She's very considerate.

Get those things back like she requested and thank her immensely

Oga go collect your things.dont be a simp.if you marry that woman.you would regret the day you were born.becos she does not have love or respect for you and she would never give you peace of mind.or appreciate you.by the way what made you go for a single mum with 2 kids? just collect your things and call it quit with that unappreciative and entitled bitch.

Go collect your property and return her own. That's the only advise I have for you

saweide:


Thanks a lot .that is it ...when i asked what killed d husband she just told me it was an attack

Which kind attack 🤔
Planned attack

Queendera:
bros no mind this one o.

Please go and collect your things. Not showing gratitude is disgusting regardless of the gender.

Your mama no born u to slave for another person. Please go and collect your things and lock up

See she is seeking attention,even if you need those things she is trying to let you know she can afford it..... ITS A MIND GAME...

saweide:
Good afternoon dear romancelanders,
My lover girl I met on Facebook just 4 months relationship of knowing each other sent me a shocking message to me on Facebook last night .
She is a single mother of two who lost her husband 3 years ago and when I met her I let her know that won't be a barrier that I will marry her with the 2 children and she agreed. Tho it was a long distance relationship and since we dated have travelled to meet her 9 times while she visited once and when she came she had to drop the children with her elder sister.
Three days ago we had little misunderstanding she cut phone on me I called her back never to try such on me and after that call she never call me for 2 days unlike before she calls regularly and I never call her too and she sent this to me last night what should I do ?

Though have not replied her or call her since that yesterday night.

Please someone with wisdom should advise me what to reply her ..tho I love her and I don't want to loose her ..but she offended me by dropping phone on me and she never say sorry before sending me this screenshot message

I bought easy buy solar for her which we are paying small small and also her phone get screen problems and I collect it to repair for her and I gave her my second phone Samsung to be using and is still with her that was what she meant that I should come and collect all what I did for her in that screenshot mesaage


This is someone that told me she has been going to the mountain to pray for husband that will stay in her life for the past 3 years ooooo

Ma guy this is a defining moment. This is the point where you become a houseboy till death do you part or a husband till death do you part. You did right by telling her you don't like it when she hangs up and you did right by not rushing to beg her like a fool, women hate men that do that and use their head like tissue paper.

Guy say nothing. Maintain your absolute silence. Collect all your belongings from her and return all her belongings to her. She will try to make you talk, maintain absolute silence. Block her everywhere but don't block her calls and text messages. If you act in this manner she will understand that you are not docile and subject to any female shenanigans.

Women have this secret respect for such men and often return to them but know this bro; people often lose what they are afraid of losing and people often gain what they are ready to let go.

Keep your feelings and passions in your pocket for now and be a man. You have done well by telling her what she can do and what she can't do so what you must do now is maintain total silence with respect to her, return her stuff, take back your stuff, block her on every social media and live your life. If she is yours, she will submit to you but if she refuses to submit to you let her go.

In my opinion, she might be putting you through a test. You can only pass the test if you're yourself.
Visit her and try to sort things out with her.
In relationship, you need to define some dos and don't earlier. This will be a guarding manual to the relationship.
Best of luck!

Op, your post reminds me of this chorus

This is what is playing in my Mind!!!

She carry me Go O, where I no know O

U better leave single mothers alone, as far as you are a single man without children

Single mothers are more experienced in playing mind games than single men

Single mothers foresee mostly on future plans not present plans, unlike single men that thinks and act for only the present (using there third leg)

Sbfplus:
In my opinion, she might be putting you through a test. You can only pass the test if you're yourself.
Visit her and try to sort things out with her.
In relationship, you need to define some dos and don't earlier. This will be a guarding manual to the relationship.
Best of luck!

Thanks bro

efficiencie:


Ma guy this is a defining moment. This is the point where you become a houseboy till death do you part or a husband till death do you part. You did right by telling her you don't like it when she hangs up and you did right by not rushing to beg her like a fool, women hate men that do that and use their head like tissue paper.

Guy say nothing. Maintain your absolute silence. Collect all your belongings from her and return all her belongings to her. She will try to make you talk, maintain absolute silence. Block her everywhere but don't block her calls and text messages. If you act in this manner she will understand that you are not docile and subject to any female shenanigans.

Women have this secret respect for such men and often return to them but know this bro; people often lose what they are afraid of losing and people often gain what they are ready to let go.

Keep your feelings and passions in your pocket for now and be a man. You have done well by telling her what she can do and what she can't do so what you must do now is maintain total silence with respect to her, return her stuff, take back your stuff, block her on every social media and live your life. If she is yours, she will submit to you but if she refuses to submit to you let her go.

I really do appreciate this great advice. Bro that was my tot also once I start to act weak she will take advantage in the future..I allow the man in me to remain

saweide:
Good afternoon dear romancelanders,
My lover girl I met on Facebook just 4 months relationship of knowing each other sent me a shocking message to me on Facebook last night .
She is a single mother of two who lost her husband 3 years ago and when I met her I let her know that won't be a barrier that I will marry her with the 2 children and she agreed. Tho it was a long distance relationship and since we dated have travelled to meet her 9 times while she visited once and when she came she had to drop the children with her elder sister.
Three days ago we had little misunderstanding she cut phone on me I called her back never to try such on me and after that call she never call me for 2 days unlike before she calls regularly and I never call her too and she sent this to me last night what should I do ?

Though have not replied her or call her since that yesterday night.

Please someone with wisdom should advise me what to reply her ..tho I love her and I don't want to loose her ..but she offended me by dropping phone on me and she never say sorry before sending me this screenshot message

I bought easy buy solar for her which we are paying small small and also her phone get screen problems and I collect it to repair for her and I gave her my second phone Samsung to be using and is still with her that was what she meant that I should come and collect all what I did for her in that screenshot mesaage


This is someone that told me she has been going to the mountain to pray for husband that will stay in her life for the past 3 years ooooo

don't u get it? She is tired of the relationship, she has seen enough of u.. can't u move on ? Must u wife her?
Some men self

saweide:


She sent me a message to pay for d solar power for that week and she did not greet to say Good morin .so I ask her why she did not greet me ..that was when she sent the message

Even 3 days before then ..she ask me to send 10k I told her am broke and I manage to send her 3k ..she never say thank u or acknowledge the money till now

you are not in love bro

I'm glad you value respect over love. But why you go dey do long distance relationship with a single mother of two is what I don't understand

endsarrrs:
I hope you are not another male Gold digger trying to rip her and her kids what is left from her husband wealth.

She might see you as such.


Mothers with kids should be left for fathers with kids

dis u even read? Someone that they want to rip that can't repair her phone screen or finish paying for solar panel by her self. The emoji she even used on the second to the last line is disgusting to me. It shows someone that doesn't care

Wetin make you dey date single mother before?

Please You wan sell this Solar panel

Make I help You get buyer

PJtech:


ask her when she'll bring ur phone bck... Collect everything she return gladly

incase you no see who to give the phone i'll be needing it

Make Goodlady left bress sag if that woman return anything.

I still can't understand why a sane man should invest in a Nigerian single mother of two. That's foolishness!

All my years in life, I've never seen a football match starts with 2-0 scoreline. Dearest OP, why do you want to end your delicate life prematurely?

Please don't bother replying that demon. Block her from having access to you again, you don't need such stress and abomination at your flower age.

saweide:


Thanks bro

If you listen to that simp advice, trust me you will make it worse and hate yourself for trying that, even if she is testing you, you can't pass by trying to sort it out with her besides she is even the one in the wrong for disrespecting you. She will have you by the ball if you try to sort it, that action mean you are proving to her that you are weak and a bloody simp, even if you miraculously sort it out with her it is only going to be for a short time and you will become the woman in the relationship, you will lose the leadership of the relationship, you can only pass by starving her of all attention and ready to move on.

Even if she come back, don't accept her unless she plead heavily and let her know if it happen again it will be the end of the relationship and mean it.

Why are you even dating single mother in the first place ? You deserve better, you don't know your value. There are so many women out there that are not single mothers with a lot of baggages

Has she told you the husband's cause of death?

You're very much welcome!

How can someone just choose to die young deliberately... Do u hate urself that much

becky39000:
Empty Headed Simps everywhere

My brother, e shock me

saweide:


She sent me a message to pay for d solar power for that week and she did not greet to say Good morin .so I ask her why she did not greet me ..that was when she sent the message

Even 3 days before then ..she ask me to send 10k I told her am broke and I manage to send her 3k ..she never say thank u or acknowledge the money till now

She's not thinking well abeg what's all these now abeg if she's not interested free her and move to someone else.

suckmedownthere:

See she is seeking attention,even if you need those things she is trying to let you know she can afford it..... ITS A MIND GAME...

who care about mind games when money is involved?

stupid op.. out of all the single girls around, na single mother with 2 children you see. ode

OP,free the woman. You are a kind man who would have set her path right again but I guess she is seeing someone else who dey her bill well.
She will come back to apologise make u no gree.

YorubaSamurai:
stupid op..
out of all the single girls around, na single mother with 2 children you see.
ode

What's your problem..wats wrong in single mother is it a sin? Oponu

Zonefree:

Make Goodlady left bress sag if that woman return anything.

I still can't understand why a sane man should invest in a Nigerian single mother of two. That's foolishness!

All my years in life, I've never seen a football match starts with 2-0 scoreline. Dearest OP, why do you want to end your delicate life prematurely?

Please don't bother replying that demon. Block her from having access to you again, you don't need such stress and abomination at your flower age.

be swearing with your balls.
I m not in your level.

You want to marry someone with 2 kids already. Not that you're even rich, putting extra loads on your head? Are you that insecure that you can't find someone to start afresh with. A woman with extra loads and an ingrate... Common?

I think she has weighed you and find you not up to be able to provide for her needs. Imagine, you want to carry the burden of someone with 2 kids and u can only send 3k wen she asked for 10k.?? Even with the monthly payment for solar and stuffs.... Just let her go so u will find your rest.
She didn't consider 3k enough money to warrant a thank you.

Please, I am not insulting you in any manner, just assessing the situation as presented by you.

The best you can do now is to free her. 2 kids isn't moin moin in this current 9ja oo... Even those with one kid are not smiling. Let the relationship die a naturtdeath since she asked for it and don't bother to try and collect anything back.... Move on bro