If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

Adventure.

ruffhandu:
If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

You will do better to ask the woman that wants to leave you and not us, because we truly don’t have the answer you are seeking.

Op,what the problem? Are you having issues in your home

1. He must have a sense of humor because I laugh a lot and I want someone that's gonna constantly make me laugh because I've got a sense of humor too.

2. He must be an extrovert or at least an ambivert because I'm an introvert and I want someone who's gonna constantly take me out of my comfort zone... I will easily get bored being with another introvert like me and when I get bored, I usually lose interest.

3. He must be able to cook because I can't cook all the time.

4. He must have a great support system, I want someone that's gonna be there for me both emotionally, physically, and psychologically.

5. And he must be affectionate, I don't want to feel as if I'm in a platonic relationship, but I want to feel that I'm indeed in a romantic relationship.

If he doesn't have these five things, I don't care whether he's rich or he's not physically abusive, the relationship or marriage won't last.

Rokiat:


You will do better to ask the woman that wants to leave you and not us, because we truly don’t have the answer you are seeking.

Hahahahahahaha. Woman no fit leave me o, I tell you. On top of the things I listed up there, i am very handsome.

Samantha124:
1. He must have a sense of humor because I laugh a lot and I want someone that's gonna constantly make me laugh because I've got a sense of humor too.
2. He must be an extrovert or at least an ambivert because I'm an introvert and I want someone who's gonna constantly take me out of my comfort zone... I will easily get bored being with another introvert like me and when I get bored, I usually lose interest.
3. He must be able to cook because I can't cook all the time.
4. He must have a great support system, I want someone that's gonna be there for me both emotionally, physically, and psychologically.
5. And he must be affectionate, I don't want to feel as if I'm in a platonic relationship, but I want to feel that I'm indeed in a romantic relationship.
If he doesn't have these five things, I don't care whether he's rich or he's not physically abusive, the relationship or marriage won't last.

Wow, a little difficult because a lot of men don't know how to cook and hence need a woman who can cook, doesn't our culture teach us that the kitchen belongs to the woman. For me, my woman doesn't let me cook, though I can cook very well.
Being an extro is natural, you think if that is the only minus for the man you will not remain? Person dey learn to be extrovert?
Also, the humour part, not every gat this. Are you saying if the man is found lacking in about 3 of these only you won't keep him?

virginprincess:
Op,what the problem? Are you having issues in your home

No, just thinking how human being are never satisfied. if your woman is flirting, that becomes your prayer point and you are blinded by every other flaw. If she repents of flirting, then you notice one part of her nyansh is smaller than the other, it becomes the new prayer point.

Bluezy13:
Adventure.

i'm sure that can be initiated by any of the partners, not necessarily the man.

Samantha124:
1. He must have a sense of humor because I laugh a lot and I want someone that's gonna constantly make me laugh because I've got a sense of humor too.

2. He must be an extrovert or at least an ambivert because I'm an introvert and I want someone who's gonna constantly take me out of my comfort zone... I will easily get bored being with another introvert like me and when I get bored, I usually lose interest.

3. He must be able to cook because I can't cook all the time.

4. He must have a great support system, I want someone that's gonna be there for me both emotionally, physically, and psychologically.

5. And he must be affectionate, I don't want to feel as if I'm in a platonic relationship, but I want to feel that I'm indeed in a romantic relationship.

If he doesn't have these five things, I don't care whether he's rich or he's not physically abusive, the relationship or marriage won't last.

You're not yet ready to get married.

This I have seen.

Sometimes most of us can't give the same thing we want frm other pple we're in relationshps with that's why any relationship that's one sided will never last.

Samantha124:
1. He must have a sense of humor because I laugh a lot and I want someone that's gonna constantly make me laugh because I've got a sense of humor too.

2. He must be an extrovert or at least an ambivert because I'm an introvert and I want someone who's gonna constantly take me out of my comfort zone... I will easily get bored being with another introvert like me and when I get bored, I usually lose interest.

3. He must be able to cook because I can't cook all the time.

4. He must have a great support system, I want someone that's gonna be there for me both emotionally, physically, and psychologically.

5. And he must be affectionate, I don't want to feel as if I'm in a platonic relationship, but I want to feel that I'm indeed in a romantic relationship.

If he doesn't have these five things, I don't care whether he's rich or he's not physically abusive, the relationship or marriage won't last.

What are you offering in exchange for your long list? Just your VJ?

You can never please a woman 100% op

I have nothing to do with Nigerian men

Sheistoopretty:
I have nothing to do with Nigerian men

Lol. South African Ladies prefer Nigerian men to South African men.

ruffhandu:

Lol. South African Ladies prefer Nigerian men to South African men.

Who's feeding you those carcass?

Sheistoopretty:

Who's feeding you those carcass?

Some good S.A men.

Okay, thanks for letting me know.

FalseProphet1:

You're not yet ready to get married.

This I have seen.

ruffhandu:


i'm sure that can be initiated by any of the partners, not necessarily the man.

Of course.
But need I remind you that this thread is about the women only...

Problem with me is that I'm too choosy and I easily get bored with people who don't have sense of humor, so yes, the chances of me not keeping him are high.

ruffhandu:


Wow, a little difficult because a lot of men don't know how to cook and hence need a woman who can cook, doesn't our culture teach us that the kitchen belongs to the woman. For me, my woman doesn't let me cook, though I can cook very well.
Being an extro is natural, you think if that is the only minus for the man you will not remain? Person dey learn to be extrovert?
Also, the humour part, not every gat this. Are you saying if the man is found lacking in about 3 of these only you won't keep him?

I'd rather be single all my life than date a Nigerian man.

So stop this mentality of yours because it's all a lie... Those who go for Nigerian men only want their money.

ruffhandu:

Lol. South African Ladies prefer Nigerian men to South African men.

And having a big dick doesn't guarantee good sex because some ladies are small and can't handle big dicks.

There's a reason why God created different sizes for both men and women.

ruffhandu:
If your husband doesn't cheat (you are 100% sure of this), and he doesn't beat you (over 6 years of marriage he has never lifted a finger on you), and he is financially ok, not wealthy but has two cars and able to provide for the family. Also, he can knack for life (has a relatively big dick and can use it). What else could make you disrespect him or want to leave him.

Rokiat:


You will do better to ask the woman that wants to leave you and not us, because we truly don’t have the answer you are seeking.

Who is we ? Please speak for yourself

FalseProphet1:

You're not yet ready to get married.

This I have seen.

Don't mind her.
Just living a fkin fake life.
Don't take her seriouse.
Just looking for gist.
Na u get her time

Samantha124:
I'd rather be single all my life than date a Nigerian man.

So stop this mentality of yours because it's all a lie... Those who go for Nigerian men only want their money.

so you mean you wouldn't marry me?

Samantha124:
And having a big dick doesn't guarantee good sex because some ladies are small and can't handle big dicks.
There's a reason why God created different sizes for both men and women.

Definitely, that asset is for those who like it that way.

Samantha124:
I'd rather be single all my life than date a Nigerian man.
So stop this mentality of yours because it's all a lie... Those who go for Nigerian men only want their money.

Do you have a reason why you have generalized and placed a total ban on Nigerian men?

Is there something you want to tell us? Talk to Daddy.

Yes, you guys are just too dramatic and arrogant.

You're definitely not my cup of tea.

Mbenny:
so you mean you wouldn't marry me?

Bluezy13:


Of course.
But need I remind you that this thread is about the women only...

Yes I know, just advising that shouldn't send you off from a man who has other qualities you desire.

You guys are just not my cup of tea.. you're just way too different for my liking.

No matter how nice you maybe, there are always those common traits that you guys have and I'm sorry to say that I just can't stand them.

ruffhandu:

Do you have a reason why you have generalized and placed a total ban on Nigerian men?

Samantha124:
Yes, you guys are just too dramatic and arrogant.

You're definitely not my cup of tea.

you said Nigeria guys are dramatic and arrogant? we are hard working while SA guys are just lazy. don't just jump into conclusion about Nigeria guys just because you had an experience with one.