If a married man commits adultery or a married woman commits adultery, should he or she confess it to his or her spouse, or should they move on after repentance prayers? We have men and women with hidden adultery they have done in the past or currently, should they confess it? Will they make heaven if they cover it up till they die? Or must they restitute to their spouse even after repentance? What of those covering up children that came from sex partners and not their spouse? Must they confess to their spouse that the children are from another person? Will they make heaven if they cover it up to the grave?

Please your contribution is needed. Provide guidance and solutions.

JUST STOP IT. REPENT AND PRAY IN YOUR HEART SOUL MIND AND STRENGTH FOR FORGIVENESS. U DON'T HAVE TO BE NUT ON A SILLY SIMPLE EMOTIONAL MISTAKE.

Don't tell u partner cos it will lead to divorce except no one is above mistake. Repent, change for good of possible a new number, delete social networks and dedicate entirely and submit to the will of God. Nothing is impossible for God to ammend

You MUST confess to your spouse. He/she has every right to know.

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ebubeson:
If a married man commits adultery or a married woman commits adultery, should he or she confess it to his or her spouse, or should they move on after repentance prayers? We have men and women with hidden adultery they have done in the past or currently, should they confess it? Will they make heaven if they cover it up till they die? Or must they restitute to their spouse even after repentance? What of those covering up children that came from sex partners and not their spouse? Must they confess to their spouse that the children are from another person? Will they make heaven if they cover it up to the grave?

Please your contribution is needed. Provide guidance and solutions.

The right thing to do is to confess, but if it will make your marriage worst afterwards because of your spouse reactions. Please, keep it a secret.
Just repent and stop.. Imagine a lady confessing adultery to her Nigerian husband

Lasgidi90:
You MUST confess to your spouse. He/she has every right to know.

It is not always easy...It is mostly difficult

People saying a spouse involved in adultery should not tell the other don't know the meaning of marriage. Two legally married people are bound by the covenant of oneness, body, blood, and soul. If a man or woman sin against his or her other half, confession must be made. If there is no confession to ones spouse after adultery and even after certain sins, such a one can't find forgiveness from God. Adultery is a sin that should never be hidden. Don't you know that the bible say we should confess our faults to one another? Haven't you read in the bible that there can be divorce only on the ground of adultery? As such, does adultery looks like an act to be hidden? Anyone that dies in secret adultery has he it her part in eternal condemnation. God and ones spouse can't be mocked. The bible keenly warned against adultery. Let's be wise.

cutecommend:
It is not always easy...It is mostly difficult

That is why it should not be committed in the first place. We must try all our best to avoid adultery. But it it is eventually committed! it must be confessed.

Just dont cheat at all if you like the marriage you have.

WHETHER YOU CONFESS OR NOT, YOUR PARTNER WILL KNOW AND IT WILL NEVER BE THE SAME.

JUST DON'T CHEAT AT ALL. THAT IS THE ONLY WAY.

ebubeson:
If a married man commits adultery or a married woman commits adultery, should he or she confess it to his or her spouse,.

orisa37:
JUST STOP IT. REPENT AND PRAY IN YOUR HEART SOUL MIND AND STRENGTH FOR FORGIVENESS. U DON'T HAVE TO BE NUT ON A SILLY SIMPLE EMOTIONAL MISTAKE.

Won't work.

Your spouse will still know and hell will become a permanent resident.

Don't just cheat at all is the only way.

MatrixReloaded:
Don't tell u partner cos it will lead to divorce except no one is above mistake. Repent, change for good of possible a new number, delete social networks and dedicate entirely and submit to the will of God. Nothing is impossible for God to ammend

Won't work.

Your spouse will still know and hell will become a permanent resident.

Don't just cheat at all is the only way.

dawnomike:
The right thing to do is to confess, but if it will make your marriage worst afterwards because of your spouse reactions. Please, keep it a secret.
Just repent and stop.. Imagine a lady confessing adultery to her Nigerian husband

That is why the only advice is "DO NOT CHEAT AT ALL" for it would always end up in very hot and painfull tears and anguish.

Mystery9:

That is why it should not be committed in the first place. We must try all our best to avoid adultery. But it it is eventually committed! it must be confessed.

That last line just spoit your message for in the end you still enter that evil hole that destroys everything.

The only good way is "Don't cheat at all" even if it costs your life.

RIGHT.

dawnomike:
The right thing to do is to confess, but if it will make your marriage worst afterwards because of your spouse reactions. Please, keep it a secret.
Just repent and stop.. Imagine a lady confessing adultery to her Nigerian husband

Your advice is basically only do the necessary when it will not harm you? You religious folks never can change, can you?

The best thing in life concerning relationship is TRANSPARENCY. My folks use to say that Secrets or lies have Short lifespan.