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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 2:27pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Dracula123: I dated one sir, yes i agree that mrn are the cause of their behavior, but every man wants a lady who he will love and that same lady will respect him. These set of ladies see submission as a way of becoming s failure, they see apologising for their wrong as weakness, they get angry when you refer them as women which they are. Mehn, you will not understand until you date one, i rather marry an illiterate and live long than marry such women. 13 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 2:28pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
InfinityFabric: Mistake remind that they are women, they will bring down the house that day. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 2:30pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Polynek: The OP said he has dated 5, i was dating one some weeks ago, understand what OP mean by educated, not just being a graduate, these are career ladies we are talking about. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 2:34pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
angiography: I will be the most happiest person if she finds a man and br successful in her marriage. Nevertheless, that doesn't mean that people should take stupid behaviours from their date. 11 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Dracula123: 2:57pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Saintinoo:I totally get your point and trust me, I avoid such ladies. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Nice2023(m): 3:09pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Now let me tell u this. When I was single,I dated ladies not for sex or romance ok. What do u do for a living was basically what encompasses our discussions then. Life,money career and a little outing and as u can see,many of us still keep in touch till date because it was all about competition amongst us. And today,I was also lucky to marry my wife, who is a great competitor to me...she earns more salary than me,but as a smart guy,I make more from my side business than her. Our gross earning per month is roughly 3.2million. Now,she is planning on setting up a side business like me and I have told her that I will support her. Lesson: the fulcrum of the matter is that,the family is at the core of this whole competition and that does not remove the love we had at the beginning,in fact we are waxing strong. Everyone with his own reality. Before u still doubt me,my wife is a group head of operations of a financial institution in Abuja and I was once a banker before I left to a government job. Note: i don't want u to believe me ok. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 3:22pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: It worked for you bro, just as it worked for a friend of mine, his wife, a nurse with a federal teaching hospital bought him a car, this guy earn 30k as a principal on a private secondary school but she submits to him like a house wife. In all bad, there are still few good ones, but the truth is that majority of em career women are just like the OP stated. Mind you, any man that condones a disrepectful wife is no longer a man, i don't know how you were brought up though. 15 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Nice2023(m): 3:28pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
frozen70: My wife's friends who earns more than the husband till date has not had peace of mind. Despite the fact that the lady is humble. Her husband is already intimidated,troubled and even want her to stop work for no obvious reason. In fact,most men need to adjust seriously. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by ItisWell22(f): 3:51pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Saintinoo: 😢 |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 4:00pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: Do you live with them? Do you know why he lacks peace of mind, no man can be intimidated with his wife having her own money especially in this economic meltdown, but how do the womn treat you after being richer, no man want to play the role of a woman in his house. 12 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Nice2023(m): 4:08pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Are u married? If u are not just keep quiet. There is nothing like generalisation in marriage. What works for A would never work for B. That was why I gave an explicit explanation earlier. Bye and keep ur thoughts to yourself. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 4:15pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: u heard only from.the woman..that why u could conclude easily 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Nice2023(m): 4:17pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
blacksam01: We have settled these cases for both of them more than 9 occasions. I don't say what I am not part of...I didn't say,them say. I said it emphatically. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by LikeAking: 4:20pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
blacksam01: It's called the power play... Play yours too... When they play, play yours.. It's a game of do me, I do you. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 4:20pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: what exactly is the man's problems.....he is not a goat to give trouble without a reason...mayb he is even angry at u ppl getting involved with their marital affair... nobody just wakes up aamd start ill-treatment of thier spouse... something they share as a couple is the problem which u dont h to know 1 Like |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:25pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Albertone: I'm just saying, that bad behaviour begats bad behaviour. They should stop acting as if they're not without flaws. How can you date five ladies, and all of them had flaws, but, magically, not once was the fault from you? 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Sam119(m): 4:33pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
OP You are 100% correct One was introduced to me by a friend for possible dating, but nothing to write home about character wise. She is always looking for a man that is handsome with money, more money and plenty money irrespective of the fact that she earns well. 8 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by LikeAking: 4:34pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Saintinoo: Na red pill movement format you go use for her. |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Sixfeetbelle: 4:35pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
blacksam01: At the bold, you did. The main point of your discourse was in fact: income manipulation. All the seemingly bad behaviour you listed up there was traced to the ladies being independent and working for their own money. Even though we all are aware that women in general, can be rude, but you decided to round up their rudeness to the simple fact that they're working and independent. You're pained because you expected them to swallow your nonsense just because you have a dangling member and yet, unsurprisingly, they didn't, bringing to your notice that your power as a man (aka money) can only go so far when subjugating a woman. |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by blacksam01: 4:38pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: i read all u wrote here...see every human: male or female have a dream patner... u happened to b d dream man of that your wife at the time of the relationship that is why sh stayed with u......i am not doing a formal job or white collar...but u camnot be more interesting and intelligent than me.. i found out that those set of ladies are usually suckers for white collar working guyz...they are mostly driven by how progressive the guy is especially moneywise, they belive that being close to that formal guy brings them sophistication and class as well.....the class of job the guy does matters much to them..and banks for them is one of three of the highest level class they like.. the dressing and very decent work outlook of bankers is a poison to them..i laffed wen i read u say ,i was a banker...i knew immediately that was her attraction... do you know that of the 5 ladies of sort i dated that four of them went away to date bankers then...one even got to point of physical abuse annd lots of cheating by the banker guy but still married him...the class the banking profession ooze is a very big attraction to them one is still currently dating a banker..two are married to bankers...etc... if u had been in that govt job with all this ur insight in life and but low earnings..but u didn't use high income lies to counter class..guy, that your wife will not marry u... i repeat, that your wife will not marry u make inquiry today..ask ur wife dou playfully if sh would hv married u if u were mot working in the bamk then but working as aa junior staff at a government agency or mayb if u do some other job not official white colar and see what sh will te u.. guy at that stage..ur class as imposed on u by the bamking profession attracted her not her love for u..sh doesnt love u den.. so dont talk ppl down like ur some kind of super hero.... 16 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by thesicilian: 5:01pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
blacksam01: Yugoslavia247:You guys may be right, though. I personally think a well brought up lady should be able to respect her spouse irrespective of her financial status. Except she allows the wealth get into her head, or falls prey to pressure from bad friends. Another factor may be that different classes of ladies naturally should be handled differently. Telling a working class lady to come and pound yam for you at 9pm when she returns from work may backfire, being too tired to do certain things doesn't make her a bad person. Except she makes a habit of dodging her responsibilities using work as an excuse. I think in essence everything should be done in moderation. In this life no one has it all figured out, we are all learning 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Nice2023(m): 5:13pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
blacksam01: I like people like u who are very concise in debate such as this. If na some people especially half educated people,they would have started using abusive words because they don't believe in learning,rather they prefer tk engage one in blind arguments. Well,kudos for ur maturity and the way u engaged me. Back to the issue on ground. U see this thing they call marriage, it requires time and i feel it needs to be studied as well and from who? From existing marriages...in fact,in life something must attracts someone to u and if it is because of the banking work,we were bankers. She married me because she knew I love her genuinely and not because of our vocations at that time. In conclusion,everyone knows what is good for them. |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by InfinityFabric: 7:00pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
blacksam01:Ok, if you say so. dont be deceived by lot sof olosho in town, virgin ladies are sstill manyOfc I know, most girls I've dealt with are virgins - I'm allergic to used goods. That's why I'm wondering where u got yours. Those behavior are classic community cum bucket behavior. I guess you were not stoic enough then. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Saintinoo(m): 7:07pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: You are here spilling rubbish, defending what you don't know, people are telling you their experience, not one, not two, not three and you are talking about your marriage, your marriage cannot be used as a factor to conclude that those folks don't do ehat the OP stated. And when did it become an achievement to get married? 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Prettygirl200(f): 7:42pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
I thought some mumu men said they can never Marry or date a liability? Now a working class lady don come una dey complain, una never really talk wetyn una want from women for this forum. Confused mumu gender. 7 Likes |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Albertone(m): 7:54pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle: Did you read the part he mentioned he was dating the same category of ladies? Also, if your boyfriend has a flaw, the next thing is for you to start exhibiting flaws too? The flaws of those ladies isn't dependent on his own flaws. When no be flaws competition. |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Albertone(m): 7:58pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Prettygirl200: Nigerian ladies = liability + good character ....(i) Nigerian ladies = working class + bad character ...(ii) I don't know why good character and working class are mutually exclusive in Nigerian ladies. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by HellVictorinho7: 8:07pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
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Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by frozen70(f): 8:24pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Nice2023: Na the man go tire The lady is moving higher because the man wants to remain where he is If not for pride and ego, why is the husband behaving like devil's advocate 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Prettygirl200(f): 8:48pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Albertone:That's bc u cannot eat your cake and have it. ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by WantsandMore: 10:24pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Men's masculinity is fast fading, look at all of you whining over a Simple shit test. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Men Cope With Educated Working Ladies..? by Jeferious: 11:39pm On Mar 20, 2023 |
Saintinoo:Oga, na working class we dey find abeg. Wetin concern me and jobless girl? I no want person wey go use my own money buy me gifts on my birthday ![]() ![]() As for the witch-like behavior,that one no be wahala. Me sef na emotional terrorist. Just tap the drums of war, and I'll hurriedly draw the battle line. Boss, make I tell you...Dem dey use madness cure madness. Abeg give me working class girl anytime anyday 5 Likes 2 Shares |
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