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My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 10:52pm On Mar 05, 2023
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Mindlog: 10:53pm On Mar 05, 2023
What do you want to be told?

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by woginid967: 10:53pm On Mar 05, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act. She was good in other areas so, i felt with time things will sort itself out. After the marriage, i made it known to her clearly that i will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change. Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. what do I do my people?

Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 10:56pm On Mar 05, 2023
woginid967:


Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by woginid967: 11:00pm On Mar 05, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Then have you tried herbal products that help with hormonal imbalance. Have you tried angel solutions on Instagram or the famous ekiema products

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 11:00pm On Mar 05, 2023
woginid967:


Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

I do not enjoy sex with condoms. more so, I feel it is too early in marriage

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 11:01pm On Mar 05, 2023
woginid967:


Then have you tried herbal products that help with hormonal imbalance. Have you tried angel solutions on Instagram or the famous ekiema products

she is in the medical field and will not use any herbal product.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Nazgul: 11:02pm On Mar 05, 2023
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Papichulostunne(m): 11:28pm On Mar 05, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.
Only you waka come.. After you see those things you still shook head enter the marriage
. Hahahaha..


If you dey with her next time carry bucket of water near her.. If she no wet pour the water for her body. Hahahaha

And try what Nazgul says.. It migjt go a long way for real. The question is "Do you even know what turns her on"?...

If it persists then it will be obvious she's not into you.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Dogalmighty17: 7:49am On Mar 06, 2023
There is nothing you can do. You might consider cheating if its that bad. Was your wife a virgin when you met her? If she was not, then you have a lot of measuring up to do.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Pmedia7787: 8:09am On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act. She was good in other areas so, i felt with time things will sort itself out. After the marriage, i made it known to her clearly that i will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change. Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. what do I do my people?



Who is her father,
Sex for the man is same as she looking up to you for her daily needs, you don't have to feel like it when you are providing for the family,while sex is of the emotions
She needs to understand that aspect and not until Been turned on,
That's why i married a lady who had a very strict father with high standards, ( love was the last thing I felt and it's meant to grow over time) marriage is done in understanding, because,most time ,you can't always correct this humans,you need some one who has always been with them ,to put them into shape,if not,the marriage will be destroyed,
There is no way you can enjoy sex with an ashawo or any other like them and keep the right attitude and heart at home( infact ,once you go with the ashawo way,you will be loosing via the laws of.nature and I'd she discovers it, you loose the more

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Foodqueen(f): 8:27am On Mar 06, 2023
That you do pre-intimacy doesn't mean you do it right.

Talk to her about your sex life.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 8:36am On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act. She was good in other areas so, i felt with time things will sort itself out. After the marriage, i made it known to her clearly that i will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times.

These are the odds
1. Your wife sexual hormones may be very low, making her not want sex or maybe she's circumcised
2. Your wife doesn't truly love you and doesn't desiree you sexually.

3. Something is bordering her, plus maybe you don't do a lot of pre-intimacy and head jobs that would always get her honey to always want you.
4. May be your sex game is poor

There is a way u will handle a woman, make her orgasm and she will be thinking about you 24/7. Nah she go dey beg you for sex.

I have been in several relationships and I have been with girls who doesn't love sex that much, , but if a woman loves you, she give you her body anytime, any day no matter how tired she is, I have never been with any woman that denies me sex, I haven't seen that or experienced that before, because when you get a woman sexually satisfied all the time, your thought alone would get her wet and honey for you.

Bro, check yourself, something is definitely not right

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by InfinityFabric: 8:45am On Mar 06, 2023
Sucre6:


These are the odds
1. Your wife sexual hormones may be very low, making her not want sex or maybe she's circumcised
2. Your wife doesn't truly love you and doesn't desiree you sexually.

3. Something is bordering her, plus maybe you don't do a lot of pre-intimacy and head jobs that would always get her honey to always want you.
4. May be your sex game is poor

There is a way u will handle a woman, make her orgasm and she will be thinking about you 24/7. Nah she go dey beg you for sex.

I have been in several relationships and I have been with girls who doesn't love sex that much, , but if a woman loves you, she give you her body anytime, any day no matter how tired she is, I have never been with any woman that denies me sex, I haven't seen that or experienced that before, because when you get a woman sexually satisfied all the time, your thought alone would get her wet and honey for you.

Bro, check yourself, something is definitely not right
Too bad most men go into marriage IGNORANT.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Cutehector(m): 8:53am On Mar 06, 2023
Honestly, dry püssy is a bad thing. I pray no man experiences this in a wife.

And please let us stop all these blaming on men for issues that a woman has. If she is not into sex, men! If she she has a dry vagina, men. If she is not in the mood, still men!

Men are blamed for every fvcking thing a woman does and for her problems.


Jeez.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 8:58am On Mar 06, 2023
InfinityFabric:

Too bad most men go into marriage IGNORANT.

Fact

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by ComputerOperato: 9:49am On Mar 06, 2023
@op.
There are women like that who are not really into sex and never really gets wet no matter the pre-intimacy.
There's nothing you can do about it.
Also, I believe it has to do with her hormones.
What to do?
There are several options such as seeking professional advice from qualified healthcare practitioners.
Also, there's another option to easy yourself and keep your family... But no be my mouth you go hear say the king mother chop winch. 😂

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 10:06am On Mar 06, 2023
Sucre6:


These are the odds
1. Your wife sexual hormones may be very low, making her not want sex or maybe she's circumcised
2. Your wife doesn't truly love you and doesn't desiree you sexually.

3. Something is bordering her, plus maybe you don't do a lot of pre-intimacy and head jobs that would always get her honey to always want you.
4. May be your sex game is poor

There is a way u will handle a woman, make her orgasm and she will be thinking about you 24/7. Nah she go dey beg you for sex.

I have been in several relationships and I have been with girls who doesn't love sex that much, , but if a woman loves you, she give you her body anytime, any day no matter how tired she is, I have never been with any woman that denies me sex, I haven't seen that or experienced that before, because when you get a woman sexually satisfied all the time, your thought alone would get her wet and honey for you.

Bro, check yourself, something is definitely not right

She made it known to me when I first met her that she doesn't like penetrative sex but I thought it will change. It is not about me. I can spend 2 hours on foreplays. I think it's her oestrogen that's low. I once saw that she bought evening primrose which is a hormonal balance supplement but she is not used to taking drugs.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by juman(m): 10:15am On Mar 06, 2023
ComputerOperato:
@op.
There are women like that who are not really into sex and never really gets wet no matter the pre-intimacy.
There's nothing you can do about it.
Also, I believe it has to do with her hormones.
What to do?
There are several options such as seeking professional advice from qualified healthcare practitioners.
 Also, there's another option to easy yourself and keep your family... But no be my mouth you go hear say the king mother chop winch. 😂
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by oluwafreshkid(m): 10:18am On Mar 06, 2023
Nazgul:
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.

These things don't work. We're quick to advise married men to do all these, but we forget that;
1. It's too much stress most times. Sometimes you just want this sex on-demand.
2. It doesn't take half as much to get a man in the mood, so why should a man go through all that trouble to get some? Men reason that way too.
3. After you've done all said, you still get the excuse of "I'm tired" "not in the mood" "mood swing" "not today please"

Talk to married men to get practical tips and not all these copy and paste things abeg

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 10:21am On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


She made it known to me when I first met her that she doesn't like penetrative sex but I thought it will change. It is not about me. I can spend 2 hours on foreplays. I think it's her oestrogen that's low. I once saw that she bought evening primrose which is a hormonal balance supplement but she is not used to taking drugs.

You should know that people don't change, if she doesnt like penetrative sex, you shouldnt have married her, me I know I have a very high sex drive and I can't date or marry or marry someone that can not match my sexual strength because that marriage may not last.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Richy4(m): 10:43am On Mar 06, 2023
Nazgul:
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.
👊👍🤩🍻🍾🥂

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Princessdainty(m): 10:52am On Mar 06, 2023
Laro kutukutu Monday. Biakum no dey tire black man. dey play

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by ezugegere(m): 11:07am On Mar 06, 2023
Be patient with her. She will change with time... You can take my words to the bank

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Papichulostunne(m): 12:12pm On Mar 06, 2023
Sucre6:


These are the odds
1. Your wife sexual hormones may be very low, making her not want sex or maybe she's circumcised
2. Your wife doesn't truly love you and doesn't desiree you sexually.

3. Something is bordering her, plus maybe you don't do a lot of pre-intimacy and head jobs that would always get her honey to always want you.
4. May be your sex game is poor

There is a way u will handle a woman, make her orgasm and she will be thinking about you 24/7. Nah she go dey beg you for sex.

I have been in several relationships and I have been with girls who doesn't love sex that much, , but if a woman loves you, she give you her body anytime, any day no matter how tired she is, I have never been with any woman that denies me sex, I haven't seen that or experienced that before, because when you get a woman sexually satisfied all the time, your thought alone would get her wet and honey for you.

Bro, check yourself, something is definitely not right
i like your post but i found some discrepancies

1. He does a lot of pre-intimacy as he said there.. But maybe his forwplay game is zero..

2. Even if a woman desire you.. If you have spike her in anyway, the only wY they know how to revenge is to tie the legs..

3. You said you have never experienced this ever.. It only goes to show you are a woman pleaser.. A true man no dey please his wife every time.. Ask Adam.. Na to please him wife put us for where we dey soo.. We for dey garden of Eden dey chase lion and deers just for fun but he had to please her every whim and so he ate the APPLE.

Till today i fit chop any fruit woman give me but Apple? I know where dem dey sell am

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Simpleandeasy(f): 12:56pm On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act. She was good in other areas so, i felt with time things will sort itself out. After the marriage, i made it known to her clearly that i will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change. Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. what do I do my people?

Allah knew why He created you and your wife and permitted man to marry up to four wife because of their different in libido and some times that is a manipulation from female fork to make you feel as if you want sex more than they do to control you. But if you have 2,3 up to 4 wives, they will compete to give you sex. Women naturally want competition.If you are a Muslim, anyway even the bible has allowed up to four wife.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by ProphetM0hammad: 1:18pm On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Why did you marry her then?

Having extra marital affairs will complicate your life

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 1:24pm On Mar 06, 2023
ProphetM0hammad:


Why did you marry her then?

Having extra marital affairs will complicate your life

She is good in every other aspect. I believe we can work things out on this.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by ProphetM0hammad: 1:26pm On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


She is good in every other aspect. I believe we can work things out on this.

Sex is also important in marriage
Talk to her and let her know the dangers of her actions on your marriage

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 1:27pm On Mar 06, 2023
ProphetM0hammad:


Sex is also important in marriage
Talk to her and let her know the dangers of her actions on your marriage

Yea, we have to work things out.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 1:38pm On Mar 06, 2023
Papichulostunne:
i like your post but i found some discrepancies

1. He does a lot of pre-intimacy as he said there.. But maybe his forwplay game is zero..

2. Even if a woman desire you.. If you have spike her in anyway, the only wY they know how to revenge is to tie the legs..

3. You said you have never experienced this ever.. It only goes to show you are a woman pleaser.. A true man no dey please his wife every time.. Ask Adam.. Na to please him wife put us for where we dey soo.. We for dey garden of Eden dey chase lion and deers just for fun but he had to please her every whim and so he ate the APPLE.

Till today i fit chop any fruit woman give me but Apple? I know where dem dey sell am

Woman pleaser u said , 😂😂😂😂
No buddy, , aint woman pleaser, am fsr from that, the truth is that when you become a woman pleaser, they weaponize sex and use it against u ones they realised you are too thirsty for them, like i said, I have never been turned down by any of my girls when it comes to sex, do you know why.


1. I bang them real good, give them an unforgeable experience on the bed and after that they don't know how to say no when it comes to sex.
2. I don't act thirsty towards women am too redpilled to do that, ones u start acting thirsty towards women, then again they weaponise sex making u simp and beg to have some.

3. My sex game is ace, yeah, i know my onions and ones u show them whoose boss they only live to please you. Plus no sensible woman will leave a guy who gives her orgasm and shag her well grin

Let me stop here, grin

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Tina001(f): 1:43pm On Mar 06, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


She is good in every other aspect. I believe we can work things out on this.

You just want to have it all which is rarely possible.. She is good in every other aspects so you married her thinking you will work on her sex life, my dear, people mostly don't change, the red flag you see during dating/courtship will be moree glaring during marriage, it is left for you to decide if you can cope with it or not before marrying the person. She has always been like that and didn't hide it from you before marriage, she told you plainly so you know what you were getting into, why then did you marry her when you know you can't cope thinking you can miraculously change her sex life overnight?. You just have to manage it o pending when she 'MIGHT' change. dnt go and cheat on the innocent woman because that may be the beginning of the end of your marriageundecided

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