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Hmm chinwe Achebe

That woman has found a new love. If she wants a divorce herself, you can't stop her. Let her go.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Hope you are alive first and not contemplating of committing suicide.... let her go, you will be fine trust me. It will be hard but it's better to allow her go since that's all she wants.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Nigga! Your home is gone! It sounds painful but it's true. She is sleeping with another man.

Advice: Let her go before she kills you!

Ishilove:
Another episode of "Things That Never Happened"

ObamaMessi, you need to get a job and get busy.

Ah...Ishilove my dear. Longest time.

It's been a while I saw you in the politics section. I think say you don even leave NL patapata. How far?

Lol



You're back with another story.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

To be honest there is nothing you can do about it even though she will go and ended up regretting everything she has done to kill the joy in her marriage , she has seen you finish , no spice any longer, and you sounded too weak to take the only way out, she’s got your mumu button

To revive your self you must first be a man, right now you are sounding like she’s the man of the house , you are too weak now, not saying you should use power or get physical

Do not demand for bedtime from her henceforth

Improve yourself , both in look, dressing and attraction

Spoil yourself with good things and create happiness within

Do what makes you happy to regain your self back first, create happiness within.

Do you work? You sound like the woman of the house because I don’t understand who take care of the kids if she comes back home late around 9pm.

Get a maid and free yourself, that way you can hang out with friends rather than thinking about her ugly behavior .

She will notice the changes in you and know you are just being responsible because you have a family , go haywire and take advantage of this to enjoy yourself with friends or create a hubby that will take you away from those thinkings . E. G swimming 🏊‍♀️ 🏊‍♀️ Will improve your physical fitness and soul .

V

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

You are just extending the divorce date. One day it will happen.

Before I help you , I must ask this question ..

"Are you an urchin"?

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

She Don dey collect beta preeq outside.. Divorce her

fman:
U r a fooolish SIMP just like moh247

See your big head... Did he say girlfriend? He said his wife.... If you no get contribution to make bro leave matter ... mumu

It's a pity my brother, there is little or nothing you can do when a partner is no longer interested in the relationship. I advise you talk to her one on one, talk to her relations, talk to the heads or your church. If the attitude continues, let her go. Or else you will die before your time and she will date and marry another guy once you are dead

GeneralPula:
Did you marry her a virgin?

Hahahaha, bro u already know the answer.

21st century troll award goes to this guy.

She's found someone else. It's not rocket science. There's no amount of words you can tell her to change her mind. She's blinded by deceit and lust. Don't worry. You'll be fine. She needs a reason to leave. Let her be. What's important now are your kids. Treat them with love and they'll see you as a noble man who did all he could. As for your wife, she'll regret in the end. Trust me.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow..

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Pls invest in prayers...
Am not talkin about 1 minute prayer...
Plus Jesus ..Minus Satan... type of prayer...
Deep prayer and worship with God...
Consistent...
Some things will shift when we pray.
God will direct you...ideas...inspirations...
You will succeed..

Meandmycrew:
When you act weak in front of women they will take advantage of you, you are so emotional and your wife can see that in you. She knows you love her so much and probably that why she is doing what she is doing. I tell men most times dont over pamper and over love your woman.Love her but dnt over show it. Baba you need to stand your ground and act like the man of the house and put in her place if she misbehave i love men who dont take shit from
Women. Atimes try to bring out the beast in you it will help them reset their brain.

Op, take this advise and see her begging you to stay.

Any day she says she wants to leave, help her pack her things immediately

dont try to keep anybody in your life who is not ready to stay

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

woman no want you again and you are crying?
(I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored).

The sorrow continue until you learn how to be a MAN in your own home

Otilo ....

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Oti loo… she’s gone already my dear brother

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

dude pull urself together and start looking for new wife if she want divorce give it to her make urself happy

GeorgWashinton:
Thank you so much.

I will try this once my marriage gets on track.

Lol, you are still not getting the point. Your wife mind have left you since, what you are seeing now is the last stages before she tells you Goodbye.

The only way out is to go get a side chick and don't hide it. If she gets jealous about it, you have Hope but if she does not care, it's over!

I know you truly love her but you just have to accept the reality and let her go! Sorry.

Whatever you do, don't let your kids go through ant psychological torture.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

the lamentations of another waste of male headcount.

IAMBOSS1990:


Sit her down and talk to her. Get trusted friends to do same too. Pray too.

Why do u pple like forcing adults to be in a relationship or marriage??
Talk to her ??
Go and carry pple to talk to her??
Talk to God to do what?? Make her stay??God doesnt make pple do what they dont want to do.....
when a woman says she wants to leave after a decade...know its not a joke...if u make her stay...she will just make ur life hell and give u another man's child to raise

is it by force to remain in a marriage where the partner doesn't want to be in?
better let her do whatever she wants to do if you don't want to end up six feet under the soil.
she will just kill you or poison you and tell people you committed suicide or you die of high blood pressure, she will cry for 6 months and start fucking every dick she wants.
i don't know why some people believe that it is a must to stay in a marriage if the other partner doesn't want to. I believe it is all about insecurity and an inferiority complex because one partner already believes that without the other party he or she can't be happy or complete.

NEVER FORCE OR PUSH A WOMAN TO STAY IN A MARRIAGE SHE IS NOT HAPPILY WILLING TO MAKE IT WORK, A WOMAN OR MAN THAT IS COMPELLED TO STAY IN SUCH A MARRIAGE IS MORE DANGEROUS THAN AN ATOMIC BOMB,SOONER OR LATER HE OR SHE WILL CONSUME THE OTHER PARTNER

a wedding ring is the smallest handcuff in this world and sooner or later some people realize this, some are happy to be in it while others want their freedom back , freedom to go and come as they wish and do whatever they want as they wish, always respect the other person wishes, life is just too too short to waste on marriage issues

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

my opinion .....once a woman starts having discomfort, and anger towards you bro it is all over .....shes being wooped by another (hard truth) just start hating her and visualising the future without her so it wont hurt when the reality kicks in.

and from the look of things its like you are a broke husband ...because it is hard to see a nigerian woman leave a wealthy man

Bonesbreaker:
dude pull urself together and start looking for new wife if she want divorce give it to her make urself happy

Gbam! This life is so easy, we are the ones that makes it difficult for ourselves sometimes

I understand what you’re passing through but it is so unfortunate that a woman who has been in a marriage for ten years is behaving like a teenager. By now, she ought to be counseling young couples not the other way round.

There is really nothing you can do now because it seems the new found love is sharking her and making her loose her reasoning.

Marriage is not a do or die affair. Grant her the divorce she is requesting for just for your own peace because as it is now, she might end up poisoning you so she can be free.

Before concluding, kindly involve both parents or whoever she listen too.

There is no excuse for married woman or man to be cheating. Marriage is a decision hence you need to decide wholeheartedly to be with that man or woman till death comes.

GeorgWashinton:
My marriage has suddenly been plagued by sadness and sorrow.

I'm married for ten years now and my marriage has yielded us two beautiful kids. But my wife has just suddenly changed. She doesn't cook for me and the kids any more. She comes back from work late sometimes by 9pm. She picks calls at odd hours and sometimes doesn't let me hear or understand the conversation. I complained but she said I was insecure and that nothing is wrong.

Few weeks ago I found a love letter she wrote but undated and nameless. She said she wrote it for me. I was heartbroken because I know for a fact that it was not for me.

My wife is threatening to divorce me citing that I'm maltreating her which was purely a lie and a false pretext to leave me.

I love my wife and wouldn't want her to leave me, how do I build back my home to how it was? I seriously need my wife by my side and the peace restored.

Once a married woman started cheating, it will be very hard to get her back.
Forgiving a cheating woman doesn't always end well for the man. She will continue cheating and be clever about it.