PoliteActivist:


Genius, you think it's that simple and they won't all be married to "a nice white girl". People go for the BEST option they can find. Don't think he had better options before he went to Nigeria to marry this girl. That was his BEST option!

Not all go for the best option most of you go back home to marry cause of your nonsense tribalism, racist, ignorance and pressure from ur families to come marry a 9ja girl that’s fact, ask 100% of Nigerian guys overseas and 80% will confirm this as why they went back home to marry ✌️

Skit. The didactic lesson is there for all to see. I don't support this at all. It is highly inconsiderate of the lady. Men, marry compassionate women. Even if anything goes wrong, she will think back and soft peddle a bit. Although some guys view kindness for weakness.

Archie30:


But I'm sure where they get the idea that you could kick your husband out in UK. Rule of thumb, if tenancy agreement is in your name or jointly held, nobody kicks you out or makes you homeless. She phones the police, no problem, them too can't kick you out of your home. Importantly, ensure you have your lawyer's contact handy. Do not accept to leave. Simple! If you do, that's willingly making yourself homeless. Then if you have a joint mortgage make sure ownership of the house or flat is also shared; the percentage owned by each person should be clearly stated in the property deeds. Don't be deceived by make belief or fly around gossips. They 're all bullshit bingos. Protect yourself and make your you lose not a penny of your hard work

This sounds brilliant.

Kobojunkie:
1. Exactly! A woman has no right to wake up one morning and decide the man must get out. He had to have done something to give her that power and leverage over him. The silly man conveniently left that important detail out of the video which is obviously meant to smear the woman.

You don't know nothing. Someone I know had to hurriedly leave Australia and left his children behind because his wife showed him pepper and even had him arrested.

Iamicekid:


Not all go for the best option most of you go back home to marry cause of your nonsense tribalism, racist, ignorance and pressure from ur families to come marry a 9ja girl that’s fact, ask 100% of Nigerian guys overseas and 80% will confirm this as why they went back home to marry ✌️

This was in the past. These days most guys leave Naija with exactly this mindset you have, swearing not to marry a Nigerian girl, but most quickly find out that's the only way they can marry a fairly decent, non-smoking, non-drinking girl who understands his culture somewhat, and understands the place of a woman. Find out how long Nigerian-foreigner marriages last, green card and non-green card!

2elliot:
You don't know nothing. Someone I know had to hurriedly leave Australia and left his children behind because his wife showed him pepper and even had him arrested.

Comprehension no dey agree at all with una, abi?

So, the wife woke up one morning and decided she needed to show him pepper and that was how it all happened?

Kobojunkie:
1. Make una dey reason these things abeg! No one can kick you out of your home unless you give that person leverage over you and that leverage does not simply come by being married to the person. This man obviously did something that he conveniently left out of the video he made to make it appear she just woke up to kick him out.

Abroad no be Nigeria wey man fit wake up decide to send his wife back to her papa house because he wants a new wife. No, abroad you have to have a justifiable reason to kick someone, particularly a spouse, out of your home.

IF it was a Lady being Kicked out, You won't say this....
Double Standard

OvertheTop:
IF it was a Lady being Kicked out, You won't say this.... Double Standard

Um... But you can't just decide one day to kick even your wife out of the house without plausible reason to as well.

etrange:
Sad to watch.

Let's assume it's not a skit. What did he do? His actions here are very calculated. He's not angry or even emotional. He's recording her and saying exactly what he wants the people watching the video to hear. That's not the typical reaction of an innocent black man. If someone is kicking you out of your own house, all you have to do is to call the police. The law is not arbitrary, so they won't support her blindly. But he didn't do that. He made a video saying things like "honey", "let me settle", etc. without addressing the reason he's being kicked out. He clearly seeks the sympathy of the biased African demography. The lady on the other is very upset and couldn't care less about sounding nice or pleasing anyone at the moment. That's someone who's been hurt.

Before y'all come for me, please know that no woman has the right to wake up and kick her partner out of thier house just like that. They pay the rent/mortgage together, and the lady has just as much right as the man (it's not like Africa where the man is the only source of income in many homes). To kick one partner out of the house, you must obtain a legal permission for that. Such permissions are given on the ground of abuse, cheating, etc. So whenever you see a man leaving the house for a woman without making a fuss, he must have done something that he wouldn't want to get to court. So they just give in at the moment and resort to reasoning afterwards or, like in this case, appeal to public sympathy.

I see how this video can be triggering to Nigerians who are used to having it the other way round. Y'all forget that men throw women out of the house everyday in Nigeria and nobody makes a big deal about it. The logic is, it is his house. So going by that same logic, when it is not just his house anymore, it makes sense that he becomes just as accountable as the woman.

I wish them peace!

Your comments are judgemental and biased. Granted that the man did not eleborate on the reason for her decision but those who think she is right have only succeeded in making it difficult for other nigerian wives who ordinarily should join their husband abroad but this type of videos makes it easy for men to kill such desire to invite wives abroad.

Many more wives are sufferrng here on account of cases like this.

This is the norms among African especially nigerian wives. You wont see these type of drama among indians or chinese couples. Women are their own enemies. Burning the bridges that gave you the platform to cross into a better life is the hallmark of African wives!

Sooner or later it will hunt them. Karma is ruthless

Issorite!

Archie30:


But I'm no sure where they get the idea that you could kick your husband out in UK. Rule of thumb, if tenancy agreement is in your name or jointly held, nobody kicks you out or makes you homeless. She phones the police, no problem, them too can't kick you out of your home. Importantly, ensure you have your lawyer's contact handy. Do not accept to leave. Simple! If you do, that's willingly making yourself homeless. Then if you have a joint mortgage make sure ownership of the house or flat is also shared; the percentage owned by each person should be clearly stated in the property deeds. Don't be deceived by make belief or fly around gossips. They 're all bullshit bingos. Just be clear to protect yourself and make sure you lose not a penny of your hard work

Darammliveth:


This sounds brilliant.

Not so brilliant. If your wife says you beat her, you'll have to leave the house, maybe even arrested, whether you like it or not. If she later gets a restraining order, you can't come near the house while things are sorted out - whether the house/lease is in your name or not!

It's obvious the op didn't watch that to the end. They were acting and dishing out advice.

PoliteActivist:




Not so brilliant. If your wife says you beat her, you'll have to leave the house, maybe even arrested, whether you like it or not. If she later gets a restraining order, you can't come near the house while things are sorted out - whether the house/lease is in your name or not!

Not true!!!. If she's making a complaint, you are making a counter complaint. You are not leaving the house! Simple! In UK, only court bailiffs can evict you from your home. Get that into your head. UK isn't US !!!. In fact, if there 're children involved, common sense and happy path decision for the police is to take the woman and kids to a safe home while you are being investigated. Do not leave your home OKAY!!!

PoliteActivist:


This was in the past. These days most guys leave Naija with exactly this mindset you have, swearing not to marry a Nigerian girl, but most quickly find out that's the only way they can marry a fairly decent, non-smoking, non-drinking girl who understands his culture somewhat, and understands the place of a woman. Find out how long Nigerian-foreigner marriages last, green card and non-green card!

Lol if u say so but you see that the place of a woman u just talked about is the main reason they come home to marry and bring them over here, and find out later that person wey u go marry for her to know the place of a woman will even be more power drunk when she gets there, I been in a relationship with Atleast 6 white girls since have been here, they don’t smoke not even occasionally not everything dey portray to u guys in movies are what they truly are, same way not how they portray African living standards is not how we are truly living… Most of u people just want woman that will listen to you only and not hear are own opinions or ideas and come to an agreement, do ur laundry every time and cook for you every time that’s the main reason u come home to marry, fact check guys that can do chores themselves without seeing it as a problem or a woman thing once they come abroad don’t see any reason date a Nigerian again ✌️

More fools are still going to do this. I don't know why men no dey learn. Submission before marriage is fake. Wait till she becomes madam proper and she will turn tiger.

Leave your wives in Nigeria and be sending money regularly for the family's upkeep. The moment you invite her over , it is over for you.

Heathrow44:
U see am! Talk frm now to tomorrow, they never listen ! It serves him right, Women are so submissive here in Nigeria cos naija laws are a little balanced here, watch wat will happen if women in Nigeria can kick their husband's out of their own homes he built with his hard earned money just cos u "married" her! A lot of married men would occupy all the hotels in Nigeria and many would be homeless, roaming the streets and sleeping under oshodi bridge interchange

Ftc sha, been a while

Oil no go finish for your head

etrange:
Sad to watch.

Let's assume it's not a skit. What did he do? His actions here are very calculated. He's not angry or even emotional. He's recording her and saying exactly what he wants the people watching the video to hear. That's not the typical reaction of an innocent black man. If someone is kicking you out of your own house, all you have to do is to call the police. The law is not arbitrary, so they won't support her blindly. But he didn't do that. He made a video saying things like "honey", "let me settle", etc. without addressing the reason he's being kicked out. He clearly seeks the sympathy of the biased African demography. The lady on the other is very upset and couldn't care less about sounding nice or pleasing anyone at the moment. That's someone who's been hurt.

Before y'all come for me, please know that no woman has the right to wake up and kick her partner out of thier house just like that. They pay the rent/mortgage together, and the lady has just as much right as the man (it's not like Africa where the man is the only source of income in many homes). To kick one partner out of the house, you must obtain a legal permission for that. Such permissions are given on the ground of abuse, cheating, etc. So whenever you see a man leaving the house for a woman without making a fuss, he must have done something that he wouldn't want to get to court. So they just give in at the moment and resort to reasoning afterwards or, like in this case, appeal to public sympathy.

I see how this video can be triggering to Nigerians who are used to having it the other way round. Y'all forget that men throw women out of the house everyday in Nigeria and nobody makes a big deal about it. The logic is, it is his house. So going by that same logic, when it is not just his house anymore, it makes sense that he becomes just as accountable as the woman.

I wish them peace!

E go reach u soon . Humans change.

Chai, Igbo girls na WA oo

eroticecstasy:


Why do men come home for bush meats that'll eventually hunt them? This nonsense has destroyed many African men, especially Nigerians.

My close friend surprised me when he told me he has a wife in Nigeria,,while we were busy cruising Brazilian ladies, as a matter of fact he's married a Brazilian woman now.

Pls sir are brazilian ladies good for matrimony, i dont mean being submisive. Are they family-oriented? Empathetic, kind and hardworking

Dey there day talk your own. As long as you de under this sun, juju go tumble you and you no go believe.

Kobojunkie:
1. Do you think that you are the first person to reason this? Juju no dey work on people in abroad at all, even on Nigerians.

Archie30:


Not true!!!. If she's making a complaint, you are making a counter complaint. You are not leaving the house! Simple! In UK, only court bailiffs can evict you from your home. Get that into your head. UK isn't US !!!. In fact, if there 're children involved, common sense and happy path decision for the police is to take the woman and kids to a safe home while you are being investigated. Do not leave your home OKAY!!!

You must be in Nigeria or think we are discussing Nigeria
Anywhere in the Western world you hit a woman, you are at minimum leaving the house if she calls police.
Check out this below. The man said avoiding such fate was exactly why he never hit her back. And this was in UK not US

Only a foolish man will travel abroad and bring the wife over to join him. Nigerian women are never loyal.... They will Bleep u up big time without regrets!

100PercentNaija:
Dey there day talk your own. As long as you de under this sun, juju go tumble you and you no go believe.

I am obviously not the one deceived here since your juju network no dey reach abroad at all. He no dey even reach all of Nigeria talk less of abroad sef.

etrange:
Sad to watch.

Let's assume it's not a skit. What did he do? His actions here are very calculated. He's not angry or even emotional. He's recording her and saying exactly what he wants the people watching the video to hear. That's not the typical reaction of an innocent black man. If someone is kicking you out of your own house, all you have to do is to call the police. The law is not arbitrary, so they won't support her blindly. But he didn't do that. He made a video saying things like "honey", "let me settle", etc. without addressing the reason he's being kicked out. He clearly seeks the sympathy of the biased African demography. The lady on the other is very upset and couldn't care less about sounding nice or pleasing anyone at the moment. That's someone who's been hurt.

Before y'all come for me, please know that no woman has the right to wake up and kick her partner out of thier house just like that. They pay the rent/mortgage together, and the lady has just as much right as the man (it's not like Africa where the man is the only source of income in many homes). To kick one partner out of the house, you must obtain a legal permission for that. Such permissions are given on the ground of abuse, cheating, etc. So whenever you see a man leaving the house for a woman without making a fuss, he must have done something that he wouldn't want to get to court. So they just give in at the moment and resort to reasoning afterwards or, like in this case, appeal to public sympathy.

I see how this video can be triggering to Nigerians who are used to having it the other way round. Y'all forget that men throw women out of the house everyday in Nigeria and nobody makes a big deal about it. The logic is, it is his house. So going by that same logic, when it is not just his house anymore, it makes sense that he becomes just as accountable as the woman.

I wish them peace!

Bros calm your nerves, na skit!
Life’s not that hard.

PoliteActivist:




Not so brilliant. If your wife says you beat her, you'll have to leave the house, maybe even arrested, whether you like it or not. If she later gets a restraining order, you can't come near the house while things are sorted out - whether the house/lease is in your name or not!

Many problems for men over there.

Iamicekid:


Lol if u say so but you see that the place of a woman u just talked about is the main reason they come home to marry and bring them over here, and find out later that person wey u go marry for her to know the place of a woman will even be more power drunk when she gets there, I been in a relationship with Atleast 6 white girls since have been here, they don’t smoke not even occasionally not everything dey portray to u guys in movies are what they truly are, same way not how they portray African living standards is not how we are truly living… Most of u people just want woman that will listen to you only and not hear are own opinions or ideas and come to an agreement, do ur laundry every time and cook for you every time that’s the main reason u come home to marry, fact check guys that can do chores themselves without seeing it as a problem or a woman thing once they come abroad don’t see any reason date a Nigerian again ✌️

You've been in relationships with at least 6 white women? I won't say you are lying but where exactly is this? There are of course exceptions, but truth is that vast majority of Nigerians abroad never go into relation with any white woman, and lots survive on hookers, almost-hookers, or far-from-wife-materials!

But they won't tell you that. They'll tell you they had a long line of gorgeous white girls begging to marry them but they meekly decided to go home to marry, being the meek, righteous people they are!

Bvlgari:
Nigerian lady kicks her husband out of his own home in the UK after he brought her over from Nigeria 2years ago and even paid for her nursing school and training 😮😮🤔

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cpq0XKuD8dD/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvRpma-EiEQ

Na acting.the woman even come talk am for the full video.

PoliteActivist:


You must be in Nigeria or think we are discussing Nigeria
Anywhere in the Western world you hit a woman, you are at minimum leaving the house if she calls police.
Check out this below. The man said avoiding such fate was exactly why he never hit her back. And this was in UK not US

Nigeria is my heritage and this has nothing to do with Nigeria but everything to do with FACT and LOGIC.

Heathrow44:
U see am! Talk frm now to tomorrow, they never listen ! It serves him right, Women are so submissive here in Nigeria cos naija laws are a little balanced here, watch wat will happen if women in Nigeria can kick their husband's out of their own homes he built with his hard earned money just cos u "married" her! A lot of married men would occupy all the hotels in Nigeria and many would be homeless, roaming the streets and sleeping under oshodi bridge interchange

Ftc sha, been a while

Men will not occupy hotels, instead they will not marry but enjoy their life to the fullest

Bvlgari:
Nigerian lady kicks her husband out of his own home in the UK after he brought her over from Nigeria 2years ago and even paid for her nursing school and training 😮😮🤔

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cpq0XKuD8dD/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvRpma-EiEQ

I bet you my wife will do the same. Men wise up

Archie30:


Nigeria is my heritage and this has nothing to do with Nigeria but everything to do with FACT and LOGIC.

Focus on real life.
REAL LIFE in UK is full of men who had to leave the house for their wives and children, you can hardly find a case where the wives and children left the house for the man!

It was a prank.

No wonder this man i working for last year for PHd studies in uk kept on reminding me 'my wife wont be coming immeditaely so do not make a mistake' i often joked on this and he concluded with 'i dont have plans for my wife yet till after my 1st daughter comes 1st'

i dont mean to offend anyone but i feel the video is been acted on. No doubt this happens in UK but i doubt this particular one.

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