Ireportlive:


You can either see relationship for what it is transactional, give and take and join 2023 men like Aliko Dangote, Ellon Musk, Bill Gates , CR7 who focus their passion on more rewarding ventures and leverage their money on intimacy when their conjugal needs arise.

Or

You can fool yourself all your life that your happiness only lies in pleasing a woman with your very precious time, sacrificing and spending far more emotionally and mentally and physically only on a marriage with a certain 60% divorce rate.


Oh and you talked about having a prostitute as companion making you less confident... I laugh at who ever emotionally blackmailed you.. you paid bride price for same conjugal right, Otedola was caught with the Canadian twins and his confidence is far more than anyone, Donald Trump has a barage of prostitute, even in the bible the real men paid for sex without attachment


And yes the moment your ATM day un able to dispense cash, go and hustle even if you are married of single, no diginity in being broke... If a paid girl tells you you are broke, it's better than your children and wife looking at you broke

KGBEAST:

Welcome back Rokiatu, how have you been?

sonature1:


Story for the deities!

Nigerian English accent is one of easiest to understand in the world.

lexy2014:


can you show me where i said this: "you talked about having a prostitute as companion making you less confident"

how does everything you have said negate my comment that you responded to?

how does marriage have a certain 60% divorce rate?

Ireportlive:


You can either see relationship for what it is transactional, give and take and join 2023 men like Aliko Dangote, Ellon Musk, Bill Gates , CR7 who focus their passion on more rewarding ventures and leverage their money on intimacy when their conjugal needs arise.

Or

You can fool yourself all your life that your happiness only lies in pleasing a woman with your very precious time, sacrificing and spending far more emotionally and mentally and physically only on a marriage with a certain 60% divorce rate.


Oh and you talked about having a prostitute as companion making you less confident... I laugh at who ever emotionally blackmailed you.. you paid bride price for same conjugal right, Otedola was caught with the Canadian twins and his confidence is far more than anyone, Donald Trump has a barage of prostitute, even in the bible the real men paid for sex without attachment


And yes the moment your ATM day un able to dispense cash, go and hustle even if you are married of single, no diginity in being broke... If a paid girl tells you you are broke, it's better than your children and wife looking at you broke

lexy2014:


many south african women are naturally nice, accommodating, friendly and easy to talk to. any serious and confident guy can woo a south african woman without spending a dime. men who spend money to get a womans attention lack confidence. thats just the summary of it. many feel if they dont spend money on a lady, she wont like them. those that now choose to be father christmas, have only made themselves prey to girls who like you said are "gold diggers". unfortunately, many nigerian men fall into the category of men i just described

Ireportlive:


If you know me you should know I never answer most of your leading question back...

But to add to my point

You christian hold a man as a standard for all men

You believe Jesus is the Man above all..

I share the sentiment he is a great prophet of God too

Now Jesus the greatest man who ever lived never married on earth, he never had a lover or prioritize relationship

Same Jesus Christ met Mary Magdalene a beautiful Prostitute, prayed for her, accepted her repentance and Only Mary Magdalene a prostitute got so close ever with Jesus and was rumored to be the 13th disciple arguably with Mathias

Reckyd123:
That's not for everyone. It's mostly by the drug dealers, yahoo Boys and the illiterate ones here in South Africa.

I'm typing this now from my girlfriend's apartment who is an IT personel at City Power. I don't give her anything like girlfriend allowance. She earns good money and I try at my own level. I have a lot of my friends who date very successful ladies. So it depends on individuals.

I don't and will not date an unemployed lady here in SA. Never. I'm an economic immigrant that came here to make money not to spend on pussies that are in abundance here in SA.
[b]
What most people don't realize is that there are a lot of educated ladies with high paying jobs who are tired of the shifty and unsophisticated attitudes of their guys that are willing and eager to give a foreigner a chance. [/b]But many lack the confidence to approach them.

So, it depends of indiduals with their taste, circle and confidence.

lexy2014:


theres a difference between taking care of your woman and using money to entice a woman so you can have sex. the picture you painted above isnt about taking care of their woman. it is about enticing women for sex. many nigerian men dont have confidence in front of a woman. what gives the average nigerian man confidence is the small change he thinks he has and he thinks once he has it, any woman will sleep with him. thats wack. if a lady feels you are her source of income and you are ok with it, then you are a dead man

Franking:
I lived in SA for six years. It is usually said there that when a Xhosa girl gets a Nigerian boyfriend she calls home (Eastern Cape) to tell them she's gotten a job. SA guys no send their girls for transport money or hair money or any money for that matter.

Naija guys take care of their women. That's the difference.

Gajagojo:
Are you people not afraid of HIV?

Ireportlive:


You can fool yourself all your life that your happiness only lies in pleasing a woman with your very precious time, sacrificing and spending far more emotionally and mentally and physically only on a marriage with a certain 60% divorce rate.

Ireportlive:

Perfect solution, get a girl within your dating class who is right for you but below you financially, leverage your money to get her loyalty.
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vince96w2:
lol..the kind of money u imagine they use shows ur greed..at least if u are opportuned to leave Nigeria, u will know that women also give men..Unlike u girls here whre it's just take and take..plus from ur talk it seems u have small nyash..South African girls all the way

vince96w2:
the men are also using the women to settle konji..just take it like pay for service

sonature1:
South Africans have a terrible English accent.

Godsongang:


Walahi you are beautiful

Rokiat:


But you should spend more money on Egusi since that is your home made food.

omooba969:


I told my Ghanaian friend that I would like to link him up with a Nigerian girl, he declined saying our girls are too materialistic.

Samantha124:
I love this guy..🤣🤣🤣

But he's very right, I've been trying to tell some of the nairaland guys here that only SA gold diggers go for Nigerian men because they know that they're going to shower them with money all the time to a point that they don't need to get a job and work.

But most of y'all didn't believe me...

Once they date them, they become even more lazy... Nigerian men use money to buy women's love.

Samantha124:
There's a difference between taking care of a woman and making her lazy.

You guys make them lazy.

Let me give you an example about me... I'm working and I've got my own apartment, I pay my own bills, but my man still takes good care of me and he'd spoil me every now and then as his queen...

lexy2014:


theres a difference between taking care of your woman and using money to entice a woman so you can have sex. the picture you painted above isnt about taking care of their woman. it is about enticing women for sex. many nigerian men dont have confidence in front of a woman. what gives the average nigerian man confidence is the small change he thinks he has and he thinks once he has it, any woman will sleep with him. thats wack. if a lady feels you are her source of income and you are ok with it, then you are a dead man

Ireportlive:




No long talk.. girlfriend allowance is the game changer

Most ladies these days need a provider

Most men just need a companion, sex mate and someone to vibe with

Getting a prostitute every other night is expensive , plus prostitute don't vibe with you

Marriage is a long time financial and emotional commitment most guys can't afford

Perfect solution, get a girl within your dating class who is right for you but below you financially, leverage your money to get her loyalty.


.

Ireportlive:




No long talk.. girlfriend allowance is the game changer

Most ladies these days need a provider

Most men just need a companion, sex mate and someone to vibe with

Getting a prostitute every other night is expensive , plus prostitute don't vibe with you

Marriage is a long time financial and emotional commitment most guys can't afford

Perfect solution, get a girl within your dating class who is right for you but below you financially, leverage your money to get her loyalty.


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Samantha124:
If you think you can use money to buy a woman's loyalty, then you don't know us women.

They'll use you to milk your money dry and then settle for a guy below your standard, and you'll be saying women are wicked.

ednut1:
Where in the world are Nigerian women in high demand outside Nigeria Asking for a friend

Rokiat:


But you should spend more money on Egusi since that is your home made food.

Samantha124:
If you think you can use money to buy a woman's loyalty, then you don't know us women.

They'll use you to milk your money dry and then settle for a guy below your standard, and you'll be saying women are wicked.

ednut1:
Where in the world are Nigerian women in high demand outside Nigeria Asking for a friend

Samantha124:
Women also do have sexual urges and they enjoy having sex.

So don't make it seems like you're using them when you're sleeping with them because it's a mutual feeling, as they also get sexually satisfied.

But as long as it's them who end up leaving with the money, then it means they used you, not the other way around...