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My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Nobody: 3:03pm On Apr 13, 2023
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by AsomStructures: 3:08pm On Apr 13, 2023
So what should we do for you now?

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Aonkuuse(m): 3:12pm On Apr 13, 2023
why will you even keep female friends after marriage?? it doesn't make any sense at all, what if she is keeping a male friend, and she hangs out with him?

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Goodghoxt: 3:20pm On Apr 13, 2023
You dey craze.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by pansophist(m): 3:43pm On Apr 13, 2023
Respect her and stop keeping female friends.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by mariahAngel(f): 3:59pm On Apr 13, 2023
DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

Would you be okay with your wife hanging out with her male friends?

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by bukatyne(f): 4:01pm On Apr 13, 2023
DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

Why?

And what is the boundary of your friendship?

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Caaz: 4:04pm On Apr 13, 2023
Trolling as usual ..another obavoh

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by finallybusy: 4:15pm On Apr 13, 2023
Are you bragging to us or what?
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Klass99(f): 4:19pm On Apr 13, 2023
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Nobody: 6:04pm On Apr 13, 2023
mariahAngel:


Would you be okay with your wife hanging out with her male friends?


Absolutely
I see no harm to her having male friends .
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Nobody: 6:06pm On Apr 13, 2023
bukatyne:


Why?

And what is the boundary of your friendship?

The supposed woman is my childhood friend .


I don't get why my wife is jealous of my childhood friend I've l known all my life .
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:14pm On Apr 13, 2023
DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

would allow her to hang out with males friends ?


food for thought

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:20pm On Apr 13, 2023
DrAbdulSuleman:


The supposed woman is my childhood friend .


I don't get why my wife is jealous of my childhood friend I've l known all my life .



if thats the case there is a step you
jumped during yo dating days with your wife, you should have introduced her that time and your wife would have gain trust of your friendship

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 6:56pm On Apr 13, 2023
mariahAngel:


Would you be okay with your wife hanging out with her male friends?

Why not?

She's an adult and can decide what she wants to accept or refuse.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 6:59pm On Apr 13, 2023
Aonkuuse:
why will you even keep female friends after marriage?? it doesn't make any sense at all, what if she is keeping a male friend, and she hangs out with him?

Insecurity /distrust is worrying a lot of you Nigerians.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 7:02pm On Apr 13, 2023
DrAbdulSuleman:


The supposed woman is my childhood friend .


I don't get why my wife is jealous of my childhood friend I've l known all my life .



Reassure your wife and check with her if she's cool with introducing your friend to her.

Don't stop your friendship yet.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by BadMus06(m): 7:28pm On Apr 13, 2023
She dosen't wanna lose her husby to these tiny legged ladies whose main aim is to destroy marriages

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by BadMus06(m): 7:35pm On Apr 13, 2023
Nlfpmod
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by mariahAngel(f): 7:42pm On Apr 13, 2023
KanuSE:


Why not?

She's an adult and can decide what she wants to accept or refuse.

KanuSE, you're not the husband. 👀

Also, it's not as simple as you state it.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 8:24pm On Apr 13, 2023
mariahAngel:


You're not the husband. 👀

Also, it's not as simple as you state it.

Na insecurity and mistrust dey worry all of una.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Pojomojo: 9:17pm On Apr 13, 2023
cheesy
No.

Healthy Relationships are based on Trust and Respect. A husband and wife need to have trust in one another AND be trustworthy!

This means that she doesn't trust you the husband around females. As you trusts her around other males.

However, with all that said - if a wife or husband has a bad feeling about a specific person, and asks you not to spend time around them - then you need to quit spending time around them!

Guys know when other guys are interested in their women, and women recognize when other women are on the prowl. You may think it’s just some harmless flirting, but always back off if your women, or man, feels strongly about it.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Rokiat(f): 10:36pm On Apr 13, 2023
Just a simple question, would you want her keeping male friends?

The answer to this question is the answer to your own.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by mariahAngel(f): 11:48pm On Apr 13, 2023
KanuSE:


Na insecurity and mistrust dey worry all of una.

Na yeye dey worry you. cheesy
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by mrblessed(m): 6:53am On Apr 14, 2023
Oga, look for male friends jare. You don't need female friends for your survival.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Mindlog: 6:59am On Apr 14, 2023
DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

Will you be jealous about your wife's friendship with another man and will you give her the go-ahead to continue to hang out with the supposed male friend even if he is her childhood friend?
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 9:29am On Apr 14, 2023
Rokiat:
Just a simple question, would you want her keeping male friends?

The answer to this question is the answer to your own.

Think of our present day female executives working in a male dominated environment, then ask yourself if it wouldn't be necessitated for such women to have and keep male friends.

In your own world, when a wife keeps male friends what does that imply? smiley
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by Rokiat(f): 9:55am On Apr 14, 2023
KanuSE:


Think of our present day female executives working in a male dominated environment, then ask yourself if it wouldn't be necessitated for such women to have and keep male friends.

In your own world, when a wife keeps male friends what does that imply? smiley

My question was directed at the poster thank you.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 10:01am On Apr 14, 2023
Rokiat:


My question was directed at the poster thank you.

You don't have to reply if you wouldn't have an intelligent discourse.

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Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by frozen70(f): 9:29pm On Apr 15, 2023
KanuSE:


You don't have to reply if you wouldn't have an intelligent discourse.
DrAbdulSuleman:
My wife is jealous about my friendship with another woman and doesn’t want me to hang out with this supposed friend anymore .

You just don't want peace

Why are you keeping female friends after marriage

Is she keeping her male friends too

Anyway if you can't stop it
Tell her to keep her own male friends too

Let's see who will feel the heat 🔥
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by KanuSE: 10:49pm On Apr 15, 2023
frozen70:


You just don't want peace

Why are you keeping female friends after marriage

Is she keeping her male friends too

Anyway if you can't stop it
Tell her to keep her own male friends too

Let's see who will feel the heat 🔥

No one is feeling any heat, y'all are just showcasing your insecurities...period!

She's an adult therefore can't be told what to do. I trust her.
Re: My Wife Doesn't Want Me Keeping Female Friends by frozen70(f): 11:43pm On Apr 15, 2023
KanuSE:


No one is feeling any heat, y'all are just showcasing your insecurities...period!

She's an adult therefore can't be told what to do. I trust her.

Am glad you trust her, make sure you don't come and say you don't trust her again

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