EastAlchemist:
I see people say it’s okay for men to cry
That is full BS
It’s okay to want to cry but no try am
The men in titanic were scared but wouldn’t show it till they froze to death
That’s masculinity
You no be woman my guy
Keep your emotions inside

MrBrownJay1:


there is nothing wrong with a man crying... it is a normal emotional state. people who say that men dont cry are ignorant. crying is a relief and so long as you get back on your feet afterwards, no big deal!

here is a simple clue:
- if one of your parent/siblings die, its ok to cry....

MrBrownJay1:


there is nothing wrong with a man crying... it is a normal emotional state. people who say that men dont cry are ignorant. crying is a relief and so long as you get back on your feet afterwards, no big deal!

here is a simple clue:
- if one of your parent/siblings die, its ok to cry....

EastAlchemist:
Go home and cry if you need to

MrBrownJay1:


- so you think some men have time to go home before crying?!?!?!
- so you believe that men going to hide before crying, is the solution?
- what is so wrong with a man crying because someone in his family died?!
- who is gonna make fun of you because you cried after learning of a family loss?
- what kind of yeye person would use that against you?!?

EastAlchemist:

Guy you dey think like woman
If as a man I’m crying up and down what do I expect the rest of the people around to do..die?
It’s okay to want to cry but no Dey show emotions on the outside
You’re the head show strength
If you must cry let it be when you’re alone
Not to be used against you by anyone
But you take up your masculine roles by being everybody’s strength and hope even when there is none

MrBrownJay1:


so because a man thinks its ok to cry after having a loss in their lives, he automatically thinks like a woman?! there is NOTHING WRONG with showing emotions in the face of death. we are all human, why would you want to pretend that you have no emotions? is that so wrong to cry because your family member (or someone you were close to) died? what kind of yeye people you have in your life that would use that against you to belittle or make fun of you? who would even want to be with such evil person?

no wonder so many African/Nigerian men are fukced up in their head, stressed out of life etc
no wonder so many kids today are fukced up when so many ill parents raise them in such a foul way.

i am very real to my kids or to my woman, i certainly wont pretend to be superman when i am only HUMAN. all you people pretending to be super human are doing a disservice to family/humanity.

- whats the point of having a wife if you cant tell her when you are down (and look for her to lift your spirit up)?
- whats the point of having a wife if you cant even share your true emotions with her?
- whats the point of being in a family if your worries cant be shared with your significant other?
... you are just an emotional mess waiting to explode

EastAlchemist:

Women don’t want equal rights
They’ want to rule over you
Stop being weak bro!
Look up and see

MrBrownJay1:


so because you would cry in front of your family (if your parents/siblings die), that means your woman will rule over you?!?!?!? BWAAAAAAAAH what wont we read on NL.

EastAlchemist:

That was your point not mine
Take your masculinity back
Like right now
Leave later for soludo

EastAlchemist:
I see people say it’s okay for men to cry
That is full BS
It’s okay to want to cry but no try am
The men in titanic were scared but wouldn’t show it till they froze to death
That’s masculinity
You no be woman my guy
Keep your emotions inside

Autobot05:


It's good to let out the emotions sometimes ... but not everytime

MrBrownJay1:


what the hell are you talking about? i am telling you that there is nothing wrong with crying in front of people (especially when facing death of parents/family) and you are the one claiming that its wrong, and then bringing women to this issue (as if this has anything to do with women).
are you ok?

EastAlchemist:
Weak man

Freo:


It doesn't matter weather you cry or not.
Whatever is meant to happen will eventually happen anyways, your emotional state doesn't really matter.

MrBrownJay1:


if a man crying in front of his family (because his parents/siblings died) is a weak man in your world, then continue being an imaginary strong men (who go hide to cry). you people are making natural things UNNATURAL because of your misplaced ego.

here is a simple clue: if your woman is making fun of you because you cried when your parents/siblings died, then the problem is not this woman. the problem is YOU, the yeye man who is gladly married to that foolish evil inconsiderate woman!

MrBrownJay1:


so because a man thinks its ok to cry after having a loss in their lives, he automatically thinks like a woman?! there is NOTHING WRONG with showing emotions in the face of death. we are all human, why would you want to pretend that you have no emotions? is that so wrong to cry because your family member (or someone you were close to) died? what kind of yeye people you have in your life that would use that against you to belittle or make fun of you? who would even want to be with such evil person?

no wonder so many African/Nigerian men are fukced up in their head, stressed out of life etc
no wonder so many kids today are fukced up when so many ill parents raise them in such a foul way.

i am very real to my kids or to my woman, i certainly wont pretend to be superman when i am only HUMAN. all you people pretending to be super human are doing a disservice to family/humanity.

- whats the point of having a wife if you cant tell her when you are down (and look for her to lift your spirit up)?
- whats the point of having a wife if you cant even share your true emotions with her?
- whats the point of being in a family if your worries cant be shared with your significant other?
... you are just an emotional mess waiting to explode

Freo:
All he's tryna tell you is; Every Man should be strong, not like you wouldn't cry, but there's a way you'll cry after losing a family member or someone very special to you, tears will drop slowly without anyone even noticing that you're crying, well that kind of cry shouldn't last long. You might even decide to hold strong in the means of people and save that kind of cry for later, a soft cry i would call it.

Moreover, this brings back what i said earlier; A Man realises that crying doesn't bring the dead back also most importantly it doesn't alter anything that is meant to happen or reverse what has happened.