unattractive10:
good evening , everyone
I have a problem ,every since I have been on this earth no woman apart from my family has shown me love
everyone tells me am good looking infact I do all grooming stuffs
read all dating books followed different advices ,even got a dating coach
am very polite and good natured
yet women don't want me
infact if me and a lady start to talk within few days they won't want to see me again
I have prayed and cried unto God nothing has changed
Financially am doing well as a student
I have done self evaluation
I have asked ladies questions
Nothing seems to be wrong with me
yet no woman wants to talk or be friends with me
I feel like am invisible
I don't know if it is a spiritual problem
or something is wrong with me
I don't act needy or clingy yet women don't just like me
i am 6ft tall ,I have an athletic body but I still don't understand

sainttwist1:
you named yourself "unattractive"

unattractive10:
■ good evening , everyone. I have a problem , every since I have been on this earth no woman apart from my family has shown me love. everyone tells me am good looking infact I do all grooming stuffs. read all dating books followed different advices ,even got a dating coach. am very polite and good natured
yet women don't want me. infact if me and a lady start to talk within few days they won't want to see me again. I have prayed and cried unto God nothing has changed. Financially am doing well as a student
I have done self evaluation. I have asked ladies questions. Nothing seems to be wrong with me. yet no woman wants to talk or be friends with me. I feel like am invisible. I don't know if it is a spiritual problem
or something is wrong with me. I don't act needy or clingy yet women don't just like me. i am 6ft tall ,I have an athletic body but I still don't understand

Kobojunkiee:
1. First, leave God and spiritual bullsheet out of all this abeg!

Second, maybe you need to take your mind off women entirely and instead learn how to make good friends. You way you are all this and sure but your energy all seems too focused on women and that in itself can be a problem. Focus your energy on building yourself as an individual, a mind and a human. Please do not do any of this because you want women to be pleased. Remember, you are to remove your focus on women and instead focus on being a valuable individual in your community and society at large.

After a couple of years of this, you may find yourself in a whole different situation.

RightToReject:
I wager you have an erroneous concept of love and understanding of what women of different ethical leanings can offer you under different circumstances/subject to your standing at a given time.

Dogalmighty17:
You are trying too hard to attract women. That's why you lose them. Women can sense your desperation. The best way to get a woman is deny her the attention she craves. Note that i didn't say don't give her attention at all. Do not give her the LEVEL of attention she expects from you.
I hope you don't have terrible hygiene? Mouth or body odour? Does saliva jump from your mouth when you speak?
All in all, focus on yourself more. Adopt some bad boy vibes. Take your mind off women. They will be the one looking for you.

Dogalmighty17:
You are trying too hard to attract women. That's why you lose them. Women can sense your desperation. The best way to get a woman is deny her the attention she craves. Note that i didn't say don't give her attention at all. Do not give her the LEVEL of attention she expects from you.
I hope you don't have terrible hygiene? Mouth or body odour? Does saliva jump from your mouth when you speak?
All in all, focus on yourself more. Adopt some bad boy vibes. Take your mind off women. They will be the one looking for you.

Natbrowny:
Nothing spiritual about this ur parolz.

Increase ur social skills and interpersonal skills. Smile more and learn having good sense of humour.

D way me dey see u so judging frm wetin u dey type. U dey try form mr perfectionist. And dat makes people see u like u pretend to be who u r not

Dust ur shoes papi and be original. Be social and be creative in ur approach.

May not work but its a start.

unattractive10:
I flow well with other people even older women just that am invisible to women within my age bracket

Natbrowny:


F*ck ur age bracket. Go for younger ones.

Ur age bracket ladies will go for some1 older. Coz dats d order. So u go for some1 younger.
U aint invisible oo. U may not be keeping attention to some details. My advice. Go on a break, work on ursef.
And come back stronger 💪🏼.
Peace homie

Foodqueen:
Are your communication always in line with topic of discussion.

Do you act too mature, or too intelligent.

unattractive10:
I flow well with other people even older women just that am invisible to women within my age bracket

AfahaAbia:


What age range are u? so I can better advice u.

unattractive10:
early twenties

AfahaAbia:


It's normal. Just don't sweat it. The truth is that most girls your age won't really fancy dating you, why? Because they feel you won't be able to offer them the provision and experience an older man can offer. I'm in my 30s and most ladies who fancy me are mostly between the ages of 23-26, why? It's because I'm comfortable and have the experience of a mature man. Instead work on yourself(exercise),eat right, try to meet younger ladies between 19 -21 they tend to fancy guys your age.

unattractive10:
Ladies between the age of 14 and 21 don't see me
Infact am invisible to most women

unattractive10:
I was told by a lady that am too straight forward,honest and blunt to the core

AfahaAbia:


I know it can be difficult. But what I can assure you is that it's just a phase. It will pass just focus more on loving yourself. Talk to yourself every morning saying you're attractive ,you're wanted, women love me and want to be with me! Say this everyday. What this does is that you're trying bto change your mindset.

Foodqueen:


That's where your problems lies.

No woman wants a military daddy as a boyfriend. Hope you get it.

Loosen your tie and fly your collar.

Hope you understand.

unattractive10:
early twenties

Treassured:


Oh Really??

I enjoyed so much attention during my early teens days and my twenties and even up till this moment I still do. Despite being an Ambivert. I made good friends with both gender.

Just try and Improve on your Interpersonal Skills and stay Fit.

unattractive10:
I flow well with other people even older women just that am invisible to women within my age bracket