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Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:09pm On Apr 19, 2023
Hi guys! I'm sorry I've not posted for a while. I've been busy steady chasing these papers daily, so let's cool off here dear brothers.

Women with saggy boobs : There is no justification for this, any woman with saggy boobs is not even worthy of sex, not to talk of marriage. That shit is disgusting. There is a particular lady in one of our WhatsApp groups that guys always hit on, both in the group and in her DM(she always posts screenshots of her DM).

She's not even beautiful, though she's dark (that can be accounted for beauty) so, one day, she sent her picture into the group, and I saw guys throwing all kinds of sweet comments so much that I had to check the picture. Bro! yeah! When I saw that picture, I wanted to throw up. Like WTF?

Sis wasn't putting on a bra and she was just on some singlet or sort. Her boobs outline was like a leaking sachet water. Yet, some guys were throwing positive comments. Boobs don't get saggy easily unless during lactation, for girls to have had a pair of saggy boobs, it means she must had gone through the hands of the sons of Pharoah who press boobs like fufu which is sold at Anambra.

This kinda girls are like when someone eats a piece of meat in his mouth, sallows all the sweetness and spits it out again for you to eat. Never do that bro, you deserve better. If her boobs are being respectful to you instead of being up in your face, bro safe trip. She ain't shit.

single mothers : I've said it several times that these ones are not even to be considered at all. You know the bone that remains after eating that your chicken wing right? Yo , you got it bro. That's what they are.
Anyone who is responsible for their first kid has eaten all of the meat, you can't be craving for a bone which is not a briskit. Only dogs crave for bones. Ladies become single moms mainly thru 2 ways:

No 1. waywardness. She got pregnant thru who.ring around, left a broke husbands, or sent out of home e.tc. This kind of ladies should not be considered at all. She a hoe, and guess what? Hoes don't change, they only move from one nigga to the other. Hence the saying, from one bad guy to another.

NO 2. Unfortunate circumstances , maybe a widow or rape victim etc.
Whoever these ones are, they ain't your problem. If she's so unfortunate that she was raped or her husband died on her.
What makes you think the bad energy that she exhumes and mete out won't affect you as well. Though she was just unlucky, but that ain't your business, most broke men are not lazy as well, they are just unlucky, yet, women don't give a hoot about them,so, why should you give a bleep about them too bruv! It's high likely that a victim of rape already has an undiscovered hatred for men , she'll take it out on you. Flee!
In my previous thread, I gave a scenario:

If a general manager of a company got caught up in an accident and he loses both legs, the company immediately terminates his appointment, they may pay him off though, but they can't keep his job, the accident wouldn't be his fault, but who cares? The company needs one who is fit for the job, he is unlucky, and that's nobody's business. Anyone who is a victim of rape or a widow is unlucky. Simply avoid the unlucky.
Recently I came across a group, and a lady, not a lady persay, let's say a mummy. Anyone with a kid is a mummy, even if she's 15.
In the group, she introduced herself with a picture, she's got 2 kids, she's broke and she's looking for a heaven on earth man. I checked her pic and bro! This bitch was ugly as F. So, I just bounced on to read chats from people who sell stuffs and do droppings.
To my surprise, the following week, this same lady dropped a feedback saying 25 different men came into her DM but she narrowed them down to 2, the 2, single with most money .
When I heard that man! Local man was flabbergasted. Like she's got 2 kids nigga, got a terrible face and she's so picky. We did a poor job raising boys these days, most 'these guys grew up to be a disgrace.
Like a single mom who is supposed to be on her best behaviour, she's supposed to be happy if any guy went into her DM to begin with. Shit.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:11pm On Apr 19, 2023
Divorced: No long cappings. Any woman who either divorced or got divorced is not fit for marriage. Whatever made her husband divorce her was because he was tired, you'll be tired too, so, don't trip. She's already full of baggages and garbages. She'll avenge you of her husband's error so, wipe it.
If vice versa? The same thing that made her got tired of her husband will make her get tired of you as well. She lacks endurance. Haven't you seen women divorce their husbands when they go broke.

Women above 25: Most women who are of this age are already on their way to expiration when it comes to marriage affairs. Most of them are graduates, they mostly cohabitated with their boyfriends , lived couple's life or were part time or full time Olosho when they were on campus.
They've been eaten and eaten and eaten that they've eaten all the good things out of them. They've been into many relationships and they are full of experiences. They are no longer innocent, they've seen front , they've seen back, they've seen the middle and the deepest part of whatever you can think of in a sex life.

There is a particular lady on my status list, she always posts about Jesus, she dresses like them MummyGOs and she's always about give your life to Christ thing. The day her cover was blown huh! It was appalling, "this shenkess dey knack", "she dey knack pass carpenter". So bro, don't be deceived, whether she was a member of heaven's fellowship is no exemption.
A girl of 25years and above is o longer a girl, she's a man. A man should not marry another man, peace out.

Women who bleach: Don't even go for these ones, they smell. Any lady who is not comfortable in her own skin cannot be satisfied. She can never be satisfied with you. They are fake and inconsistent. Have you thought of child bearing? CS and all? It is what it is bro. When you marry a woman that bleach, good chance your children will bleach too. Unless if you bleached too, then it makes it a family thing. I don't know if this makes sense here, but look at a family, he husband is fair and his wife is fair, but his kids are dark. Something must have gone wrong somewhere,well it's not my business.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Nobody: 8:14pm On Apr 19, 2023
Most women are not worth it....if it were not for the sake of having children and raising them in a two parent stable household theres actually no need for men to wife up these bandits we have running around

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:14pm On Apr 19, 2023
fat woman: There is a great chance a lady will naturally add on weights after being delivered of a baby so, why go for a fat woman in the first place?Most fat women are mostly lazy, dirty and sluggish.
They look older than their age. They are the kinds of people their husbands call mummy. This is crazy,you call your own wife mummy, because she obviously looks like she can chew you. This is the reason many men cheat with someone younger.
That fat shit is really really disgusting, do you not see Kate Henshaw? She ain't? Talk to yourself bro!

extremely short women(consider your children): Manageable a bit if you are really tall, but she must have a beautiful face to compliment it. Help your children, height is an added advantage in this world we live in. Many women out there also do not want to marry a short guy, why should you as a man?

women with bad character and unfavorable reputation : A woman of bad character will do nothing other than to desecrate your image, let's say your woman is a thief, what do you think will be on people's lips when you do any great thing? Obviously, they'll be like "Only a thief can marry a thief"

women who don't respect you: I tell this to the youngings out there. There is no such thing as getting free with each other, so your woman calls you "fool" , "mumu" , "Idiot", "bitch" e.t.c and you'll smile like a ram what just heard that eid-l-kabr has been postponed all in the name of playing, like WTF? Now look at your parents, yo! look at 'em bro. Have you ever heard your mom call your dad any of those words up there?
I get it, you are trying to be flexible right? Be flexible and be disrespected. Respect comes naturally, you can't force it bro. Michael Jackson was arguably the greatest musician to have walked on the surface of the earth, but I tell you bro, there would still be some women who didn't respect him when he was alive.

You don't need to force a girl to respect, just don't allow disrespect. It always start from silly things like "Big head". Whose head is big please? is her father's head not bigger than yours? A girl who doesn't respect you will not take time to dump you. It is just what it is (I'll go on to explain more in the future)

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 8:15pm On Apr 19, 2023
women with a terrible past lifestyle: First thing you should know is that women are like snakes , when a snake sheds it's skin, it definitely looks good about that time. The old skin is gone but the snake is still the same, that is exactly what happens with women.
A who.re suddenly changes because she's old and she's losing her sexual touch, the kind of man that is available is the kind she changes to. That's when she'll start going to church, start using hijab and all, so one unsuspecting guy in his primitive mind would think he has found a vessel of honor not knowing that infact she's a vessel of dishonor and misfortune.

Imagine a lady who has had about 5 abortions, a girl who was into hook-up or a girl who lived a couple's life when she was in school. What do you think you have left, only chaff, just chaff. Before you wife any lady, please run a follow-up on her, know her ex, know the reason they quit. The truth can only be hidden for so long. Remember you are not just choosing a wife for yourself , you are also choosing a mom for your kids.
A who.re will most likely give birth to a LovePeddler, the blood is already contaminated.
What happened to her ex-boyfriend ? Why did they breakup? Know that girls are always very deceitful, she won't tell you the exact reason, they are never at fault. Girls are turning 18 every month, I don't see no reason why you should settle for an old hag.

Old lady: There are too many things to say about this, so I'll be doing that in the series 2

At the end of the day, Marriage is a set up. Please avoid it if you can.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by timiade446(m): 8:27pm On Apr 19, 2023
Those with terrible lifestyles

I agree with you on that πŸ˜‚

Na church dem go later use disguise say Dey don give their life to Christ πŸ˜‚

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 19, 2023
timiade446:
Those with terrible lifestyles

I agree with you on that πŸ˜‚

Na church dem go later use disguise say Dey don give their life to Christ πŸ˜‚

As it stands now ehn e be like say church na the worst place to find wife because most of them are just repackaged oloshos...women know what they are doing

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Westerhoffe(m): 8:39pm On Apr 19, 2023
Don't just jump into marriage if you don't want to jump out later.
Let GOD choose for you. That way, you'd have no regrets.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Eriokanmi: 8:50pm On Apr 19, 2023
@FRANCISTOWN, na wetin women com do you like this? Most of them had delayed marriages while some remained single for life due to the disappointment from guys like you. They didn't choose the status or condition in which they found themselves. Some chose to pursue career instead of getting married early and this is so common among our yoruba ladies. That doesn't mean they're not attractive or lived a wayward past but because they chose to embrace careers instead.

Let me shock you. I married a virgin lady at 29 while i was 30 plus. Very pretty. She chose to keep herself. She had had failed relationships in the past because sex was introduced. Each time she turned down guys sex offers, the next thing was to breakup.

My advise is, seek God's face before you marry. Even if she's pretty and in her early 20s, she can still frustrate your life or become wayward or a monster when she eventually enters your home. A lot of people have missed it in life by making wrong choices in their marriages. I remember a lady who once came to see a Dr friend for counselling. She said she's been waiting all these years to marry a tall guy, thinking he'd be able to satisfy her in bed but what she got was the opposite. She actually met a tall and handsome guy but this one had a very small genital. She was all in tears. My friend now cancelled her. He told her to make do with what she had. He said its a wrong notion that once a guy is tall, his genital too would be long. He said many short men he had seen had very long genitals. He mentioned a patient whose wife ran out of the house because of his big and long genital yet the man was short.

If you pray to God on the kind of woman you want, you'd not make a wrong choice, regardless of age, status or even outward look. Madam Okonjo-iweala's husband would forever be grateful to God for his choice, Madam Oby Ezekwesili husband too. You know these ladies aren't pretty outwardly but full of beauty on the inside. Millions of women globally now wish to be like them. That's what I'm saying.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by youngsahito(m): 8:51pm On Apr 19, 2023
Is their any woman that doesn't have this kind of trait. Nobody is innocent in this life that church gal that u are eying sef ft bad pass some olosho.
Almighty God should just choose a better wifey for us...Ameen

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:09pm On Apr 19, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:
Women who bleach:
fat women:
women with bad character and unfavorable reputation
women who don't respect you:
emotionally/physically abusive women

you are absolutely right about the above

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by JJfrank22(m): 10:17pm On Apr 19, 2023
When you are married, you'll come and tell us whether what you carried is NEW CHASSIS

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Vinnie2000(m): 11:36pm On Apr 19, 2023
OP, You are Correct on the Bleaching ladies.

They are Never Satisfied, Vain, mostly Empty-headed and will Bleach ur Kids too.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Kobicove(m): 12:08am On Apr 20, 2023
This thread reeks of misogyny undecided
Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by AndrewTate(m): 12:25am On Apr 20, 2023
πŸ˜‚this guy has zero tolerance for peace πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by 1Sharon(f): 12:55am On Apr 20, 2023
Can you post evidence that shows saggy boobs are due to promiscuity?
Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by LordFriar: 2:02am On Apr 20, 2023
1Sharon:
Can you post evidence that shows saggy boobs are due to promiscuity?

Lozz.. So you get saggy boobs and you don dey fear?!

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Blitzking: 2:04am On Apr 20, 2023
Most women with big boobs av saggy boobs..you won't know until u remove the bra....

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by onumadu: 3:55am On Apr 20, 2023
FRANCISTOWN:

Women above 25: Most women who are of this age are already on their way to expiration when it comes to marriage affairs. Most of them are graduates, they mostly cohabitated with their boyfriends , lived couple's life or were part time or full time Olosho when they were on campus.
They've been eaten and eaten and eaten that they've eaten all the good things out of them. They've been into many relationships and they are full of experiences. They are no longer innocent, they've seen front , they've seen back, they've seen the middle and the deepest part of whatever you can think of in a sex life.


There is a particular lady on my status list, she always posts about Jesus, she dresses like them MummyGOs and she's always about give your life to Christ thing. The day her cover was blown huh! It was appalling, "this shenkess dey knack", "she dey knack pass carpenter". So bro, don't be deceived, whether she was a member of heaven's fellowship is no exemption.
A girl of 25years and above is o longer a girl, she's a man. A man should not marry another man, peace out.


@First bolded, I agree somewhat on the basis that I preach that a girl should marry at 18 if possible, she can have all her children by age 26, and then go to university to continue studying after child birthing years. E get why, and OP just said most of it.

@Second bolded, LOL! cheesy cheesy cheesy

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by Cogent: 4:47am On Apr 20, 2023
onumadu:


@First bolded, I agree somewhat on the basis that I preach that a girl should marry at 18 if possible, she can have all her children by age 26, and then go to university to continue studying after child birthing years. E get why, and OP just said most of it.
D
But she likely won't have a job at that stage.
And girls that are married and not contributing financially are called liabilities in Nigeria.
Also, what if her husband dies? How will she take care of herself and kids without a job.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:00am On Apr 20, 2023
Rayban25:
Most women are not worth it....if it were not for the sake of having children and raising them in a two parent stable household theres actually no need for men to wife up these bandits we have running around
We've seen children from two parenting stable homes who are extremely wayward. Also there are children from single parents who are very well behaved. Anini, Oyenusi, godogodo and many of them were raised in two parenting stable homes. Toyin Abraham was thrown out when she was a baby but she what she is today.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:06am On Apr 20, 2023
timiade446:
Those with terrible lifestyles
I agree with you on that πŸ˜‚
Na church dem go later use disguise say Dey don give their life to Christ πŸ˜‚

When attention has finally shifted away from them to the younger ones, and they can't lay a grip on men anymore. They turn themselves to highly religious person.
That's when they'll start serving rigorously in a service unit.
In their full heads, they'd be like "Jesus loves me, old things are passed away, all things are become new".
"Aunty your power house cannot become new", your virginity cannot be restored.
Some turn themselves to feminists on social media and they start talking uselessly; men are this, men are that.
They are talking because they are pained , pained that the kinds of men that they want are no longer within their grasp. Lemme give you the practical example of this. Let anyman just try rooting for them, you'll see them drop their feminism shit and go into oblivion, the next time you'll see them is when the man realises that her cookie jar is empty, bounces . Then she'll return to SM with full force. e.g Blessing CEO

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:12am On Apr 20, 2023
Westerhoffe:
Don't just jump into marriage if you don't want to jump out later.
Let GOD choose for you. That way, you'd have no regrets.
Please go thru this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7617755/gods-not-marriage-stop-lying
Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:33am On Apr 20, 2023
Eriokanmi:
@FRANCISTOWN, na wetin women com do you like this? Most of them had delayed marriages while some remained single for life due to the disappointment from guys like you. They didn't choose the status or condition in which they found themselves. Some chose to pursue career instead of getting married early and this is so common among our yoruba ladies. That doesn't mean they're not attractive or lived a wayward past but because they chose to embrace careers instead.
Any lady who is single due to disappoinment is not worthy of an excuse.
Case 1. She made the wrong choice by selecting the wrong guys, believe me you, such ladies got several other guys in the background who were seriously rooting for her , but she sidelined them because they were either boring, ugly, broke, short or unattractive.
Let her deal with the consequences of her wrong selection.
Case 2: If she pursued a career? Then let her remain a virgin as a proof that she really didn't waste her youth.

Eriokanmi:
Let me shock you. I married a virgin lady at 29 while i was 30 plus. Very pretty. She chose to keep herself. She had had failed relationships in the past because sex was introduced. Each time she turned down guys sex offers, the next thing was to breakup.
Since you said she's very pretty, then I presume she must have pursued a career, and she has the proof of it, which is her virginity. By the way, which year did you marry her? I wanna ask about something

Eriokanmi:
Even if she's pretty and in her early 20s, she can still frustrate your life or become wayward or a monster when she eventually enters your home.
I've said it countlessly in my previous threads that marrying a virgin or a younging does not guarantee a successful marriage. However, I'd rather a new pair of boxers short or at least grade A than buy okrika that the waist band has exceeded the elastic limit

Eriokanmi:
Okonjo-iweala's husband would forever be grateful to God for his choice, Madam Oby Ezekwesili husband too. You know these ladies aren't pretty outwardly but full of beauty on the inside. Millions of women globally now wish to be like them. That's what I'm saying.
No 1. Okonjo Iweala's marriage didn't happen in this current generation, her wedding was not of this generation. Times have changed and the level of civilisation has effect on everything including marriages.
No. 2 We can't tell whether the husbands are really happy because, we do not live with them, and we are not friends with the husbands.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:36am On Apr 20, 2023
youngsahito:
Is their any woman that doesn't have this kind of trait. Nobody is innocent in this life that church gal that u are eying sef ft bad pass some olosho.
Almighty God should just choose a better wifey for us...Ameen
Most girls between 16-20 are still very much innocent when it comes to this kinda affairs

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:40am On Apr 20, 2023
MrBrownJay1:


you are absolutely right about the obove
The emotionally/physically abusive women should top the list. Thanks for this

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:43am On Apr 20, 2023
Vinnie2000:


OP, You are Correct on the Bleaching ladies.

They are Never Satisfied, Vain, mostly Empty-headed and will Bleach ur Kids too.
How person go dey bleach children? People wicked I swr.

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:44am On Apr 20, 2023
AndrewTate:
πŸ˜‚this guy has zero tolerance for peace πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚
Peace to who deserves peace πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:45am On Apr 20, 2023
LordFriar:


Lozz.. So you get saggy boobs and you don dey fear?!
Zero JoyπŸ₯°
Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:48am On Apr 20, 2023
Cogent:

But she likely won't have a job at that stage.
And girls that are married and not contributing financially are called liabilities in Nigeria.
Also, what if her husband dies? How will she take care of herself and kids without a job.
Who says so? Now that people are gaining admission at 14,15,16,17 unlike our days when we got admission at 21,22,23,25..
Even most companies won't employ you once you are above 25
Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:52am On Apr 20, 2023
Kobicove:
This thread reeks of misogyny undecided
Why do men betray men this way?
Women have been saying all kinna things to short men,broke men, men with pot belly since time immemorial and no one has ever called them misandrists.
You guys just like throwing names on people,. Are women so almighty that we can't even set standards for ourselves? Anything against women is now termed as mysogynism. Huh!

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Re: Kinds Of Ladies That Should Not Be Considered For Marriage 1. by FRANCISTOWN: 5:58am On Apr 20, 2023
Blitzking:
Most women with big boobs av saggy boobs..you won't know until u remove the bra....
I do not agree with this sir. I was of this same mindset until I met Kemi, Bose, Christie and Vicky. One of Vicky's boobs was almost as big as my head yet the pair was very firm. That was all before I dropped girls' shit

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