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I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by MANNABBQGRILLS: 4:50pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Dear Romancelanders, Please advice this young lady below... "I lost my husband last year, finally found a man to marry but wants my children to bare his name instead of my late husband Am so happy, at last i finally found someone who accepts I and my children, he is richer and provides I and my kids every need and also shows me so much love even more than my late husband did, the truth is, I feel more comfortable with this man. He even open up a supermarket for me.. He asked to marry me in which I have accepted, the problem now is, am disturbed on the fact that he has asked to marry me on the condition that we remove my late husband's name from my children's names and replace it with his own name.. I have tried talking to him to wait so that, I consult my people first because my late husband had fully paid my dowry. But, he insist we shouldn't inform them and that he has people in the government who can quickly switch the names without any delays or complications. Actually, I don't know what else to do because am afraid to loose him. I'm a 33year-old woman with 3kids. Age 4 a girl and 2year-old twin boys. I fear i might not find another man to marry me. I'm still a young woman whom also deserves a sweet love life. I also see that, changing the names is of no big deal since we are getting married to make one big family. Pls kindly advice me on this. She wrote.. From ChiChi's Blo.... 1 Share
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Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Enskynelson(m): 4:55pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
If she is not OK with it, which I know even if she is, the late husband do have relatives who won't agree with such... let her move if the man won't accept otherwise. The good thing is that it is coming early enough. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by IrawoKross: 4:58pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Not even up to a year she lost her husband, she has already jumped to the next prick, already saying how sweet and richer the other man is.. Hmmmmmmm!!!! Enticed by supermarket, cash and big prick, this woman will sell her kids true identity on the alter of money. 16 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:00pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
The question is, if you have a late brother whose wife's is in the same condition, will you allow your sister inlaw to allow your late brothers children to stop bearing his name? ***************************************** You lost your husband last year and you have found another lover this year. Hmmmmm! Your 'new' lover is insisting on taking over your late husband's kids? Are you sure that man died a natural death? Fear WOMAN. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:01pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Madam madam very soon you will explain what happened to your husband 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Nobody: 5:04pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
There's a hidden story behind this 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by gasparpisciotta: 5:06pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Name change request by the new man could his condition for taking care of the kids. However, she can negotiate adding the new man’s name to the children’s name as an addendum. Eg Femi Fani Kayode-Johnson or Peter Obi-Adichie 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by ebexofficial: 5:06pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
That's asking for too much |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Pierohandsome: 5:07pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
She wants to sell her children for marriage After they will say " marriage na scam
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Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by GOFRONT(m): 5:09pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
I need a DNA apparatus!!!! I wan run test on those kids first!!! Maybe nor be d deadman get those kids sef. I suspect those kids belong to the new Loverman.......Someone pass me the DNA kit na!!!! Cos inside this life, carzy things are really happening. |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by MANNABBQGRILLS: 5:13pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
gasparpisciotta:@the bolded, Still doesn't make sense..... |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Savedday2: 5:15pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
What I don't understand is, why would a man marry a 9ja girl of this days considering who they are and what they are, not to talk of an over used one(3children). Madam, leave that man alone and face your front before you destroy his life. |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Nobody: 5:17pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Something tells me that man is impotent 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Nobody: 5:20pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
The kids can use both their biological and stepfather's surnames. For example, Kelly-Smith. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by IrawoKross: 5:21pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Samantha124:Is that how they do in South Africa? |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Berrityga: 5:22pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
May her destiny be as blurry as that picture. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by MrBrownJay1(m): 5:23pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
something fishy in this story....whats the rush? 3 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Nobody: 5:24pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
This is not about SA, I'm only trying to advise the op. IrawoKross: |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Houseofglam7(f): 5:24pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
😳 |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by kelspinall(m): 5:26pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
don't... |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by IrawoKross: 5:27pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Samantha124:Not a good advice. Would you as a child accept that? |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
What's wrong with it? IrawoKross: |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Rokiat(f): 5:32pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
If you know how quickly the living forget the dead you Will stop living to pleased people. So this woman wants to marry just one year after her husband death? Anyways to the topic, he has no right to want your children to carry his surname, it’s the audacity for me. That’s another man kids they are not his. He must think you are desperate since you could not even grieve your husband properly and now you are jumping into another relationship smh. he has right over the woman if she agrees to marry him not the children. |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by IrawoKross: 5:35pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Samantha124:She has no right to change or mix her kids surname with another. That's gross wickedness 1 Like |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Nobody: 5:39pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Is there a section within the Nigerian constitution that states that it's gross wickedness? IrawoKross: |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by IrawoKross: 5:40pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Samantha124:Wena, Are we talking constitution here? |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by drnoel: 6:02pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Rokiat: If he is officially adopting the kids then the issue is settled. Why would he raise kids that will bear another man's name? The man is correct here. If she is not comfortable,she can shift. Another woman would jump on the chance. This life is short 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by marlow1962(m): 6:05pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Hope say tomorrow the man won't say "take the kids to their father, I can't train my kids and train someone else's kids" But under a year prick don sure, nawa |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Blackdisciple(m): 6:14pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
So you couldn't even mourn you late husband in one full year you don sharperly get another man, continue |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by walex2(m): 6:36pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
You are a shameful woman and an harlot who marries because of money, you are even insensitive for comparing your new man with your late husband, that is lack of respect, the demise of your husband is not even to a year and you are already fuckiing and sucking another dick, how long did you mourn him? If we investigate you might even have an hand in the death of your late husband. You can remarry but you can't change the name of your kid to another man. 2 Likes |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by Odiriance4all(m): 6:39pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
I can bet my two balls this woman is an igbo woman. Igbo women and money are 5 and 6 |
Re: I Lost My Husband Last Year, My New Man Wants My Children To Change Their Names! by IrawoKross: 6:41pm On Apr 25, 2023 |
Odiriance4all:Don't let tribalism damage your brain cells. Please. |
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