https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_JXgQnXypYE

25 WRONG mindsets singles have about sex - Kingsley Okonkwo

1) Sex is dirty

2) Sex is just for procreation & not for pleasure (Proverbs 5:15)

3) We will have great sex automatically because we love each other

4) Nobody is having great sex

5) Sex is not that important

6) It's only loose men & women that have sexual fantasies

7) Letting loose on the sexual bed makes me a prostitute

8. ) Only men should initiate sex

9) My spouse must agree to have sex with me whenever I want to

10) I can deny my partner sex for as long as I want

11) I can't have sex when I'm fasting

12) Women don't enjoy or shouldn't enjoy sex

13) MouthAction is a sin

14) Only missionary style is the authorized biblical sex style

15) We should not talk about sex (singles should minimize this though in order not to get worked up towards temptation)

16) Sex with one partner will become boring

17) Talking or making sounds during sex is bad

18) Big is better (bigger body parts)

19) Sex has to be painful

20) Watching pornography will help sex

21) Sex is just a physical act

22) It's not yet cheating if there's no sexual penetration

23) You need to find someone you're sexually compatible with

24) if you're a virgin you will automatically have a great marriage

25) Sex is everything and all there is to marriage and life

i beg to differ...

anointedlinks:
10) I can deny my partner sex for as long as I want

although that r/ship wouldnt last, a person CAN deny their partner sex for as long as they desire.

18) Big is better (bigger body parts)

for many people, yes it is.... somebody is indeed fantasizing about these baby whales out there.

23) You need to find someone you're sexually compatible with

YES o... unless you want to remain sexually miserable for the rest of your natural life.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1smbh0zfdj4

Part 2 (video version)

MrBrownJay1:
i beg to differ...



although that r/ship wouldnt last, a person CAN deny their partner sex for as long as they desire.



for many people, yes it is.... somebody is indeed fantasizing about these baby whales out there.



YES o... unless you want to remain sexually miserable for the rest of your natural life.

Watching the video will make you see that the mindsets listed in the OP are wrong not correct

Which of these wrong mindsets above are you struggling with?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rq4u5VeBIYo
Part 3 (video version)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxS13-Yv-64

Part 4 (video version)