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Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by YoungBlackRico(m): 10:03pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Folafikemii:No time to check time...Otilo |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Nobody: 10:03pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
This is where one will have to succumb either quit the job and move to the other place and start job hunting but if you wan do this, please and please never you quit your job and relocate, e no dey end well Or you both can continue job hunting till it's successful.. As for me,I no trust myself neither do I trust women.... why I go marry con leave am for another state, no be marriage again na, who cooks and do the necessary things at home.. if this is what marriage is all about, I for don quit |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Isabi4lov: 10:04pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
I was once in a long distance relationship, it did not end well for me . I have decided to move on with my life . 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by AllDModsAreMaad: 10:05pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
I can not can biko. Long distance marriage ke! Next topic please!! 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Saladdin: 10:06pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
The poor economy is partly responsible for long-distance marriages in Nigeria. Some couples eventually succumb to cheating because the bonds weakens and love dies. If this type of marriage can be AVOIDED, please do. Especially marriages which the partners live states or countries away. Except couples who deliberately choose this type of marriage; it is sad seeing couples staying apart for years in the name of making ends meet. Many of us whose parents worked for paramilitaries and private companies where transfer is the order of the day highly dislike this type of marriage. @Op Sir, a quick question, did you noticed this during dating or was it discussed and mutually agreed on? |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Mamijoh(f): 10:08pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Lamanii22:That's true, en nothing but..the truth 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by SSpeter(m): 10:08pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
concho:Bro please can you give the full gist especially how you got the evidence. |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Karlifate: 10:10pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Why can't a public health worker take transfer to the State you're residing |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Karlifate: 10:12pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
concho: Exactly! @ the bolded. |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Jay357: 10:14pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Mamijoh(f): 10:14pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
It hanst been easy |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Karlifate: 10:15pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
To be candid, your marriage is under threat if: 1. Your ex or exes reside in the same city with you. 2. Your wife's ex or exes reside in the same city with her. 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Ibtxxo: 10:16pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Okosin:. I need a job |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by ROYH(m): 10:16pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Na aproko you be.. You're going off-point comrade.. Stay on the picture we're painting SSpeter: |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by ycat: 10:21pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
It has shelf life of 3 years of faithfulness, after that forget it. Things start to unravel with cheating. Okosin: |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Elobest(m): 10:29pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Don't try it ,you may regret it. It is not easy at all. Okosin: |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by placeofallure(f): 10:32pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Long distance marriage can't be the best thing to happen to anyone, especially if you have been two peas in a bud for long. I don't even know how people cope with that. Now that mine's about to assume that status, I've been anticipating and anticipating. Ah! Temi bami in advance. 2 Likes |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Austus2011(m): 10:37pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
It's not advisable at all, my marriage crashed after 10 months as a result of distance marriage. Abeg find all means to unite with your family as it's still young. |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by NawaForThisLife(m): 10:38pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
[quote author=dreadsbee post=121320756]Many first time voters that came out for this election was because Obi Peter Obi is not Desperate to be President. Bro |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by youngmoore(m): 10:39pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
We are enjoying cheating on each other na abi waiting man go do |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by TONYE001(m): 10:39pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Okosin: Hi. Don't think it's a big deal. You both should work it out in agreement. Focus on the goal and continue your plans and efforts to relocate. This is our 9th year in marriage, and I left home since 2015 December to medical school. Currently a final-year medical student. In an entire year, I go home like three to four times. I hardly stay more than a week. But we are doing fine...with four wonderful children. Be careful, you'd read a lot of toxic comments here, most are from unmarried males that may want to use this as an opportunity to inject evil thoughts into your marriage. I honestly think long-distance relationships aren't big deals as far as both spouses understand each other perfectly. Good luck, sir. 9 Likes |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by techcoms: 10:41pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
It's not worth it. My wife moved to American with my son for her Masters less than 3 months living in US, she started telling me about divorce that her siblings she is staying with can not keep taking care of her because she is a married woman. Currently ininky speak to my son only on weekends. |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by CaptainFM1: 10:44pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Okosin: Whoever earn less should stop working and move to the city the partner is. Sometimes in life, you have to way your options and sacrifice accordingly. |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by saenthossy(m): 10:58pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
So so true bro |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by SeaTrade(m): 11:01pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Love800:As uncouth as this sounds,I think it is true. Trying to monitor what happens in your absence is unecessary headache and a waste of time. And most tunes if you stay away for too long,one of these boys with long,curved dick must perforate your woman wotoporiously Most people in this setting survived by taking these thoughts out of their minds ,not that it didn't happen. Make peace with sharing your woman with some other people and you will be fine. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by SeaTrade(m): 11:06pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Karlifate:Exes most times shouldn't be your problem as they must have outgrown her and she must have also dropped superficially from how she use to be, Your major concern should be small boys with curved prick ,ready to experiment. Na them dey service madam them with away husbands pass Men no like milf,but boys go bang anything Buy your wife iron pants with you having custody of the padlock keys in PH as you dey engineer your engineer lol. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Pnorh(f): 11:06pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
If you can create another alternative way of making ends meet for her I.e ( opening a store, or any other thing) then, it’s advisable she resign and relocate to your area, to build up her family. Just an observation |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by colly1860: 11:07pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
strictly4data:I need a tutor mind if I reach out? |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by olusegxz: 11:08pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
All this talk about infidelity can happen even if you live under each others noses. Sexual discipline and trust is vital to all couples whether you live far and near. Just be the best humans you can be and be committed to always do your best to bridge the gap. Find a way to turn the distance to a positive one and cherish the time you share. Support each other whether near or far. Dont let negative thoughts about each other cloud your mind and dont listen to rumour mongers. Put in the work to make it work and you both need that finances especially now you are having a child. Never think your situation is worse. At least it is better than having a jobless spouse for both your mindset and support. Have a set time you call each other in the evening and stick to it. Build that initial foundation of trust. At least the fact that you are concerned and trying to bridge the gap is a very good sign. Good luck in your marriage. LoudlyMouthed: 1 Like |
Re: Long Distance Marriage: How Do You Cope Married Couples In Similiar Situation by Holychildnwa: 11:22pm On Feb 27, 2023 |
Haa,this so me right now,I married my wife this year January,after the marriage my wife got a job as a health worker(government hospital)in one of the state in Eastern part is f the country while I reside in Abuja.and am a government worker.Seriously is not easy just trying to make a beautiful future.Am so lucky because I married her as a virgin and I have never seen a chance to doubt her. |
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