colonelwealth:



Pls explain to us sir your experiences.

You know when take your kids to school you can chat with other parents but here everybody is so passive aggressive, no warmth. Also, people see black people as threat, you have to always prove yourself.

jesmond3945:

You know when take your kids to school you can chat with other parents but here everybody is so passive aggressive, no warmth. Also, people see black people as threat, you have to always prove yourself.

Ok, I guess you are talking about the American society here sir

ednut1:
there are men abroad who want to marry a fellow Nigerian, but cant doesn’t meet their standards. Should he keep begging for their acceptance Or help himself by going to Nigeria 🤣.
Not all women you bring from Nigeria will change.
The average established 9ja babe abroad is going on 3-4 vacations a year. Spain today, Cancun tommorow, indonesia next week, some don’t cook, some don’t want kids, some are looking for 6 figures men, some looking for their tribes person etc. how are men supposed to cope with all that. His only choice might be Amaka who earns 100k a month in Nigeria or is even jobless 😜

Never would I have expected Nigerian-born women who later relocated to decide to be child-free. Things dey happen o

_{But sha, comot raising children within a two-parent household, many people no go marry o}

tensazangetsu20:


Abeg can you link me up. Me too I want to marry an American I don't care if she weighs 800 pounds

Be careful what you wish for Tensa.

tensazangetsu20:


Abeg can you link me up. Me too I want to marry an American I don't care if she weighs 800 pounds

Abeg, put me for queue

Gerrard59:


Never would I have expected Nigerian-born women who later relocated to decide to be child-free. Things dey happen o

_{But sha, comot raising children within a two-parent household, many people no go marry o}

there are women in Nigeria also saying this. Naso he take start for western world and japan

Moving to Italy via tourist visa to go hustle.
Naija don tire person.

Please advise is needed on how to survive there with such visa. Don't tell me it's not possible, I have stories of many men till today who migrated through this route and are surviving.
A kind fellow in any of the Schengen country should show me way abeg.

the title tho'

We no Wan japa!

MrBrownJay1:
- Nigerians are some of the smartest and equally most evil person you could meet around the world...one minute you can meet someone who has built great businesses abroad (from scratch) and the next minute meet someone who will willingly defraud someone out of their life saving (to the point that they will commit suicide) in a heartbeat!
- Nigerians can LITERALLY be found in every country of the globe.
- many inexperienced people really do believe that the minute you go abroad, you will start making millions miraculously.
- so many people do believe there are more life/work opportunities in the US/UK/Canada for Nigerians, but i beg to differ....
- although some are ready to kill to leave Nigeria, some are equally ready to kill to go back to Nigeria on holiday pretending they have made it in the west
- people today still go back to the village in Nigeria to find a wife to bring to the west, thinking that this woman ISNT GONNA CHANGE INTO A WESTERN WOMAN (the minute she reaches the west), lol! if you want a village woman, then keep that woman in the village o.
- some people have bought houses etc in the west by cleaning dishes and toilets. not all these menial jobs are as bad as people thing...

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Okay

Okay

I will soon Japa..

So I'm commenting

Ijoba85:
Stay for naija and hustle . Money dey naija

Money dey naija bro, but sanity no dey.

Hoping to relocate soon. but at the moment, we still grinding

Here to read comments

MrBrownJay1:
- Nigerians are some of the smartest and equally most evil person you could meet around the world...one minute you can meet someone who has built great businesses abroad (from scratch) and the next minute meet someone who will willingly defraud someone out of their life saving (to the point that they will commit suicide) in a heartbeat!
- Nigerians can LITERALLY be found in every country of the globe.
- many inexperienced people really do believe that the minute you go abroad, you will start making millions miraculously.
- so many people do believe there are more life/work opportunities in the US/UK/Canada for Nigerians, but i beg to differ....
- although some are ready to kill to leave Nigeria, some are equally ready to kill to go back to Nigeria on holiday pretending they have made it in the west
- people today still go back to the village in Nigeria to find a wife to bring to the west, thinking that this woman ISNT GONNA CHANGE INTO A WESTERN WOMAN (the minute she reaches the west), lol! if you want a village woman, then keep that woman in the village o.
- some people have bought houses etc in the west by cleaning dishes and toilets. not all these menial jobs are as bad as people thing...

You v said it all

EastAlchemist:

Experience Keh
Where my papa sabi

Yeye! 😄

Japa needs money to enter better country but as it is now, if I notice for any reason Tinubu go Bleep up, na to run enter any Arabian or African country where visa easy to secure.

All Japa na Japa!

As usual una don turn the thread to woman matter.
You want Amaka from the village to change because you took her to America.
But you the he-goat, has refused to change your misogynistic ways?

You no dey learn from your oyinbo counterparts??you don't unlearn to learn
Monkey!
You will loose your fortune and be chased out of your damn house.
Continue in your tomfoolery!

Why Amaka? Why not your mother!?

Mtcheww!! Its 2023! Women are traveling the world with their own money..
Gen X be sleeping on a bicycle.

Without money you can’t Japa

To be sincerely honest in my humble opinion without being sentimental of course without offending anyone who think differently from my point of view and without hiding any thoughts in my mind and without lie, to the actual truth with my clearity open minded and clean heart, expressing what ever embedded inside me for a long time which I did say just because I was nervous. But today, by gathering all the courage and motivation, I just want to say that I actually feel and think that I have no opinion concerning this

MrBrownJay1:


i am born and bred in France so pretty much traveled all over Europe (Spain Belgium, Italy, Holland, Poland Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Ukraine, Russia Sweden finland etc) ... but i have actually lived in the UK, Norway, Denmark, Poland, Czech republic, Switzerland, China, Japan, Australia, Argentina, Brazil, Colombia... and of course, as you live in these places, you travel to neighboring countries to visit.

...and again, in any of these countries, i can tell you a story (whether good or bad) about Nigerians

My bro,can you give me link to either Switzerland, Australia or any other,i want to japa

Who get working link to Canada abeg

There and back on time

studyless123:


This is not a woman thing. Men and women change. There have been a lot of men who were brought by their wives/girlfriends and they changed.
It is natural for people to change. As we go through life, we have experiences that shape our beliefs, values, and perspectives. These experiences can lead to changes in our personalities, goals, and attitudes. In fact, change is a constant part of life and can often be positive as we grow and learn from our experiences. It is important to embrace change and see it as an opportunity for personal growth and development.
Why on earth should a man beat a woman, that's a barbaric attitude and the man rightly deserves jail.

Your last statement is you rather being sanctimonious.

The same way you said it is the same way some cultures think why on earth shouldn't a man beat a woman.

I am not supporting Men beating Women, but rather saying it's based on people's values and upbringing the way a Man would perceive laying hands on a Woman.

Who cares. Find one Asian marry and get peace of mind

Stay for naija and hustle . Money dey naija