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My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving / My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! / My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man (2) (3) (4)
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Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by okine4real: 3:20pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Definitely, i feel like running sometimes, but when i remember my kids, i just stay put. But at the same time looking at one of the reason i might want to run is freedom, Freedom would cause me more trouble than good. Wifey get wahala ohh, her wahala know be here, but if i say make i leave the woman jakpa, my children go suffer well well, since i dont want them to suffer, i stay for the marriage. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by rickleye: 3:21pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Albertone: lol .. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by ciencee(m): 3:21pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Let me be learning.... |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by dominique(f): 3:24pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
goodmike7: Oh! So the man is a saint of that's always right and the woman is always wrong? Do you know how many woman are forced to put their lives on standstill because of marriage and maltreated as a result? Do you know how many women that have to suffer all sorts of abuse in marriage and hold it all in because of the children and what people will say? Do you know how many women that made call sorts of sacrifices for their husbands yet they're rewarded with infidelity, disrespect and abuse? In all these, the man is an innocent saint and the women is always wrong and somewhat deserves any ill treatment she gets from men. With due respect, you no too get sense. You want to become a baby daddy so you can add to the number of women you and your fellow men slut shame abi? I'm sure you've started concocting the lies you're going to tell against the mother when the child grows up to look for you. Na una way be that. 8 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Microwhy: 3:25pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Wawelexy:Except you're married if not, you got it all wrong. Its extremely devastating when you realise that yoru partner is just using you for financial security. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by MoneyMustBMade(m): 3:26pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
TimT: To the extent of selling his car without providing anything for thier upkeep |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Jakama90(m): 3:26pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
The guy has passed through alot, I can feel his pain. I don't feel like leaving my family because of my kids and the unborn but I feel like leaving my wife.. marriage is just a scam. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 3:27pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
okine4real:Divorce is better than up and leaving like a thief at night. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by tesppidd: 3:27pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Maigaskiya04:All I have for you is 2 words and an exclamation mark; Lucky You! 2 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by cococandy(f): 3:28pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Another pathetic woman bashing thread 4 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Sthandawasam(m): 3:28pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
jeff1607: He called her after 3 months not that she filed a report after 3 months. 😁 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by qtguru(m): 3:29pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
I won't judge the man, but nothing can make me leave my family unless my life is at risk. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 3:29pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Microwhy:Any man who enters voluntarily into a hypogamous union with a woman submits himself to being used for financial security by the woman. So please stop this nonsense abeg! 6 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by bassdow: 3:29pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Klass99: what a sensible matured response 3 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by FOLYKAZE(m): 3:30pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
When marriage chokes, you walkway and never look back |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 3:30pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Jakama90:You don't need to stay if you are not in it 100%. Just rather than abscond like a thief, Seek divorce and let your partner have closure at least. 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by CaptainFM1: 3:31pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
jeff1607: Truly, it doesn't sound real from the way he presented his Nollywood script, but it stories like that is not unheard of in real life. Sometimes, some of this fictitious stories are what happens in real life. As much as I hate Nollywood movies, most of their movies are for learnings if proper attention is paid to it. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by cococandy(f): 3:31pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
If you know how many times I’ve asked myself this question. Marriage doesn’t benefit men, why do they dedicate hours upon hours every day to convince women to marry? And shame those who say no. It’s astounding GloriousGbola: 4 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Thegoodone13(m): 3:31pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Honestly, I'm in this situation now. I left my house but I find it difficult to stay more than two weeks because I love my children and my wife off their phone in order not to be able to reach them. I love my wife but she doesn't love me but she is using me . 7 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by scobaba: 3:32pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
God forbid. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Jokerman(m): 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Yes o. Sometimes I wish i could just go someplace without anyone disturbing me. Just I and maybe peace of mind... but it doesn't work that way, one must know he misses something. I remember Shrek The Third movie where Rumplestiltskin deceive the titular character and the regret that followed |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by pho: 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Never, I don't pray this thought ever come. I love my family die especially those 2 little charming girl and boy God gave me as a wonderful gift. Since I have them it has always been progress upon progress upon progress. 5 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by miqos02(m): 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Lolz. Family is special |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by GodHimself(m): 3:33pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Plenty of theory, and shaming by people who are invested in particular outcomes. Most man-made rules are designed to enslave, by those who never follow those same rules. When you realise this, your freedom of action becomes greatly expanded. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Klass99(f): 3:34pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
bassdow: 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Goodlady(f): 3:34pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Zonefree:A lot of you v been marked and placed on watch in order not to run away. Seeking divorce is so matured and legit. Running away is so immature and cowardly 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by GodHimself(m): 3:34pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
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Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Guest911: 3:35pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Zonefree:Oga just say you didn't have the balls to face your wife with your decision instead of hiding behind statistics. She gave you children, did she neglect her motherly duties? How has she not been a wife to you? When did running away ever solve any issues? Now you come back from your little childish vacation to take back children you abandoned. I hope those kids don't grow up to be the weak man their father is. 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by FireUpNow(m): 3:35pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Well men should know how hellish women are. In the bible we saw how mama Eve made papa Adam to loose all. That alone should tell you what women are. Marry a woman and get your kids also a woman can be good as a companion, think of old age and when sickness strikes. Women are imperfect so are men too. Both men and women have their good and bad sides. Above all make your home a place of rest and peace no matter what. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by bassdow: 3:36pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Klass99: makes sense. ...but a lot of women would have preferred to remain single if they could handle their bills. Once asked a married woman how they're able to let go all their passions and aspirations to stay home and raise kids. Not sure she really had a response. Problem be say those in it prefers letting others fall into same trap, rather than educate them. it's worse among the poor and struggling - na dem sabi advice person to go marry and are even willing to introduce you to a fellow POOR thing. But if na good thing or say na work you dey find, they barely would be willing to help. Ever wondered why MARRIED people are ENVIOUS of SINGLE people ? 11 Likes |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Germi9: 3:36pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
I just did bro and she’s been texting and we have been raining insults on eachother |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Nobody: 3:39pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Wawelexy: Are you married? |
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