Please is there anything wrong that husband,wife and children all have and sleep separately in their respective rooms and bed.

Must husband and wife share same bed and room to define intimacy/closeness and bond between them or what can be called martal bed.

There is nothing wrong with it
That way everyone can have their own space & personal time. Even in marriage we still need personal time

When both of them are too proud to come for sex then they become strangers to themselves...

It happen wen u don't want to have enough children..some man John-tomos no get control..stand minute by minute

Having your own space while still married can strengthen your union. It's also called Respect my Space

Sharing thesame bed does not necessarily create any bond of intimacy between couples. A husband can have his wife sleeping next to him and still be chatting side chick.

It is better for husband and wife to share the same room on a small bed with a huuuuggeee closet while the children have their own separate rooms. E get why o.

tballeyy:
It happen wen u don't want to have enough children..some man John-tomos no get control..stand minute by minute

These some-men never heard of a vasectomy?

I think it depends on the nature of your relationship, committed relationships and marriages are all about compromising for each other.

You don't always get what you want because you have to consider the other person.

Such things are better off discussed earlier in your relationship, before you take things to the next level.

Kobojunkiee:
These some-men never heard of a vasectomy?

it killed man physically mentally emotionally and spiritually

I think it may affect their sexual intimacy as the rate of having feelings for each other and sex may be reduced

tballeyy:
it killed man physically mentally emotionally and spiritually

Then such where never men, to begin with, but walking dummies pretending to be men. If what makes you a man or woman is rendered meaningless by a mere surgical procedure, then you were near fully whole from your beginning.

farous:
Please is there anything wrong that husband,wife and children all have and sleep separately in their respective rooms and bed.

Most husband and wife who share same bed are having closeness and bond between them or what can be called martal bed.

When you see husband and wife sleeping in the same room and same bed all the night
Despite the wife having separate room

They must have been relating like friends and lovers that always wants to be together

It still give them room to bond with each other and love each other more

While those who sleeps in separate rooms don't really bond like the other

That doesn't mean they don't love themselves, they do but they just want space

Nothing wrong but if not handled well can cause a lot of damages, yes. you can have separate rooms for your things but make sure sleeping is done together.

One of my love languages is physical touch so nope not for me.

I need morning spooning and occasional cuddles through the night.

Sleeping together is just a preference... Some likes it, some don't....
But all I know is , when you love and get married to your best friend, then you guys will do everything single thing together without it looking weird .....
Sleeping together makes a couple very close and very free with eachother...
It also makes one to be acutely aware of the health of the other....
It also makes their kids see the importance of Love when both parents sleeps together....
It also makes sex to be spontaneous instead of "timetable"....
It also makes it easier for both of them to discuss mental, physical, and social issues together especially those nighttime gist before sleeping.....

Gateway to becoming strangers, however I do support a separate room for "whatever the Bleep you need space for" then going back to normal shared room.

Even though some religious settings kick against it, I don't really see anything wrong there. If you truly love and care for each other, it won't affect your relationship.or marriage or even encourage any form of drifting or cheating. After all, when you guys were dating, you were sleeping apart for the most part of it, yet you got married.

I'm big on personal space and privacy especially when sleeping. Most times before I finally retire for the night, Im usually on the phone for hours and this might disturb the other person or means I'll have to adjust and drop the habit which may not sit well with me, like sort of inconveniencing myself. So, I'll rather just be apart.

Another reason I don't really fancy the idea of a shared space is because, some men don't know how to sleep. some just want to use you as pillow, holding you while sleeping and at the end of the day you don't get to sleep well or even sleep at all. That's not bonding, you're depriving yourself of good quality sleep which will take a toll on your health in the long run. If you want to bond, during the day, we could cuddle each other and have our lovey dovey moments ( not sex) It could even be at the beach. So there should be time and space for everything.

I remember the last time I visited my guy. He wouldn't let me sleep and I just hated him for it. He wanted to use me as pillow. Go now oga, he just wants to rest his big head on my tommy and chest. Na so I push am go one corner. Sofri go for ground on cold tiles and slept off like a baby. Next morning baba dey tell me say, "I was just looking at you last night" huh.. I said "and so? Make person no sleep because she come visit you. Abeg park well. Even if we were married, I would have still done the same thing.
I love my sleep!

Lastly, whether you sleep in the same room in each other's arms o, or sleep in separate rooms, person wey wan cheat go still cheat. A man will remove his wife's hand from his body and still go meet Ekaete for her room sleep with her. So why deprive myself of natures beautiful gift for one yeye bonding wey no work? Bondfire!

farous:
Please is there anything wrong that husband,wife and children all have and sleep separately in their respective rooms and bed.

Must husband and wife share same bed and room to define intimacy/closeness and bond between them or what can be called martal bed.

I have this rule of thumb. Spouses must have be united in as many things as possible because the areas where they are divided or separated are cracks in the marriage that can be leveraged to destroy the marriage.

Generally science says things like sharing beds and eating from same plates promote bonding/attachment between any two people, even of same sex. How much more a married couple?
Many of us with close friends while growing up will see that the ones we hold dear are those we shared things with. It's simple human psychology.
However, every couple can choose whatever works for them. Some of us need some personal space too. But we should all know that when you don't share bed with your spouse, it's easier to fall apart when there's misunderstanding.

Kobojunkiee:
Then such where never men, to begin with, but walking dummies pretending to be men. If what makes you a man or woman is rendered meaningless by a mere surgical procedure, then you were near fully whole from your beginning.

U have no right to endorse who a man is. Are u one? No, so stick to defining who a real woman is.
On the other hand, Why can't the woman surgically remove her womb instead.

Thiefnubuu and his useless wife sleeps separately. She can't stand his morning bad breath.

Omo everything is wrong o... My parents have been sleeping in the same room for more than 30yrs now.

No, nothing is wrong.
Infact, they don’t need to be having s2x, they can rent face me I face u and be living apart having only phone intimacy

Op, u de think like this dunce below:

It's actually the best for married couples

farous:
Please is there anything wrong that husband,wife and children all have and sleep separately in their respective rooms and bed.

Must husband and wife share same bed and room to define intimacy/closeness and bond between them or what can be called martal bed.

In the begining , it was not so.

Nope

Depends on the couple, whatever works for them.

There is no formula for this thing called "marriage".

Couples should do what they are both comfortable with. shikena.!!

What’s the essence of the marriage