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Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by obeycian(m): 9:39am On Feb 11, 2023 |
[quote author=obeycian post=120810860][/quote] am going through the same issue right now, my ex from 10yrs ago contacted me last month, she has relocated To US since we broke up, she got married to the guy she dated before me, she got her papers through the Guy because he has been there for a while, now they are divorced with a 5yrs old kid. She is proposing to come to Nigeria to have a court wedding with me and take me along with her abroad. The issue right now is that I am engaged and i am going to get married in 4months. I am so confused right now |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by GoodCane: 9:43am On Feb 11, 2023 |
MimiSheWrote: This is exactly why Men are the prize. The woman in the story knows better and decided not to divorced the man hence na she go lose if she try am. When a woman cheats, she should get ready to cater for herself by herself, provide her shelter, feed herself, pay her bills and do everything herself. A man and a woman can never be the same. Of course men are the prize to be won. You girls need to go extra Miles to please us otherwise we'll look elsewhere. Men are the Golden prize to be won 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by NEUDUDE: 9:44am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If it were me, divorce is the only way. Staying married is not even a viable options at this point. Just count my losses and move on. And trust shes gonna pay. I no dey forgive neither do i forget I must do my own back, one way or another 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by LoveJesus87(m): 9:47am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Franzinni:Thank you jare for the advice. This life na one e no get part 2 |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Franzinni: 9:48am On Feb 11, 2023 |
[quote author=obeycian post=120810860][/quote]bros never marry out of pity ... Be very strategic about your decisions... Becasue it is a marathon not a sprint, make sure you think ahead 10 years - 20 years and be sure you will be compatible after the honey moon phase is over ... And trust me it will fade fast and what ever is left is the real person you married. Think selfishly too ... Marriage is an institution, it's a job, so be very calculative on the benefits you will receive not love.... Love is like a drug it releases feel good chemicals in the body and at the same time inhibits your ability to think critically. If I were you and this is just me talking from my blind perspective, I will get married to the American, that will broaden your horizon as to what kind of power you posses. Then try to naturalize in the us as fast as possible, get involved in community programs make alot of American friend especially whites. Try to be as independent as possible from the woman just incase she tries to be smart. ... And if the marriage fails, at least you are not back to square one. You will be well secure and stable and you can even find another woman at the snap of your finger .... Men age like wine Women age like milk. 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by DaddyCoool: 9:49am On Feb 11, 2023 |
gerrardomendes: Summary: She bugged her Nigerian husband's cell phone and heard him planning to go spend time with another woman in Nigeria. He was in Nigeria for two months. While he was gone she rented their house and moved into an apartment with their 3 kids. When he came back he couldn't get in and called her. She refused to tell him where she was staying. She gave him one year to repent and go straight or she'd sell their house and file for divorce |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Franzinni: 9:51am On Feb 11, 2023 |
LoveJesus87:one life o ... No extra life like super Mario. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Idaytesj29(m): 9:52am On Feb 11, 2023 |
TONYE001: If you know what goes on between husbands and wives, you would not be so sure of these things you are saying. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by DaddyCoool: 9:53am On Feb 11, 2023 |
NEUDUDE: You think it is Nigeria. He'd be paying exorbitant child support and possibly alimony and see the children rarely if at all! 3 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by TOPCRUISE(m): 9:57am On Feb 11, 2023 |
OyeofIkoTuN:You are wicked. You don't want him to change. You want him to continue the adulterous act just because she was soft on him. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by obeycian(m): 9:58am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Franzinni:my concern is the person I am with her in Nigeria. She is over 30 and I don’t know how she is going to take the news if I break up with her. I have been pondering about what to do for weeks. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by TONYE001(m): 10:04am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Idaytesj29: There's nothing special that goes on between husbands and wives. Our homes are what we build them to be. No big issue. There's no mystery about marriage. Na we dey make am look complex. If you want a happy home, love and respect each other. Nothing more, nothing less. By the way, this is my 9th year in marriage, and I'm speaking from experience. 5 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Albertone(m): 10:04am On Feb 11, 2023 |
OyeofIkoTuN: If the kids were born in US, he will be charged with kidnapping offence. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by TONYE001(m): 10:05am On Feb 11, 2023 |
vickydevoka: The story may not be true as a matter of fact. I only mentioned the satisfaction I got from listening to her piece. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by YaQsGaYa(m): 10:05am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Smart woman |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by MrDoGood(m): 10:08am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Bvlgari: She's has a good heart and she loves him dearly. If not 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Crafteck1: 10:09am On Feb 11, 2023 |
OyeofIkoTuN: If she no need permission to rent out the house, the man no need permission to sell it. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by BigDawsNet: 10:11am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Nostring: "Some" is different from "everybody" 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by leisuretym: 10:11am On Feb 11, 2023 |
OyeofIkoTuN: I had to sign in to reply you, you want your role model to ruin his kids life by bringing them to this shithole because of a side chick? You have a mental issue 3 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Kingcalls: 10:12am On Feb 11, 2023 |
TONYE001: Close mouth simp |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Adeolokonla: 10:12am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Triangles1:can you give it to me since it's useless at ur place |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by BigDawsNet: 10:14am On Feb 11, 2023 |
tctrills: I pray no one will face that issue... She can claim it was a fraud marraige... Na big deal for the guy 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Sleekfingers: 10:14am On Feb 11, 2023 |
b0rn2fuck: It is a crime . If you are legally married . 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by DKM123: 10:15am On Feb 11, 2023 |
I love this woman! Nigerian women, y'll need to wake up. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Triangles1(m): 10:16am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Adeolokonla: Where's your location. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Cecero(m): 10:17am On Feb 11, 2023 |
TONYE001: Taa! Mechie gị ọnụ there! I say mechie ọnụ nsị there! Goan marry fes and f**k wan toto all ur life make we know. yen yen yen yen yen...small boys wey get multiple gehfrens dey teach married men how to marry wan wife. Azị gbakwa unu dia! Ụmụ aparị! |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by DKM123: 10:19am On Feb 11, 2023 |
TONYE001: Oh wow! I am genuinely shocked. You are a popular Nairalander and I used to think nairaland married men are the usual SELFISH, SELF CENTERED NIGERIAN HUSBANDS who only think with thier PRICK and NOTHING ELSE when it comes to thier MARRIAGES.... My bad! 1 Like |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Adeolokonla: 10:19am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Triangles1:I dey Gbagada,Lagos like this |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Justiceleague1: 10:20am On Feb 11, 2023 |
Oh 4K!!! She did nothing...that man is a Nigerian and will act innocent for that one year and come back hard. Well I wish her and her kids good luck |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by DKM123: 10:20am On Feb 11, 2023 |
The TYPICAL NIGERIAN HUSBAND believes that the woman they are married to is meant to bear them children and afterwards they keep her at home while they go fvucking young ladies outside while abandoning thier wives EMOTIONALLY, SEXUALLY and otherwise. Yet, they act as if they are the ones who DO NOT NEED MARRIAGE. This ediots get married and yet eat thier cakes outside. Some even become more promiscuous AFTER they get married. It is almost impossible to come across a DECENT FAITHFUL NIGERIAN MARRIED MAN THAT IS RICH. The poor ones are only humble cos they don't have money. Once they get small upgrade, they show thier real selves.. The question is why do they get married if they don't ever plan to be faithful? Yet, they EXPECT a happy wife who will give thier self centered and cheating privks love and peace of mind. Chai! God bless this woman where ever she is..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by tremilatre(m): 10:27am On Feb 11, 2023 |
girlygirlyMain: A tenner to say you don't know what it takes to remortgage. Things don't work here the way it does in naija. No bank would accept a remortgage without the owner or co-signatory. Clearly the house isn't hers cos she wouldn't rent her house out to spite him, she'd simply kick him out. The law also doesn't permit let of a personal house unless it's been remortgaged, not like when she didn't do it on the low, else the tax man would be on her neck already. Believe all you see online to your heart content, reality is different from clout chasing, thats why online inlaws like you are usually the ones who drive traffic. Seun must be proud if you. Cheerio. |
Re: How I Got Back At My Cheating Nigerian Husband - US Based Lady (pix/video) by Franzinni: 10:28am On Feb 11, 2023 |
obeycian:well the person in Nigeria is over 30 men that is a stretch but ask yourself this question, is she a virgin? What is her body count? How did she live her life in her 20s ? Is she the ride or die or the type that flakes on you when things are uncomfortable for her? Is she submissive? Does she have feminine energy? Did she grow in a broken home? How receptive are her siblings and family ? Are they well Todo? Remember at 35 most of her eggs will be gone... These are the type questions you need to ask yourself logically and without emotions... And on the topic of break up, Its a tough one becasue she might be the right person for you and I am just advising you based on the character of women I know (biased perspective) But if I was the one I would find a way to end the relationship in a way that she would feel she dodged a bullet... In a way she would feel I was a wrong choice for her and let her be the one to tell me she is not interested anymore. There are many creative ways to do that and not make her feel hurt. I will give this disclaimer tho, I don't know your relationship and how much investment you both have had, what challenges you faced and overcame together or how deep of a commitment you have so take my words with a grain of salt I am only talking based on the parameters within my knowledge which is as general and generic as possible. ... It will hurt me to be the demon who destroyed a good thing and who knows you just might have a good thing. But ask those important questions and the answers will give you a direction to follow bro. |
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