Dear Men,

If you go through the good book that is the Bible, you will find in the creation story the lady Eve was the only person deceived by the serpent.

Yes, Adam was very much aware when he ate the fruit. Knowing the repercussions, knowing that he will surely die the day he eats the fruit, Adam would defied God, take God on when the lady Eve offered him the fruit.

Some christian commentators believe Adam ate the fruit so as not to allow Eve bear the wrath of the creator alone. Man loved her too much that he lost everything that day in the garden of Eden.

Adam was the first guy to play the knight in shining armour. Ha!!!

Dear men, playing the knight in shining armour will not take you anywhere. It might indeed give you some coition in the sack, but it doesn't guarantee commitment and happily ever after.

She is not your responsibility dear men.

All playing the knight in shining armour has ever done is bring heartaches, depression and if you don't recover from the stated consequences then a free ride to the after life.

Dear men, focus on yourself, focus on your family, focus on the work of thy hand, leave her with her responsibilities.

Maintain Frame at all times!!!

joeeee240:


No just take like 3 or 4 months to learn game and be practicing with girls you come across with

Either girls that are just acquaintances or new ones
5 years is way too long to stay away from action

Experience is ALWAYS gained in the field

Appreciated

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Wanted to ask him which part of your post showed "hatred for women" or "faking of confidence" ... But yeah, understanding is relative...
Brilliant sexual urge control
Zero Ego ( the ego responsible for reacting to words or manipulative actions)
Flawless conscious and unconscious way of ignoring people. and
Financial Discipline.

Back to your question, Trust me if you can do these 4 things above, you wont care less about the gender (male, female, trans etc) you interact with. If you can cap it off by expecting little to nothing from others whilst maintaining a good value standard ( deal with people ( again men, women, trans ) that have values to "contribute" ), then you get the see the world in a whole new way.
Is it quite difficult, especially coming from the bluepill lens? Yes...
Is it possible? Yes
_{I'm thrilled when i see people going the self-dev route. Wish you good luck on that journey. It's one of the best trust me. My only worry is the fact that people return back to default state after attaining a certain level of success.}[/quote]
Thanks for this bro
It's enlightening
Self development is bea
My aim of going Monk is to become high value and command respect from people especially women.
Make them simp for me too

Whenever you are meeting a random girl for the first, instead of asking for her number, offer yours instead except is business related. This way you get to text or call people who actually want to talk with you too, I call this filtering.

Kimcutie:
Whenever you are meeting a random girl for the first, instead of asking for her number, offer yours instead except is business related. This way you get to text or call people who actually want to talk with you too, I call this filtering.

Kimcutie:
Whenever you are meeting a random girl for the first, instead of asking for her number, offer yours instead except is business related. This way you get to text or call people who actually want to talk with you too, I call this filtering.

No. The man leads... so you tell her to put her number in your phone. Much better

Giving her your number can work if the girl is VERY or highly interested.

If she's just a bit interested or in between (which most girls are) you'd most likely miss out

joeeee240:


No. The man leads... so you tell her to put her number in your phone. Much better

Giving her your number can work if the girl is VERY or highly interested.

If she's just a bit interested or in between (which most girls are) you'd most likely miss out

True to an extent but giving her ur number, gives her the chance to call or text u first(interest), then the guy takes it from there.

Dexter08:
Dear Men,

If you go through the good book that is the Bible, you will find in the creation story the lady Eve was the only person deceived by the serpent.

Yes, Adam was very much aware when he ate the fruit. Knowing the repercussions, knowing that he will surely die the day he eats the fruit, Adam would defied God, take God on when the lady Eve offered him the fruit.

Some christian commentators believe Adam ate the fruit so as not to allow Eve bear the wrath of the creator alone. Man loved her too much that he lost everything that day in the garden of Eden.

Adam was the first guy to play the knight in shining armour. Ha!!!

Dear men, playing the knight in shining armour will not take you anywhere. It might indeed give you some coition in the sack, but it doesn't guarantee commitment and happily ever after.

She is not your responsibility dear men.

All playing the knight in shining armour has ever done is bring heartaches, depression and if you don't recover from the stated consequences then a free ride to the after life.

Dear men, focus on yourself, focus on your family, focus on the work of thy hand, leave her with her responsibilities.

Maintain Frame at all times!!!

Another plausible way to interpret the tale is to say that Adam allowed his spouse, a woman, to lead him. Instead of leading the way and upholding the command of his creator, he succumbed to his spouse's promoting and let her dictate for him. By doing this, he fell into her frame, derailed from his masculine role of leadership, and incurred God's wrath. He should have led, scolded Eve, and upheld the command of God.

I always wondered why Eve's eyes never opened when she ate the forbidden fruit before Adam. It was when Adam returned and ate the fruit that both their eyes were opened. Was the writer trying to pass a red pill message? Anyway, let me not delve into too much bible studies. The most important thing is not never let a woman lead you in a relationship. Don't enter her frame. Her leadership will lead to an unfavourable and pitiable outcome, and you will forever compromise your masculinity in her eyes.

Kimcutie:

True to an extent but giving her ur number, gives her the chance to call or text u first(interest), then the guy takes it from there.

lol you must have some god-level rizz to do a lady like that chief.🏆
I'm sure she didn't walk up to you in the first place.
If you can throw some more light for a layman to catch on sir...
Just to be sure you're not speaking from your imagination. No hard feelings my bro 🙌🏾

The first step of attraction is actually looking attractive, very few OGs point that out they just jump into game. My words to a cousin of mine I introduced to the redpill was “look at yourself in the mirror, if you were the pretty girl you’re chasing around would you hang around someone like you...fix yourself”

It’s as simple as that fix yourself and your appearance before moving on to game.
-Always get a good haircut that fits you.
-Smell nice always.
-Your clothes should be cool and fitted, learn clothes colour combinations online.
-Take care of your skin(most guys don’t)the cheapest lotion will do, and drink lots water.
-Then most importantly your physique. Your body should be the most expensive clothe you own so invest in your body. Chisel your body by lifting weights, buy supplements if you need them.

A lot men don’t pay attention to all these and they look unkept. Maybe cuz of the belief that making money covers other loopholes. But I believe they’re not redpillers because we stand out in every aspect.

Agelastus:
It is a common thing for girls to say "I am more comfortable with male friends"
The actual truth is that they get more benefits from their male friends than the females. So, if you're keeping a female friend, chances are you're losing more than you're getting in return. It is never balanced.
The only exception are childhood friendships. If you weren't friends as children, you should have something worthwhile you're getting from her cos she definitely will not be your friend if you're not offering any benefit to her.

I detached myself from my last platonic female friend in December 2022. Now, all the female friends I have left are either casual "good morning" friends or we fvcking occasionally. No more silly investments.

It sounds petty but it is what it is.

Male friends are the greatest.

They do, and she does, of course. Women are not dumb, they are emotional and sensitive. She keeps you all close because she is aware that everyone in her circle wants a taste. You'll also note that occasionally, she may call you baby, darling, or another lovely word, but this is really a seduction technique to acquire what she wants from you. She only needs to come closer to one of you in order to provide the impression that you will soon have a chance, at which point you will release some resources and return to the buddy zone prison.

The same reasoning applies when you take a look at the sleazy photos they upload on Instagram to tempt men that would never have an opportunity to hit in a million years. Then, after receiving unrestricted validation and attention from the Simpsons, they victimize themselves and say that they didn't ask for it. From there they can proceed to become an Instagram influencer or model and start making substantial money while doing absolutely fuckîng NOTHING.

AndrewTate:
lol you must have some god-level rizz to do a lady like that chief.🏆
I'm sure she didn't walk up to you in the first place.
If you can throw some more light for a layman to catch on sir...
Just to be sure you're not speaking from your imagination. No hard feelings my bro 🙌🏾

Imagination is what brought about civilisation as we know it, and I've tried this 5 times and was successful 4 times, this guarantees interest in you from the girl instead of u calling or texting and she starts seeing u as a pest.

It doesn't always work which is why I call it filtering, reduces work load when texting girls.

Addition: Before u intend to approach her like that, you must have built some kind of bond first.

Kimcutie:

True to an extent but giving her ur number, gives her the chance to call or text u first(interest), then the guy takes it from there.

Like i said... this is an average strategy

It will only work if the girl is very interested in you when you walk up to her OR it's a girl you've been seeing before maybe in school or work or in a social circle

Your best is to take her number and text

joeeee240:


Why you dey lie boss 🤣

Pass me her handle for telegram

K

SOZINN:




This is just one of the many scams they come up with to deceive gullible men, they will keep draining you and make you believe that they are the source of your wealth. Then you will be afraid of cutting ties with someone that is just taking from you without adding any real value. Once you see this shît for what it truly is you won't be unable to unsee it.

You nailed it bro.

I remembered telling a nagging gf to take the gate and be gone. She kept coming back, and when I wouldn't give in, said it's her prayers helping me out all this while. Well, I said she hadn't prayed hard enough, because not only are you broke, you also never bought me shiit. If your prayers don't even show in your own life, how dafuq can I trust it in mine? You are broke, make yourself rich and I can trust your prayers. She went away grumbling. She is still broke till now.

adeola1097:
Literally, cus look at the shit we’re calling love these days

Lol...crazzzy!!

@chikasnight
Thank you for this brother. Just to add to everything you have said:

In the dating scene, attraction isn't just a prominently displayed attribute; it's the highest and fastest. Why do I say that? A woman may express her desire for a caring, wealthy, God-fearing, hard-working man, among other qualities. However, attraction constitutes the initial and easiest way for her to decide if she wants to be with you or even if she should bother checking if you have ticked all other boxes. You might not be aware of it 100% of the time but it occasionally works against you or in your favor everytime. When someone first meets you, they immediately conclude whether or not they like you like that.

Disregard any nonsense you may have heard about "type"; it is simply focused on how you appear. Most people find it uncomfortable to discuss because they don't want to come across as naive or shallow, yet it's a fact of life. Most nerds and good guys wouldn't be in the friend zone if it didn't exist. For instance: If you didn't fancy thick ladies and went on a blind date and a morbidly obese woman entered, you would have had a resounding NO playing in your head the moment she walked in. Even if she went on to mention her achievements in her profession and even her philanthropic milestones, it still won't change the fact that you are not into her.

So now that you know about it, you should put in the effort to be in the correct shape for you to have the best chance of coming off as alluring. Although not everyone will find you appealing, you should focus on the numbers and the higher percentage. Just as our brother advised, if you work with a physical approach, be sure that you are in the finest possible appearance, hairstyle, outfit, and skin tone, as well as having the best body you are capable of having. If you're using an online strategy, follow the same steps, but in this situation, since your photographs will be speaking for you, make sure they're the coolest you've got.

When taking images, avoid adopting your parents' and grandparents' style. Make sure you locate a studio with a skilled photographer and shoot photos that showcase your good looks. Remember, attraction comes first. She will choose the path you take with her based on this snap judgment within the first 60 seconds of seeing your photos or meeting you in person. Before you start to invest anything in that relationship, be sure there is a strong positive response on that end.

As men, let's have a discussion concerning our sexual urges, this gals we are disturbing for relationship and sex don't fancy us like dat except you are useful and many guys are disturbing them,we wake up with libido, we are hornny everyday due to testosterones, this make us stupid, we have lustful thoughts, we watch porn to fantasize about sex we can never get, we see multiple varieties but in real life it's impossible to attain,it's tough as a man, no one cares about your existence except you are powerful, most gals you see them on the streets and crave abundance but dude you low value and low status, they won't look at your side, you are delusional, let's face the truth and call a spade a spade, we are beta males that economically unattractive and even arousing to women, we live life on hardmode, it's not easy but remember we have to persevere.

Why is that most guys game women, approach women, message women when we know that deep down they don't fancy us, respect us, have genuine desire for us, lust after us, we enter her frame and put ourselves in the feminine, chasing them, begging them, inflating their ego, she doesn't find you attractive or even arousing, we waste time on them knowing full well we won't get the sex.

It's just stupid, we are living hard mode as a man, you wanted unlimited access to unlimited women but you are not even receiving greenlights and genuine desire at all

I hate it the way my libido always control me in my dealings with women,it makes me open to manipulation, it makes me simp, it makes me supplicate, it makes me pedestalize, I hate inflating this bitches ego, I hate the rejection, at the end this thots will run to religious institutions to make bros commit to them or see one rich thirsty beta simp to lock down .

We are horrny 24/7 let's find a way to channel that energy, let's not give our strength to women, let's pussy not control us, be productive, be creative, use your time wisely, women come and go, women are replaceable, I understand loneliness is a factor for men needing feminine companion, but the world is harsh, the brutal realities of inflation, male gender is disposable, society doesn't give a furck about men, women don't give a furck about you except you are a utility to them, it's not easy but none of us are excempted from our masculine burden of performance, we must bear the cross, we are success objects judged by status.

Eric247:
As men, let's have a discussion concerning our sexual urges, this gals we are disturbing for relationship and sex don't fancy us like dat except you are useful and many guys are disturbing them,we wake up with libido, we are hornny everyday due to testosterones, this make us stupid, we have lustful thoughts, we watch porn to fantasize about sex we can never get, we see multiple varieties but in real life it's impossible to attain,it's tough as a man, no one cares about your existence except you are powerful, most gals you see them on the streets and crave abundance but dude you low value and low status, they won't look at your side, you are delusional, let's face the truth and call a spade a spade, we are beta males that economically unattractive and even arousing to women, we live life on hardmode, it's not easy but remember we have to persevere.

Huh?

Eric..you don come again abi?

Say it's you that feel this way. I'm not a beta male and my libido no dey control me.

Eric247:
Why is that most guys game women, approach women, message women when we know that deep down they don't fancy us, respect us, have genuine desire for us, lust after us, we enter her frame and put ourselves in the feminine, chasing them, begging them, inflating their ego, she doesn't find you attractive or even arousing, we waste time on them knowing full well we won't get the sex.

It's just stupid, we are living hard mode as a man, you wanted unlimited access to unlimited women but you are not even receiving greenlights and genuine desire at all

Haaaa....someone rejected you this morning or what? Calm down na

Eric247:
I hate it the way my libido always control me in my dealings with women,it makes me open to manipulation, it makes me simp, it makes me supplicate, it makes me pedestalize, I hate inflating this bitches ego, I hate the rejection, at the end this thots will run to religious institutions to make bros commit to them or see one rich thirsty beta simp to lock down .

😁😁😁😁😁.

I get you now.

Eric247:
We are horrny 24/7 let's find a way to channel that energy, let's not give our strength to women, let's pussy not control us, be productive, be creative, use your time wisely, women come and go, women are replaceable, I understand loneliness is a factor for men needing feminine companion, but the world is harsh, the brutal realities of inflation, male gender is disposable, society doesn't give a furck about men, women don't give a furck about you except you are a utility to them, it's not easy but none of us are excempted from our masculine burden of performance, we must bear the cross, we are success objects judged by status.

True talk.

It takes a sense of awareness and discipline to do these things though. Testosterone is a blessing and a curse to men. Once you can tame it, you'd do just fine.

Lemme share my secret:

I have a high libido. I never hid this fact on NL. Once I have a gf, I dey do Wella yet I look like a softie who couldn't do shiit on bed,lol. But once I am away or not in a relationship, I hold my body.

How?

I disconnect my sexual drive from my diick and transfer it to my doings. If 50% SE(sexual energy) was used by my diick before, once I no get babe(because I'm selective and won't just fuq anyone but my own spec), I divert this 50% to my daily activities(gym, hustle etc) and exhaust it. By the time I come home to sleep, I'm just too tired to dream or mind-wander about sex. Since I trained my mind to see sex as a tool I control and not one that controls me since I was a child, I never masturbated or fuqed any woman that didn't appeal to me, just to satiate my urge. I fuq only women I have a personal connection with.

Eric247:
Why is that most guys game women, approach women, message women when we know that deep down they don't fancy us, respect us, have genuine desire for us, lust after us, we enter her frame and put ourselves in the feminine, chasing them, begging them, inflating their ego, she doesn't find you attractive or even arousing, we waste time on them knowing full well we won't get the sex.

It's just stupid, we are living hard mode as a man, you wanted unlimited access to unlimited women but you are not even receiving greenlights and genuine desire at all

JESHAL, is that you? 😂

Eric247:
As men, let's have a discussion concerning our sexual urges, this gals we are disturbing for relationship and sex don't fancy us like dat except you are useful and many guys are disturbing them,we wake up with libido, we are hornny everyday due to testosterones, this make us stupid, we have lustful thoughts, we watch porn to fantasize about sex we can never get, we see multiple varieties but in real life it's impossible to attain,it's tough as a man, no one cares about your existence except you are powerful, most gals you see them on the streets and crave abundance but dude you low value and low status, they won't look at your side, you are delusional, let's face the truth and call a spade a spade, we are beta males that economically unattractive and even arousing to women, we live life on hardmode, it's not easy but remember we have to persevere.

well, I've got the most unpopular opinions on this thread but I'll still say...
Do you realise that by being a man things are not designed to just come to you?
The principle is “make them come to you” by putting in just the right amount of work..
The female that a “player” is going to get down with by this time next month probably have never seen or met him not to even talk of being interested but when he's ready he'll make her body move for him in a twinkle until he's done and moves on...sometimes she can't even get over his compelling power after he leaves to the next baddie.
That's your power bro, every male’s capable of that! You just need to ask the right questions and search for the right answers.

SOZINN:
@chikasnight
Thank you for this brother. Just to add to everything you have said:


Disregard any nonsense you may have heard about "type"; it is simply focused on how you appear. Most people find it uncomfortable to discuss because they don't want to come across as naive or shallow, yet it's a fact of life. Most nerds and good guys wouldn't be in the friend zone if it didn't exist. For instance: If you didn't fancy thick ladies and went on a blind date and a morbidly obese woman entered, you would have had a resounding NO playing in your head the moment she walked in. Even if she went on to mention her achievements in her profession and even her philanthropic milestones, it still won't change the fact that you are not into her.

So now that you know about it, you should put in the effort to be in the correct shape for you to have the best chance of coming off as alluring. Although not everyone will find you appealing, you should focus on the numbers and the higher percentage. Just as our brother advised, if you work with a physical approach, be sure that you are in the finest possible appearance, hairstyle, outfit, and skin tone, as well as having the best body you are capable of having. If you're using an online strategy, follow the same steps, but in this situation, since your photographs will be speaking for you, make sure they're the coolest you've got.

When taking images, avoid adopting your parents' and grandparents' style. Make sure you locate a studio with a skilled photographer and shoot photos that showcase your good looks. Remember, attraction comes first. She will choose the path you take with her based on this snap judgment within the first 60 seconds of seeing your photos or meeting you in person. Before you start to invest anything in that relationship, be sure there is a strong positive response on that end.

🥂

luvyaself95:


add me bro

I don't have the link again, since I wiped my main WhatsApp number.

But you can join this group & DM @UWEM to add you to the RP group, he's an admin there.

https://chat.whatsapp(dot)com/CgapE8e1DvJJfSMFWV3VFQ

Replace (dot) with .


Also, desist from posting your contact or addresses online, except you're a business person advertising your wares.

Martinez39s:
Another plausible way to interpret the tale is to say that Adam allowed his spouse, a woman, to lead him. Instead of leading the way and upholding the command of his creator, he succumbed to his spouse's promoting and let her dictate for him. By doing this, he fell into her frame, derailed from his masculine role of leadership, and incurred God's wrath. He should have led, scolded Eve, and upheld the command of God.

I always wondered why Eve's eyes never opened when she ate the forbidden fruit before Adam. It was when Adam returned and ate the fruit that both their eyes were opened. Was the writer trying to pass a red pill message? Anyway, let me not delve into too much bible studies. The most important thing is not never let a woman lead you in a relationship. Don't enter her frame. Her leadership will lead to an unfavourable and pitiable outcome, and you will forever compromise your masculinity in her eyes.

so this gay-briel is christian i thought u are an atheist

50k for anyone who ignores the bald headed troll!!!

All redpillers are atheist, no christian can be a redpiller