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Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by mp3ree: 11:02am On Mar 15, 2023 |
ednut1: Supported |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Isabi4lov: 11:02am On Mar 15, 2023 |
They've come again with zobo stories just to talk down on women . Haven't we seen men that also misbehaved after joining their wives in abroad. The truth of the matter is knowing your partner , abroad is not for only one person. If you enjoy your life in abroad, I will also enjoyed mine in any place I found myself. 1 Like |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by jedisco(m): 11:02am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Karlifate: Good points in all. But I disagree with no 2. As a young chap, if he had serious misgivings about moving with his wife, then the question becomes why get married to her in the first place? She would have still been cheating in Nigeria. Even if he delayed her coming by 5 yrs + 2 kids, nothing still stops her from being randy. The idea of coming as a young couple is because if they work together as a team, they can push farther faster 8 Likes |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Klass99(f): 11:03am On Mar 15, 2023 |
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Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by ikelords(m): 11:03am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Dear insultme. I don't know if you will see this write up but anyways I will drop it. A cheating woman is a dangerous woman. Now that you know her secret once you let it out she might end up coming for your life. I will advice you to play along, gather all the evidence you need to satisfy your conscience that she is having an affair outside. Evidence I mean are very strong evidence, when presented it can't be disputed. So play along and pretend you know nothing. When it's time you pull your strings. If her present stay is still dependent you,I will advice you file for divorce and send her sorry ass back to Nigeria. May God be with you. 6 Likes |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by petrusevents(m): 11:04am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme: YOU MIGHT BE COMPLICATING ISSUE BY NOT SHARKING HER, please sit down and have heart to heart talk with her and tell her what you know about her movement. she's in a new environment. also i will advise you visit a counselor and settle the matter before it gets worse. May God heal you home bro. |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Quebec91(m): 11:04am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Me too dopedan: |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by jesmond3945: 11:05am On Mar 15, 2023 |
kripen:the evidence is not weighty enough. They might not have had sex. It might just be friendship or probably a relationship. Are you telling me you can never buy an innocent gift for your married female friends? That is your married female friends are persona non grata? I swear that I have been with a lady in a hotel room without touching her. That girl respects me till today. I have also stayed with ashana before without touching her. She even had to use cucumber on herself. We slept together in the same bed, I was really Hot that night but I never touched that woman. Like I said this is Uk he has to catch them together probably on a date with his phone out so that she can never deny. Because if Op divorces her he is the one that looses. 3 Likes |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by 77up(m): 11:05am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme:This your particular response makes it looks like you really don't know what you want. Save yourself before she chase you out of the house. |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Tinymayour: 11:06am On Mar 15, 2023 |
You don enter one chance and your marriage is at knife edge Insultme: |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by fixitbyjal(m): 11:07am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Before you bring any woman abroad Make sure she don born all pikin for you so even tho she still dey do oloshoism all around you got nothing to loose 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Revolva(m): 11:07am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Uptheante: Wtf that surely happens..ave bang some gals while on fone with their boyfriend Na there i know say females are never to be teusted |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by barule: 11:08am On Mar 15, 2023 |
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Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Wunmi4: 11:08am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Eazzii:hmmmmmm |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Ishilove: 11:11am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme:People who can't keep a steady girlfriend are advising a married man how to keep his marriage 1 Like |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by ThinkSmarter: 11:11am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme:don't divorce her. you brought a single women in her 20s presumed to be beautiful in UK, a free world where women's rights are elevated. Try and give her good sex. Allow her to socialize. She will calm down after childbirth. At least make her a baby mama before thinking of divorce. |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Klass99(f): 11:12am On Mar 15, 2023 |
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Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Omotaday(m): 11:12am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Karlifate: 11:13am On Mar 15, 2023 |
jedisco: Yeah, right. Possibly, the OP is not a very good judge of character (because he's also found wanting, himself). 1 Like |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Klare(f): 11:13am On Mar 15, 2023 |
I thought they said care work is strenuous s over there. And has all this time to roam about. Candid advise let her know what you found out and you need to resolve this as a couple sit her down and talk. I also feel you both need to build a home not talking about separate finances and all. Sit as a couple come up with a budget and let her contribute towards the home too no matter how little. The both of you need to be more accountable Financially, nothing is bad from shopping from a high-end store it can be maybe a dress once a month just set good boundaries so that no one overspend and leave the necessary things behind. I think she is an outdoor person try and come up with outdoor activities with her can be once a month to build bond.(e.g date night, game night) After all this if she still dey waka about please divorce her and move. Something tells me the marriage wasn't built on solid foundations and boundaries. 3 Likes |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Karlifate: 11:14am On Mar 15, 2023 |
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Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by richardokubo(m): 11:14am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme: My advice is try bring her back to Nigeria, but of u should come like for a visit but before then inform ur people about all that is happening also make sure u av ur evidence wth u , don't let her know ur plan just play along wth her, when u guys get to Nigeria try to collect her visa from her like u are helping her to keep it , when u guys get to Nigeria when all the family members are sitting release the bomb of all are doings then u can end the marriage and move on wth ur life . 2 Likes |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Halogenabdul(m): 11:15am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme:Bros, pls for your mental and emotional health and stability, just plan and move out and move on. I believe you are still very young (Mid 30s) and you have bring future as well prospects ahead of you. So kindly pls leave her and leave out because she'll never change. And there's nothing you can do about except to fall in a deeper mess if you try correcting or fixing anything with her. 1.play along gently, save money between now and 3 months to relocate yourself. 2. After everything is set, call her people, if possible travel with her home esp this Easter (if would be an easier way to get her home). With evidences, hand het over to her people. 3. They'll plead and beg with everything oo but once you have showed them every evidence you have any handed her over, stand up and leave immediately because by the time they finish begging you, you fit go carry your nightmares back to your life. 4. While gathering your evidences and planning on your relocation, Chat with old friends or school mates especially females so as to ease that pain but try not to get attached (it would help you alot). Brother, you are too responsible and disciplined to the treated and tourted like this by a woman. Pls resist all urgent to show you know what's going, don't give her a single clue to what you are up to. Some of those souls (women) are wicked and possessed. Thank you |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Abezol4jah(m): 11:15am On Mar 15, 2023 |
It appears you do not know this person well before marriage.This type of person can never be faithful to one partner. Good a thing you discover early and I would say that you take the exit option from the marriage before further damage. |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by ItisWell22(f): 11:16am On Mar 15, 2023 |
It is well… 😢😒 |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by jedisco(m): 11:17am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme: @op, its a tricky one being married and I understand your cold feet. Truth is that people hardly change. She's cheating for frivolities and likely to continue which would only bring you more pain. She earns more than enough to cover her reasonable expenditure. If she is not pregnant yet, avoid getting her pregnant until you've made your mind up. My take would be this lady is unlikely to change and it's best and easier to part ways now than 10yrs in. All you'd lose now is the heartbreak. You don’t have a house to give up or child support to pay which would likely be the case 10yrs in. The ultimate decision lies with you- split or try to resolve your rship. How you go about confronting her needs to be looked thru. P.s. did she show signs of materialism or infidelity when you guys dated? 1 Like |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Killermamba: 11:18am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme: If you want to live long leave that Delilah now. Before e over you. I fear who nor fear Nigeria women in UK. |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by pope1477(m): 11:19am On Mar 15, 2023 |
I have uk 🇬🇧 experience wella, affair like this will enter her head , she will become rude and disrespectful, she will / or can call police on you , she can kick you out , even if you are the one payin house rent .. uk don’t play with women .. so my guy be careful , save for your self , don’t spend on her , have a plan B . I can tell you more than 10 real stories like this … after helping them to uk … they must a change and bite the finger that feed them… pls have a plan B . Also save money pls… 1 Like |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by Konjiboii: 11:20am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme: Omo you be small pikin? Must you marry before you born pikin, what is wrong with you. Men dey give you better advice you still dey form strong head, if you knew you weren't going to heed to any advice then why post this gist. Omo no make me vex oh I no dey like men when dey behave like odoyo. Behind dey find girl back home, no promise any girl marriage or say you go take them abroad, whenever you return give am belly and dey support from abroad. 3 Likes |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by openmine(m): 11:21am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Hmmmm....interesting! I keep telling folks that marriage is not a solution to curb bad behaviour! What she is doing currently in a foreign land isn't different from what she did back in naija and marriage wasn't going to impede her excesses....infact,she would likely increase in her attitude and character! For the OP's wife,I say shame on you! 'One whose palm kernels have been broken by a benevolent spirit must not forget to be humble' Someone was benevolent enough to use his hard earned money to process your 'Japa' from this confused and direction-less country to UK and even arranged a decent paying job for you yet you misused such opportunity and continued with your reckless lifestyle! Tomorrow when things don't work out for you or guys whom you fancy disappoint you,you will be the first to chorus 'All men are the same or dogs' and after years you queue up every December to either watch shiloh or attend! OP your wife is gone....Just cut your losses,divorce her immediately and concentrate on what you came to UK for! Its well! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by slimanyd: 11:21am On Mar 15, 2023 |
Insultme: Baba. Use style talk to her. Tell her u have an emergency in Nigeria which ur parents request 2 of you to come to naija. Once she lands on naija. Collect the passport and japa back to UK and divorce her straight up. Bitch she is |
Re: What Else Can A Man Do To Please A Woman. (UK EXPERIENCE) by jedisco(m): 11:22am On Mar 15, 2023 |
EJEHSON: If you see yourself living abroad for a longtime, then the earlier you plan towards getting your family over the better. Except you want to have another family over there. P.s. it's futile trying to just seize her passport. There are cleaner ways of going about it |
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