IyaebeTheGreat:
As soon as he's ok to feed multiple people. Any financially capable man above 30 and still single(unmarried) is simply irresponsible, no explanation whatsoever about that.

Any lady above 25 not married, what do you call them?

4ward4:
Best age to becoming a father should be 25, provided you are able to shoulder basic responsibilities. Unfortunately the environment we find ourselves doesn't favor such.. it is assumed at 35yrs your kid will be 10yrs and you grow spontaneously.
At 50yrs ,your child should be 25yrs and you should be able to direct him properly in your business,trade or he is even a master degree holder.
Even if you are Called by God at that age, you are certain your son is now a man.
Procreation is basically the primary aim of Getting
married and provided you aren't going into Priesthood, why Technically shift what must be Done and bringing yourself to a disadvantage.

thank you. meanwhile some students in federal uni are clocking 25 while still in final year all because of strike.

for making this notable comment, send your aza let me bless it. today is my birthday.

MasterJayJay:




You guys are funny.

Who told you early marriage is automatic early childbirth. Some married early and had their first baby after 15 years and above.

Some gave birth early only to die a year after, will the dead send the baby to school?

When ever you plan, take away ill lucks from your Side. You can't just be living in negativity.

peanutbutterr:



thank you. meanwhile some students in federal uni are clocking 25 while still in final year all because of strike.

for making this notable comment, send your aza let me bless it. today is my birthday.

Hahaha, Meanwhile some people have gotten a Master already at that age.
Happy Birthday to you and many more Wishes, I will like you give my money to the street beggers. Just my wish and thank you.

It's all about finance, the the major factor holding men back!!!

IyaebeTheGreat:
It sounds archaic because it doesn't justify irresponsibility, that money you spend in clubs and on prostitutes can give you a meaningful life. Think well

So without marriage, one can't have a meaningful life? When 60 percent of married folks are living in denial and not getting it together.

After having a sky diving experience

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You guys are funny.

Who told you early marriage is automatic early childbirth. Some married early and had their first baby after 15 years and above.

Some gave birth early only to die a year after, will the dead send the baby to school?[/quote
]
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MasterJayJay:


You guys are funny.

Who told you early marriage is automatic early childbirth. Some married early and had their first baby after 15 years and above.

Some gave birth early only to die a year after, will the dead send the baby to school?

I think you’d agree that those groups are in the minority not majority. Plus you could also add those groups that wait to have kids due to career changes or wanting to build a capital together. Or how about those that had kids out of wedlock and then got married or those that don’t want to have kids but want to adopt.
Despite all the above , ON AVERAGE couples usually start having kids within 2/3 years of marriage.

Kids are very expensive o . Wait until you have stable source of income to avoid suffering innocent children.

rickleye:


I think you’d agree that those groups are in the minority not majority. Plus you could also add those groups that wait to have kids due to career changes or wanting to build a capital together. Or how about those that had kids out of wedlock and then got married or those that don’t want to have kids but want to adopt.
Despite all the above , ON AVERAGE couples usually start having kids within 2/3 years of marriage.

Point is everyone should marry when they are ready. There is more to life than marriage.

pls bro i really need the money.. let me drop on your behalf i pray you

4ward4:


Hahaha, Meanwhile some people have gotten a Master already at that age.
Happy Birthday to you and many more Wishes, I will like you give my money to the street beggers. Just my wish and thank you.

Bukola94:
wise saying, I wish I married earlier, the economy and the environment was not favourable then.Now we're here and what kept me going and working hard is my child and responsibilities. we are growing together gradually, we are not there yet, Al hamdu Lillah,we are progressing year in year out

after fùcking countless men in your youth, why will you marry early?

Happy birthday sir more years to celebrate on earth


God bless you sir

peanutbutterr:



thank you. meanwhile some students in federal uni are clocking 25 while still in final year all because of strike.

for making this notable comment, send your aza let me bless it. today is my birthday.

Oracleee:



So without marriage, one can't have a meaningful life? When 60 percent of married folks are living in denial and not getting it together.

What makes your life meaningful as a man without marriage? I want you to tell me

Prettygirl200:
It's all about finance, the the major factor holding men back!!!

will you marry me?

camri:
will you marry me?

Ewooo marry u ke? Can u marry a girl in her early twenties? Am not even ready but might if u have money. So do u have money?

MasterJayJay:


Point is everyone should marry when they are ready. There is more to life than marriage.

That is why I stated on my original comment.
There is no best age.

Life is not competition

Do the one u can do and leave the rest

As A Man

If na 38 years, u become stable to Cather for a family, then thats your best bet of starting a family

Don't start a family, when u are not yet financially capable, u will only end up regretting IT and u may die untimely

IyaebeTheGreat:
What makes your life meaningful as a man without marriage? I want you to tell me

Career, travelling round the world, networking, volunteering and contributing to a cause.

Raalsalghul:


Career, travelling round the world, networking, volunteering and contributing to a cause.

Do you feel truly fulfilled doing all of these without a family of your own? What’s your purpose of living?

IyaebeTheGreat:
Do you feel truly fulfilled doing all of these without a family of your own? What’s your purpose of living?

Depends on the individual.

Life isn't all about getting married and popping out kids.

Raalsalghul:


Depends on the individual.

Life isn't all about getting married and popping out kids.

But it’s a major part of our existence, what do you live for without a family? Having a family makes one live a purposeful and fulfilling life. No single person is truly happy without all these. Let’s stop deceiving ourselves

IyaebeTheGreat:
But it’s a major part of our existence, what do you live for without a family? Having a family makes one live a purposeful and fulfilling life. No single person is truly happy without all these. Let’s stop deceiving ourselves

How? Explain?

Raalsalghul:


How? Explain?

Well, normally we live to creat an impactful life, a purposeful life as well. How do you do these without a family? you have a stronghold on your family which is where those impact can be directly effective . You also live good footprints for your kids as well. We sometimes live in self denial, no true happiness without all these. Make we no deceive ourselves

IyaebeTheGreat:
[b]Well, normally we live to creat an impactful life, a purposeful life as well. How do you do these without a family?[/b]you have a stronghold on your family which is where those impact can be directly effective . You also live good footprints for your kids as well. We sometimes live in self denial, no true happiness without all these. Make we no deceive ourselves

It's on a case by case basis and how does creating a purposeful and impactful life correlates with getting married.

You can still impact the world and remain single. History is replete with such individuals.

Unless your meaning of purpose and being impactful has another meaning.

The only importance of marriage in my books is procreation via legal means and companionship.

All this talk about purpose via marriage is hogwash.😏

Raalsalghul:


It's on a case by case basis and how does creating a purposeful and impactful life correlates with getting married.

You can still impact the world and remain single. History is replete with such individuals.

Unless your meaning of purpose and being impactful has another meaning.

The only importance of marriage in my books is procreation via legal means and companionship.

All this talk about purpose via marriage is hogwash.😏

You can remain single forever if it makes you fulfilled smh

IyaebeTheGreat:
You can remain single forever if it makes you fulfilled smh

Come on Iyaebe, put up a better argument.

Are you going to chicken out. Then remove that "the great" from your moniker.

Raalsalghul:


Come on Iyaebe, put up a better argument.

Are you going to chicken out. Then remove that "the great" from your moniker.

What would you have me do when it’s clear you’ve made up your mind on living the rest of your life single? I wish you luck

IyaebeTheGreat:
What would you have me do when it’s clear you’ve made up your mind on living the rest of your life single? I wish you luck

But you don't know me neither I you.

Na banter you dey take personal like this.

😂😂😂

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