hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment
the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience.

She is being manipulative....you can set a trap for her if you really want to catch her..

Dude you're a simp o. This babe is cheating on you. Infact she was fucking when you called.

What does it take to put ON phone torch light? And to point it in a direction you asked her to do?

Don't be a simp.

But I will suggest, don't break up.

Quietly look for another woman for possible marriage.

But keep this cheating girl for flings whenever you enter the country.

Make sure you stop sending her your hard earned money too.

When you ready for marriage. Go ahead and marry the NEW girl, but don't even let the cheating girl know what happened.

Let her hear about your wedding from outsiders.

Revenge is best served cold.

That was how I did my own

It's a fetish for most girls. To be having sex and on phone with their bfs

From my experience not all girls double date though.

That ur cheap instinct is probably right. Leave that girl so that ur cheap instinct will not be a waste of a gift. Or u want expensive pain Dan a cheap instincts? Na ur matter. Over to u... I don pass u the ball.

My only prayers on a daily basis is-"Deer lord, please save every responsible man and woman out there from cheats"🙏

Almost all Nigerian women cheat, especially singles.

Just forget the dirty classless beech.

Follow the advice someone gave up there.

interim4:
This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you

this is why i dont do distant relationship. Either you are a woman or Man, you cant take away the fact that sex will be needed at a point in time and that urge needs to be fulfilled.
its hard to date someone who you are states apart from, talk less of continents apart..

i know you are worried because you have invested financially in the relationship. Shes is cheating and there is nothing you can do about it

Another useless maggot dating a potential cheat And for lying that you are in Canada may God punish the vagina that you passed through to planet earth I don't know why Nigerian guys are so useless. While men in other countries hustle to make it, our guys hang 24/7 on nairaland disturbing us about useless pussy matter.

Break up bro...u even have the mind to date someone that is far from u.....

interim4:
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment

But she's your girlfriend na and not your wife. So you think she would keep waiting for you especially if another serious suitor show face?

Better marry her now or leave her alone to find her better half.

But waito..

You no see woman for Canada?

Send her only the little change you can afford to do without.

If you return to the country and you still have the vibe for her, then marry her if she's still available. If not, please look for another available olosho and marry her because they are all the same.

For her to drag the issue show that something is wrong maybe a neighbor is the one scratching her and he left as you call it. Just keep your mind under probability that it might work out or it might not so that you won't be too much disappointed.

MonthlySalary:
this is why i dont do distant relationship. Either you are a woman or Man, you cant take away the fact that sex will be needed at a point in time and that urge needs to be fulfilled.
its hard to date someone who you are states apart from, talk less of continents apart..

i know you are worried because you have invested financially in the relationship. Shes is cheating and there is nothing you can do about it

She suggested i bought her a Love Machine, which I did so she can use it to cure her konji when the need arises. We do video sex and she uses it on herself, but something at the back of mind always say she will still require the real one. I still travelled home 4weeks ago and spent 8 days, we had fun so this is just a little bit too early. I am broken, 3 years relationship wey i don nurture with all i got is no joke. But wetin come dey bother me na the reasoning sey who could it be? From proper observation and reasonable assumption, na one of the tenants in the same building he go be. Such is life.

GeorgWashinton:
Another useless maggot dating a potential cheat And for lying that you are in Canada may God punish the vagina that you passed through to planet earth I don't know why Nigerian guys are so useless. While men in other countries hustle to make it, our guys hang 24/7 on nairaland disturbing us about useless pussy matter.

How does this solve the naira crisis in our dear country? I can link u to someone who will pay you 5k new notes with a commission of 6k.

Uchenna10:
Break up bro...u even have the mind to date someone that is far from u.....

we have been dating for 3 years now, i just travelled to canada november, and i was still home in january spent 8 days and we had fun, just thought this act was a little bit too soon.

AbdulMagaji:


But she's your girlfriend na and not your wife. So you think she would keep waiting for you especially if another serious suitor show face?

Better marry her now or leave her alone to find her better half.

But waito..

You no see woman for Canada?

I already engaged her, but not officially. its really hard, 3 years relationship, and she has been loyal for as long as I can observe. Here is boring, if i was single, to get a girl here will take time. People mind their business here, where approaching a lady can be termed harassment

interim4:
hi guys oo, i just hope I never enter once chance like this oo, based on things i have read and heard about girlfriends/wifes being disloyal and promiscuous I just hope that what I observed yesterday isnt a part of it. I am in Canada for schooling, should be back to Nigeria in few months. I and my gf dey normall video chat, so yesterday I hung out with some friends, while at the smoking side of the bar, I called my gf twice on whats app, infact both of her phones, she didnt pick, a minute later she called me back on video call, there was no light so her room was dark and there was no fuel to power her gen of that time. few seconds into the video chat, I heard a sound like someone hit leg on a chair or something few meters away, the moment
the sound was heard, she looked right to observe, her face went right for at least 8 seconds, so I asked what sound was that, she said what sound, I was like but i heard a sound now and u also heard it too thus ur looking right to observe, she said there is no sound oo, I said but u heard it and u moved ur head to check cos she was laying down on her bed, she replied and said "you mean I looked like this" turning her head left ways, in which she initially turned her head right ways, that moment I felt she was being manipulative like she didnt know she turned her head left ways when she heard the sound. This may sound stupid and awkward to some, but a very deep instinct in me
says something aint right. So I said she should put on her torch from the other phone to go look whats going on, she became reluctant and kept saying she opened the window for air to come in and putting on the torch to go check will make people outside see her room, common u live at the top floor and no building faces ur room that could lead to someone seeing you. I said so u arent bothered about the awkward sound u heard, she said theres no sound, ok stand up and let me see what might have fallen or what not, omo she dragged the issue and didnt stand, she only turned her camera around the room knowing fully well the sound came from the living room. My suspicion could be wrong, but to satisfy your partner is proving their suspicion wrong, and as far was the whole thing went, she didnt put any effort in proving me wrong. Could I be having a serious relationship with a cheat like this? Cos after the convo, i said i will call u once i get home, and thats how it always is, she wont call, she'd wait for my call, but seconds after the convo, she started bombarding me with video calls whereas i was already shooting pool, i picked and i was like but we concluded we'd talk later, she was now like i just wanted to see what ur doing, that also gave her away like she's famzing guilty conscience.

She's definitely cheating on you.

I once banged a girl while banging her she was on phone with bf ...

Goldendick:
Nothing dey sweet as banging a bitch and her bf on the phone with her.

From my experience not all girls double date though.

Gist me. Tell me more.

Chocoloco:



She's definitely cheating on you.

I once banged a girl while banging her she was on phone with bf ...

This also I have experienced before i got into this serious relationship, i go even hardly penetrate so that her voice can change so the guy can ask why are u sounding like that. Though from my write up, i called twice on both of her phones, she didnt pick, so she called back a minute later, the person definitely had left the room cos she knows me that i could ask her to show me her environs, but the sound came from the living room, its a new place, I PAID THE rent myself, so i know how the apartment is structured. The person had left the room, probably in the living room where the suppose person had hit something when i heard the sound. All still boils down to same thing (CHEATING)

Interim4 aka Mujaidu, those first set of advise are terrible. They ll ruin your relationship.
Until you catch her someone well you don't speculate or accuse. Save your relationship show the girl more love and see how she ll love you more

Goodlady:
Interim4 aka Mujaidu, those first set of advise are terrible. They ll ruin your relationship.
Until you catch her someone well you don't speculate or accuse. Save your relationship show the girl more love and see how she ll love you more

This is not speculation, out of 10 cheaters, you can only catch one red handed, thats if luck is with you. This incident gives me 85% assurance that something aint right. I made a big mistake by letting my demand slide, i would have stood my ground that she heads towards d living room i probably would have had much to know, she normally wont argue with me and go ahead to check, but her hell bent on not making a move and making flimsy excuses threw my faith in her off. What more love do i want to show than what i have showed, i am losing it, i just probably not get married again.

Goodlady:
Interim4 aka Mujaidu, those first set of advise are terrible. They ll ruin your relationship.
Until you catch her someone well you don't speculate or accuse. Save your relationship show the girl more love and see how she ll love you more

Shatap. All of you ladies of this generation cheats. So don't come here and be forming what I don't know. Op's girlfriend was cheating on him period.

Justbehave:
Shatap. All of you ladies of this generation cheats. So don't come here and be forming what I don't know. Op's girlfriend was cheating on him period.

You are the one to shut your stinking mouth that's attracting flies. Ladies are more decent than you boys that cheat and flaunt it. Elenu run, smelly mouth n body.

Goodlady:

You are the one to shut your stinking mouth that's attracting flies. Ladies are more decent than you boys that cheat and flaunt it. Elenu run, smelly mouth n body.

So you ladies cheat and hide it? Lol. No wonder op's cheating gf was hiding the guy. Smelly EVN.

interim4:


we have been dating for 3 years now, i just travelled to canada november, and i was still home in january spent 8 days and we had fun, just thought this act was a little bit too soon.

So, you can’t get someone better in Canada? Canada has a lot of chicks, mehn.

damn, as the day goes by, the hurt eats deeper, I should be strong, yes I should be, havent told her yet am moving on, but I think i have to do that now. Really hard to let go, she try sha, one of the best loyal girls i had, sad she couldnt make it to the finish line.

Say no more...I was the guy that was banging her that night You thought you can be in Canada and monopolize her kpekus?? Oga it's not done that way...!!

Na who dey together with you be your GF, once you leave, she becomes vulnerable to the street...!!

a meme once said “because your girl dey reply your call no mean say another guy no dey that room.

most guys surely came across those girls that had serious bf outside school but they choose to play away match with campus guys. don’t stress it, your instinct were right.

interim4:


She suggested i bought her a Love Machine, which I did so she can use it to cure her konji when the need arises.

buying that Love Machine was a mistake. the best way to handle cases like this especially when you both are sexually active and distance is a barrier, is to slowly involve her in activities that will keep her very busy and take her mind off se.x. eg. catering school or tailoring. even though you know she won’t practice it.

buying her a Love Machine made her fantasize more about the real thing.

interim4:


we have been dating for 3 years now, i just travelled to canada november, and i was still home in january spent 8 days and we had fun, just thought this act was a little bit too soon.

Okay....observe her for a while b4 taking any action

You dey Canada and you still dey trust “Girlfriend” wey dey Naija….Is this playing?. Shey you dey whine ni?….