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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by HONNESSTY(m): 10:02pm On Mar 09, 2023
Tina001:


What I am saying is you know what you were about to get yourself into when you decided to marry her. You were not deceived so stop complaining and go talk to her about it, if she can't change, it is fine.. Not all women enjoy sex and can't pretend about it.

Yes we can make adjustments on things we can control, if she doesn’t get wet easily, that is her own body structure abi what do you want her to do, anytime she is naturally wet, you can have her. how do you want her to adjust? put water on her pp so she can be wet for you always Or you want her to allow you fvvvk her dry pp?? You want to injure somebody's daughter? Is that the sacrifice you want?
wow I love your input on this matter
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by EkoErrands: 10:03pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

pre-intimacy doesn't work on those type of ladies. The only way out is to give her a full body massage. She will be naked and face down while u give her a professional full body massage from her shoulder area, her back, her hips and bums and down to her thighs and legs...do this for good 10 to 15mins and inspect her v from time to time for signs of wetness...

Then when u finally penetrate, make sure you put her thumb 👍 in your mouth and suck on it ...the sensation on her thumb will keep the juices flowing like tap in her V. You will be surprised she will even thrust her hips in response to that her thumb that u are sucking.

Try this and give us feedback. I hope her baby bump is not yet too big for this massage thing sha. This is what works for me as I was and am still in your shoes like this.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Stone03: 10:03pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?


The case of the pregnancy is quite a understandable. First pregnancy is so disturbing and troublesome and as a matter of fact, she will always be irritated at the sight of pen!s. If the pregnancy is still early I will advise you to stay away from penetrating and thrusting for the first three months till the foetus develops well to avoid miscarriage.

Under normal circumstances the reason for a woman not having interest in sex when she is not having any bad medical or psychological conditions can be traceable to the man's inability to to give her joyful sex.
I married my wife a virgin, her orientation about sex was so unhelpful until I took time to introduce her to the pleasure of sex. In Every sexual act, I must make sure she hits orgasm before me. I will take time to concentrate on clitoral massage, simulation of the center of gravity, nipple suck. Sometimes it takes me 30 minutes without penetration. She even achieves orgasm sometimes without penetration. Now she is demanding it more often than me. I also taught her vaginal douching because odour pisses me off. Now, she is always neat down.

Sex must not be penetration and thrusting. Learn to get her satisfy you now she is pregnant through massaging and playing with your pen!s so that you don't get sex starved.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Holychildnwa: 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2023
07013756571 call this number,let me give u an advice on what to do.I have been there before bro.Thr case was exactly like mine.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Stone03: 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2023
ALLNIGERIANSMAD:
why? He should go and marry a better woman, a woman who cannot give a better sex is a useless Woman. She shouldn't be called a woman at all

Have you been pregnant before? Do you know the ugly dispositions?
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Nobody: 10:04pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?
I hate to say it bro but she is not As sexually attracted to you as you are to her, also take this into consideration she might not be getting much sexual or mental stimulation from you as well, pregnant women are some of the horniest women out there so the fact that she’s not craving for sex from you puts a big question mark on a lot

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Holychildnwa: 10:06pm On Mar 09, 2023
07013756571,call this number let me tell u what to do,it was exactly am case then.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by yeyebrity: 10:06pm On Mar 09, 2023
Sucre6:


Woman pleaser u said , 😂😂😂😂
No buddy, , aint woman pleaser, am fsr from that, the truth is that when you become a woman pleaser, they weaponize sex and use it against u ones they realised you are too thirsty for them, like i said, I have never been turned down by any of my girls when it comes to sex, do you know why.


1. I bang them real good, give them an unforgeable experience on the bed and after that they don't know how to say no when it comes to sex.
2. I don't act thirsty towards women am too redpilled to do that, ones u start acting thirsty towards women, then again they weaponise sex making u simp and beg to have some.

3. My sex game is ace, yeah, i know my onions and ones u show them whoose boss they only live to please you. Plus no sensible woman will leave a guy who gives her orgasm and shag her well grin

Let me stop here, grin

Continue the online bragging but we know the truth.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Fuckyoumod: 10:06pm On Mar 09, 2023
4tomandchi:
Most girls who lost their virginity to raped barely love sex because it brings up bad memories. So when you try so hard to force her she sees a ghost 👻
they should stay off marriage.

Instead of punishing an innocent man/husband for the sins of a rapist.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Isabi4lov: 10:07pm On Mar 09, 2023
Most people here will only advise you to have side chicks , they won't even help you with some tips on how to go about it with your wife undecided

If you like follow side chicks and olosho dem , if it were to be your wife that complianed that you're a one minute man , they'll advise her to pray , seek for solution bla bla bla .

For early marriage, advising a young man to start going after side chicks na wa o .

Abeg you for no marry her at all.

Thank God women are now waking up from their slumbers.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Stone03: 10:07pm On Mar 09, 2023
EkoErrands:


pre-intimacy doesn't work on those type of ladies. The only way out is to give her a full body massage. She will be naked and face down while u give her a professional full body massage from her shoulder area, her back, her hips and bums and down to her thighs and legs...do this for good 10 to 15mins and inspect her v from time to time for signs of wetness...

Then when u finally penetrate, make sure you put her thumb 👍 in your mouth and suck on it ...the sensation on her thumb will keep the juices flowing like tap in her V. You will be surprised she will even thrust her hips in response to that her thumb that u are sucking.

Try this and give us feedback. I hope her baby bump is not yet too big for this massage thing sha. This is what works for me as I was and am still in your shoes like this.


Thumb 👍 sucking? I haven't experienced that. All I do is sucking her nipples while thrusting at the same time. This doesn't fail.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by yeyebrity: 10:07pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Sex isn't food and you should endeavour to manage what you get.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Bluffly: 10:08pm On Mar 09, 2023
Women need to orientated that the reason God said it is not good that a man be alone is because of sex. God created Adam with his sexual organ and urge. He created every animals in two's and remebered that Adam was incomplete. If you can hold your sexual urge do not marry as marriage is for those who cannot hold themselves and they will also reap the benefits of partnership
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Reinamaria(f): 10:08pm On Mar 09, 2023
kelvinovie25:
was she circumcise, seems like she was though, maybe you should investigate, like does she mourn when you guys are making love.

Why would she mourn?👀
Did someone die?

yeyebrity:


Sex isn't food and you should endeavour to manage what you get.

Actually, sex is the food that feeds the union -the marriage.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by wahalawahala: 10:08pm On Mar 09, 2023
Tina001:


You just want to have it all which is rarely possible.. She is good in every other aspects so you married her thinking you will work on her sex life, my dear, people mostly don't change, the red flag you see during dating/courtship will be moree glaring during marriage, it is left for you to decide if you can cope with it or not before marrying the person. She has always been like that and didn't hide it from you before marriage, she told you plainly so you know what you were getting into, why then did you marry her when you know you can't cope thinking you can miraculously change her sex life overnight?. You just have to manage it o pending when she 'MIGHT' change. dnt go and cheat on the innocent woman because that may be the beginning of the end of your marriageundecided
no follow this advice o.. konji go wound u @op🙄
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by EkoErrands: 10:09pm On Mar 09, 2023
Stone03:



Thumb 👍 sucking? I haven't experienced that. All I do is sucking her nipples while thrusting at the same time. This doesn't fail.

You are sucking nipple and you are the one thrusting. If u suck her thumb she will be the one thrusting. Try it and see the difference.

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Iseoluwani: 10:10pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?


I actually feel your frustrations. Dealing with ladies not interested in the act
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by skj1377(m): 10:11pm On Mar 09, 2023
Manage oga
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 09, 2023
Nazgul:
She's your wife, take her out, tease her, make her smile, talk dirty, understand her body language, talk to her, find out what turns her on...and I can assure you that you'll enjoy your sex life with her.

Don't just dive into bed with an erection and start struggling to shift her pants, she might not even be in the mood.
I do not intend to be a bearer of bad news but I have to let you know that all these may still not work on a woman who is or maybe sexually dead. grin

To some this goes beyond physical but psychological while in some cases it is natural. It is not everyone that will like or enjoy or want to have sex every 5 minutes. The best is for hope to talk to his wife, understand her, visit a sex therapist together and strike a balance. Then he shouldn't treat sex with his wife as a duty but something pleasurable and exciting grin cheesy

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Ihedinuwa69(m): 10:11pm On Mar 09, 2023
Search for mummy fegor page on Facebook
Chat her up she will guide you on what to do
Please whatever she tells you do it
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by arfezces: 10:11pm On Mar 09, 2023
[calm down, marriage work out with good communication and patient, you should exercise some patient for her most expecially now that she is carrying your baby, I will advice you not to cheat on her cuz it will not only hurts her but also makes her sex life more poorer once she finds out and she will lose trust in you. Her libido will change when she gives birth. I'm talking from experience. I have being married for 5years now and my wife was like that when we started but today... Nah 2...4...7]
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Isabi4lov: 10:13pm On Mar 09, 2023
woginid967:


Have a side chick and have peace.

Not all women love sex especially if the man doesn't know how to really put her in the mood.

Enjoy yourself with tinder, SFS, coddedruns.

But pls use condomzzz

Hope you will maintain the same energy if the table turns around undecided

Having multiple side chicks is the best advise that you can give to a newly wedded couples.

I don't even need to know the tribe you came from tueh .

It is your wife that I pity . Olosho men everywhere.
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Bigchristo: 10:13pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?
10 times in 3 months? You Dey enjoy na be like you never see married couples that have sex every once in a month? Maybe the 3 months where you had 10 would have been just 3 🤣😂🤣
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by wahalawahala: 10:14pm On Mar 09, 2023
gfelo:
Bros u are in my shoes, same thing happened btw me and my wife, when we were dating I thought is because we were not married then, but after marriage same thing, I try cheating but is not convenient, I decided to forget about sex and focus on making money. But I still miss sex greatly.
chai .. konji don finish this man👀
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Giftexx: 10:14pm On Mar 09, 2023
Spoon her . Should work
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by godofuck231: 10:17pm On Mar 09, 2023
Get a hot nanny , the type named kike , na panties just wrapper when she's cooking in the kitchen...... suuuuuuu pepper don enter my eye

Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by Trustworthiness: 10:17pm On Mar 09, 2023
The only solution is to marry a second wife. If you are still not satisfied, marry the 3rd and 4th.

All women can't be the same.

That is why polygamy had been sanctioned by God Almighty

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by wahalawahala: 10:17pm On Mar 09, 2023
4tomandchi:
Most girls who lost their virginity to raped barely love sex because it brings up bad memories. So when you try so hard to force her she sees a ghost 👻
which of Dem no loose dia virginity via rape? Ask Dem all about their first time experience, den go tell u d guy deceived or forced Dem into doing it🥴

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by kelspinall(m): 10:18pm On Mar 09, 2023
i will say it again like I said...


am hitting it wella before putting a ring on it...omoh my partner sex level matters to me so i need to know it..i no want dull moment when it comes to rifiking...lols
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by jidxin(m): 10:18pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


she is in the medical field and will not use any herbal product.
oga we know it's not you but copy and paste
Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by vicshub(m): 10:18pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?
Bro I want you to check if she underwent circumcision. That is the no1 problem. Because the top layer of the clit is cut off, she doesn't feel stimulations that much for sex. The only way to do it is to use lubricants and sex her doggie style. Doggie position helps her stimulate the inner part of the clit. I have dated someone like that before, trust my recommendation

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Re: My Newly Wedded Wife by seanwilliam(m): 10:19pm On Mar 09, 2023
Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.
give her Spanish fly

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