Persephone1:
I do not intend to be a bearer of bad news but I have to let you know that all these may still not work on a woman who is or maybe sexually dead.

To some this goes beyond physical but psychological while in some cases it is natural. It is not everyone that will like or enjoy or want to have sex every 5 minutes. The best is for hope to talk to his wife, understand her, visit a sex therapist together and strike a balance. Then he shouldn't treat sex with his wife as a duty but something pleasurable and exciting

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Cutehector:
Honestly, dry püssy is a bad thing. I pray no man experiences this in a wife.
And please let us stop all these blaming on men for issues that a woman has. If she is not into sex, men! If she she has a dry vagina, men. If she is not in the mood, still men!
Men are blamed for every fvcking thing a woman does and for her problems.
Jeez.

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

alizma:

Now I understand you better. People like you pick offence when asked " are you alright" ? A simple question that demand simple yes or no.
Sorry we are not in the same page, please swerve.

EkoErrands:


Lol bro the fear of cheating and bringing home infection is the beginning of learning massage therapy

Femmyfamous4u:


She made it known to me when I first met her that she doesn't like penetrative sex but I thought it will change. It is not about me. I can spend 2 hours on foreplays. I think it's her oestrogen that's low. I once saw that she bought evening primrose which is a hormonal balance supplement but she is not used to taking drugs.

murphyung:


I will not advice the use of aphrodisiac on your wife.

OChimex:


Them carry sex swear for Nigerians? yet most of you can’t even give a good sex to a woman.
The truth be say, the sex no too good, you no sabi do; truth be told. If you sabi do, your woman go dey chase you, na you go dey run sef.
On a more serious note, any man wey get plenty dreams/ideas/plans wey full him head and him dey pursue, sex go be unimportant to him.

luminouz:


He is married, you mudafucker!!!!

Sex is not important in marriage abi? Dey play

luminouz:


I've been with circumcised women and saying they don't enjoy sex is fallacy developed by many women to weasel their way out of pleasing men they married for their resources that they absolutely detest.

A woman has more than 5 erogenous zones in her body. Apart from the clitoris, she has the center of gravity and A-spot. Don't let me get started on places like her earlobes, her neck(throat region) and her neck nape. Or the rib region or is it the nipples?

In my experience, women without clitoris have other weak zones that get them up and firing. Their nipples are very sensitive and their earlobes too. And once they get wet, it's now left to you to make sure you reach their G- and A-spots to get them to cum. They are as active as other women.

Mental and psychological trauma are more likely to affect women more than circumcision. And INTEREST.

ONCE A WOMAN DOESNT FIND YOU SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE, A BOTTLE OF COKE WILL FREEZE IN HELL BEFORE SHE ENJOYS SEX WITH YOU

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

OChimex:


Stupid sex maniac, sex is not all and all in marriage, more things to worry about. He doesn’t even think of planning for the pregnancy, Delivery, newborn baby, na sex be him problem. All these problems can make you lose erection for months.
Sex doesn’t make a married man happy. Actually doesn’t make a man happy. Money and comfort do
You are a Very useless sex criminal

Calicoe:


Please where can someone find such drink?

kkins25:
Kobojunkie, speaking of the devil 😂😂..

@Op, I don't understand "as much as i want,". Because, Unless na oloshi you keep for house, I've never seen any marriage where the man gets sex as much as he wants. High libido women are veey rare😁.
Anyway, like somebody has said, your wife puna not not be receiving any stimulus. Continuing to restrain your self will drive you mad one day.. So, better talk to her about alternatives. Hopefully your duties as "provider" are been met?

NaBanga:
Sometimes lesbians marry for financial security and to have children.

kween01:



Well, I never said they don't enjoy sex , I'm only trying to say, there are spots that can get her on, the clit doesn't fail, although in this case, it will be almost invisible. And , kindly note that they don't get easily turned on and more reasons you'll need to do more. In most cases, a guy has cum when they are about to start. If this trends continue, guy, she won't look forward to sex.

As much as I agree with your points, I however do not admit that when a lady doesn't enjoy sex, it's cos she doesn't find you sexually attractive.
What if the guy isn't living up to expectations.
Lots of guys make mouth, but not all really know how to go about this thing, you just be pounding somebody's daughter, you cum and be saying I can't kill my self.
You won't need to kill yourself if you study your partner's body. If she enjoys sex, you won't have problem with having sex with her.
Do you even think that the lady in question married op for his resources. I doubt.

Harddiskng:
One of the leading cause of divorce after Finance is sexual incompatibility.

How do you salvage such a situation, there are situations you are far better off not getting yourself into because the solution(s) can prove more difficult than moving a mountain. The end result is always adultery, frustration, adultery and even more frustration.

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Kobojunkie:
Na true talk be this.

God gave Op brain but OP refuse to use am before now. Him know say na ashawo woman him need but Op instead go marry woman way be SU for bed. Whose fault? Na OP fault. If say him marry that ashawo woman now, him for no get this wahala to complain to us about.

luminouz:
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Kobojunkie:
Then why not advice men to marry ashawos who they are sure will give them all the sex they need and more?

NaBanga:
■ You are not wise. Ashawos don't always put out a lot after marriage either. Many are also lesbians, due to the things they have experienced with men in their "business".

Kobojunkie:
1. So in your own head, they are all of them lesbians then? Both the inexperienced SU women who you make your wives knowing fully well they are unable to satisfy you sexually , and the very same women you run to for sexual satisfaction outside of your marriages are all lesbians? Why not abandon women entirely and marry your fellow men in wigs instead?

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?