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Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Clinghton: 8:11am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Hey mister, there's time for everything you need to decide what you want in life. If you want to marry or keep her as a friend. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by seangy4konji: 8:17am On Mar 05, 2023 |
It will end in premium had i known. I pity your parents because what that lady will do to your life when she eventually enter you again You will call on God and he will not answer you. That toto that you cant get away from will be the path to your destruction...with so many matured ladies and single university girls and also that wife you want to find under how many month...90 percent of ladies here are in to prostitutiion,nude cams and hook ups......lesbianish,,orgies and porn movies.....you just want to come and marry....girls that set up men to kill husbands like you to get their hands on your hard earned money.... You want to come and find wife like that In nigeria.....guuess you were not informed. 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by inioluwaDaniels(m): 8:34am On Mar 05, 2023 |
I know she must be definitely looking for a hubby too n dats why are hasn't been in any serious relationship for so long. Oga naija girls no be like whites oooo wen it comes to marriage don't start a fire dat might burn u along d like. Peacefully look for it wife n let her be. Before dem go shook u knife for throat. Na u go lose ooo 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Freemasonry: 8:55am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Don't do it bro. To strengthen your resolve, keep your distance. I know how vulnerable people who have been intimate before can be in confined spaces. Besides, I don't think it would end well. Ask yourself, would she really be okay with you just knacking her and moving on? 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by ddeola: 9:18am On Mar 05, 2023 |
How will you feel knowing that the lady you find and will marry shares a similar sexual intimacy with some other guy? Guy, if na wife you dey look for leave your former girlfriend jeje mak you no do anything wey you go regret. Hold bodi and wait until you find the wife you need. Karma is real o and most importantly, God doesn't condone it o. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Odumoye(m): 9:23am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Baba, be careful...I had once being in this same situation as yours, but I am glad to tell you that it never ended well, but God saw me thru at the end of it all. Inasmuch as you do not have the plan of getting married to her, then you have no reason whatsoever to be having sex with her. A word is enough for the wise 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by BRATISLAVA: 10:14am On Mar 05, 2023 |
If you have read any of his previous threads, it is easy to see that the need for constant validation from himself and strangers alike thrums in his blood and pulses in his veins. When you read his previous posts— The last time we stumbled across his thread, he was closer to 40, living in America and looking for persons to run through and marry on a trip to his village at Christmas. Understandably, he's the Benjamin Button of the decade, now that he's in his early thirties. It was always odd that a man of his then age would be a red piller, but we are readers of his flights of fancy, and not EPL age detectors. Then he was quite confident that ladies would fall at his feet, after all, there must be a truckload of value in a guy who believes so much about himself, especially one who constantly touts being an America resident, right? Right. Self esteem and delusions are a fine line. Some time after that, when asked about his strung up ideals, he alleged he was in a relationship with someone. Of course, if you observe his posts, it's always something like that, yet it really isn't. He was so self-assured when he told us that he was getting what he wanted. Alas, this thread! His approach to relationships is the reason he still claims to be searching. If he were a woman searching at his age, he wouldn't let her live it down. But he's not, so we will let that slip in this episode of his unending hunt-a-wife saga. He's not some unlucky in love good guy He reminds us of Toks the tokunbo (Magnoliaa that's the word right?), another aging male writer of fable and the impossible desire genre. But of course, let him write and delude younger men. That is permitted. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by DannyBrains(m): 10:16am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Discipline yourself...your stay abroad haven't shed your amorous lifestyle. Get a wife, keep a distance my guy. oldienavie: |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by kcbaba007: 11:09am On Mar 05, 2023 |
oldienavie: It's obvious you have forgiven her, it was because of you, the father of her baby rejected her, since you guys are so compatible, and you say you love her, my advice to you is forget about the history, and marry her she will make a very good wife and a wonderful friend to you... It's always better to marry one's friend than to just marry anybody.... Trust me, you will not regret it |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by pocohantas(f): 11:15am On Mar 05, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: There is another one. They are always so high valued that women are somehow not falling at their feet. I am sure he expected babes to break down the walls of his DM at the mention of America. E better to dey Ogbomoso get peace of mind, than migrate to America to marry a narcissist demon. Toks is way better than him biko. Toks is approachable and has his sweet days. 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Saintjohn007(m): 11:23am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Why the blame game on the Lady......is the OP innocent?...like he was not seeing other babes in the past while they were dating or what... because she went haywire ..he is quick to blow trumpet because he want to be seen as a saint.......as far she ain't your wife or you are not her husband.... nobody is entangled....both is free to see others...afterall we are everybody boyfriend and girlfriend till we get married....for the sex aspect....both of you are adults n able to make decisions for yourself....you just love and miss her act of sex does not mean you love her but she ain't wife-able Enough for you despite having other qualities because you still clingy to the past...she gives you better than the rest you have tested...lust do camouflage as love sometimes......... Well...you have traveled for about 6 years....alot of change have happened within these years....even if you talk alot or shared secret....some secret still won't be said out...she knew you coming to Nigeria to look for a wife and you think she haven't picture herself in your dream even as a single mother....and all you think is How to pipe her when you come back ...Sex Sex Sex full your brain......Dude she knows you more than anybody since you spill secret and she knows how to attack... she can give a better pic of her that will will be forced to see her wife-able even as a single mother....after all single men get married to single Ladies so her case shouldn't be a cast away......have you even thought if she will ever love anyone you will introduce to her as a wife to be..you never think reach dis side.............Am even surprised nobody is tackling you on the Fact you openly pronounce adultery even before getting married.......can't you just get married and Zip up.........you are just a sex-maniac that cling to past.....there alot of beauty in being faithful to your partner Dude. Fahvvy: 3 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by BRATISLAVA: 11:32am On Mar 05, 2023 |
pocohantas: The guy is insufferable. Any woman who ends up with him will be miserable. He's in his hoe exploratory phase, and it will continue till he's 70. Some of them are perpetual bloomers. He's one. Toks is approachable? What?! Because his manual in impossible desires has not been going smoothly personally? He is one of the worst on that table. They are very similar, if not the same persons multiple personalities. Both guys are looking for perfect women to use, narcissistic and above being flawed, toeing self esteem and delusion in the sand, are getting past expiry date with their antics and keen on sharing the love in their dark hearts. Twins. 5 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Magnoliaa(f): 11:36am On Mar 05, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: That's it. 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by placeofallure(f): 11:52am On Mar 05, 2023 |
oldienavie: Then it's best for both of you if you just leave her. Encourage her to find someone to love her for who she is. Then you too should find someone. Once you are with someone else, it will be easier for you to forget her. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by joyousever(f): 1:18pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
I swear! Ishilove: |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by folake4u(f): 1:39pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
I opened this thread and stopped reading the first sentence when I noticed the monicker. 3 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Klass99(f): 1:47pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
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Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by Klass99(f): 1:57pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
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Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by sylve11: 2:00pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
ojietu: Interesting! |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by sylve11: 2:10pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
pocohantas: |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by sylve11: 2:14pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Ishilove: Lmao |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by folake4u(f): 2:15pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Klass99: Okay. I'd check it then. Thank you Klass. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by ProphetM0hammad: 2:40pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
BRATISLAVA: You write well, you are now a friend to an urchin like me by force Pm me 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by texannaija: 2:44pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
oldienavie: 1 Like
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Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by kkfada(m): 2:50pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Marry your best friend and not a stranger. my simple advice |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by sylve11: 3:34pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
123papas: Kolo |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:18pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Totally correct. Unfortunately, baba is in his 40s, but does not know this. Which woman would be willing to sacrifice her peace of mind because of a relocation abroad? Godforbid bad thing, unless she will use him for the green card, then divorces him when she gets there. pocohantas: 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by LilMissFavvy(f): 7:55pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
The OP might be a troll, but if he's for real, then he needs psychological evaluation and spiritual help fast. I checked through his threads, baba is not okay,. something isn't right. Which good man would reach 40yrs without finding a wife when he has the resources? A lady in one of the comments said OP was in 3 different relationships, That alone tells the type of man he is. bleeping around, yet thinks God can bring a decent wife to him? Hopefully he is truly rich, so that he will finally end as a sugar daddy who delivers a girl's family out of poverty, because at last he will end up with a woman who goes for his money, after all, he doesn't value the women who love him genuinely as seen in his threads. The banker woman is not wise, she allows OP play with her life. Female bankers usually have plenty admirers, the day she cuts off from OP, she will find a husband. For now she's not ready. BRATISLAVA: 2 Likes |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by oldienavie: 8:01pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Thanks to everyone that dropped incredible advise, Its impossible to respond to you all but I appreciate the effort and time taken. Please ignore the trolls trying to derail an important thread. |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by BalogunIdowu(m): 9:06pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
oldienavie: Nawa o Friends of benefit... Kuku marry her and be happy... You want to leave her after and marry another person and she'll still be single... Once you open another chapter of intimacy with her, either get through with or be ready she gets through with you... Anything wey happen... 1 Like |
Re: Dilemma: Would She Be A Problem For Me In Future ? by BRATISLAVA: 11:16pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy: It's funny how he goes about it. This guy said he lives in America, so everyone has forgotten that he's closer to 40, if not 50, yet nowadays he's in his early thirties. The fables he produces are always with him as the disillusioned guy in a sea of women throwing themselves at him like moths at at a flame. How he unrepentantly objectifies and denigrates women yet craves a good woman is amusing. From his posts you'll realize he just likes the sound of his voice. He's the type of guy with a chest higher than his head—classic red pill narc. He is dishonest and will end up with his reflection. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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