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Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by saladinnoir: 8:45pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: Bro pls ignore all the counter points and carry on with your mission |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 8:52pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA: I always feel you, I swr. Anybody with high reasoning capability would even know that marriages in the 70s were different from marriages we have now. The kinds of music people listened to in the 70s were different from the ones they listen to now. Likewise anyone with reasoning would know that marriages in this era of social media and internet are different from the ones without. 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:04pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA: Also, someone said "This is a public forum, they are free to comment" . The internet is like a global village. That doesn't mean if I'm having a meeting with the members of my club you are allowed to come without invitation. When I'm throwing a party and you are not invited, you do not have the right to invite yourself just because we live in the same village. Don't mind them man! I clearly stated at the beginning of the thread that anyone who has a counter opinion can go ahead to create a thread where they can all discuss the advantages of marriage, they read but they don't understand. 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by JOACHINpedro: 9:06pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Banilla:You can actually pass your message without being bitter 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:07pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
virginprincess: Whatever bro! 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by advanceDNA: 9:12pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: Na woman she go be...na dem dey carry marriage matter for head 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:13pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA:You are speaking my mind The Topic says Disadvantages of Marrying a wife (for guys). Would I also go on to list some advantages in-line with Disadvantages. We are talking about disadvantages, not Features or compare and contrast. You've not noticed that the problem many people have is related to comprehension?? |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:15pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Uniquetani1:Whatever bro! |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by advanceDNA: 9:17pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: They understand......their own personal view r love for marriage is just making them bias when approaching the topic 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:22pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Thank you, you have won. Carry your trophy and go in peace. 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:23pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Okay, thank you! You have won. Carry the trophy and go in peace |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:25pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Sir! Bring counter points from the same scripture. Then we can talk, aside that: carry your trophy and go in peace. You have won. 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Albertone(m): 9:28pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: The interpretation of the bible requires wisdom and inspiration from the holy spirit. Anyone who doesn't have this will continue to misinterpret the bible. "Marriage isn't God's institution" That right there shows you don't know what you're saying. I don't have time, I'd have proven it to you biblically. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:29pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Truvelisback:Eve was created a help meet. And anybody who is available can be a help meet, your immediate neighbor may be your help meet when you have clothes on the line and it's about to rain. Mention where God created a wife for Adam. 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by ravensckar(m): 9:30pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
okrikaboi:Of all the bunkum that I've read this year, this outranks them all. Every day, you guys keep churning threads (mostly based on shallow and biased mindset) about why marriage is bad. For once, there's not a single one of you who has defined or explained what marriage really entails. To you folks, it's still the same dynamics of relationship that is formed based on needs and wants. Little wonder you keep reeling negative statistics to butress your myopic view. Let me give you the first expose about marriage. To know what marriage entails, both parties need to understand that marriage is a human interaction. It's a condition in which both parties will act upon each other to produce an 'effect'. The 'effect' that will be produced depend solely on the level of interaction. If the OP and his gang of harebrained comrades understand half of what I typed above, then, they will stop critisizing marriage because just like every other human interaction (business and politics especially), the result is dependent on how the participants act upon one another. The great Socrates was right when he said; 'By all means marry, if you find a good wife, you'll be happy. But if you find a bad one, you'll become a philosopher'. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:37pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
saladinnoir: Those ones? There is a Yoruba adage that says "A colony of clusters of bed bugs cannot lift a pillow". I am the pillow the Yorubas were referring to. 2 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 9:52pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
advanceDNA: But honestly, I've not used any derogatory word towards women in any of my post. , I've been careful to only focus on the guys. Truly their love for marriage will flaw their observations 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 10:10pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Albertone: John 16:13 Jesus said the Holy Spirit cannot speak of himself but whatever he(Jesus) asks him to speak. And Jesus said "God in the begining created them man and woman" not husband and wife. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Dtruthspeaker: 10:29pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Denial ain't just a river in Egypt. Is there any one here who thinks that this guy is just trying to find how to cope with the fact that he knows that he can never marry because he won't be prospering for a very long time! |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 10:35pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
ravensckar:Thanks! Now you can quietly leave this thread and go on to create your own thread with the advantages of marriage. Your opinion is not needed hia. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 10:39pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Dtruthspeaker:All love man! |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by soil4soil(m): 10:54pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: Until I read the stories before I know what to say or write/ |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by kazyhm(m): 11:23pm On Mar 08, 2023 |
Albertone: At the bolded......the reason men don't like to grant divorce is women want to quit with life long benefits..........as if divorce is equal to retirement........... Divorce will be the easiest if partners wouldn't make demands.......they refer to it as divorce settlements...........why will you file for divorce with throat cutting demand... 3 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by okrikaboi: 4:58am On Mar 09, 2023 |
ravensckar: Doesn't change the fact that 90% of married people just want to be single again! The courts are choked up with divorce cases, I don't see a reason why I have to gamble my freedom when I can live a fulfilled life without a wife. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by okrikaboi: 5:03am On Mar 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:so marriage is a gamble then? You just shot yourself in the leg! If your marriage is great congratulations! It's a matter of choice I did not impose anything, just attend divorce proceedings for one week and watch how men like you shed tears as their heavenly sweet marriages turn into raw pepper! Interview random men and you'll see that most men get married for shallow reasons. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Kobojunkie: 5:12am On Mar 09, 2023 |
okrikaboi:1. Relationship, life, business, etc., has always been a gamble. We are gamblers — all of us — taking the gamble each and every day we wake up hoping for better luck than the days before. 2. How can I shoot myself in the foot for stating it exactly as it is and has been from the beginning of time? 3. Forget marriage for one minute and consider even your ordinary boy-gal relationship. People shed tears after each break-up but before you know it, the same folks are already pining for and even jumping headfirst into the next opportunity that comes their way. Ever wonder why? It is the same thing you see that is observed in marriage relationships. They cry and wail and before you know it, they are back again into another one of them giving you all the reasons they can come up with to justify the decision. No matter what and how shallow you judge their reasons to be, the fact is, we are all of us gamblers and we will gamble when we feel lucky. Marriage, in and of itself does not promise anything to anyone — it is simply an agreement between a man and a woman, a relationship. It is up to the man and the woman in the relationship to decide what value to give the marriage and how long it will last. Marriage is a neutral party in all as the advantages and/or disadvantages are solely determined by the parties in the marriage. And best of all, like buying a car or a new pair of shoes, it is a choice. 1 Like |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by okrikaboi: 5:23am On Mar 09, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:if one is not marrying for economic, political and related reasons, then it's a complete waste of time. Why gamble when you win nothing! Even the random relationships I have had were always strategic ones and I do not get my heart broken because investing emotions is a very stupid venture. Marriage must be for serious strategic reasons like forming alliances and raising powerful next generation children otherwise it is useless and the pains that come with it are only there for free! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Kobojunkie: 5:42am On Mar 09, 2023 |
okrikaboi:1. Do you date for any of the reasons listed above? What Mr. A considers a win may not be what Mr. B considers the same. For instance, for the longest in most Nigerian cultures, the men folk have considered having women folk bow to them in marriage, and passing their genes to the next generation has for long been considered a crown of achievement. I think of it as foolishness but to our ancestors, it was the mark of their manhood so to speak. 2. Strategic in the sense that? If you have never gotten your heart broken before, what about the other person who you were supposedly in a relationship with? That person may have invested emotions with hopes that it would yield more than what you went in expecting. Of course, he/she lost out but that is no reason not to try his/her luck again with someone else. We all hope to win, even knowing that the odds may sometimes be against us. The gambler in us refuses to quit because deep down we sometimes fear that if we quit, life itself looses part of its meaning and allure for us, and that is something to fear. What I am saying is, if we are honest, absolutely nothing in life is worth it. Not even hanging on a moment longer to life is worth it at the end of the day. However, we do it nonetheless, because we want still to believe it can all be worth it. Marriage is just one of those things. 3. It may be that for you but people have very different reasons for pursuing a marriage relationship. And to each, the gamble has got to be worth it. |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by FRANCISTOWN: 6:39am On Mar 09, 2023 |
okrikaboi: Some people will get it right and some people will never just get it right, my friends who are married are looking for ways to disappear without traces. The only reason some are enduring is because of their children (kids which may not even be theirs). A stupid man says, that cannot happen to me but a wise man will say, that may happen to me, so lemme plan against it. 3 Likes |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by cumoverna: 7:00am On Mar 09, 2023 |
Off point here Banilla: |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Dtruthspeaker: 7:16am On Mar 09, 2023 |
FRANCISTOWN: That bad? |
Re: Disadvantages Of Marrying A Wife(for Guys) by Dtruthspeaker: 7:17am On Mar 09, 2023 |
ravensckar: O Socrates finish the thread. |
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