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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Femmyfamous4u(m): 2:01pm On Mar 06, 2023

Tina001:

You just want to have it all which is rarely possible.. She is good in every other aspects so you married her thinking you will work on her sex life, my dear, people mostly don't change, the red flag you see during dating/courtship will be moree glaring during marriage, it is left for you to decide if you can cope with it or not before marrying the person. She has always been like that and didn't hide it from you before marriage, she told you plainly so you know what you were getting into, why then did you marry her when you know you can't cope thinking you can miraculously change her sex life overnight?. You just have to manage it o pending when she 'MIGHT' change. dnt go and cheat on the innocent woman because that may be the beginning of the end of your marriage

What are you saying? Is it wrong to make adjustments? It is wrong to say 4his how I am and can not change. We can sacrifices too.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Tina001(f): 3:16pm On Mar 06, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:

What are you saying? Is it wrong to make adjustments? It is wrong to say 4his how I am and can not change. We can sacrifices too.

What I am saying is you know what you were about to get yourself into when you decided to marry her. You were not deceived so stop complaining and go talk to her about it, if she can't change, it is fine.. Not all women enjoy sex and can't pretend about it.

Yes we can make adjustments on things we can control, if she doesn’t get wet easily, that is her own body structure abi what do you want her to do, anytime she is naturally wet, you can have her. how do you want her to adjust? put water on her pp so she can be wet for you always

Or you want her to allow you fvvvk her dry pp?? You want to injure somebody's daughter? Is that the sacrifice you want?

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by 007s(m): 5:41pm On Mar 06, 2023

Sucre6:

These are the odds
1. Your wife sexual hormones may be very low, making her not want sex or maybe she's circumcised
2. Your wife doesn't truly love you and doesn't desiree you sexually.

3. Something is bordering her, plus maybe you don't do a lot of pre-intimacy and head jobs that would always get her honey to always want you.
4. May be your sex game is poor

There is a way u will handle a woman, make her orgasm and she will be thinking about you 24/7. Nah she go dey beg you for sex.

I have been in several relationships and I have been with girls who doesn't love sex that much, , but if a woman loves you, she give you her body anytime, any day no matter how tired she is, I have never been with any woman that denies me sex, I haven't seen that or experienced that before, because when you get a woman sexually satisfied all the time, your thought alone would get her wet and honey for you.

Bro, check yourself, something is definitely not right

U never Jam .... the fact you satisfy a woman doesn't mean she will come running to you everyday....she may beg you fo sex when she is hot .... but when she is not OYO for you

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 5:59pm On Mar 06, 2023

007s:

U never Jam .... the fact you satisfy a woman doesn't mean she will come running to you everyday....she may beg you fo sex when she is hot .... but when she is not OYO for you

Don't ever beg woman for sex, if it's not a mutual feeling, let her be, if not she turns you to simp and sex becomes transactional as you will need to convince her by making promises and begging like a simp

For example, u want to eat cat fish pepper soup, instead of going to the river struggling to catch one, u can easily go to lounge and order for a point and kill, I no dey like delay, I don't beg 😂

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Baronthecelebri: 6:31pm On Mar 06, 2023

Nazgul:
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.

nonsense

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Baronthecelebri: 6:33pm On Mar 06, 2023

Divorce her

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by onumadu: 8:08pm On Mar 06, 2023

There is this little "disease" called ASEXUALITY. It is a natural thing, and there is really no cure for it.
Some people (male or female) are born asexual.

The easiest way to know whether a person is asexual is if she or he doesn't have sexual fantasies.
Every normal(or sexual) person has sexual fantasies.
If she doesn't have sexual fantasies, then she is asexual. And it is natural.

@OP, the only question I want to ask is; Didn't you know that she didn't like sex BEFORE marrying her?
Or did you not "test" her before marriage?

This is why I no longer support not testing a women before marriage. The worst thing to happen to any marriage is to have a sexually mismatched couples. If she is Asexual, then whoever she marries MUST be asexual or marry a second wife ( I don't believe in side chicks).

The funny thing is that we test things before we buy them; but then when we want to commit to a LIFELONG unity, you don't test the person?
That is senseless.

If this wife is asexual, and OP is sexual as he says, then the only solution is divorce, or second wife for the OP.
EOD.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Papichulostunne(m): 7:55am On Mar 07, 2023

Sucre6:

3. My sex game is ace, yeah, i know my onions and ones u show them whoose boss they only live to please you. Plus no sensible woman will leave a guy who gives her orgasm and shag her well

Let me stop here,

No get money first.. They will leave you faster than you can say "organsm"

Let me stop here , grin

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by HEISGOD: 8:16am On Mar 07, 2023

Is your wife circumcised? If yes, it might also be the cause.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 10:27am On Mar 07, 2023

Papichulostunne:

No get money first.. They will leave you faster than you can say "organsm"

Let me stop here ,

Am an alpha male and a red piller
This our core rule
-Chase money, make money, take good care of yourself and bitches chase you.
And that's my core value, I priorities my values and in my scale of preference women comes last, it's all about the Benjamins.

Lemme stop here and take a sip from my cold amarula ✌😁

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Papichulostunne(m): 11:37am On Mar 07, 2023

Sucre6:

Am an alpha male and a red piller
This our core rule
-Chase money, make money, take good care of yourself and bitches chase you.
And that's my core value, I priorities my values and in my scale of preference women comes last, it's all about the Benjamins.

Lemme stop here and take a sip from my cold amarula ✌😁

You BAMbiala

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Sucre6: 1:03pm On Mar 07, 2023

Papichulostunne:

You BAMbiala

Who is this clown 🤡

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Kobojunkie: 2:03pm On Mar 07, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act. She was good in other areas so, i felt with time things will sort itself out. After the marriage, i made it known to her clearly that i will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change. Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. what do I do my people?

You knew before marriage that sex wasn't high on her list as it was on yours, yet you took it on yourself to ignore this. Now you want to pretend she is to blame or something? undecided

Forcing your woman at this point to give you sex when she is not that into it amounts to harming her in the relationship so my advice to you is that you find yourself other avenues to spend all that sexual energy you keep focusing in on. Go get yourself gym membership and use the opportunity to make a habit of keeping fit. undecided

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Kobojunkie: 2:09pm On Mar 07, 2023

Dogalmighty17:
There is nothing you can do. You might consider cheating if its that bad. Was your wife a virgin when you met her? If she was not, then you have a lot of measuring up to do.

So it is also OK if the wife eventually decides to cheat on him as well for reasons of her own? undecided

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by frozen70(f): 7:44pm On Mar 07, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act. She was good in other areas so, i felt with time things will sort itself out. After the marriage, i made it known to her clearly that i will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change. Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. what do I do my people?

If you know the same way you have been managing yourself, pls apply that measures

Just allow how especially now that she is pregnant

Some women get hony when they are pregnant

Some get hony after birth

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by royalfly(m): 9:40pm On Mar 09, 2023

woginid967:

Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

Shut up

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Stone03: 9:41pm On Mar 09, 2023

woginid967:

Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

Wrong and destructive advice

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by ghettochild(m): 9:42pm On Mar 09, 2023

Why u marry?
You know test the product before u buy?

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by CXLVII: 9:42pm On Mar 09, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:

I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Is she circumcised?

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by toprealman: 9:43pm On Mar 09, 2023

woginid967:

Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

Don't come and be asking those questions like you saw this or that in your blublablue.

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Reelmii: 9:43pm On Mar 09, 2023

....u are the architect if ur problem so dont complain... funny how people expect their partner to change after marriage

When u two were dating, u knew she did not like sex...but u tot things will sort itself out after marriage like how were u planning to achieve that

She is good in other areas,, i guess this was the main reason why u married her while neglecting ur high sexual desire.....

Now e don set......no woman is perfect,,, u want a wife with ashawo vibes and wife material attitude.....oga u have to choose one

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by kelvinovie25(m): 9:43pm On Mar 09, 2023

was she circumcise, seems like she was though, maybe you should investigate, like does she mourn when you guys are making love.

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Maynman: 9:44pm On Mar 09, 2023

Foodqueen:
That you do pre-intimacy doesn't mean you do it right.

Talk to her about your sex life.

Is the sex not her responsibility that she must do?

Does she have to treat the man “right” before the man caters for her and the home?

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 9:44pm On Mar 09, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

like you said newly wedded…. Be patient with her.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by karnap(m): 9:44pm On Mar 09, 2023

When it comes to marriage don't assumed things will be straight when you tie the knots,
Make it straight during relationship otherwise you will live to regret it

Just now you are just married to her and she is doing this,imaging when things starts going like marriage when little fall out, what will happen?

It will even worse If she is a nurse.

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by SmartGadgetz: 9:44pm On Mar 09, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have sex as much as I desire but I must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Always PLAY with her SEXUALLY, she would start to decode and feel the sex thrills in between the lines, then become the sex addict you crave.

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by ALLNIGERIANSMAD(m): 9:45pm On Mar 09, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

divorce her and marry another Woman who love sex and will satisfy you, if you fail to listen to this advise, the marriage will collapse last last and you will be blame

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by shiwex: 9:46pm On Mar 09, 2023

if you are unsure...never dive in....... I felt with time things will sort itself out., You dey kraze. you open your eyes come enter one chance

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by DannyBrains(m): 9:46pm On Mar 09, 2023

THE ADVICE YOU'LL GET HERE MIGHT LEAD TO YOUR DIVORCE...TALK TO HER AND START STAYING AWAY FROM SOCIAL MEDIA.

I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST THAT MARRIAGE BRINGS.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by fof1: 9:47pm On Mar 09, 2023

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

You are really Sick...Pls Consult ur Parents first. Sex is ur Primary Concern for ur Pregnant Wife abi?

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by VikingKing: 9:47pm On Mar 09, 2023

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