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A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:21am On Feb 13, 2023 |
So I met this lady 2 weeks ago in school, she came for her project work. She showed a lot of interest during our conversation which made me to collect her number, thereafter we continued chatting on WhatsApp and calling She later said she will be coming to school and I told her to let me know so that I will meet her in school because I live very close to our school, infact I invited her to my place but she later postponed it and said she won't be coming again and said I should visit her instead. I wasn't prepared for such outing that day so I told her to wait till Sunday and she agreed, we continued chatting on WhatsApp till yesterday Sunday morning, she called me early in the morning to inquire if I will still visit her and I said yes, she said by 12pm because she will first go to church. When it was 11:30, I called her and she asked if I had left home and I told her very soon, she now said I should call her once I get to a particular location and give the phone to bike man so that she will give us the direction to her place. I left home 12:10 pm, got to the location, negotiated with okada man, called her number but she didn't pick, I called the second time, she didn't answer so I thought maybe she wasn't with her phone. I waited for her to call back but she didn't, after waiting for awhile without reaching her, I told the bike man to carry another passenger. The last time I called her, she switched off her phone, I returned back to my house. She hasn't called to offer any explanation after 20 hours and I'm just surprised. Here is my question for ladies on this forum, is what she did okay? What do you think made her to behave that way? I'm not the type that run after ladies up and down, I hardly do such thing, I've avoided women for most part of my life and such ugly experience will surely affect the way I relate with them anywhere I find myself 110 Likes 6 Shares |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:22am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Please nobody should call me a simp We are not of the same tribe, so could that be the reason she changed her mind? 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by DynamicWriter: 8:23am On Feb 13, 2023 |
![]() ![]() ![]() You wan go meet a bani for house. Lmao. Your mumu no too much. After all your mother prayers for you to be successful in life. You choose to simp in life. Anyway, in case anyone needs a quality content writer. Kindly check my signature for contact details. 162 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Nobody: 8:27am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Sorry bro. She probably had another "guest". One thing I must tell you as a guy is: never visit ladies, let them do the visiting, there's more respect for you as a guy that way... No matter how compelling she sounds, always let her be the one to visit you.✌🏾 389 Likes 27 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Manson1(m): 8:28am On Feb 13, 2023 |
So u be carry ur two left legs wan go see woman for house... Seriously, how do you guys give these women so much of ur time? ![]() See our just concluded 3bedroom bungalow construction if you're about starting your building project.. Link in my signature 60 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Tokskob2008: 8:28am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Her boyfriend showed up unexpectedly so she had to cancel... Any excuse or whatsoever she later gives you should be rendered invalid and I see no reason for you to keep chatting her up anymore... 202 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:29am On Feb 13, 2023 |
adler777:another guest, I don't think so But thanks for your advise 2 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by success1smyn(m): 8:29am On Feb 13, 2023 |
It happened to me sometime ago, I called this lady severally, she didn't answer the phone and switched off the phone after a while so I stopped calling her and went back. She sent a voice message the following day that she lost her mum and has been crying since. Lesson: Wait till you hear from her 167 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:29am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Tokskob2008:I will never chat or call her again 44 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:31am On Feb 13, 2023 |
success1smyn:hmm |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:32am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Manson1:did you read what I wrote 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Manson1(m): 8:33am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: Did you read my comment? Oya you can continue visiting them since you won't learn 21 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:33am On Feb 13, 2023 |
DynamicWriter:see this one, I first invited her but she declined and invited to her place instead 3 Likes |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by padi94(m): 8:45am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Avoid women house next time 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Fineman2: 8:46am On Feb 13, 2023 |
padi94:I've learnt my lesson 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Nobody: 9:19am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2:The probability of another guest is 9/10 It's most likely the truth stop finding another excuse for her. 56 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by LUAN(m): 9:23am On Feb 13, 2023 |
11:40 you called ![]() 12:15 you don already reach her house. It seems you have all the time in this life,and there is nothing that is keeping you busy. 53 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Oluwasheyijossy: 9:23am On Feb 13, 2023 |
At times they do the invite just to test you if indeed you will come although they aren't expecting you to come but as soon as they hear you're on your way they switch off leaving you stranded. Note: She's not interested in you bro. If a lady really likes and respect's your friendship, it will take her nothing to have called or messaged u before u left your house not to come again or ask for a reschedule. It's a simple world, we shouldn't keep behaving like animals, u embarking on such a trip is risk itself. Sorry man 136 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by darelar(m): 9:24am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Anything can happen to her within that period. So you can't tell until you hear her story. It could be faulty phone, the phone could have been stolen from her or any other unforseen circumstances. Wait till you hear her side before you judge her. I was receiving a customer call when my phone went off and my battery is about 54 percent. On trying to remove my sim, the phone fell down and the screen got broken. That's how I was unable to talk to the customer until about about a week when I fixed the screen and she thought I intentionally end the call and switch off my phone. 57 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by imagrg(m): 9:29am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Thank God she nor use your sper*m do ritual or sell am to ritualists. 8 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by CYBERSOLDIERSre: 9:54am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: Don't be a simp. Take advice from elders. She had another guest better than you. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by seanwilliam(m): 11:00am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Well, you should not jump into conclusion yet. Many things could have happened then. There was a time a girl left my place , I was calling her to make sure she’s got to her place. I called up to 20 times ( reasons is I always have this fear if a woman visits me , until she gets to her place safely , my heart won’t be at rest, especially if she sleeps over ![]() I had to call her friend , she didn’t pick too. She left my place around 11am, throughout the day she didn’t pick . She called me with a strange number the following evening that she lost her bag( which contained her phone , key , charger and other stuff) and she didn’t sleep at home cos the key was inside the bag too. And I already jumped into conclusion that she went to see another man. Even though it’s possible she slept in another man’s arm that night too ![]() ![]() Wait till you hear from her. But whatever she says, take it like a pinch of salt. Next time , don’t visit woman, as a man, doing that will bruise my ego. Invite her over, make a move to touch her, fhuck her and let her do the chasing. ![]() 40 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Sniper101(m): 11:02am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Her boyfriend must have showed up at her house unannounced ![]() It's a Sunday ... remember? Your one consolation is the fact that... I see her calling you on phone or coming to school to find you and apologize about yesterday. I see her asking you to try visiting her again or she asking you when you'll like her to come visit you. I see her allowing you deep your stick inside her canal. I see her steadily cheating on her boyfriend with you; if you were a great fvcka the first time This I have seen ![]() 17 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Kingsean(m): 11:11am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2: Truth is you didn't do anything bad as far as she gave you her consent to visit. she likely had another guy with her that's why she behaved that way. I would advise that you cut the friendship as she isn't a straightforward person. don't bother calling her anymore and don't invite her over again. just be plain with her even after she apologize over her actions 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by texannaija: 11:16am On Feb 13, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Same here o (at the bolded). I bin think say na only me this thing dey do… lol |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by seanwilliam(m): 11:25am On Feb 13, 2023 |
texannaija:not only you bro , even my original girlfriend , I always experience heart palpitation anytime she sleeps over. Last week when one girl visited me, around 3 am cos I was on my phone , she suddenly woke up and started coughing , see I quickly on the light begin Dey shake her o. It happened within 5min , If you see how I was sweating . I don think how many yards my cloth go be for kirikiri ![]() The following morning she was just laughing saying I’m not man enough . She said she didn’t take enough water that’s why, For my mind I said , na the last time wey me and you go sleep together be this . Oloshi. ![]() 62 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by texannaija: 11:30am On Feb 13, 2023 |
seanwilliam: Na wa oo ![]() ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Nobody: 11:35am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Fineman2:you be fool... pussy dey decline u? ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by andrewgui: 11:58am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Dey play...just dey play ▶️⏯️ 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Pidginwhisper: 11:58am On Feb 13, 2023 |
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Re: A Lady Invited me To Her Place And Abandoned Me On The Road by Goodlady(f): 11:59am On Feb 13, 2023 |
Wait there she's coming back 3 Likes 1 Share |
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