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My Cousin Who Got Married Last Year July Is Actually Thinking Of Leaving / My Boyfriend Is On The Verge Of Leaving Me. Help! / My cousin who got married this year July is actually thinking of leaving the man (2) (3) (4)
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Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by FlipModeSquade(m): 5:33pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:They are living in their homes and experiencing what is happening in it and not you.. They don't have to justify any action they took,to conserve their sanity to you.. When it happens to you,you are also free to deal with it however you want.. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 5:37pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Thegoodone13:I can't understand that you are torn between demanding your wife foot part of the bill for the upkeep of her own family, and your ego telling you that as man you ought to carry it all alone? You are obviously bitter that she gets to pocket all of her money while you continue to slave away to soothe your ego. She no send you! 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 5:39pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
FlipModeSquade:1. If they are living well with it why the complaints dey reach us wey we dey outside of their homes? 2. I am neither a coward nor an irresponsible being. I know to do the right thing at least for my own sake, and the sake of others. Even uneducated northerners know to do the right thing. Same can't be said of southerners who claim they are better educated.. 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Allisgud: 5:40pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
litigator:I swear their are many married men like that,who feel like going off marriage for like a year without responsibility |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 5:41pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Allisgud:Are these majorly men in hypogamous unions? |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Franking: 5:41pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Franzinni: Nothing else to add. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Klass99(f): 5:52pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
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Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Ramanto(m): 5:55pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
No. Without many family we life will have no meaning. The zeal to succeed will vanish in me 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by TheGift: 6:07pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
litigator: No I haven't . But I don't think it is necessary, because it is somewhat impossible. You will always feel that connection to all those you abandoned, if no one else, your kids. Like this One that only after 3 months wants to have relationship with the kids without relating with the mother? Impossible. Both their blood flows in the children's veins. The guy needs to accept His role in ending up in that situation, face it, deal with it rather than run away. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Goldbw122(m): 6:09pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
goodmike7: Sure banker |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by guysbewise: 6:13pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
sukkot: If God created marriage then we won't be told that "he who finds a good wife finds a good treasure" it would have been "he who God finds a wife to have a good treasure". Jesus also said that at the resurrection there will be no marriage. If God created marriage then marriage would continue after the resurrection. If either you are not married yet or if you are married then your wife depends on you for money, because once a woman is financially independent only GOD can save that man from the mistake he has made by getting married. If the man loses his job and cannot find another job quickly then that man is finished. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Belleful: 6:19pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Me too is planning to run far from my wife anytime soon. I have three kids, and I'm struggling financially to meet up. I'm owning landlord, my kids going to school have not been regular. My wife was diagnosed with heart related sickness in 2021, that drained my money. She have been on drugs since then. Before the sickness, she use to work. But now since like September last year that she is strong, she have refused to do anything. All she does is sit at home , eat and nag about me not being able to provide all she needs. I have talked things over with her on more than one occasion, and I have even reported her to her mom. Yet no changes. She looks like who the enemies are using to get at me. So I'm planning on running away from her. I'm planning to take my kids to my elder sister place. But if she refused, I will leave them for her, and try to be sending something for her. 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by TimT: 6:38pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
tiswell:With which wife The wife he said is an "enemy of progress" He should just move on with his life and forget about his kids... The wife should strive to take care of the kids and make sure everyday, she lets the children see the kind of heartless man their father is.... The man is a nonsense man 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by moneyissweet(m): 6:47pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
All Nigeria women sucks. Jennyclay: |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Lionnation: 6:57pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
jeff1607:for back and read the story again and understand, the ma only called after 3months |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by akpunda86: 7:10pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
litigator: Sure every day thoughts but kids keep me back |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by 1Alex: 7:12pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Maigaskiya04: Are you married? If yes, then you are a very lucky man. If No, then wait till you get married before you conclude. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Qatar2022: 7:12pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Wawelexy:I don't what you are but people like you die early in marriage |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Qatar2022: 7:13pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:When a kid talk you will know |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by ravensckar(m): 7:13pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Wawelexy:When person wey never marry drop quote, e no dey hard to know. It's easy for you to hide behind your keyboard and label another man a 'coward' when infact you have never been in that condition. Dey Play! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by bassdow: 7:48pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Klass99: so you don't want to be RESPONSIBLE ba ? You can not be ENJOYing while they are SUFFERing, hence reason she PRAYed for YoU |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by deavicky(m): 7:48pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
litigator:lol very funny. The tot of my family will not even allow me sleep outside. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by deavicky(m): 7:50pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
jeff1607:I thi k u should go back and re-read the post because it appears there is a little comprehension problem here. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Timetravel88: 8:15pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Franzinni: 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I don laff taya for here ooo |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Afodot0022(m): 8:27pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
One thing i know is that men go through alot in marriage. I cant count how many times i have thought about leaving and am sure virtually 95%of married men have felt that way except they are men that are not responsible and dont care. Women have tendencies to frustrate your life. My own frustrated me despite taking full financial responsibility for her and the kids, working my ass off to put food on their table, what she ended up paying me is by cheating on me with another man. Pls what could be painful and killing than this for a man. Thank God am out of the fucking marriage and have my kids to my custody, now i have peace and rest of mind. Let her go and meet the stupid man that is deceiving her cos they dont have any sense in their head. Stupid gender 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Markrony: 8:28pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
This is a sign that someone is not mature enough to go into marriage. Enven the Bible made it clear that marriage is between a man and a woman, not boy and girl. Some people do not know or understand the meaning of marriage. Though, in a situation like this, its the girl that pushed him into marriage unprepared. He left out of regret, that he was doing well when he was single but now he could not cope due to responsibilies. My advice to young boys and girls; marriage is quite different from mere relationship. In ordinary relationship, the young man can run away, but in a marriage, two families are involve and children as well. When you displace such awkward behaviour, you will be regarded as an irresponsible guy. Don't marry a girl that doesn't have anything doing. Either she has business or that she is a graduate with a job or that you have money to setup a business for her. Dont rush into marriage because you have one million in your account. If you marry and save money dont buy a car, rather, invest. Take these advices like seriously! 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by theamazonguru(m): 8:38pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
jeff1607: Make una dey cool down dey read something na. Now read again. Now gently. They had considered him missing and was about filing a missing person claim save for his best friend who had the courage to tell the wife that her husband wasn’t missing. He simply disappeared willingly into thin air. It was after 3 months a strange number called her to ask after the kids. It was their father who had disappeared from work and traumatized his family. These are 2 different facts you mixed up as one, and you hastily concluded the story doesn't add up. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 8:51pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Qatar2022:Only fools die early in marriage. Even Hausa cow herders know that when a marriage is no longer working between partners, what a couple ought to do is get a legal divorce from each other. 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by DearGorgeous(f): 8:52pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
jeff1607: It's a true life story of a man lifted from Facebook. Someone asked a question and the man's answer became a sensation. The Op here would have acknowledged the source by pasting the link. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Kobojunkie: 8:58pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
Afodot0022:1. Why na southern men dey go through a lot in marriage? Your northern counterparts who were raised to rightly seek divorce when marriage becomes too much for them to bare, no be men dem be? 2. So na only southern men women dey do all this to. Northern men na saints abi? There women no dey do same to them? This una Victim mentality/ Messiah complex for southern Nigeria dey too much abeg! 3. Choose divorce if you find yourself with a partner that is not in agreement with you so you can peacefully go on to find that one that is. Not whine and blame women for even all the stewpidity of men particularly in the south. Divorce has always been available to all as an option out of marriage. It is available for all both in the South and in the North. So only a silly individual would chose to run away like a rat rather than calmly file for divorce for put a final distance between himself and the one he believes is responsible for his problems. 1 Like |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by NoToPile: 8:58pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
What's the nonsense gan. If everybody disappears because of marriage responsibilities what happens. So it's only men that face pressures from marital responsibilities. Women too don't feel like running away from responsibilities abi yet they stay. Bash women as usual if you want to but you guys should stop talking nonsense. I just wonder what kind of boys are being raised nowadays on Nairaland always whining and wailing about everything. |
Re: As A Married Man, Do You Sometimes Dream Of Leaving Your Family & Disappearing? by Maigaskiya04: 9:07pm On Feb 14, 2023 |
1Alex: I'm happily married with two amazing kids and a beautiful wife sir. And what I stated above is nothing but TRUTH. 2 Likes |
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