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Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by wjames(m): 7:31am On Apr 22, 2023 |
dublinkmy6: This is one of the best comments i’ve read today. Frankly speaking, no man in his right senses will wanna hit a woman. Some people keep saying you should walk away(its not that easy, can you leave your house around 1am when everywhere is dark? Some women are devil in sheep clothing, they’ll frustrate you to extent that you’ll have to do the “reseting slap”. I pray you dont marry the wrong person. Been there and i know how it feels. |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by GreyLaw(m): 7:37am On Apr 22, 2023 |
N3TRAL: Perfectly spoken. How about a woman that slaps her husband? |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by GreyLaw(m): 7:41am On Apr 22, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Emotional abuse is equal to physical abuse. One hurts the mind, the other the body. In the end the end a hurt mind also hurts the body. I know you women know but you hide under the cloak. Whenever you condemn physical abuse also condemn emotional abuse! 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by prophetfire: 7:43am On Apr 22, 2023 |
N3TRAL:But it's alright for a lady to hit a man. Isn't it? |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by icedbreez(m): 7:43am On Apr 22, 2023 |
zangaozanga: They mentioned relatives too oh, as in her brothers and sisters, uncles and aunties were part of the settlement as well. Nigerians and the mob (crucify him) mentality for Pastors or anything Church |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by GreyLaw(m): 7:56am On Apr 22, 2023 |
simplesearch: A little more study of Romans 7:1-3 would tell you Paul was referring strictly to those who knew the law or rightly put those who were under the law in those verses. You and every other Christian around the world (apart from Israeli Jews) were not under the law. That passage in its strictest sense doesn't apply to you. I Cor 7:13-15 Paul says if a woman's husband isn't unbelieving and still likes to be with her let the woman stay but if not she can go and marry another because she is not bound in such a union if the unbelieving husband doesn't like her. You see that the human will is given preference here. These are additional reasons for divorce and remarriage. Yet, these days, I have seen religious leaders compelling a woman terrorised by her unbelieving husband to remain with him, which clearly goes against scripture. In the words of Jesus in Matthew 19:9, 10 where Jesus gave the condition for divorce as fornication, the word Jesus used in the Greek was "porneia" meaning adultery, incest and other forms of illicit sex. These are valid reasons for divorce. Just trying to have a theological discourse bro. Enjoy your day. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by emekajacobogbon(m): 7:58am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Woman, you need to deliver through c.s. She said no, coz her pastor said that she will deliver like the Hebrew women. After several attempt to convince her, she refused and Doctor left her to her opinion. The next thing is that she died and baby survived. Pastors |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by joyarmy1000(f): 8:21am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Say no to abuse! |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by MusaChukwudi: 8:36am On Apr 22, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: I can’t leave my own house. I own it. I can’t bundle her out as well because the law is against kicking her out. And she’ll ruin my daughter as well. |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by bukatyne(f): 8:39am On Apr 22, 2023 |
GreyLaw: In 1st Corinthians, the passage says the unbelieving spouse can go if they want to. Not that the believing spouse should go. That means a believer is not under any compulsion to stay in a marriage where the unbelieving spouse wants to walk. @OP: I guess pastor bashing (true they are not perfect) is the new thing in town. Hope the husband has been arrested by the girl's father? He is the only one who seems capable to do so. |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by delishpot: 8:47am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Na she want die inside abusive marriage na. She died a real wife 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by edoairways: 9:12am On Apr 22, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Was it the pastor who killed the deceased?. If it had been the deceased uncle, am sure this wouldn't make headlines 😕😕😕 |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by WhirlWindx(m): 9:40am On Apr 22, 2023 |
"A week after the divorce lawsuit was filed, his client, husband, pastors, and other family members met and agreed that the pair would resolve their differences outside of court." What a pejudistic reportage! How did manage to single out the clergy as been responsible for her misfortune after what you posted up there? How about her father and family members as reported? Most Nigerians and hypocrisy naa 5&6. I'm not surprised. |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by LadyTara(f): 10:22am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Cases like this breaks my heart so much, because I know the manipulation and emotional blackmail that was used on the victim, having experienced religious blackmail for refusing to step into any church for some years now,It will be a continuous warfare to free people especially Nigerians from the shackles of organised religion run by a mafia backed by government. The government especially in Nigeria has recognized that religion is a major form of control hence government sponsors pilgrimages to encourage religion. The day Nigerians realize they can think for themselves without needing the guidance of another human or book, that day will be the dawning of a new day. 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by Truvelisback(m): 10:27am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Pasta, why na?😠 |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by Blackdisciple(m): 10:44am On Apr 22, 2023 |
Hmmm |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by KnownUnknown: 1:42pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
Misterc: The best part about this story is that Jesus the magic Jew forgives everyone and “it is well”!! Who are you to question god? ![]() |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by KnownUnknown: 1:53pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
dublinkmy6: Make sure you give her an Exodus type of beating i.e. everything goes as long as she doesn’t die. This way her brain is reset permanently lol |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by cococandy(f): 2:53pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
What a dvmb xtupid slowpoke you are dublinkmy6: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by ElijahIme1992(m): 3:12pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
N3TRAL:domestic violence knows no gender.. both genders suffer from domestic violence.. so stop trying to draw sympathy for one gender only.. |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by Farfalla(f): 5:38pm On Apr 22, 2023 |
dublinkmy6: Is your head functioning at all? 11 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by JasonScoolari: 11:00am On Apr 23, 2023 |
cococandy:Damn!!! Is there something emotionally and mentally wrong with you? Is it so difficult to type without insulting someone? You did same thing some minutes ago, look at you now? Allow people to air their opinion no matter how stupid it is. You're a married woman, and just coming out from the fasting period. Kindly maintain some decorum. 5 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by cococandy(f): 12:30pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: It takes a special kind of hypocrite to talk about fasting and then turn a blind eye to posts that endorse violence against women. Disgusting. The ladies that are maintaining decorum while y’all actively call for women to be harmed are part of the reason men like you and that poster I quoted feel comfortable saying the things you say. Things that lead to the death of women. Take your fasting bullshiet and shove it where the sun don’t shine 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by JasonScoolari: 12:32pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
cococandy:No need for insulting him over the reckless comment. Shows how emotionally destabilized you are If you keep throwing insults 2 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by cococandy(f): 12:37pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: You’re the emotionally and intellectually destabilized one if you can’t see the connection between the violence y’all propagate on this forum and the real life effect it has on the safety of women around you. Also I don’t know what me being married has to do with the conversation. I suppose being married means I have to become one of the desperados you see everywhere that stay mute in the face of BS in order to keep a MRS title. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by JasonScoolari: 12:40pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
cococandy:Even from your write up, one can tell you're not okay upstairs, or better still, too hyperactive downstairs. That guy made a reckless comment, you can condemn it without throwing insults just like you do to most people who had contrary opinions. Stay civil 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by cococandy(f): 12:52pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: The audacity you have to expect a civil response to a post that suggests women should be beaten like children tells me you have dry cotton wool where your brain is supposed to be. Here how about you formulate a civil response to this. “I think you and that guy are lowly animals that deserve to be chained up and trained like animals”. I mean since a civil response is the perfect thing to say to disrespectful comments I suggest you come up with something civil in response to that ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by JasonScoolari: 12:55pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
cococandy:Still proving me right when I said you are hyperactive downstairs and inactive upstairs. Maybe that's how you insult the unfortunate man that married you. Who knows. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by cococandy(f): 12:57pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: I know your father dog-walked your mom in the streets that’s why you are okay with his comments and upset with me for rightfully insulting him. Go and console your mom. 3 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by JasonScoolari: 12:58pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
cococandy:You're actually mistaking your parents for mine. Too much of head slamming. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Pregnant Lady Dies Few Months After Pastor Persuaded Her To Remain In ‘abusive’ by cococandy(f): 1:02pm On Apr 23, 2023 |
JasonScoolari: Between us it’s clear who was raised in a condition where beating wives and mothers is considered normal and a sign of family leadership. That’s why you can’t understand why anyone would have something to say against that. Your damaged parents raised a damaged man who goes online and advocates for more violence on the women in their family. You should be embarrassed 4 Likes 1 Share |
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