wirinet:


I never argued that she contributed anything to his footballing career, because I don't know. What I am against is the accusation that she was gold digging. I ask how much was Hakimi earning in 2017 - 2018 when their relationship started?

Difrent:


Seems Hiba wanted to "use" hakimi but the small boy was smart.....pray tell why us it a 19 years Old that a 34 years old rich woman chose to fall in love with? When she could have any equally rich suitor
Besides this story put all the blame on Hakimi....dont Hiba have any blame in the whole issue.....will hakimi just wake up one day and take that decision without a reason? What about runours of her infidelity? Which hakimi pretends not to know.
Hiba got fooled while she felt she was the one fooling hakimi.

Bucky001:
Your thought can't beat the smartness of our new legend, so keep your myopic thought to yourself coz you're not a football fan to know what has been happening to African footballers from their white partners

xendra:
It's funny because Hakimi's mum will cry blood and water if her husband did same to her but is happy when her son did it for her.

Now I don't pity the wife because by the story she may actually be a gold digger but I pity the boy because I believe the devil has won over his life.

Do not marry and especially do not have a child by a woman you cannot give properties to for the sake of your children, NOBODY in your family will take care of your children better than their mother, so it's stupid to will properties to your parent or siblings because (while you all are worried about divorce you forget there is such a thing as death and it can come anytime) they will use dat money for their own children first

So your sweat ends being used to take care of another man's children instead of your own because you are filled with hate for the mother of your children, now your own children will surffer. Make it make sense


And how come men aren't concerned he didn't put his properties in his father's name? They are just happy because it's an opportunity to spite a wife whereas every wife eventually becomes a mother

Wait oo... how is it the ones who have nothing to their names that are crying the most on my mention? ..lemao
Rich men no cry about gold digger like poor men I pity woman wey fall for una tears.

BRATISLAVA:


Spare us this reasoning.

Stop sounding sentimental, and ask why reasonable courts of justice are the ones who award these damages to women. No woman needs to "demand"it. You think a man picked a piece of wood from nowhere and brought it into his house as a wife and that when he's done he will toss it back outside and withhold his children. That is the Nigerian men's wisdom and justice. A lot of you need to get married, grow up or drop fundamentalist male sentiment.

The sentimental twist in the headline is that she demanded his money, someone she met in his relatively broke teens, and a lot of men who have nothing to their names but misogyny swallowed that without question and are vibrating in joy about unfounded claims. No man ever gave 100% of his wealth to his wife in a divorce, so all the eboue claims are sentimental and sensational. It's almost funny how men (boys perhaps) trigger themselves emotionally on false facts.

And the woman has her own money from all indications. Women have been sharing their wealth with men who they've divorced, too. Are those men not evil, scheming gold diggers who are demanding what they never worked for? Oh, sorry, they are men so they have pure intentions. The good news is that we will all see the end of the heroic wisdom of a boy that has been repeated all over Nigeria long before the Ugandan outlet used the right words to make boys go rabid.

Even if any woman struggles and becomes the Atlas to your world, you will still divorce her and expect her to be thrown away like a piece of wood because of the usual misogyny.

Work on your mindsets. This topic generates more noise then it's worth as it's mostly vengeful economically stunted boys commentary on it.

Bill gates and Jeff bezos didn't cry as much as Nigerian men. Even this hakmi guy is not as jubilant as they are. It means only one thing.

wirinet:


As I said earlier, the Emmanuel Eboe issue was over exaggerated. There was no way a divorce settlement can make a rich man expecially a footballer who made over $20 million during his career to be penniless and homeless. The court at worst can only share his properties, assets and money in half, and most times its not even up to half. Bill gates and Jef Bezos assets were not shared in half.
If Emmanuel went broke and penniless, it was due to his irresponsable lifestyle and not because his assets were shared in half.

Emmanuel Eboue himself have debunked the lies that the divorced rendered him homeless and penniless, but people prefer to believe sensational stories.

VIKTO83:
To those castigating Hakimi and insulting the mother...
I want to reveal something to u.
After d divorce wahala and trauma that Thiery Henry went through, I taught myself something....
Thoughbibwas young at d time but it made me reasoned and I had to incorporate a company name with the CAC the moment I started making small change. Every landed property I have is in d name of d company. Cars are in d name of d company except d one I bought for my wife in her name. The furniture in d house is in my wife's name and every other minor stuff.
Mind u I haven't married by d time I took d step of d registration. But I made my children sole owners of d company even though d company hasn't been in existence by substance and no kids too.
I had always had d names I wish to give my kids even while I was a kid. So I registered those names as partners.
When I started getting kids I then had a will that whatever the property or business will be shall be distributed to d kids only When they had all reached 20years.
When I got married after a couple of years she started her usual feminism and I wasn't in for that...though I tried to always Let her know (in love) it's unacceptable. With time she requested foe divorce herself. One thing ked to another and what she got was her car and furniture and minor stuff. They discovered to their amazement that I personally has nothing and that I'm just and employer in d position of advisory role to VICKY BROTHERS INVESTMENT LTD.
She regrets it till today. Every little thing that comes with receipt is now in d name of Vicky Brothers Investment Ltd. My farms, clinic property are all in there.
So if she had been a woman meant for forever, I would have incorporated her name as co-partner with a particular % of stake in Vicky Brothers Investment Ltd.
Why did into this far? Thiery Henry. What he went through had so much to reach every reasonable man.
As for d woman calling for d head of Hakimi and his mother...i will suggest u all sit down and plan on how to be good women, wives and also learn to make ur own money.
This doesn't exonerate men too. Some men marry rich women and go to d extent of killing her to inherit d wealth.
Everybody should work hard pls.

JovialJune:


Fixed.

Greenfusion:


Now assuming your brother is married for two years and his wife files for divorce and taken 50% of his wealth....he marries after some years.....and after 2 years the wife files for divorce and takes 50% of his wealth... how would u feel? and what would be your advice to him?

OriOko88:

D message is passed already. Oponu ode ni mama mi

JovialJune:


Fixed.

OriOko88:

Oponu ode ni mama mi... Yes i know that.

Bucky001:
Your thought can't beat the smartness of our new legend, so keep your myopic thought to yourself coz you're not a football fan to know what has been happening to African footballers from their white partners

tommy589:
Charles may be right to an extent with this write up.

But let's say Charles married a woman who had no means before the marriage. He established her in the marriage to have a business that became thriving and she's now successful. Is he still going to split his assets in half if she wants divorce?

JovialJune:



Fixed.

Gadafii:
I want to ask you, hakimi is not the type of husband you want for your daughter, is he the type of son you want for your self??

This jezebel gold digger has been with hakimi when he was hust 19 while she was years older than him, if tables were turn we would call the man sexual predator, but na women so it’s cool, plus a 19 year old boy is expected to own up to his action, if a 19 year old girl got involved with a 36 year old man, the man is manipulative

Your opinion about who ashraff giving his money to his mommy ends up in your assss bro

I would rather be a mommy boy than an eboue, no be today women like her don use men climb ladder, I wouldn’t even be surprised if she’s the mastermind of this rape case just so she can split from him


This is the first major win for the men folk, and I hope all men can learn from this, your mommy will always come ahead before your wife, but some of you will still want to form woke and modern, your eyes go Pepe

ITbomb:
Don't be like Hakimi.
May God bless you with a good wife

There should be a law that rewards wives who stay with their partners and keep their marital vows.

It should not be only those who walk away that get paid.

Hessem:


Will u give your daughter into a marriage like Hakimi?
Be truthful.

We Nigerians always judge things in a way it will favor us.If all the money have been on his mother's account,have u asked yourself how they have been paying bills?
Common sense is not common

Ashley86400:


Achraf was the one cheating on his wife and raping women, oga.
One of the rape cases is still ongoing now sef.

Boyooosa:


U r mixing two different cultures, the one in Nigeria and the one in abroad.

Our culture is simple here, after demise of a husband, his first family (wife(s) and the children) automatically inherits his properties except if will states otherwise.

In the case of divorce, a man by legal responsibility, takes care of the wellbeing of the estranged wife and sponsor their kids, sufficiently but does not equate to a particular sharing formula, most especially when they do not have any joint venture.

This is in contradiction to what happens in western world, they settle for a sharing formula because it is believed they both own their wealth by the virtue of marriage.

In my opinion, divorce should not be seen by the fellow female folks as a means of exploitation and also, male folks should not see spouse's wealth as a gold site to mine

Angelfrost:


Hakimi is not interested in being anyone's hero... People who ascribed that status to him, had their personal reasons!

He made choices based on what was right in his own eyes... That's his full right!

Anyone celebrating him is not wrong just as those vilifying him are not right too!

Judge no man... He no kill person! He made financial decisions based on the level of trust he has for those closest to him!

Hating on him is unreasonable and childish!

BloomingDale:
Quote: “Nigerian women are the most abused wives in the world. Trust me. That's why when our brothers take them overseas and their eyes open, they rebel.“

When I tell Nigerian wives they are one of the most abused women in the world by their Nigerian husbands, they think I’m lying. They think abuse is just their husbands insulting or beating them. This is a male writer that knows what he is talking about.

You can even see the display here on Nairaland with all the insults towards women. These ones will later go and become someone’s husband and continue the cycle of abuse.

No wonder you hardly find a truly happy Nigerian marriage, and the organizations that do the most damage are the religious organizations, which are either led by misogynistic men or their damaged female counterparts. They keep the cycle of abuse ongoing.

Fahvvy:
And this one thought he made sense ...
Lemme address your pints sir...

1. That a woman has money doesn't absolve her from being a gold digger sir ...

If she wasn't a gold digger, let her go with her money and leave the young man with his money, why want half his assets? ...

2. A woman's intelligence doesn't stop her from being a woman ...

And as you can see, with all her intelligence and ability to speak multiple languages, she still acted like EVERY OTHER WOMAN acts in the course of a divorce, so what are we saying ...

3. Whether or not she contributed to his rise isn't certain, I mean just because a woman is with a man who is just starting up doesn't mean she contributed to his rising ...

She could just be there hoping he rises and then cash out from it in future ...

But however, that she contributed to his rising doesn't make her entitled to half his stuff ...

If a woman who has known him for just 5years wants half his stuff, how about a woman who has sacrificed her all for his entire life?

What percentage is she entitled to? ...

4. That's your wahala...

5. That's an allegation sir and unless proven otherwise, he is INNOCENT ...