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AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Zeal0000007(m): 1:45pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
I and my gal are planning settling down despite genotype not matching , she's AS same with me, but because of medical technological advancements, we visited a specialist who told us that we can still marry if we so desired to be together. Just that If we can afford the cost of going for foetus testing whenever she's pregnant so as to ascertain the genotype of the child. According to him if the test is conducted and it turns out to be AA or AS, we can keep it, but if it's SS we determate, I have spoken to my gal and we are yet a decide despite this seeming goodnews that we can still be together if we choose to, she really wanted us together same with me. On my part, I have been in terrible and toxic relationship for the past 4years that almost claimed my life but God served from her. And this my current gal came along and she's exactly what I prayed God for, she's really like a gift to me, since she came I have had peace of mind I don't want to loose her because of genotype but thank God for this technically medical advancement , please I want to know if anyone have undergone this treatment before , what's your experience or experiences 21 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Divoc19(f): 1:49pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Every child has the right to life. Foetus testing is good. I know of one. I'll advise you open a special account in that regard now so that you won't make any bloody mistake. Good luck 53 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by advanceDNA: 1:52pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:U want somebody's daughter to be doing abortions till u randomly get AA or AS... is okay ooooo.... if its ur sister or daughter..i know u wont support it make una just do anyhow for this country 201 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by GOFRONT(m): 1:59pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Hmmm......Genotype mismatch be dealing with some partners since time immemorial.... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by dawnomike(m): 2:14pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:Pls no matter the love, for the sake of the love you'll have for your unborn kids.... Do not try it!!! 130 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by hakeemhakeem(m): 3:49pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Hope you wouldn't not start complaint in future cos this act will not allow you to plans for better things 18 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by frozen70(f): 1:22am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: You should have asked the Doctor the possible cost of such procedure that's where you would have started with Then you can compare it with your income Alternatively, you guys will can adopt a child pending when you can afford the cost of that medical procedure including all expenses and drugs Meanwhile enjoy your relationship till you find your way out 52 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by akube34: 4:49am On Apr 02, 2023 |
dawnomike:did u read what he said? He isn’t not planning to birth as kids. He is taking the necessary precaution to avoid what you r thinking 25 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Zeal0000007(m): 5:11am On Apr 02, 2023 |
frozen70:well spoken but with a good pay one can sustain it. If u target 3 to 4 kids when ever she's pregnant u go for it , I feel I can do it, my woman has brought peace of mind to me ever I met her after terrible 7yrs in my previous toxic relationship, I see my new gal as a God sent exactly what any man could look for in a woman. Though the money is not yet there , I'm in early stage of my career no money yet, but I know it will come. I don't want to loose this gal she's a peace of mind, first time I'm feeling loved in a very long while . 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Zeal0000007(m): 5:14am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Divoc19:thanks my dear for your advice 4 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by dawnomike(m): 7:42am On Apr 02, 2023 |
akube34:In Nigeria, hospitals sometimes get one's genotype wrong, how much more that of a foetus? Aside from the above, imagine the case of the 1st been SS ad got terminated, the second one also SS and terminated... Try to comprehend such trauma 69 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by frozen70(f): 8:13am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: For the fact that you are satisfied staying with her for the rest of your life Pls follow your heart so that you will be satisfied for thr choice you made In the issue of child bearing, you musnt go up to 4 children unless you love children So now you are aware of the medical procedure that awaits you any time she is pregnant, Start saving towards that from now and carry her along so that she too will contribute what she can 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Zeal0000007(m): 9:28am On Apr 02, 2023 |
frozen70:thanks dear for your encouragement, I'm currently chasing my license hoping to get it before the year runs out, as soon as I do that there will be inflow of cash. She at the other end is a 18yrs gal, but thinks and behave like a 30yrs old woman very mature , humble and homy knowing what to do at all time, u might even doubt her age because of her maturity. she has really been a piece of mind to me, I really suffer in my previous relationship. Also for career , she has been learning chemist before she had misunderstanding with the woman she was staying with so had to relocate to my area where I met her at the market, so I have made an arrangements with a family friend so she could go over there and continue building herself in chemist , as soon as I'm balanced I intend setting up somewhere for her (chemist), that will be after our marriage. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by akube34: 10:07am On Apr 02, 2023 |
dawnomike:but prenatal testing isn’t the only option. Haven’t you heard of pgd? See, medicine done advance oooooo. Just make your research. If you have money, all dis As tin no go affect u. Na the poor e Dey affect. 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by frozen70(f): 11:54am On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: You have a good plan for her, your marriage and your future God will approve them for you 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by GeneralPulal: 3:28pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
It’s very risky.. Just think it well cuz only you would wear the shoe for life.. 2 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by PixelPlexus: 3:28pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Ok You are seeing fire, you have been warned but you have a believe in fire fighters, why dont you totally let go of the fire by preventing it. Deep inside me, am not convinced if the lady will buy the idea of fetus genotyping and I hope you are away that feotal geotype detection can be a pain in the thorn let alone the results, so think about that. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Egoat(m): 3:29pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
E be like say una dey mad? Why not avoid these needless stories and abortions by just leaving each other? Which business two AS get together? 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Yourprick: 3:29pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
U better don't take any useless risk...leave your babe and look for AA 5 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Wawelexy(m): 3:29pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Do you have the financial capability? If not... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by heykims(m): 3:29pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Mr op and his girlfriend, there is no good news in the counselling u got. Did he also tell u that it is a criminal offence for a medical personnel to purposefully terminate a pregnancy on the mere ground that the genotype of fetus is SS? Moreso, all this love love go clear for your eyes if u get to have just one SS child, u will regret it, this is not a curse. Moreso, do u realise u are about making a decision to incur burden on an innocent soul because the pain and rigor that seeming avoidable SS child will go through is because of u? U might spend the money, time but won't be the one to feel the recurring pain and disability that could span a lifetime. Have a rethink op. A word is enough for the wise. Note - I'm a doctor working in Haematology department and my job is to manage sickle cell disease patients. 80 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ChisomGloria(f): 3:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Please don't add foreseen problem into your life. 5 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Thegamingorca(m): 3:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
You better leave that girl and go and find someone else. If you be person wey get sense and wey no like wahala 8 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by ATEAMS: 3:30pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Alright |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Reelmii: 3:31pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by money121(m): 3:31pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Okiton: 3:31pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
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Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by lebron7(m): 3:31pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:Wonderful career path If I was in your shoes I'd marry her 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Reelmii: 3:32pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
Egoat:guy be calming down na😂 |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by sehin79(m): 3:32pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
marry her and simply adopt children.... and you are forever with the love of your life. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Thegamingorca(m): 3:32pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
dawnomike: You are speaking to a cold hearted murderer under the guise of love 7 Likes |
Re: AS Genotype Couples, Please I Need Your Advise by Zico5(m): 3:33pm On Apr 02, 2023 |
I have been married for Ten years now and I think I can advise u on this genotype issue. I have seen many thread on issue of genotype in which people are giving out advice here. I just looked on cos I have nothing to contribute. My wife and I are AS. Though we did not lie about it to our families but the resistance was too much from her own family. We weigh a lot of issues that are bigger than genotype, like what of if I marry another person and she couldn't conceive and many others like that. But what really helped us is that we had great convictions in the relationship and I have peace being around her. We have two kids so far and they are both AA, Female and male. If u love the woman very well and u are ok with her character, I beg u go ahead. Don't try to please anyone. If u have the money to do pre-testing and Ur wife is in agreement kindly go ahead. Few good women are outside there and the rate of divorce is alarming. May God almighty guide Ur step. 45 Likes 6 Shares |
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