Timsco90:


That one bad, pretend to have one and see her reaction is Far better than having one. because having one is cheating and adultery which is a sin please talk to her gently she will understand but find something doing I heard u said only 15 times in a Month, I swear u are a sex freak relax oh why she no go complain is much na

Mindlog:
What do you want to be told?

1phone:
That he should take her back to her parents with the pregnancy that came through Holy Spirit-not the SEX and bring in ashewo that would hang leg on the ceiling fan

Leilami:


Cheating is not an option. They are in it for better for...
Marriage is not a bed of roses and neither is it child's play. That is why everyone must not ignore their most important quality in a partner for other lesser qualities.


If you like dark skin ladies don't marry a light-skinned lady because she can cook well than the dark skin lady. Instead, marry your dark-skinned lady for peace's sake and get a cook or chef.
If you like slay queens who don't know more than social media please don't marry a bookworm or that geek or nerd. Instead, marry your slay queen and when you have kids get them special tutors and send them to good schools incase you are scared she won't be able to help with their homework.

If big buttocks are your spec marry her and don't marry a fat bum lady because she is a good cook. Pick your big buttock in peace and order food outside or step into the kitchen and cook yourself. You have to sacrifice one for the other. Stop trying to change people. Even you there are a lot of things about your personality or looks that need change but you can never change.

Don't ever overlook your most important quality that you seek in a partner.

matthewkotin41:
This is the disadvantage of no sex till marriage rule. You just have to adjust.

Sucre6:


Am an alpha male and a red piller
This our core rule
-Chase money, make money, take good care of yourself and bitches chase you.
And that's my core value, I priorities my values and in my scale of preference women comes last, it's all about the Benjamins.

Lemme stop here and take a sip from my cold amarula ✌😁

kkins25:


Kobojunkie, speaking of the devil 😂😂..

@Op, I don't understand "as much as i want,". Because, Unless na oloshi you keep for house, I've never seen any marriage where the man gets sex as much as he wants. High libido women are veey rare😁.
Anyway, like somebody has said, your wife puna not not be receiving any stimulus. Continuing to restrain your self will drive you mad one day.. So, better talk to her about alternatives. Hopefully your duties as "provider" are been met?

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

enonche85:
For how long will he do this?,...something he has been doing while they were dating?.

Why does a man has to always go an extra mile to please a women when she malfunctions but it's not the same when it come to a man?.

skj1377:
If she is Ibo lady find out if she was circumcised
If she was sorry oooo nothing can be done To Help . Buy her spanishfly or extacy drug in pharmacy.

Sucre6:


You should know that people don't change, if she doesnt like penetrative sex, you shouldnt have married her, me I know I have a very high sex drive and I can't date or marry or marry someone that can not match my sexual strength because that marriage may not last.

luminouz:


First paragraph: That's the notion but I'm telling you that it doesn't work like you claim it does. Have you fuqed a circumcised woman before? Nope because I assume you are female. Are you a lesbian? I guess not! So stop arguing with someone who have dated several of them. You are arguing from dem say dem say level while I give you practical experience. Case closed.


Second paragraph: Didn't you just validate what I said about INTEREST? if she is not interested in you, her pûnani would be dry. But if she likes you but maybe tired or stuff, she can still be stimulated. So when you want to have sex, na your pûtani go just wet without any pre-intimacy from your guy? Pele o...fountain of gushing. When I look at a woman, it's not her pûnani I see getting wet firsthand, it's her INTEREST. You brought up circumcision as a reason and I countered you. Don't shift goal posts biko.

Third paragraph: For God's sake, will you stop being emotional!!! Talking about me having been damaged and stuff. Does my post even hint at any negativity on this issue. Kindly stick to the topic and don't try to use reverse psychology BS. When a lawfully wedded wife wasn't dripping for her husband and it had been so before he married her, how many options are there? You asked a question and I gave you possible reasons. I have seen it countless times from women who don't love their husbands. They are either marrying because they are old or they had some mental and emotional trauma to deal with, the latter even greater than circumcision. So again, I gave you experience while you gave me 'cracking'. Never knew I was so fuqin funny. Why is it so hard for women to argue logically? *Rolling eyes*

Fourth paragraph: Fallacy of generalisation without backing. 50% of women don't cum? Show me your source or journal that said so. Secondly, what are you insinuating, that they don't cum because their husbands can't fuq or they are circumcised? What's your point here? Because it sounds like for whatever reason, men are still to blame. Another BS.

Fifth paragraph: I just told you I didn't think OP'S wife married him for resources so your point is invalid.

Sixth paragraph: You already agreed to my point about loose pûtanas and dìck mileage affecting marriages, so why this point again? You think it's not a nice thing to say? But I just told you the reality, no sugarcoating involved. These things fuq marriages up. On OP's wife's case, it might be a combination of all these factors but I will only pick natural low sex drive if OP says he met his wife a virgin. Case closed

N.B: I think I have explained enough. This is my last reply to you.

luminouz:


And you are here opening your mouth wah wah with no iota of shame? A woman you married, prostrated for and paid bride price on, house and feed everyday, dey dribble you on top your entitlement to the extent your neighbour used your night cries as comedy melody or AY live Ojuelegba series and you still no get shame? WTF!!

Haaaaaaa...God of heaven!!! When we say get the red pill to save you, you will say *make money o* as if money makes a woman love you. I won't be surprised that another guy, her ex, dey lash her brutally while you do night vigil of begging.


Men, Wake dafuq UP!!!

Cutehector:
Honestly, dry püssy is a bad thing. I pray no man experiences this in a wife.

And please let us stop all these blaming on men for issues that a woman has. If she is not into sex, men! If she she has a dry vagina, men. If she is not in the mood, still men!

Men are blamed for every fvcking thing a woman does and for her problems.
You couldn’t have said it any better... Dry pussy is something I pray no man experience... it’s really frustrating
I hear shisha causes it, I can’t really say more like a rumor of one of the alleged causes

Jeez.

Femmyfamous4u:


I am very good with fore plays but she is the only lady i have been with that after kissing and sucking for minutes she will still not be wet. it puts me off the sex mood.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

Leilami:


They had sex before marriage. He said it. Now I hope you all see fornication guarantees nothing. A lot of women will give you different styles turn like snakes in bed just to make you wife them then after marriage they become relaxed and don't care anymore

Though the poster case is a bit different but I have read about men complaining about how their wives changed sexually after marriage and could barely keep up in bed.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?

achimendy:
I just hope she has not been genitally mutilated, if not study her body language, then give her some sex talk then see how she respond.

Kobojunkie:
Give her sex talk? You folks still do not get it, do you? Your sexual stamina as an individual is controlled by your hormone levels and you have absolutely no control over such things. No amount of sex talk can turn a person whose sex drive is low to a sex maven, none.

This ought to be common sense since we learn these things in Biology class beginning in at least JSS2.

stevups:




Bad guy... lolz

Femmyfamous4u:


She made it known to me when I first met her that she doesn't like penetrative sex but I thought it will change. It is not about me. I can spend 2 hours on foreplays. I think it's her oestrogen that's low. I once saw that she bought evening primrose which is a hormonal balance supplement but she is not used to taking drugs.

Femmyfamous4u:
Dear Friends, i would like to know if it is normal or I am being paranoid. while we were dating i noticed that my now wife does not really like sex as we hardly do the act.

She was good in other areas so, I felt with time things will sort itself out.

After the marriage, I made it known to her clearly that I will want to have the sex as much as i desire but i must say for about three months now, we have only had it about ten times. I do not want to cheat on her but my needs are not met and I have told her this times and times again with no change.

Now, she is pregnant and it is worse. What do I do my people?