| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Strech(m): 5:06pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Guy! No mind all these hypocrites who have done worse things,.F*ck nonsense comot for that girl body.this is a free world and shit happens... |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by KazikageSama: 5:07pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
Bros, FLEE, RUN, JAPA This is an attempt to dent your life permanently. No need to be ashamed, tell your wife she must find herown house. If God blesses you, send her some money and give her ultimatum of 2weeks to leave. Don't use your life to play paper kite. You will regret it for the rest of your life and beyond. JAPA from all appearances of evil. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Truthsoldier(m): 5:07pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Get her pregnant and destroy your kids,your respect and your values including your life,then die and rot in hell
Get her out before you do that nonsense bidding in you! |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by fortunechy(m): 5:07pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Ur sister in law is a boss yet she can't afford to rent her own apartment. Meanwhile, ur sister in law wants to eat from same pot personalized only to her sister. Her actions are deliberate and do not give in to it... |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Deeprooted: 5:08pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
To finally kill the urge, assume yourself in your wife's shoes.
How would you feel if your wife does same to your younger brother?.
Answer this question ernerstly and your dick will go flacid towards her. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Hassanmaye(m): 5:10pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
LilMissFavvy:
The only solution is for her to get another accommodation. Or you change your daily schedule/activities and ensure you hardly stay in that house. I don't know why some ladies dress seductively when living with their male in-laws. I also do not know why you men cannot control your feelings when living with female relatives/in-laws. You are a woman you won't understand what men feel, the worst thing women know exactly how to behave to seduce a man especially throwing herself carelessly to confuse him |
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| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by REALretep(m): 5:13pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
That she has been staying in the house for the past 6 years means she has most likely started seeing you as an elder brother or father figure who ordinarily cannot be sexually attracted to her and your wife too seems to to also see you two in the same light.
So basically, your mindset towards her changed at a point and you started admiring her and developing feelings for her.
If you no longer find your wife attractive, then you are really in for a stormy ride. Go down on your knees and ask God for help while at the same time, resist every urge to think about, look at, or touch your sister-in-law, and make effort to rekindle that initial spark between you and your wife.
This will help refocus your attention on your wife and reduce the sensual and sexual attraction for your sister-in-law.
Sending her away while you still harbour such thoughts and urges towards her, and while you still find your wife unattractive will not remedy the situation.
Work on yourself first, then work on your wife, and then lastly work on your sister-in-law to find and pay for her own house.
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| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Alwaysachick: 5:14pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Discipline man indeed |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Zony94: 5:15pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
You are not what you called yourself, disciplinarian once you fall in her trap you are gone. The spiritual and traditional implications will catch up with you fastly .If l were you ,l won't be showing her those caring ,and l will avoid her sexual seductive movement .Stop thinking about her ,be closer to your wife than before. If you know you can't withstand all her tricks better let your wife caution her dressing or she sends her out stylistly ,she should by now be with her own man or be bringing a man to meet you and your wife so that her feelings or your own feelings towards each other will deminish . Lastly , becareful about yourself because the Bible says ," what GOD had joined together let no man put asunder" |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by alizma: 5:15pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
Try to play along but don't sleep with her, when you are sure that is what she really wants, tell her you like and value her but you don't want to cheat on your wife. There maybe something she knows lately that make her feel cheating on her sister won't be a crime. If I get you clearly, she was 19 when you guys got married and she had been normal in her dressing until lately that she is in her late 20s, something is wrong |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by DevilSignature: 5:17pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
that's a bonus for u bro Marry one and get one free |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Iamzik: 5:18pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Mindlog:
If he rents a place for her, he will be visiting her to "see how she is doing". Paying the rent, would tend to make him rationalize the visit. Another angle  Bad guy! |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by samuelson06(m): 5:19pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Khafsun:
This is super story...
Your children are probably in need of cousins anyways This is actually a paid-to-write post. Check the account was opened yesterday. Today, the person is on frontpage. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Peace2love: 5:20pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Oga you're talking about 'killing the feelings' that impossible. The bible says FLEE not KILL. You better find away and send her out of the house before is too late. That only your wife and children are staying is not enough reason for you to keep accommodating her, she will eventually marry some day. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Thegamingorca(m): 5:24pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Chop am, clean mouth and move |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by LordErrk: 5:24pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Mad o. Brazzers go too like this story |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by drnoel: 5:25pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:
His wife is busy doing her best, going to vigil to pray for her family and all others but unfortunately the horseband has not seen the efforts of his wife but having erection for the wife's sister who obviously has become too carefree with him and see him as a senior brother and a guidian. The countless divorce that uncontrolled penis has caused is uncountable. The breaking of this home is in sight, Yul Edochie is waiting to welcome you to their club with open hands. At the highlighted horseband or is it Goatband or goathead of a husband. Nothing wrong in having feeling for a family member, acting on them like peeping in her room or wanting to have sex with her is a no go. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Princewell2012(m): 5:25pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Urheadmaster:
To cut the long story short, find her a boyfriend I can bet you this man will not be happy to see any man around her. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by etrange: 5:32pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Hhmm... I was waiting for the part where she tried to seduce you. She's not seducing you. She grew into a woman and you started finding her attractive. Unfortunately, this is very common. Finding her attractive is one thing, acting on it is another. You can't control one, but you can control the other. Finding her attractive is not enough reason to do anything with her except you're saying to go down with any lady you find attractive at your place of work. However, to be on the safe side, you should find a way to bring up the discussion of her exit plan with your wife even if it means supporting her relocation financially. I'm sure your wife will get the message. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by ChEkWaSIyKe(f): 5:34pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
Inform your wife about it that urge will die. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by ShowmeHeaven(m): 5:35pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
Any attempt to sleep with her or have any amoral overture with her, you'll watch as your home crumble to it's very foundation gradually.
TAKE CHARGE OF THE SITUATION BEFORE YOUR ERECTION DYSFUNCTION YOUR HOMESTEAD, BE A MAN, A STOIC AND RESPONSIBLE ONE AT THAT! |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Kaytixy: 5:37pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
All of una dey play. The OP has done it already. OP don knack wetin no good come dey seek for advice. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Naustine(m): 5:42pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
I understand that even the most disciplined man can still looseguard... But have u thought maybe na she n your wife plan am? It's just a thought |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Princewell2012(m): 5:42pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
uncleck:
If I'm in your shoes, this is what I will do:
I'll call my wife into my room the very day I come back from travel. After hot totori with her, I'll tell her as follows: Your sister has been a very good family member and has helped us in more ways than one. But at this juncture I want to tell you that I'm developing erotic feelings for her. I don't want anything that will break the peace we enjoy in this family. Please tell her to get an apartment ASAP. She can always come over and stay with you whenever I travel. If you don't feel comfortable telling her or doesn't know how to tell her, call her in right now let me tell her myself.
If she chooses the later option and brings her in, I'll say to her: Baby girl, I so much appreciate your presence in this family, but problem is brewing. I'm having erotic feelings for you, I don't want it to materialize. Please get an apartment ASAP. You can always come back and keep your sister company when I travel. I'll support you wherever necessary. I know you're of age so you perfectly understand me. And please let this be our little secret.
Well some people get mind sha. Honesty I will not be able to tell her this o. Haba. It is better my wife will do the talking. Though I have once sent my sister in-law out of our house, but this Case is different, she is insulting my wife in front of me. I frowned at it and told her to leave our house. But they have reconciled and have started coming again but not staying permanently. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by GodisFirst: 5:43pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
You need to kill the urge ASAP else you do that which you don't want to do as as soon as you do it, you will continue and your respect from her is gone. You now start having night mares of her coming out pregnant, the shame, and maybe her dieing after abortion and her mentioning your name as the responsible person before her death. please follow your wife to night church programs to avoid stories that touch. |
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| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Nnamaka1: 5:47pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
If I were you, I will bang my head seriously against the concrete wall so that the reality of the abomination that I am being tempted to commit would dawn on me. This is My own take |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by Charx122: 5:48pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.
I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.
I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.
Sorry for the long episode ..😀
You should have good friends looking for a wife any ideas |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by shinealight(m): 5:50pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
You better don’t get seduced….you will live to regret it whether or not your wife finds out. Enough said!  |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by adebo119: 5:52pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
seanwilliam:
lmao. Nothing concern Konji with everything u put up here bro.
Until Konji satisfied, he no go rest. Konji gets brain on its own na why e Dey stand when you’re asleep.
Best thing is to drive her out or that house , if not, he go fhuck her sooner or later. It's not my place to advice him to drive her out. He's a grown man and the man of the house. I'll let him decide what to/what not to do. |
| Re: Help! My Sister In-law Is Seducing Me by mariahAngel(f): 5:53pm On Apr 12, 2023 |
uncleck:
LoL! It's weak and insecure people that project themselves as infallible, perfect and strong. Real strong people don't really chase after "the appearance of strength". Instead, they go after peace of mind and freedom from unnecessary trouble. They become strong while chasing those...
I always admit to my girlfriend that I meet other girls. That way, I don't stress myself trying to explain what happen to condoms and why there could be new strands of attachment... I no longer have to explain why I change bedsheet just a day or two after she laid it...etc You will learn. No be all this one wey you dey yarn.  I only trust God with my weaknesses. Humans can't completely be trusted. If I need help to deal with my weaknesses, I ask God for strength, and God is ever faithful. Again, you're welcome. |
