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Esortigress:
I’m gamophobic and it’s really affecting my relationship with men, I have this fear of ever leaving my parents house to leave with a man as a wife and this has made me run from men who truly love and wants me. Each time a man shows serious interest in me, the fear overwhelms me and i unconsciously starts to create some distance . Who has been in this type of situation and how did you overcome it?

You need a psychologist or a therapist urgently BECAUSE it means you have reduced your life to the standard your parents set for you and sadly you think it is MAN who should bring you out of that house....

are you not thinking of WORKING ELSEWHERE in another state?

Are you not thinking of relocating?

Are you not hoping one day to live on your own and know yourself better as a single individual before even thinking of MAN?

these are questions in the mind of a NORMAL MATURE LADY who hopes to be her own woman someday.... so that's why your situation is really a cause for concern.


THESE ARE A FEW CONCERNS WHY A PSYCHOLOGIST/THERAPIST may be needed URGENTLY to jailbreak your mind from the attachment to your NEST of a home.

Just stay put in your parents house and leave us the Bleep alone.

yrhuhfy113:


You need a psychologist or a therapist urgently BECAUSE it means you have reduced your life to the standard your parents set for you and sadly you think it is MAN who should bring you out of that house....

are you not thinking of WORKING ELSEWHERE in another state?

Are you not thinking of relocating?

Are you not hoping one day to live on your own and know yourself better as a single individual before even thinking of MAN?

these are questions in the mind of a NORMAL MATURE LADY who hopes to be her own woman someday.... so that's why your situation is really a cause for concern.


THESE ARE A FEW CONCERNS WHY A PSYCHOLOGIST/THERAPIST may be needed URGENTLY to jailbreak your mind from the attachment to your NEST of a home.

I’ve always lived with my parents all my life and I’m starting work soon and will be going to work from my parents house, I’ve never really lived on my own. You scaring me though

Karleb:
Just stay put in your parents house and leave us the Bleep alone.

You should be the one to leave here if you have nothing to say

Can't relate.. remember I couldn't wait to leave my parents house and start making my own money.

Though I know a thing about phobias, they can be nerve wrecking and even induce paralysis.

See, not everyone must get married (you can be a nun) but if that's what you truly want then you must take baby steps and realize that a phobia is just like virtual reality.. it's not real. Remind yourself that you're in control of what you experience and you have the power to change or eject yourself from any unpleasant situation and start to exercise this power from the get go.

You'll be alright.

Esortigress:
You should be the one to leave here if you have nothing to say

Stop bugging people online with your little worries.

You think men who are interested in you aren't scared of starting a family too? but they are taking the bold steps nonetheless.

Karleb:


Stop bugging people online with your little worries.

You think men who are interested in you aren't scared of starting a family too? but they are taking the bold steps nonetheless.

Taking down. You are a toxic person. I’ll pardon you

Esortigress:
I’ve always lived with my parents all my life and I’m starting work soon and will be going to work from my parents house, I’ve never really lived on my own. You scaring me though

So sorry BUT this is a NORM of being an adult....
Your parents won't be here forever, you need to face it now or never.

LIVE ALONE for a year, get to truly discover yourself on yourself, NOT based on what anyone tells you. Then you can decide if you are ready for relationship or NOT.... else YOUR PARENT WILL BE THE ONES TO CHOOSE WHOM YOU MARRY AND EVEN IN MARRIAGE YOU WILL LIVE VERY CLOSE TO THEM OR VISIT THEM DAILY JUST TO FEEL SAFE.....


That will be so awkward.

try and attempt independence little by little

yrhuhfy113:


So sorry BUT this is a NORM of being an adult....
Your parents won't be here forever, you need to face it now or never.

LIVE ALONE for a year, get to truly discover yourself on yourself, NOT based on what anyone tells you. Then you can decide if you are ready for relationship or NOT.... else YOUR PARENT WILL BE THE ONES TO CHOOSE WHOM YOU MARRY AND EVEN IN MARRIAGE YOU WILL LIVE VERY CLOSE TO THEM OR VISIT THEM DAILY JUST TO FEEL SAFE.....


That will be so awkward.

try and attempt independence little by little

Thank you so much

Esortigress:
Thank you so much

So start getting ready... U and deleting of post sef 🙄
I love that body on u btw 😚

Killbillz:

So start getting ready... U and deleting of post sef 🙄
I love that body on u btw 😚

You want carry load wey pass your muscles abi? how was your day?

Esortigress:
You want carry load wey pass your muscles abi? how was your day?

My day was good and it's still all good and urs?
Yess oo na load when pass me I won dey carry now 🙂

Killbillz:

My day was good and it's still all good and urs?
Yess oo na load when pass me I won dey carry now 🙂

same here. Abeg small small sha

Esortigress:
same here. Abeg small small sha

Small small ke?

Esortigress:
■ I’m gamophobic and it’s really affecting my relationship with men, I have this fear of ever leaving my parents house to leave with a man as a wife and this has made me run from men who truly love and wants me.
■ Each time a man shows serious interest in me, the fear overwhelms me and i unconsciously starts to create some distance . Who has been in this type of situation and how did you overcome it?

1. Fear of leaving your parent's home? Have you ever tried living on your own to maybe figure out whether it is related to what you think there?

2. It might simply be that you don't buy into the idea of sacrificing your personal freedom for a contract that binds you to the whims and desires of another. In a lot of cases, it isn't so much commitmentphobia as it may simply be that you just do not share the same enthusiasm that others have with marriage. Marriage is not for everyone and it is perfectly OK to avoid commitment that you know may lead to marriage. I would suggest you move out of the house first, take your time to explore life away from mummy and daddy, and then decide then whether if this is just who you are or if it is indeed a phobia you should concern yourself with then.

Rayban25:


Sometimes I wonder if them swear for you because I dont see why you drool over a delusional girl with no promising future that creates monikers to think she can deceive herself and others at the same time. What is actually wrong with you? Apply some level of logic.

You are very stup.d for this statement, everyone is not a pretender like you and how come you know every of my monika? You are the real definition of a hypocrite. My present is your dream life and my future is your heavenly dreams. I wonder why get so angry and fooli.sh over chats with my friends here , keep following my shadows about if it pay your bills. Nansense

Esortigress:
Ignore the retard, he follows my Monika everywhere and gets angry at people I chat with, you are not the first person he attacks over this, he’s a kid with no hope in life . Don’t allow him drag you into the mud as he has done to others before you. A big hypocrite he is

I won't give the slowpoke that luxury. He's been on to u since last year... Na wah sick people full this forum. Why aren't u sleeping btw

Kobojunkie:
1. Fear of leaving your parent's home? Have you ever tried living on your own to maybe figure out whether it is related to what you think there?

2. It might simply be that you don't buy into the idea of sacrificing your personal freedom for a contract that binds you to the whims and desires of another. In a lot of cases, it isn't so much commitmentphobia as it may simply be that you just do not share the same enthusiasm that others have with marriage. Marriage is not for everyone and it is perfectly OK to avoid commitment that you know may lead to marriage. I would suggest you move out of the house first, take your time to explore life away from mummy and daddy, and then decide then whether if this is just who you are or if it is indeed a phobia you should concern yourself with then.

I’ve never really lived on my own sha and I doubt if that would be possible but let’s see how it goes sha. Thanks kobo

Killbillz:

I won't give the slowpoke that luxury. He's been on to u since last year... Na wah sick people full this forum. Why aren't u sleeping btw

I just woke up not long. Just ignore him and look beyond his pretense, he’s a hypocrite because I don’t see any reason why he should always get mad at people I chat with . If I decide to go ballistic on him now he’ll play the victim mentality game. They really don’t know how to mind their business here. You wey be original odogwu no let the wasted kid drag you to his level abeg. Na So dem dy miss their helper with their uncouth behavior

Rayban25 you think everyone is a riffraf like you? The odogwu you are trying to drag can help your meaningless life ooo, don’t let your uncouthness makes you unfortunate.

Esortigress:
I just woke up not long. Just ignore him and look beyond his pretense, he’s a hypocrite because I don’t see any reason why he should always get mad at people I chat with . If I decide to go ballistic on him now he’ll play the victim mentality game. They really don’t know how to mind their business here. You wey be original odogwu no let the wasted kid drag you to his level abeg. Na So dem dy miss their helper with their uncouth behavior

Lool... Abi the mugu dey like u since but has no clue how to go about it 😁

Killbillz:

Lool... Abi the mugu dey like u since but has no clue how to go about it 😁

Kikiki he’s just a kid and a hypocrite . Else how will you explain the agressiveness he shows towards people I chat with. He has become a professor in detecting my alternative monika. I really do not want to engage him with this Monika. Ignore him please.

Esortigress:
Kikiki he’s just a kid and a hypocrite . Else how will you explain the agressiveness he shows towards people I chat with. He has become a professor in detecting my alternative monikas. I really do not want to engage him with this Monika. Ignore him please.

I will ignore the sea-goat no worry. I know his type

Killbillz:

I will ignore the sea-goat no worry. I know his type

Ignore please. Thanks

Esortigress:
Ignore please. Thanks

Going back to sleep?
Or ur sleeping already

Killbillz:

Going back to sleep?
Or ur sleeping already

No , I’ll be out early today so I’m getting ready.