nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

It's not hard, just make your choice between a broken home (you being the oath breaker& promiscuous home-breaker) and being a faithful and loving husband and father to your kids)
Decide where your priorities lies; either to your family or your preek.

This one is looking for who to drag down with him.

happney65:
Fucccck her. But make sure you use a condom

QED!

She's not seducing you but only showing more care towards you. Or maybe she is, but who cares? The more important thing is what you're going to do about it. Get her out of your home. Open up to your wife and dont bring dishonour to yourself. Try to bond with your wife as well and spice up your sex life as much as you can.

Don't be carried away, women are cunny. It can be a setup and a plan with your wife and her sister to check your sincerity. Respect yourself and avoid her. If you don't avoid her you will be disgraced.

Tbh, I know most guys are very hypocritical and they will attack you for not controlling yourself. Truth is, it’s very hard especially when the lady is directly showing green light.

The two solutions I know
1. frankly tell her to stop wearing revealing cloth that you’re not comfortable with it. Keep straight face while saying this
2. Tell your wife that you’re no longer comfortable living together with her sister that it’s high time she packed .

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

FK the shixt out of her she will get the message and stay clear of u " she want to show appreciation for all u do for her so give her d rod and let the tension seize

Mindlog:
If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stay in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

Amebor. Is that the issue?

Bleep nonsense the he'll out of her,

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Trust me your wife knows and she can sense something is up. She is just being patient to catch you red handed, brother your sister In-law have to leave your house the sooner the better, extra marital affair can happen within the blink of an eye

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Your brain is playing tricks on you.

mariahAngel:
I'm not sure what rule number this is or whether it exists somewhere, but NEVER ADMIT YOUR WEAKNESS.
Either it backfires on you, or it can be used against you.
Don't be that "good guy".

You're welcome.

LoL! It's weak and insecure people that project themselves as infallible, perfect and strong. Real strong people don't really chase after "the appearance of strength". Instead, they go after peace of mind and freedom from unnecessary trouble. They become strong while chasing those...

I always admit to my girlfriend that I meet other girls. That way, I don't stress myself trying to explain what happen to condoms and why there could be new strands of attachment... I no longer have to explain why I change bedsheet just a day or two after she laid it...etc

adebo119:


It's not hard, just make your choice between a broken home (you being the oath breaker& promiscuous home-breaker) and being a faithful and loving husband and father to your kids)
Decide where your priorities lies; either to your family or your preek.

lmao. Nothing concern Konji with everything u put up here bro.
Until Konji satisfied, he no go rest. Konji gets brain on its own na why e Dey stand when you’re asleep.
Best thing is to drive her out or that house , if not, he go fhuck her sooner or later.

overlord77:


Tell your wife that you have or are developing an erotic feeling for her sister or any other woman let's see if that peace you enjoy won't be cut short.

Every sensible woman knows that a man can develop feelings for anybody. Sincerely taking practical action to prevent such nasty feelings from materializing will earn you more trust in the eyes of your spouse. Life is simple

I no dey believe ninety-nine percent of front page tales. This is one of them. If true, chase the girl out of the house. One thing will always lead to another. You will come here to open another topic after the deed.

Please you have to kill that urge of wanting to sleep with your sister-in-law. It will do you no good but rather trouble. You have to pretend she doesn't exist.

I got hard reading this. Keep it up

Change the headline,you are the one disturbing your sister in-law.you need to be flogged.during the old days,they use person's like you to make ridges in farms.idiot

She get big bumbum or brezz or both ?

What if she(your SIL) does not feel the same way about you after making your move. Your guess is as good as mine.....oga,die it

The ball is in your court do the right thing

Mindlog:
If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stay in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

roof

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

You can't kill the urge. It will continue to grow as long as she's there. It's just the fact. Goat and yam can never be friends.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

If not that life is something else all because of civilization. How come someone that is supposed to be breastfeeding her 2nd child is still single in your house. She is still looking for man with car, you will end up impregnating that old single woman.

There are things you we keep as secret which are not helping. Tell your wife that you want her out in two weeks and if your wife insist tell her that you are afraid her sister will seduce you one day and your wife should not be emotional about what you say. I believe your wife will find house for her within 1 week

IyaebeTheGreat:
His wife is busy doing her best, going to vigil to pray for her family and all others but unfortunately the horseband has not seen the efforts of his wife but having erection for the wife's sister who obviously has become too carefree with him and see him as a senior brother and a guidian. The countless divorce that uncontrolled penis has caused is uncountable. The breaking of this home is in sight, Yul Edochie is waiting to welcome you to their club with open hands.

You're funny. See hw you are just blaming the man.

Mindlog:
If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stay in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

House lobby.

Urheadmaster:
To cut the long story short, find her a boyfriend

Give her belle na..

Cos your wife fit no born

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

U r a dog, the thing de sweet now after " had I know go follow"

Clearly your mind is made up to do the even if you get her an apartment you two lusters will still find away around to do it

Any food you don't want to eat, don't even smell it...

Which prayer she wan pray wey she no fit kneel down pray for house? Going to Vigil? Interesting. Also note he said they sleep in seperate rooms. Something is not right in that house.

IyaebeTheGreat:
His wife is busy doing her best, going to vigil to pray for her family and all others but unfortunately the horseband has not seen the efforts of his wife but having erection for the wife's sister who obviously has become too carefree with him and see him as a senior brother and a guidian. The countless divorce that uncontrolled penis has caused is uncountable. The breaking of this home is in sight, Yul Edochie is waiting to welcome you to their club with open hands.

Control ur erection bro,stop being close to her n beside distance urself from her, n as such don't look at her twice whenever u are around.control ur evil thought too,no be every hole u must enter some hole are forbidden bro,no this and save ur family from d agony of unknown if caught in d act.

Your sister in law is not seducing you, you are the one seducing yourself.

Face the facts. Hold yourself responsible for your thoughts and be ready to face the consequences of your action.

No one will forgive you because she seduced you, even if she does.

As a fully grown man, you are responsible for anything you do.

If you're not ready to face the repercussions of sleeping with her, then run. Run.

You need to set firm boundaries in your marriage and do all you can to assert it. Do not violate the boundary of sex in your marriage. You will regret it

I see no reason you cannot tell her to get her own accommodation.

Help yourself. Be compassionate to yourself. Don't sell your integrity for five minutes of ecstasy