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Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Wotowotoman: 4:37pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
nabiz: You no are right. But it’s not Next of King. It is Next of Kin…. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Ajehkpako4naija(f): 4:41pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere:His legitimate non greedy wife |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Enemyofpeace: 4:44pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
His wife of course. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by 147abbey(m): 4:57pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
As the level is going now , Nah my papa will be my next of kin ooo cos is late already |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Fuckyoumod: 4:58pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Odin13:small pikin talk. How is she running your family when you don't have a good wife? |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by NapoleonHill: 4:59pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
nabiz: You're confidently empty. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Ghezo: 5:00pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere: Ordinarily your next of kin na your wife. But monogamy-mindset dey make too many women resent and nurse hatred for their hubby as per guyman must continue dey chop outside, because, na Africa society be that...one prick, many many pussy. So African men sef done wise up say, to keep your financial power in the hand of very bitter wife na suicide be that..the wife will seize the opportunity to punish you for any marital infidelity wey you done commit. So monogamous marriage between African man and woman, na cat and rat game. That's why a smart African man would hide some assets from his wife. Moreso, if perchance he had kids outside and he dies with his wife in control of his legacy those kids would SUFFER. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by 147abbey(m): 5:02pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
As the level is going now , Nah my papa will be my next of kin ooo cos he is late already lol |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by flokii: 5:05pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Women or should I say wives make their relatives their next of kin, not their husbands.. so what's the noise about husband making his beloved mother his next of kin? |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by chiboycue: 5:06pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere: Personally I would say that a man's wife should be his next of kin but someone like footballer Achraf Hakimi would say otherwise inorder to protect his assets from divorce issues. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by EnterpriseMan(m): 5:07pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Next of kin would definitely be a child of mine. Can't be mom because she's way older than me obviously and her prayers won't be for me to die before her. And a son, the smartest one |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by rebirthto: 5:13pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
I will rather will my properties to my female child, am sure she will be capable of taking care of the family OBJECTIVELY. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by tafabaloo(m): 5:17pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
To me, it's my mum and my younger brother. I'm entitled to my choice, pls. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Unrated900(m): 5:23pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
As for me. I will use my son Instead of my wife. D mistake my father made was to use my step mum as his next of kin since 1970 When sickness came father died, he forgot to change the next to me and my sisters Now step mum is about claiming all millions of property he left behind. So who s the dommy here. Thank God we are well to do today,if not story goes.. i rest here. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Unrated900(m): 5:24pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
As for me. I will use my son Instead of my wife. D mistake my father made was to use my step mum as his next of kin since 1970 When sickness came father died, he forgot to change the next to me and my sisters Now step mum is about claiming all millions of property he left behind. So who s the dommy here. Thank God we are well to do today,if not story goes.. i rest here |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Harmattan123(m): 5:26pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
saphiere:His wife is always there for him that's y she wants divorce He grows old with his wife after sharing his properties 50/50 Go n do more research before insinuating nuisance |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by TheGift: 5:29pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Your wife of course, except you are married to a Woman that doesn't have sense. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
habsydiamond:Why marry a greedy woman to start with when marriage should be your happy place?. She might have pretended but this is why courtship is very important as bad character reveals itself. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by TheGift: 5:32pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Even if you make your mother next of kin, it does not automatically give her inheritance rights, especially when the Man is survived by his lawfully wedded wife and children. They will still be given priority rights in the eyes of the law. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Mbsuxces: 5:37pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
We Human like to force things in our way.. If you meet a lady it is very easy for you to know if she truly love you or she is for the money.. There is always a sign but we don't listen... Hakimi knew something was wrong but it was late because they have kid together so he decided to play smart b4 the wife will notice him... Mom or Wife can be but study the both sometimes they might be same. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Oyerinde16(m): 5:41pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
I will say for the first 5-6 years of marriage, it should be the mother, but after that, he should transfer it to the wife... A foolish friend got married, quickly changed his next of kin to wife, 6 months into marriage, accident , Otilor... Wife come inherit wetin mama use 35 years build... |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by ncblaze: 6:03pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
It's quite sad that a subject matter like this would be debated. Our women have given us reasons to doubt them, hence the trust is tilting to our mothers. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Mom and wife. You people don’t have fathers? Lmao 2 Likes |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
ncblaze: Are you fatherless? 1 Like |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by cococandy(f): 6:04pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Oyerinde16: What happened to your fathers? Embarrassing 1 Like |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by fayomim: 6:15pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
nabiz: its Next of kin not Next of King |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by gaspology(m): 6:25pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
None. It is my direct child |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Acidosis(m): 6:29pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Your mother should be your next of kin only if she made her own mother (your grandmom) her next of kin. |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by ponishah: 6:50pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Puss360:You talk as life is a linear graph and every factor is so straight, There is no perfect answer in life behaviour based expectations and actual reality. The choice is yours, and anything you ever choose should be based on how you see your biological family, and your marital family. Let me ask you... let's say you get married at age 30 to a lady you have know for 2 years in friendship. Then ,3 months in marriage, you make her your next of kin. So, I ask,VI's your biological family that you have spent about 30 years of life with and had raised you sweated and almost bled for you so insignificant and untrustworthy that you now compare with a wife that you have roughly spent less than three years with? Why is a man's next of kin always a topic, why is the woman's next of kin not talked about - even when some ladies a richer than their spouse? Traditional, there is a stage in marriage that a wife becomes a "man" , it is earned with time and birth of children, 1 Like |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by gentleibraheem(m): 7:07pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
His wife |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Bfly: 7:28pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
In a world that is normal, It is unwise using mother as a next of kin. But wife is ok if she is younger. Then change it to your child as soon as s/he reaches a certain age. But in this crazy world your Mother then your child with verified DNA. Wife is no no no. Women are mistaking preferential treatment for gender equality |
Re: Who Should Be A Man's Next Of Kin Between His Mum And His Wife? by Popeonah(m): 7:36pm On Apr 15, 2023 |
Odin13:I'm sure you are a woman |
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