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Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by chidiwar(m): 7:47pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Justicemy8: That's very wrong... U do this mostly when an outside is coming for the intro.. U don't do that when its the other way round ... |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Fab21: 7:52pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
In Yoruba land, the groom's family would pay. My Dad was telling me this few days ago.. Honestly, man needs to get enough cash before going into Marriage. But there are somethings that are not right as regards Yoruba culture.. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by PrimadonnaO(f): 8:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Hambivert: My exact thoughts on this matter. Nigerians are funny Why marry 3 times? Court Church Trad Duplicating the essence in a most amusing fashion. 3 Likes |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 8:21pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Okay... But just because I know much about my tribe doesn't necessarily mean I'll make a good wife material, not that I'm saying I'll make a bad one. I'm a Pedi and I did Sepedi as a home language from primary till high school, it's only fair that I know about it. OBTOREPA: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 8:24pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Ahh! From asking about my tribe, to checking it up, and now the brother wants to connect..🤣🤣🤣 Slow down, speed kills..😂😂 candyguyofficia: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by litaninja(m): 8:39pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Stop dating and getting hitched to broke leeches like this....una no dey hear word. Jennyclay: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by litaninja(m): 8:39pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Still dem here. Always hungry, always leeching. EriMma1: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by ozo13(m): 8:47pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
PerfectStranger:I swear I swear I swear you are right.If one meet such a lady, I feel the man should tell such a babe what he can do and what he can't not do.If na sensible family, they will consider. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by ozo13(m): 8:49pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
DonBenny77:😂😂😂 |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by davidtemi(m): 8:53pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
ikdaddy01:Stop dat. Which kind na d man oh. STOP THAT ! |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by sniperr007(m): 8:53pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 8:59pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
What's natal?🤣🤣🤣 sniperr007: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by sniperr007(m): 9:11pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Samantha124: Kwa Zulu natal |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 9:14pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Much better.. I thought you would get it wrong so I can laugh some more..ðŸ¤ðŸ¤ðŸ¤ I'm from Limpopo, but I am currently based in KZN. sniperr007: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by sniperr007(m): 9:18pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Samantha124: Oh I am Very familiar with South Africa. Where in KZN are you based |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Nobody: 9:26pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Umhlanga. sniperr007: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Merisbankie(m): 9:31pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
CalabarPikin: Village youth basketballers suppose collect their own |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Lovelydaisies: 9:42pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
My husband took care of that. The introduction was just he, his friend and my parents and my brother. The bride price entertainment was handled by him but we, the ladies handled the cooking. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by sniperr007(m): 9:47pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Samantha124: That's a Porsche area |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by BmAe: 10:10pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Enice:i think you are wrong |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by tunize(m): 11:03pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
If money dey wella all this things na less marry enter house |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by BmAe: 11:15pm On Apr 17, 2023 |
Lovelydaisies:uhmmm because probably you told him you don't have. Because at first he never said he was coming to eat. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by osidion2020(m): 12:06am On Apr 18, 2023 |
The girls father shoulders that responsibility, afterall he's the one receiving the guest, my dad did this during my sister's wedding. BmAe: |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by sharone21(f): 2:36am On Apr 18, 2023 |
worldclass68: Thanks for being truthful.... Even wedding wife's family HELP the man as if without that the man no go fit cope.... This is where 50:50 marriage started from( Hard fact!) But, SE and SS for introduction the woman's family can prepare things though the man can send some money especially if he is boxed up... Some people do introduction which never gets to proper wedding level so, who bears the loss? Wife's families are beginning to have 2nd thoughts on this For wedding, same thing: your culture helps the man, that is why boys in their 20s who are still living in parent's houses are emboldened to marry unlike in SE SS where, if u never ready, na u Sabi.... Wife's side and friends can support in SE SS . 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by worldclass68(m): 7:20am On Apr 18, 2023 |
sharone21: I understand ur points, however normally they dont really encourage boys to get married in 20s or lemme say early 20s even if the supposed boys were ready, working and having financial capabilities, but if atleast 25 upwards and done with sch and gotten a good work/skill..... yes the bride's family can surely support them, and if the family is rich enough and want to throw in a really good show, they can foot the whole wedding, and in the event that the groom doesn't have that financial capabilities, they often advise they do a simple and less expensive wedding or no wedding party at all..everything is based on his or their pockets...and some grooms or families would ran into depts just to impress maybe his bride's families, friends and Visa Visa as the case maybe...which is bad sha... Abnormally....boy of maybe 18 or 20 just give his age mate belle, the girl family been wanting to offload her before so they will send her out make she go meet person wey give ham belle and the boy family self no send ham because they re living in lemme say face me I slap u house managing two rooms with papa mama and 4 children......or maybe worsen. That's the case u re referring to, and this only happens in poverty shrinking societies and it doesn't have to do with specific cultures or tribes cuz I have seen this case every tribe in Nigeria. Although, in some cultures, the girl's family would frustrate the boy's life and give him limitations until he hustle funds to do what's the tradition requires. While some cultures would rather ease it on him and give him their blessing. In this case I'll rather support the former because the boy supposed to face the consequences rather than trying to encourage nonsense... 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by cejaypriesty(m): 8:06am On Apr 18, 2023 |
BmAe:The bride's family pays for the food and refreshments with the groom also contributing towards refreshments depending on the number of expected visitors using mine as a yardstick |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by OBTOREPA(m): 8:08am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Samantha124:It simply means you obtained some maximum home trainings. How many of these ladies even in nairaland knows there culture, so for you to do so means a plus for any potential husband. Because I know that you are been taught other things that could make you an outstanding wife except you choose not to because of this there so called feminism. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by princeogbeide1(m): 8:37am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Muffassa: So ture. So sad the poverty rating among Nigerian girls is nearly 100% 1 Like |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Lovelydaisies: 11:27am On Apr 18, 2023 |
BmAe: You can keep your mouth shut, if you have nothing else to do with it. We are talking about tradition. If you feel pained, stay celibate. When your sister(s) want(s) to marry, that is if you have got any, they can handle it with their own money or you can handle it for all their suitors. What the tradition states is what we are discussing. And you are not the OP. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Lovelydaisies: 11:30am On Apr 18, 2023 |
BmAe: You can keep your mouth shut, if you have nothing else to do with it. We are talking about tradition. If you feel pained, stay celibate. When your sister(s) want(s) to marry, that is if you have got any, they can handle it with their own money or you can handle it for all their suitors. What the tradition states is what we are discussing. |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by Gidabiller2: 11:35am On Apr 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Ashawos can't really relate with this kinda topics u knw? |
Re: Who Is To Pay For An Introduction Reception In A Bride House by profito: 11:58am On Apr 18, 2023 |
The Woman's family is to do the cooking to entertain her visitors. well, the Man can give a hand but its not a must! |
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