for an adult. How can your girlfriend's plan be your plan? OP needs a hot healing slap. 2 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by samwillyco1(m): 1:08pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Fast break or abi break fast. Get her pregnant and thank me later. |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by Reni1: 1:08pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Hmmn, I think she loves you and is giving you an opportunity to make an active decision in your future. I say this because when you migrate, you would be starting from ground zero except you guys are wealthy. In the process of growing from ground zero, the core of your relationship will most likely be challenged. Your perspective on life will change and you will have to deal with the situation as best as you can but remember, you are coming on dependent visa, you no get mouth because you are rely on her visa status. Personally, When my partner and I were in Nigeria na she dey cook, I just dey lounge and that was my expectation but now na me dey enter kitchen cook myself and my Perspective had to change to accept the fact that the most important thing is for food to enter my stomach not how it was made or who made it. I’d say focus on your life as well, shelf the marriage plans and as she advised, try the student visa thing for yourself as well. One thing though, as a prospective Nigerian man in the diaspora, you can chance of meeting babes way pass your girl high and you may even get the option to choose which suits you better. Life is to short for bula ba, focus of what makes u happy now and in the future. 6 Likes |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by gentlesmithugo(m): 1:09pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
obembet:so make he turn prayer warrior on top another person head.una they try |
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To Travel Abroad Without Marrying Me by akanke79: 1:09pm On Feb 07, 2023 |
Lifeinbits: Post this on travel section,you will get the advice you need.if you both apply together,you guys could be rejected. https://www.nairaland.com/7194807/general-usa-student-visa-enquiries-part/220 |
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