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Depression After Been Scammed by DPlanB1(m): 3:34pm On Apr 19, 2023
Hello everyone
Please pardon my bad written English language
It been 2 years since I made a post asking if my visa agent was a scam , well my fear became a reality because I was successful scammed of 3.5 million naira of my entire life savings by the evil agent and the wife
All my attempts to recover my money proved abortive as they disappeared without trace , infact I found that I wasn't the only one that falled into their trap
Till present day I am no longer myself, I seek solace in God but nothing seems to be working , rather each passing day my anxiety, depression , feeling of abadonment by family that I once was their pride kept growing
Worse memory of my ordeal is that fact that I sold my car to fund these movement
Right now I'm in a friend's place in lagos and feeding is a serious problem
I really need help please
Anything to get me out of these state of mind and financial crisis is welcomed
Thank you guys
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by MN07: 3:55pm On Apr 19, 2023
DPlanB1:
Hello everyone
Please pardon my bad written English language
It been 2 years since I made a post asking if my visa agent was a scam , well my fear became a reality because I was successful scammed of 3.5 million naira of my entire life savings by the evil agent and the wife
All my attempts to recover my money proved abortive as they disappeared without trace , infact I found that I wasn't the only one that falled into their trap
Till present day I am no longer myself, I seek solace in God but nothing seems to be working , rather each passing day my anxiety, depression , feeling of abadonment by family that I once was their pride kept growing
Worse memory of my ordeal is that fact that I sold my car to fund these movement
Right now I'm in a friend's place in lagos and feeding is a serious problem
I really need help please
Anything to get me out of these state of mind and financial crisis is welcomed
Thank you guys

Op I lost over 8million my entire life savings less than 6 months ago.

You can do either one of two things
- Stop whining get yourself engaged with any job to rebuild.
- Or remain depressed and nothing changes.

If only suicide was easy and less painful I would have chose that route but I was scared I wouldn't be able to bear the pain that's the only reason I'm still here.

So your choice.
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by marwanafrica: 7:43pm On Apr 19, 2023
MN07:


Op I lost over 8million my entire life savings less than 6 months ago.

You can do either one of two things
- Stop whining get yourself engaged with any job to rebuild.
- Or remain depressed and nothing changes.

If only suicide was easy and less painful I would have chose that route but I was scared I wouldn't be able to bear the pain that's the only reason I'm still here.

So your choice.

How we're u be able to get a new job
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by Eyinju112(f): 7:52pm On Apr 19, 2023
MN07:


Op I lost over 8million my entire life savings less than 6 months ago.

You can do either one of two things
- Stop whining get yourself engaged with any job to rebuild.
- Or remain depressed and nothing changes.

If only suicide was easy and less painful I would have chose that route but I was scared I wouldn't be able to bear the pain that's the only reason I'm still here.

So your choice.
This is serious. 8 million in this harsh economy. Sorry about that.

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Re: Depression After Been Scammed by MN07: 8:43pm On Apr 19, 2023
marwanafrica:


How we're u be able to get a new job

I will try to summarize.

I already lost my job as Telecom project Coordinator before all this happened.

So I went out to one hotel close to where I live and worked as a gate man during the night and during the day I worked as a teacher because I couldn't afford to feed myself. Few of my friends supported me as well. God bless them immensely by the way. So I kept applying for anything else around my area that could pay better.

I was lucky I did get another as an admin officer which pays better than the gateman and teacher gig, so I stopped both and right now I'm still chasing better opportunity.

This is just a summary of what I'm still going through I can't explain it all here.
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by MN07: 8:46pm On Apr 19, 2023
Eyinju112:

This is serious. 8 million in this harsh economy. Sorry about that.

I used to be scared of dying but after losing everything I have worked for, death for me is now a gift.
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by DPlanB1(m): 10:22pm On Apr 19, 2023
MN07:


Op I lost over 8million my entire life savings less than 6 months ago.

You can do either one of two things
- Stop whining get yourself engaged with any job to rebuild.
- Or remain depressed and nothing changes.

If only suicide was easy and less painful I would have chose that route but I was scared I wouldn't be able to bear the pain that's the only reason I'm still here.

So your choice.
I don't wish to continue in my current state of mental health reason I took the bold step of bringing it up here, I pray for the strength to push on like u did
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by marwanafrica: 5:07am On Apr 20, 2023
MN07:


I will try to summarize.

I already lost my job as Telecom project Coordinator before all this happened.

So I went out to one hotel close to where I live and worked as a gate man during the night and during the day I worked as a teacher because I couldn't afford to feed myself. Few of my friends supported me as well. God bless them immensely by the way. So I kept applying for anything else around my area that could pay better.

I was lucky I did get another as an admin officer which pays better than the gateman and teacher gig, so I stopped both and right now I'm still chasing better opportunity.

This is just a summary of what I'm still going through I can't explain it all here.



I am happy for you Sir.
I have been apply for jobs since 2019 but nothing is forthcoming just looking forward for better days
Re: Depression After Been Scammed by MN07: 9:03am On Apr 20, 2023
DPlanB1:
I don't wish to continue in my current state of mental health reason I took the bold step of bringing it up here, I pray for the strength to push on like u did

It's not going to be easy I'm not going to lie but at this point how low can you go

Praying is good but God won't bring employers to your door step.

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