nabiz:
married for 9years when we hardly eat, and till date we have never had a problem that last more than 12 ours. We did not just married till life do us apart, our marriage is till life and eternity. 9 years of marriage without pastor, fried or family members to come and settle us. My wife is the woman any man can have. I have the most wonderful family a man can think of

ibechris:



Feel free to ask me questions and don't generalised pls.

Praisepriest:
No lie (1) have God (2) have money (3) have spiritual of forgiveness (4) have love within and without. (5) spend time with your family.(6) invest aggressively for future. Na where e cold women dey. Out.

lavylilly:
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lavylilly:
Couples with thriving marriages, please share your story. Do it for the people who have lost hope in having one

Kobojunkie:
You forgot to define "thriving marriage". I mean Osinachi's marriage was thriving until the point that it cost her her life. So, explain what you mean abeg so we understand what exactly you are asking us of.

lavylilly:
Share your own story.

Kobojunkie:
You tell me what you mean by thriving first then I can decide whether my case meets the criteria or not.

duduade:
Some men dey wey from before marriage Dem dey chop the wife money.... For the wife head she believes she's helping her husband to be o... That things will get better

By the time she realizes that its been her all along footing the bills children go don enter

Men should stop being Leaches

Do your own part... And believe me she will be willing and happy to help out when the chips are down ..

This is what my wife always says

Zonefree:
Any man under the age of 45 coming here to say he's enjoying a thriving marriage with his Nigerian wife is telling a big fat lie!

ibechris:
I totally disagree with u.

Don't use your situation to think others are passing through the same thing u are going through. In fact, the problem with most Nigerians is that,during courtships,most intending couples don't discuss matters that are of concern to their future.

They often don't prepare for the future and that is why,many are in dire need of financial and moral uplifting in their marriage.

In China,an average Chinese don't ever talk about marriage except they are able to acquire an apartment where he and his wife would live,but here in Nigeria,immediately a guy makes 5million naira he runs to marry and spend virtually all that he had acquired just to impress everyone.

That is why u see most marriage crashing on a daily basis.

Another reason is,most men marry liabilities and come back to regret ever making that mistake. I am not perfect,but I remembered asking my wife her financial role if we get married and what we would be investing our money into as time goes on. I also remembered,she once told me,that she would like me to take charge of whatever investment we shall be putting our money in since I was more versed in investment than her.

We discuss a lot that i can't say here.

Many intended couples invest so much time in preparing for wedding than preparing for marriage and the future ahead.

Lastly, before u prepare for marriage,sit down with ur wife to be,discuss money matters with her,don't marry a man or a woman who has no job,no hand work or education. If he or her parents are not rich,pls be careful. Some may be lucky while others may not be.

Note: many homes are enjoying their marriages and I am one of them,with this,i think I have made my points

Good luck.

silvoclaira:
hmmm there's a lot going on in marriages.



Money money money money money

lavylilly:
We do not want negativity na, share if you have got an experience