In a few months time I am gonna be 19 . I am already afraid as I thought by now I will be already catering for myself but my parents are still feeding and it is making me depressed. I am presently preparing for the upcoming JAMB examination and depression isn't making me able to concentrate. I am just all by myself. Please I need help, I am the second child of my parents.

Davizee:
In a few months time I am gonna be 19 . I am already afraid as I thought by now I will be already catering for myself but my parents are still feeding and it is making me depressed. I am presently preparing for the upcoming JAMB examination and depression isn't making me able to concentrate. I am just all by myself. Please I need help, I am the second child of my parents.

You are 19, and you never enter higher institution, you are still talking about independency, and you are depressed at your age
The way devil dey play with some people mind eh,
A teenager for that matter
You better go and eat your mummy food with joy

Powerbando:


You are 19, and you never enter higher institution, you are still talking about independency, and you are depressed at your age
The way devil dey play with some people mind eh,
A teenager for that matter
You better go and eat your mummy food with joy

It's not that,of recent I was having a convo with two guys and they were putting fear on me that at this age my parents shouldn't be feeding and they were also saying that life ahead is very hard that the only way is struggling

Davizee:

It's not that,of recent I was having a convo with two guys and they were putting fear on me that at this age my parents shouldn't be feeding and they were also saying that life ahead is very hard that the only way is struggling

Am 22+ but i'm still saying "tanku ma"

Davizee:

It's not that,of recent I was having a convo with two guys and they were putting fear on me that at this age my parents shouldn't be feeding and they were also saying that life ahead is very hard that the only way is struggling

So peer pressure is making you depressed. Lol, you need to work on yourself.

Nia69:
So peer pressure is making you depressed. Lol, you need to work on yourself.

madam park well

Nia69:
So peer pressure is making you depressed. Lol, you need to work on yourself.

I don't know what to do

Don't be afraid boy, the only thing you need is to stay clear off those gender, you will be fine...

Davizee:
In a few months time I am gonna be 19 . I am already afraid as I thought by now I will be already catering for myself but my parents are still feeding and it is making me depressed. I am presently preparing for the upcoming JAMB examination and depression isn't making me able to concentrate. I am just all by myself. Please I need help, I am the second child of my parents.

welcome to adulthood, some of us had expectations like you but life brought us down to reality

Davizee:

It's not that,of recent I was having a convo with two guys and they were putting fear on me that at this age my parents shouldn't be feeding and they were also saying that life ahead is very hard that the only way is struggling

Can you see what I am saying, agent of devil giving you advice, you sef dey ginger there rubbish
He sure me die, those people giving you advice still dey struggle,
Get your shit together all by yourself or take advice from already made people, though they may not have your time

My friends said same to me in 100 level at 16.
I started feeding myself at 19.

Sha no do yahoo

Davizee:
■ In a few months time I am gonna be 19 . I am already afraid as I thought by now I will be already catering for myself but my parents are still feeding and it is making me depressed. I am presently preparing for the upcoming JAMB examination and depression isn't making me able to concentrate. I am just all by myself. Please I need help, I am the second child of my parents.

1. Why is a 19-year-old who is not even in college worried about being independent at this age in a country like Nigeria? No be brain-damage be that?

You need to realize that you will likely have to be under your parent's roof and care for until you are many be almost 30 years of age. I don't know where you are rushing to when you are not even a Russian.

MaDaRa01:

Am 22+ but i'm still saying "tanku ma"

It depends on the financial status of your family
Like mine we are still struggling to survive and I don't want them to struggle

Albertone:
My friends said same to me in 100 level at 16.
I started feeding myself at 19.

Sha no do yahoo

Show me the way please

Kobojunkie:
1. Why is a 19-year-old who is not even in college worried about being independent at this age in a country like Nigeria? No be brain-damage be that?

You need to realize that you will likely have to be under your parent's roof and care for until you are many be almost 30 years of age. I don't know where you are rushing to when you are not even a Russian.

I don't want to stay with my parents again so that they don't call me a liability

Wawelexy:
Don't be afraid boy, the only thing you need is to stay clear off those gender, you will be fine...

I don't like girls at all

OP, You have ur JAMB to Write

And

You are so Addicted to Nairaland and Busy creating different Threads, Abi?

When you go Sidon House FOR 5YRS, according to my Warri Pple, your Mind go Dey. 😏

Davizee:

I don't know what to do

Don't rush yourself. Those your friends putting pressure on you keep your distance from them. Nigeria isn't like the developed countries where kids from 18 can survive without their parents help. Practice self development it helps.

Davizee:
■ I don't want to stay with my parents again so that they don't call me a liability

1. I don't follow at all.
Why would any rational individual call you, a child who is yet barely an adult, a liability in his own parent's home? More importantly, why do you seem to care so much about what others have to say of you?

If you no begin to use your head for yourself at this age, people dey out there plenty wey go use am against you. Stop listening to foolish nonsense and sit your arse down to study and grow up right where you are. Even people wey dey for America, for south korea, etc. dey siddon for home until almost 30-years of age. Na you wey dey Nigeria — poverty capital of the world — go come be a liability for him own parent house? What nonsense is that?

Powerbando:


Can you see what I am saying, agent of devil giving you advice, you sef dey ginger there rubbish
He sure me die, those people giving you advice still dey struggle,
Get your shit together all by yourself or take advice from already made people, though they may not have your time

I am looking for a mentor or an advisor but I gat none

Powerbando:


You are 19, and you never enter higher institution, you are still talking about independency, and you are depressed at your age
The way devil dey play with some people mind eh,
A teenager for that matter
You better go and eat your mummy food with joy

E shock me too
Wonders
When Teenager don dey think like this, wetin a 30 years old jobless adult go do?

Na Nigeria you dey O.A 40yrs old man still dey live with him parents.If you inherit your father's property and dey feed from the investment,you still dey under your parents until you work for your own.

VinnyBaba:


OP, You have ur JAMB to Write

And

You are so Addicted to Nairaland and Busy creating different Threads, Abi?

When you go Sidon House FOR 5YRS, according to my Warri Pple, your Mind go Dey. 😏

What do you want me to do
I have been studying from 9 am to 7 pm
I am not addicted to nairaland

As you school ... learn a skill probably in tech
Give yourself time .
Why many of our youths are jumping into fraud is because they want to make it quick which is foolish in the end . I once read somewhere that " Wealth is built not gotten " . Avoid peer pressure too bro .

Wawelexy:
Don't be afraid boy, the only thing you need is to stay clear off those gender, you will be fine...

The only people he should stay clear off is his gender like you if not, he will become a c°ward.

Davizee, you are still young, hold your parents tight till they let go, don't allow your yahoo friends to influence you in a bad way. Focus on your studies and get good skills while waiting for admission. Nothing dey outside

Davizee:

I am looking for a mentor or an advisor but I gat none

u will not succeed

Davizee:

Show me the way please

Learn any skill and monetize it.

Graphics design
Copywriting
Digital marketing
Web development
Electrical installation
Phone repairs
etc

Once you've gathered money, you can learn crypto.

Davizee, right after your JAMB this year please endeavor to get a book on logical/critical reasoning/thinking so you can grow your mind and as such become able to logically analyze your decisions, and the world around you, including your relationships for yourself. I recommend the book Being Logical. However, any other text that sufficiently teaches you how to critically reason day-to-day issues out will work too. The key is to put into regular(continuous) practice what you learn so you become a more logical being than you are today.

HellVictorinho7:
u will not succeed

Why

Albertone:


Learn any skill and monetize it.

Graphics design
Copywriting
Digital marketing
Web development
Electrical installation
Phone repairs
etc

Once you've gathered money, you can learn crypto.

it will not work 4 him.

HellVictorinho7:
it will not work 4 him.

Why the curse?

Davizee:

I am looking for a mentor or an advisor but I gat none

Work on your self, you go see along the lines