He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.

Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.

Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .

What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

You sound like an ungrateful girlfriend with an entitled mentality.

Stop being so entitled. I understand you might feel he could do more due to your family ties. Sorry to break it to you homie, nobody owes you anything. It’s a solo world. Hustle tight and upgrade your life too so you’d stop expecting anything from people, trust me that’s the biggest flex, been there…

Bloommax:
You sound like an ungrateful girlfriend with an entitled mentality.

I said my brother not boyfriend

Ok.

While I understand you want us to talk about your ingratitude in your folklore, it’s not really my business.

Most of you guys never even realise that abroad generally is very though. You think it's like nigeria where people don't pay bills and have access to cheap or ill-gotten money to throw around.

Person dey Peckham and you are expecting so much from him. If you don't know today that Peckham that he his is just like surulere, no major opportunities dey that area. Same Peckham way dem even dey sell amala and fried yam. Its dominated by Nigerian especially the yorubas

kyber:
He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.
Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.
Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .
What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

see UNGRATEFUL family members as if living in London was easy!
when you stop making financial plans on people's pocket, thats when you will live a better life. do you know how that brotha of yours even survives over there? do you know if he can afford anything more than that perfume? instead of you being grateful for the free gift, you are here complaining....i guess a perfume (he probably got for free) is all he could afford. living in Peckham, you are lucky he didnt send you a tuber of yam, lol!

kyber:
He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.

Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.

Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .

What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

You are entitled. Your father and mother are the only people that owes you a good life
apart from them, nobody else owes you anything. Know this and know peace.

intruder15:


You are entitled. Your father and mother are the only people that owes you a good life
apart from them, nobody else owes you anything. Know this and know peace.

Not even my brother?

Evolutionlove:


You this Wereeeey Povatea Sticken again😂

Retched fellow 😂

MrBrownJay1:


see UNGRATEFUL family members as if living in London was easy!
when you stop making financial plans on people's pocket, thats when you will live a better life. do you know how that brotha of yours even survives over there? do you know if he can afford anything more than that perfume? instead of you being grateful for the free gift, you are here complaining....i guess a perfume (he probably got for free) is all he could afford. living in Peckham, you are lucky he didnt send you a tuber of yam, lol!

If it Ain’t easy he should come back to Lagos Na 😂

maleekberry:
Most of you guys never even realise that abroad generally is very though. You think it's like nigeria where people don't pay bills and have access to cheap or ill-gotten money to throw around.

Person dey Peckham and you are expecting so much from him. If you don't know today that Peckham that he his is just like surulere, no major opportunities dey that area. Same Peckham way dem even dey sell amala and fried yam. Its dominated by Nigerian especially the yorubas

Omo that one be excuse abeg

Nobody owes you a damn thing, stop being so entitled else you will just end up a bitter soul.

kyber:
If it Ain’t easy he should come back to Lagos Na 😂

many want to go back home, but because of this same people (like yourself) who will be quick to demand for money when they return, they stay away. all these people who think that people abroad are swimming in money are the culprits!

kyber:


Not even my brother?

Not even your brother. Know this and sleep well at night.

Your brother hasn't found his footing

kyber:


I said my brother not boyfriend

I know, I can read and understand.

kyber:
He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.

Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.

Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .

What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

Nigeria ghetto for people without proper documents
No job just street life .

You think aboard life is easy especially if you are not educated and you have no intention to be me h you go suffer .

kyber:
He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.

Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.

Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .

What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

Dey play.

Do you know how he is suffering in UK?

Does he have papers?

I used to think one guy that visits Naija from UK was a big boy, until I was opportuned to visit UK, went shopping someday and saw him working as a shop security guard

kyber:
He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.

Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.

Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .

What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

The mistake he made was to send anything to you in the first place.

Nobody owe you anything, when people give you something no matter how small; learn to appreciate it because they just sacrifice it for you, not that they don't have needs for their scarce resources.

I don’t think life is easy on the UK compared to US

Op you dey complain like say your brother nah your husband. Not even one atom of shame, just open mouth dey complain like babe

Ungrateful being.
If you can't appreciate this little one, how will bigger one come.
It was you in the bible who was given one coin and you buried it.

The only mistake OP hv was bringing the topic here, u guys that are busy condemning her 4 expecting smthing from a brother that is diaspora are even worst dependant on a brother here.

Peckham is a poor community in London, your brother don't have

kyber:


I said my brother not boyfriend

It's Nigerian men. They don't read.


Don't be too offended

kyber:
He has been in Peckham for years now and whenever I tell him to send money home he always complain of this and that.

Fast forward to today, and he sent me one perfume like that through a friend of his who was visiting Nigeria.

Like what does he wants me to do with a perfume and why didn’t he send the money instead .

What should I do ?
Cause I won’t thank him for that

...

maleekberry:
Most of you guys never even realise that abroad generally is very though. You think it's like nigeria where people don't pay bills and have access to cheap or ill-gotten money to throw around.

Person dey Peckham and you are expecting so much from him. If you don't know today that Peckham that he his is just like surulere, no major opportunities dey that area. Same Peckham way dem even dey sell amala and fried yam. Its dominated by Nigerian especially the yorubas

i visited peckham 2003. thought i was in naija. still wondering how some guys i saw there got visa

chynergy1:

i visited peckham 2003. thought i was in naija. still wondering how some guys i saw there got visa

Hahaha

Sixfeetbelle:


It's Nigerian men. They don't read.


Don't be too offended

u didn't understand him either. He said like an ungrateful girlfriend

This is why many people do not visit home. It's not that they cant find the money for a ticket. It's the entitlement mentality and poverty mindset that keeps them away.