Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,221,388 members, 8,048,659 topics. Date: Thursday, 09 January 2025 at 04:24 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! (5249 Views)
My Social Awkwardness With Girls Is Really Affecting Me! / My Girlfriend Is Now Three Months Pregnant, The Decision I Took Is Affecting Me. / My Girlfriend Isn't Clean Enough Down There And It's Affecting Our Sex Life(pic) (2) (3) (4)
It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:38am On Mar 10, 2023 |
I am a guy 26 years old and turning 27 in June. I have never engaged in any sexual act before until around 2017/2018 when I started masturbating but I later stopped in 2019/2020 because truth be told, masturbation drains. Now, I have a partner and we have tried to have sex but all to no avail because I do ejaculate just three minutes into romance. I have taken drugs, taking herbal mixture in fact someone even referred to me to a thread here on Nairaland to buy herb but all to no avail.Please nairalanders/doctors, help me. I don't know what's causing this problem.i explained to my biological mum, she sent another herb and I have been taking it for the past two months now and no improvement.This is affecting me psychologically, I cannot even concentrate on something else and my mum is also worried. Please how do I cure this? 1 Like |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Nobody: 11:44am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Take your mind off sex Act like nothing happened 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:46am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Grgton:Thank you but I cannot get married this way? 2 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Banilla: 11:46am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Stop using drugs... Never take anything herbal medicine or mixture or whatever. Maybe you're not used to it (sex) yet... So you're overly excited. You haven't had sex till now and you don't masturbate. Give it time, you'll adjust. Then see a doctor. 9 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Banilla: 11:47am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Grgton:How does that work? You take your mind off the sex you wanna have? 3 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:48am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Banilla: |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Nobody: 11:49am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Banilla:you masturbate alot it affected your view about sex 2 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 11:50am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Banilla: Thank you! I have seen a doctor and he said it's just anxiety but deep down I know this is not just anxiety |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by burp18: 11:53am On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20:You doc was right. It's the anxiety. You're nervous and restless. Your body dey rise when you're around that person. Try to relax when you're around your girl. 9 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:00pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
burp18:okay I will. Can masturbation cause erectile dysfunction? |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by shantti(m): 12:12pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Intensive exercise can make u last for a long time. I don't mean like doing 20 push ups oh and calling it a day, I mean something like this 40 push ups, rest for three minutes 15 push ups, rest for two minutes 15 push ups rest for two minutes 15 push ups, 2 mins rest 15 push ups, 2 mins rest 15 push ups, 2 mins rest 7 pull ups, 5 min rest 5 pull ups, 4 min rest 4 pull ups, 4 mins rest 3 pull ups, 4 min rest 3 pull ups 4 mins rest 10 diamond pushup, 5 min rest 10 diamond prushup, 5 min rest 9 diamond pushup, 5 min rest 8 diamond pushup, 5 min rest 7 diamond pushup, 5 min rest 4 diamond pushup, 5 min rest 3 diamond pushup, 5 min rest 100 squats, 4 min rest 90 squats, 4 min rest 80 squats, 4 min rest 70 squats, 4 min rest 60 squats 4 min rest 50 squats, 4 min rest 40 squats, 4 min rest 30 squats, 4 min rest 20 squats, 4 min rest 10 squats, 4 min rest 10 squats, 4 min rest Incorporate these workout into ur daily life(start by 4:30am, u will be through around 6:30am) It's not easy but you can do it. Good form is necessary, a single correctly done pushup is better than 100 incorrectly done pushups. Do each pushup slowly, very slowly allowing your chest to hit the ground and keeping your body in a very straight form as you are going up and coming down. Do the pull ups and squats slowly too. This will combat your sexual problem completely. You will last very very long. No pain No gain 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:16pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
shantti:Th Hmm......This is huge. Thank you though 3 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SenecaTheYonger: 12:17pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20: I don’t understand. What do you mean 3 minutes into romance? Like you penetrate her pussy and Bleep for 3 minutes? 2 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:20pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
SenecaTheYonger:I wouldn't have been this worried if I was able to penetrate. I ejaculate during pre-intimacy. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SenecaTheYonger: 12:24pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20: Oh okay. You have weak pelvic floor. Exercise your penis muscle everyday (10 minutes) for three months and you should be ready to knack like a porn star. Make sure you exercise too, jogging and squatting. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Chidexter(m): 12:26pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20: You’re being too nervous, remove ur mind from thinking you will bleep up and that something will go wrong, also tell ur understanding partner not to look directly into ur eyes or u avoid eye contact. Last but not least, try doggy style which would give u enough space to prepare ur self without her gaze on you 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 12:33pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Chidexter: Okay, I will try this. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by TheZeezle(m): 12:44pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Try Koko samba and predator energy drink. Come back to give testimonies. Ire ooo 3 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 2:02pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
TheZeezle:Okay, Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by burp18: 2:13pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20:Not necessarily. But I've read in some cases too much masturbation can cause erectile dysfunction. 2 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Hismercy20: 2:35pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
burp18: Okay. I hope I find a solution soonest. Thank you! 1 Like |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by OKOATA(m): 2:46pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
You are suffering from ED. |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SPAMBOX7: 3:01pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Grgton:How you take off your mind off something you wanna enjoy. What's the need in indulging in the act then? Una go just come online type any trash wey una like awon werey 2 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SPAMBOX7: 3:04pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
shantti:Una go just come online dey advice men on things y'all even never do. Shey you don wake up 4:30am to work out till 6 before? You Don ever try am just once? But here you are.. Werey 5 Likes |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by SPAMBOX7: 3:06pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20:Oh wow A cock has more hope than you then But nothing still spoil. If she likes to suck dick tell her to suck your dick till you cum. Then you guys will proceed with sex. Trust me you will last longer 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Solocoin: 3:17pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
It's anxiety and so much excitement. Next time you want to have sex don't rush it. Just keep your mind because all you want to do is to hit the girl that she will start begging you. Just control your urge and if possible keep trying it daily and within one week you'll get it right. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by shantti(m): 3:29pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
SPAMBOX7: I start by quarter to five to workout. Then on weekends, 6am Very early in d morning is d best if u r a busy person 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Nobody: 3:30pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
SPAMBOX7:not a total take off okay?? Just for few months 1 Like |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by almarthins(m): 3:33pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20: Wahalai, u no get problem. Just calm down, first. |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by EzegeNdiigbo: 3:41pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
second match is long SPAMBOX7: 1 Like |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by OkoAnike(m): 3:46pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
Hismercy20: It is, nothing more than that... |
Re: It's Affecting Me Psychologically, Please Help! by Julius209(m): 3:50pm On Mar 10, 2023 |
OKOATA:Yes I know , how do I cure this? |
My Fiancee Failed My Test, Am I Overreacting?? / Craziest Things You Ever Did To Make A Guy/girl Like You / Open And Insult This Girl!!! (pix)
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2025 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 52 |