It's when you contract different sorts of STDs ,lose total respect for your body,lose your dignity or maybe even your life that you will realize.

It is finished how did we get here?? Who raised this harlot on rampage??

Preshieben:
https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

Good afternoon.. I know most of y'all have seen and commented on this thread plus this particular thread is not getting the views and facts it should... mostly bashers plus it's an old thread

I have seen most comments blaming the men for prostitution and I think it's an actual fact., I mean that's true to some extent.

Meanwhile, I think girls from poor home should be allowed to do whatever they want to do to survive while in campus without condemning them.. I'll have to explain this..
While in school, I've seen poor religious and decent girls drop out of school just because they don't want to get involved in it and I have also seen girls with numerous sugar daddies graduate with flying colors and even working through connections they got from those men.

I think prostitution is really bad when you have the vital things to survive and you're into it because you want to slay or when you have a supportive parent that are capable, but you're not satisfied with what they provide for you.

As a girl from a poor home, I knew what I passed through in school till I decided to have sugar daddies after 4 failed attempts of starting a petty businesses, things became alot easier ... Currently, I'm doing so fine and earning money on my own without sugar daddies..

Please leave these girls alone, times are hard so Is life

well I don't blame u Sha, at least u where doing it for a purpose, and after you archive your arms you quit, I pray you have a good husband or boyfriend

Preshieben:
https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

Good afternoon.. I know most of y'all have seen and commented on this thread plus this particular thread is not getting the views and facts it should... mostly bashers plus it's an old thread

What happen to your busty body?
U be get body pass this one before. Nah when u start to dey carry weight abi go gym

DonBenny77:
Body count gone to the dogs.
My babe just got admission in federal university otuoke.
I've broken up with her in my mind already

It doesn't mean not all girls will do such better go and reconcil with her

omotoshodontee1:
all this mumu guys bashing the OP will always want to get laid b4 helping a girl.wat some of this people does underneath is a bigger threat to humanity compare to oloshoism..d word HYPOCRISY exist because of naija..u are all mad

Why are girls not helping themselves?

What is bad is bad. It is bad. Though it is a common shortcut, it is still wrong to engage in it and its widespread practice cannot legitimatize it in anyway.
@OP, starting a business with sugar daddy proceeds if sex is what was offered in exchange is just a magnification of the evil deed and doesn't legitimatize the foundation and source of capital.

Take your devilish advice to hell. Bulshit, who ashawo life help?

lavylilly:
Stop deceiving yourself, I can screen shot my DM and see the many men in my DM from Facebook, Twitter, IG and to name a few. Let me even shock you, Secondary school students are in the game, yes, you heard that right

What’s your point

To all those calling me names and bashing me for saying my mind...
You didn't have to, most of you have girlfriends and sisters that are secretly into it... So y'all can Bleep to hell and burn to ashes

I know I'm not a prostitute but I don't have to prove it to you

Preshieben:
To all those calling me names and bashing me for saying my mind...
You didn't have to, most of you have girlfriends and sisters that are secretly into it... So y'all can Bleep to hell and burn to ashes

I know I'm not a prostitute but I don't have to prove it to you

No need to pay them mind abeg. You raised a very good point which most Nigerian in their religious foolishness are not mentally equipped to consider even when many of them are part and parcel of the reason for prostitution as it is in Nigeria.

Yogibor:
It's when you contract different sorts of STDs ,lose total respect for your body,lose your dignity or maybe even your life that you will realize.

In most countries, prostitutes are known to take better care of themselves as far as STDs are concerned than other women and girls in relationships. As for respect and dignity, Nigerian men already bodyshame and bully women who aren't even prostitutes so why should a one who works as one be ashamed or worry about your idea of respect?

kelspinall:
■ similar to encourage Young guys to do yahoo because life is hard...

may una try dey think well

1. Prostitution and yahoo are in no way similar. For one, prostitutes offer sex, they do not defraud individuals in any way or form. So comparing yahoo-ism to prostitution means e fit be say lights dey off up there.

Kobojunkie:
No need to pay them mind abeg. You raised a very good point which most Nigerian in their religious foolishness are not mentally equipped to consider even when many of them are part and parcel of the reason for prostitution as it is in Nigeria.

Her excuse is bullsh**.

If you wanna be a prostitute, fine... But making it seem as though poor girls have no other option than to have sex for money is plain stupid... The idea is degrading... As though women are nothing more than their bodies. What happened to working smart? Petty trade? There are many options to choose from. Becoming a prostitute is your choice, and you would deal with the consequences (including stigmatization) and have no one else to blame but yourself... Take responsibility. It's not the fault of men, or society, or the economy.

Banilla:
■Her excuse is bullsh**. If you wanna be a prostitute, fine... But making it seem as though poor girls have no other option than to have sex for money is plain stupid...
■ The idea is degrading... As though women are nothing more than their bodies.
■ What happened to working smart? Petty trade? There are many options to choose from.
■ Becoming a prostitute is your choice, and you would deal with the consequences (including stigmatization) and have no one else to blame but yourself...
■ Take responsibility. It's not the fault of men, or society, or the economy.

1. Interesting! What options are available to the millions of poor girls on university campuses then?

2. If all you have is your body, do you simply curl up and die or do something with it? Poverty itself is mentally degrading, so choosing to fight one degrading factor with another, makes a lot of sense when you find yourself down there mentally.

3. Working smart? Petty trade? So, what you are suggesting is that on a campus of about 3000 girls, and maybe 3000 boys, surrounded by so many petty traders themselves desperate to feed their kids, almost every girl should take to petty trading in order to earn their daily meals and needs? How does that in fact work out for anyone? Have you ever tried doing petty trading yourself? I happen to have tried it back when I was a kid with no success. I ended up having to eat my inventory because there was so much competition we could all barely squeeze out enough profits from our trades to make ends meet that way. That is why I so hate it when folks suggest that petty trading is the way out of poverty for others.

4. Many of those girls choose prostitution because it is what is available to them. They don't have the money nor the business know-how with which to start what you call petty trading— many probably figured out that having yet another petty trader in each hostel room means they will likely not get anywhere fast—, and since there are no factories, companies, etc., around campuses to hire them, they resort to doing what they know there is great demand for and pays well. You would need to build lots of companies to handle most of the needs around campuses where the majority of the students are from poor homes abeg.

5. As for the place of society and the economy, well, do the maths abeg! With over 90% of the population living below the poverty line and with unofficial unemployment as high at least at over 30%, what do you think could be the major reason why many of these girls resort to prostitution as a way out of poverty? Do you think they love sex so much?

The OP profile picture describes her lifestyle Afterall. Ashana👙

That picture was recently taken after a very hot rounds of Seex with one of her numerous Clients😂

Kobojunkie:
1. Interesting! What options are available to the millions of poor girls on university campuses then?

2. If all you have is your body, do you simply curl up and die or do something with it? Poverty itself is mentally degrading, so choosing to fight one degrading factor with another, makes a lot of sense when you find yourself down there mentally.

3. Working smart? Petty trade? So, what you are suggesting is that on a campus of about 3000 girls, and maybe 3000 boys, surrounded by so many petty traders themselves desperate to feed their kids, almost every girl should take to petty trading in order to earn their daily meals and needs? How does that in fact work out for anyone? Have you ever tried doing petty trading yourself? I happen to have tried it back when I was a kid with no success. I ended up having to eat my inventory because there was so much competition we could all barely squeeze out enough profits from our trades to make ends meet that way. That is why I so hate it when folks suggest that petty trading is the way out of poverty for others.

4. Many of those girls choose prostitution because it is what is available to them. They don't have the money nor the business know-how with which to start what you call petty trading— many probably figured out that having yet another petty trader in each hostel room means they will likely not get anywhere fast—, and since there are no factories, companies, etc., around campuses to hire them, they resort to doing what they know there is great demand for and pays well. You would need to build lots of companies to handle most of the needs around campuses where the majority of the students are from poor homes abeg.

5. As for the place of society and the economy, well, do the maths abeg! With over 90% of the population living below the poverty line and with unofficial unemployment as high at least at over 30%, what do you think could be the major reason why many of these girls resort to prostitution as a way out of poverty? Do you think they love sex so much?

I don't care. I didn't read half of what you wrote...

A woman has more to offer than her body. Poverty affects both gender, yet there are far more female prostitutes... Don't think I've seen a male sex worker. What are the men on campus doing that the women can't? It's degrading to assume a woman's only way outta poverty is through prostitution. It's dumb.

If you decide to be a prostitute, do so knowing fully well you have other options no matter how hard they are... Don't create a thread later on offering excuses, blaming others.

Poverty affects men most, in Nigeria. A woman has the option of depending on her family and partner, it's not the same for them. They literally have to hustle not only for themselves but their present (parents, siblings, etc) and future families (wives and children), and most are still students.

I'm a feminist. And prostitution is a job, I believe so... But if you choose to do it, take responsibility.

Even if the trade is slow or exhausting, it's still an option. One you refused to take for whatever reason.

Banilla:
■I don't care. I didn't read half of what you wrote...A woman has more to offer than her body. Poverty affects both gender, yet there are far more female prostitutes... Don't think I've seen a male sex worker. What are the men on campus doing that the women can't? It's degrading to assume a woman's only way outta poverty is through prostitution. It's dumb. If you decide to be a prostitute, do so knowing fully well you have other options no matter how hard they were... Don't create a thread later on offering excuses, blaming others.
■Poverty affects men most, in Nigeria. A woman has the option of depending on her family and partner, it's not the same for them. They literally have to hustle not only for themselves but their present (parents, siblings, etc) and future families (wives and children), and most are still students.
■I'm a feminist. And prostitution is a job, I believe so... But if you choose to do it, take responsibility. Even if the trade is slow or exhausting, it's still an option. One you refused to take for whatever reason.

1. None of those women believe that all they can offer is their body. As a matter of fact, many of them go on to do other things in life.

2. Prostitution is a means to an end.

3. It is a job and people take whatever job is available to them when what they would prefer is not available to them. With poverty rates higher than 90% as it is today, expect that more and more women will have not much else to do but to choose prostitution or marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme.

Queendera:
Please be calming down eh.

Are you one?

If selling ur pussy is all u can come up with to survive then by all means SELL IT! And when the past comes knocking for it will come... Be ready to face the consequences of ur decisions 😁

So this smally na okpo too 😏

Kobojunkie:
1. None of these women believe that all they can offer is their body. As a matter of fact, many of them go on to do other things in life.

2. Prostitution is a means to an end.

3. It is a job and people take whatever job is available to them when what they would prefer is not available to them. With poverty rates higher than 90% as it is today, expect that more and more women will have not much else to do but to choose prostitution or marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme.

There is no justification for her choosing to sell her body which will definitely become worthless to the unfortunate man who will wife her.. there are a zillion opportunities and means to make money be it legal or illegal (if u want to go that way) prostitution is not one of them except for those who can't task their minds to greater things other than to spread legs and assume different positions for different strangers to plough... It's shameful that in this age a lady still thinks selling her pussy is her only way out

Killbillz:
■ There is no justification for her choosing to sell her body which will definitely become worthless to the unfortunate man who will wife her..
■ there are a zillion opportunities and means to make money be it legal or illegal (if u want to go that way) prostitution is not one of them except for those who can't task their minds to greater things other than to spread legs and assume different positions for different strangers to plough...
■ It's shameful that in this age a lady still thinks selling her pussy is her only way out

1. The worth of her body is her business and not yours to decide or delegate upon.

2. A zillion opportunities and means yet the unofficial unemployment rate in Nigeria remains as high as 30% — as high as 50% among the youths— for more than a decade now. Why aren't the many unemployed youths who at least have a degree taking advantage of the zillions of opportunities you are quick to mouth off about?

3. In a country where over 90% of the people exist below the poverty line, it is expected that many will resort to any means available, including prostitution, to try to survive or fight to pull themselves up from under the curse of poverty. That is common knowledge.

Junkie for a reason.

Preshieben:
https://www.nairaland.com/1839798/campus-prostitution-growing-concern-nigeria

Good afternoon.. I know most of y'all have seen and commented on this thread plus this particular thread is not getting the views and facts it should... mostly bashers plus it's an old thread

I have seen most comments blaming the men for prostitution and I think it's an actual fact., I mean that's true to some extent.

Meanwhile, I think girls from poor home should be allowed to do whatever they want to do to survive while in campus without condemning them.. I'll have to explain this..
While in school, I've seen poor religious and decent girls drop out of school just because they don't want to get involved in it and I have also seen girls with numerous sugar daddies graduate with flying colors and even working through connections they got from those men.

I think prostitution is really bad when you have the vital things to survive and you're into it because you want to slay or when you have a supportive parent that are capable, but you're not satisfied with what they provide for you.

As a girl from a poor home, I knew what I passed through in school till I decided to have sugar daddies after 4 failed attempts of starting a petty businesses, things became alot easier ... Currently, I'm doing so fine and earning money on my own without sugar daddies..

Please leave these girls alone, times are hard so Is life

Useless whooooree, justifying crap.

Kobojunkie:
1. What you have is a result of the high poverty rate in the country. And the problem is bound to continue to get worse until people begin to change their behavior en masse, and I am not talking of those patronizing prostitutes at this point but those propagating the curse of poverty by breeding like rats when they can't afford to be doing so. The reason poverty is at 90% and rising, is not because of the prostitutes, but because Nigerians are breeding like rats when they shouldn't and that is what feeds into such industries as prostitution, etc.

The reasons you gave for poverty in the land is so wrong that it is best describe as illiteracy inspired defination

Cazzim:


well I don't blame u Sha, at least u where doing it for a purpose, and after you archive your arms you quit, I pray you have a good husband or boyfriend

Is selling her body the only way to achieve her purpose?

You even wished her a good husband. A good husband deserves a good wife not a half eaten harlot that took a break from prostitution.

Can you wish your son a runz girl as a wife?

Eagba:
■ The reasons you gave for poverty in the land is so wrong that it is best describe as illiteracy inspired defination

1. What reasons did I give for poverty? Be specific here so I understand where on the line you are coming from.

Kobojunkie:
1. None of these women believe that all they can offer is their body. As a matter of fact, many of them go on to do other things in life.

2. Prostitution is a means to an end.

3. It is a job and people take whatever job is available to them when what they would prefer is not available to them. With poverty rates higher than 90% as it is today, expect that more and more women will have not much else to do but to choose prostitution or marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme.

Please don't blame a poor boy that goes into armed robbery because of poverty. With this your rada rada.