Sometimes I ponder why some youths blame the government instead of their unfortunate father like mine.
I don't blame the government but my useless dad that was too lazy to think well and plan well before getting married.
This is the man that worked for 12 years before getting married when Nigeria was still manageable.
That 12 years he worked was a complete waste.
No single achievement before getting married.
You worked for 12 years when you were single.
You couldn't build house or property.
You couldn't connect or have big connections that will set you up or children up for better tomorrow.
You married yet you couldn't train your kid or give them a better education..
Unfortunate Nigerian Fathers are the cause of kidnapping, robbery, unemployment, cyber crime, prostitution and social vices in Nigeria not the government.

If your father is unfortunate mine isn't...

Some of you think with your brain inside a pit latrine

Okay, what have you achieved so far?

Hmmmm.... E no easy bro,I hope say you have a house and you have everything you're accusing your father of not having?

Zinoleesky for one of him song talk say.


Omo toni mama hun o seto
Kan mulo S’agege kori bo se leto
Omo toni baba hun o seto oh
Ari pe agidi ko lo nfi leko oh

Mindlog:
Okay, what have you achieved so far?

How can he achieve something when his father is a colossal failure? He couldn't even access basic education. I'm beginning to believe that you are dumb

Ur children curse u. If ur father no make am. Must u follow ur father step. Omoale

AndroidAI:


How can he achieve something when his father is a colossal failure? He couldn't even access basic education. I'm beginning to believe that you are dumb

Your parents being colossal failures, is not an excuse to also be one.

By the way, if you are only just beginning to believe that I am dumb then it is a good sign that you are no longer catatonic and I don't mind being your target, I am trained to be one.😆😆😆

The best is never to get married or have a child as a poor man. If not, the lineage of abject poverty, meagerness, hopelessness and penury will continue.

House wey no get good foundation no strong o, not to talk carrying another building.

It's true that some of our fathers made that mistake, but now, it's in for us to correct it with pain, regret, neglect and isolation.
You might not enjoy much even after you made it. It's your kids who now will enjoy that treats that your parents couldn't give you.

Don't be bitter. Don't be frustrated. Keep a positive mind. You're the Hero.

Don't bother yourself with the negative comments you'll get on this thread. Most Nigerians are naturally hypocrite. That's why someone would create a new different Monika to share their problem. What does that tell you


I wish you peace of mind and body and most importantly, I wish you love.

This voice is urchinic in nature.

You made it in life don't mean your children will make it
You failed don't mean your children will fail
To God the glory .

Ibtxxo:
Sometimes I ponder why some youths blame the government instead of their unfortunate father like mine.

An unfortunate father gave birth to an unfortunate son. You need to go for spiritual cleansing.

Mindlog:
Okay, what have you achieved so far?

Fine question


Op come answer the question and tell us how old are you

Shebi your father is useless, don't worry when you start having children and see what your father saw then you will be a useless father with useless children like you.

Mindlog:


Your parents being colossal failures, is not an excuse to also be one.

By the way, if you are only just beginning to believe that I am dumb then it is a good sign that you are no longer catatonic and I don't mind being your target, I am trained to be one.😆😆😆

Without support from his parents, it becomes even harder to achieve anything. The takeaway here is, don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best. And by the way, you are not a target, rather a Nairaland nobody.

limeta:
You made it in life don't mean your children will make it
You failed don't mean your children will fail
To God the glory .

It's there even in the Bible, that the race is not for the swift but he, whom God decide to show mercy...

Even when you think you did something extraordinary, just know that it's the Grace of the Almighty God.

AndroidAI:


Without support from his parents, it becomes even harder to achieve anything. The takeaway here is, don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best. And by the way, you are not a target, rather a Nairaland nobody.

Hhmm... This type of "takeaway" sounds smart when written on paper, but the moment you start to analyze such statements, you realize how fallacious they are. When you say "don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best", the question becomes, what is the best? Whose best are we referring to? Your best or my best? The best a parent can give as an individual or the best according to a certain predefined standard? Even the poorest man could still give his best (which may not meet the basic needs of the child). On the other hand, you don't expect an average man not to procreate because he can't give his kid the kind of treatment a billionaire would give his. Therefore, considering the fact that the word "best" is relative in this context, I believe the right statement should be, don't procreate if you can't meet the basic needs of the kid.

This is just my opinion on your concluding statement and has nothing to do with the OP's situation. I saw your post while scrolling through the Trending page.

AndroidAI:


Without support from his parents, it becomes even harder to achieve anything. The takeaway here is, don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best. And by the way, you are not a target, rather a Nairaland nobody.

I am the last person, you should be talking about procreating without means of provision to as I know that so very well.....I

And by the way, we are both Nairaland nobodies..

Mindlog:


I am the last person, you should be talking about procreating without means of provision to as I know that so very well.....I

And by the are both Nairaland nobodies..

I claimed nothing. You are the one claiming to be a target when you are nothing but an emancipated nobody with borrowed data

AndroidAI:


I claimed nothing. You are the one claiming to be a target when you are nothing but an emancipated nobody with borrowed data

You claimed I am dumb, while you are what?,

etrange:


Hhmm... This type of "takeaway" sounds smart when written on paper, but the moment you start to analyze such statements, you realize how fallacious they are. When you say "don't procreate if you don't have the capacity to give your kids the best", the question becomes, what is the best? Whose best are we referring to? Your best or my best? The best a parent can give as an individual or the best according to a certain predefined standard? Even the poorest man could still give his best (which may not meet the basic needs of the child). On the other hand, you don't expect an average man not to procreate because he can't give his kid the kind of treatment a billionaire would give his. Therefore, considering the fact that the word "best" is relative in this context, I believe the right statement should be, don't procreate if you can't meet the basic needs of the kid.

This is just my opinion on your concluding statement and has nothing to do with the OP's situation. I saw your post while scrolling through the Trending page.

I perfectly understand your angle. When I say best, i mean the best life has to offer. Poor people should never procreate cause it's mentally damaging to the innocent child. But that's wishful thinking cause the only way poor people console themselves with their miserable life is by giving birth to more kids as retirement benefits.

Mindlog:


You claimed I am dumb, while you are what?,

Your dumbness is not in dispute. You are very dumb abeg

AndroidAI:


Your dumbness is not in dispute. You are very dumb abeg

No wahala, I am so desensitized as I am used to being addressed in colourful adjectives.........

Mindlog:


No wahala, I am so desensitized as I am used to being addressed in colourful adjectives.........

That's because your dumbness is colourful oga

the government has its duty, the father too.

Ibtxxo:
Sometimes I ponder why some youths blame the government instead of their unfortunate father like mine.
I don't blame the government but my useless dad that was too lazy to think well and plan well before getting married.
This is the man that worked for 12 years before getting married when Nigeria was still manageable.
That 12 years he worked was a complete waste.
No single achievement before getting married.
You worked for 12 years when you were single.
You couldn't build house or property.
You couldn't connect or have big connections that will set you up or children up for better tomorrow.
You married yet you couldn't train your kid or give them a better education..
Unfortunate Nigerian Fathers are the cause of kidnapping, robbery, unemployment, cyber crime, prostitution and social vices in Nigeria not the government.

what causes nigerian fathers to be unfortunate?

When APC wins the election and rules for the next eight years, we should expect more posts like this.

Raalsalghul:
When APC wins the election and rules for the next eight years, we should expect more posts like this.

LoL the results will be glaring in six months time. Me I don already plan my movement o . This coming apc administration will make buharis regime look like a suffering rehearsal. The real deal is here.

Even tech don cast. Tech that you can say even with a bad economy you can cope. Remote jobs are getting few. Layoffs everywhere.

Ibtxxo:
Sometimes I ponder why some youths blame the government instead of their unfortunate father like mine.
I don't blame the government but my useless dad that was too lazy to think well and plan well before getting married.
This is the man that worked for 12 years before getting married when Nigeria was still manageable.
That 12 years he worked was a complete waste.
No single achievement before getting married.
You worked for 12 years when you were single.
You couldn't build house or property.
You couldn't connect or have big connections that will set you up or children up for better tomorrow.
You married yet you couldn't train your kid or give them a better education..
Unfortunate Nigerian Fathers are the cause of kidnapping, robbery, unemployment, cyber crime, prostitution and social vices in Nigeria not the government.

Your father has done his "irresponsibly" according to you. What have you done for yourself?

tensazangetsu20:


LoL the results will be glaring in six months time. Me I don already plan my movement o . This coming apc administration will make buharis regime look like a suffering rehearsal. The real deal is here.

Even tech don cast. Tech that you can say even with a bad economy you can cope. Remote jobs are getting few. Layoffs everywhere.

all the parties are baseless

HellVictorinho7:
all the parties are baseless

A peter obi presidency would have been different at least. I am very pessimistic about Nigeria if you go and see my past posts but that's the person I had to make sure my whole family voted in. I knew he had no chance but we wasted our votes. We tried

tensazangetsu20:


A peter obi presidency would have been different at least. I am very pessimistic about Nigeria if you go and see my past posts but that's the person I had to make sure my whole family voted in. I knew he had no chance but we wasted our votes. We tried

peter hushpuppi squared obi supports buhari,whether peter jezus mohammed obi wins or not, u have wasted ur votes,even ur blood as well, surely.

AndroidAI:


How can he achieve something when his father is a colossal failure? He couldn't even access basic education. I'm beginning to believe that you are dumb

Someone said you are gay, is that correct