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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Ignatio(m): 5:53pm On Apr 26, 2023
South African, gay, HIV all go together.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 5:53pm On Apr 26, 2023
blackpanda:


Obviously you are just out to attack rather than speak rationally. The moment anybody challenges your baseless opinion the next thing is to insult. Anyways, while i wont argue with you over prevalence, i am more interested in the cause. When you are ready to have matured rational conversation, let me know.

Bro, you gay or nay? grin

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Probz(m): 5:53pm On Apr 26, 2023
Demigod22:
You dated him for four years and throughput that four years, you guys are sexually active that you are even pregnant for him, and your marriage is next week.

The guys I have seen don't have sex with women. They don't see me in any picture as far as sex is concerned.

PS: I know some people are bisexual.

You know nothing, trust me. Plenty of black men worldwide are in heterosexual marriages but gay on the down-low.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by WhiteLavender(f): 5:55pm On Apr 26, 2023
He's not gay, he's bisexual... Just saying.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Solsix(m): 5:55pm On Apr 26, 2023
Kaytixy:
post his picture I want to see him.
GAYbriel
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Phillp: 5:56pm On Apr 26, 2023
Sorry baby girl, that dude has gotten what I think he really wants. That’s the pregnancy!!!!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by DonEd(m): 5:57pm On Apr 26, 2023
Samantha124:
I don't get it, how is he your husband when you're not yet married?

Or you don't know the meaning of husband?
Oga, is it that u can't read or u don't read or u don't comprehend?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Geovanni412(m): 6:00pm On Apr 26, 2023
advanceDNA:
Fake story...

But shaa go for HIV test shaaa...cos gay pple...i no just get their collabo with HIV

Man wey sabi

Op's signature is written male

not only that, op, Marvellsmart had previously posted that he cannot date a broke girl

https://www.nairaland.com/7244854/cant-date-broke-gal

How he transitioned from that to this relationship crisis...i no know grin
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Kodak9(m): 6:01pm On Apr 26, 2023
HIV+gay+xenophobia=South Africa
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by LOVEGINO(m): 6:01pm On Apr 26, 2023
loffyloffy:
Are you ready to be sharing him with other men?

If not, this is a good time to say bye, you will share custody of the child.

You don't have to tell everyone around you he is gay...but if you do talk to him, let him know you know, and why u can't go on with the relationship.

You will find another man..hopefully
men scares die!
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 6:01pm On Apr 26, 2023
Everything.
DonEd:

Oga, is it that u can't read or u don't read or u don't comprehend?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Nobody: 6:03pm On Apr 26, 2023
Noted.
Aklee4994:
See you that understand and comprehend what you have read...you’re not just intelligent enough to know that she stated that...husband to be MUGU like you just want to judge others.

Note: Always attack the message not the messenger✅😎
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Thebadpolitican(m): 6:06pm On Apr 26, 2023
GaybigBoy:
What is wrong if his gay huh? I knew many guys here in lekki that are sleeping with governor's and ex governor's and senator's name it but I don't complain because there is nothing wrong with that. My their if you are not comfortable with it park and GET OUT OF HIS LIFE PLS.


Gays are known to be liers

Which governor or ex governors using politican names to lie to catch attention
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by EastAlchemist: 6:07pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.
Run mad
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:07pm On Apr 26, 2023
GreatVocalist:
I detest homosexuality, but this your comment is a raw expression of homophobia. Damn dude!

where is exactly the yeye homophobia that you talk about in my post....? i call this demon for what he is... an EVIL deceitful being pretending to be attracted to a woman, wasting her time pretending to love and/or want to mary her, while he doesnt even like/love women. if that isnt a demonic act in your world, then i am sorry that it is in mine... that aint homphobia, that COMMON SENSE!!!!

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by grandstar(m): 6:09pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart

There are 3 main reasons why you should not marry him:

1. He will never satisfy you sexually. Many men and women in such marriages complain bitterly that their spouses very rarely want sex. You will be sexually starved to the point it can drive you crazy.

2. He will be cheating on you a lot as he isn't attracted to you. I am sure you'll be the brunt of their jokes. Men by nature are promiscuous and gay men maybe more so as it is easier to find willing partners.

3. And this is the most important. The sexual practice is taboo before God. (Romans 1:26-27)I don't hate homosexuals. Christ died for them and I.

Please run.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by sniperr007(m): 6:12pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

There many questions I want to ask you.

I believe you dodged the bullet knowing before marriage.

But if you feel you can live with him and manage the fact he may be bisexual.

Continue.. but think about tomorrow before making any decision
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by farem: 6:12pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want to run mad.

You're not bothered he's a fornicator because you're involved with him, tight?

What difference does it make?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by grandstar(m): 6:13pm On Apr 26, 2023
Demigod22:
You dated him for four years and throughput that four years, you guys are sexually active that you are even pregnant for him, and your marriage is next week.

The guys I have seen don't have sex with women. They don't see me in any picture as far as sex is concerned.

PS: I know some people are bisexual.

Read up lavender marriage https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lavender_marriage
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by raydboi(m): 6:13pm On Apr 26, 2023
Aunty be nice enough to share your final decision and the outcome of your actions.
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by LordReed(m): 6:14pm On Apr 26, 2023
Geovanni412:


Man wey sabi

Op's signature is written male

not only that, op, Marvellsmart had previously posted that he cannot date a broke girl

https://www.nairaland.com/7244854/cant-date-broke-gal

How he transitioned from that to this relationship crisis...i no know grin

Maybe he transitioned into a woman. LoLz.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by luluosas(m): 6:19pm On Apr 26, 2023
What do you need help for? Dem bury your navel for him life?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by ajakuai(m): 6:20pm On Apr 26, 2023
GaybigBoy:
What is wrong if his gay huh? I knew many guys here in lekki that are sleeping with governor's and ex governor's and senator's name it but I don't complain because there is nothing wrong with that. My their if you are not comfortable with it park and GET OUT OF HIS LIFE PLS.



Just as your name states. I am not surprised at your advise cum encouragement.

Keep living on curse. Very disgusting act you practice in secrete you know! #Spits
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by OyiboOyibo(m): 6:22pm On Apr 26, 2023
Go and do medical tests ASAP
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by smile11s(m): 6:24pm On Apr 26, 2023
Mainmanpadi:
Well done Gaybriel

Tufiakwa. I’m only woked
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by smile11s(m): 6:24pm On Apr 26, 2023
Goalnaldo:
come out of the closet, lol

God forbid. I’m woked
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by tubolancer(m): 6:25pm On Apr 26, 2023
Marvellsmart:
I just found out last night that my husbandto be is gay. Like he is into men. I stumbled upon his phone yesterday night
and saw his chats with his best friend, the supposed best friend that returned from South Africa because of our wedding next week.

We have planned our wedding next Saturday, everything is set. We have dated for four years and never for once did I suspect that he was into men.

In the chat, he was professing love to his best friend. Telling him how he has missed him and his pen!s.

How he had enjoyed last night with him, I even saw my fiance nπdes in their Whatsapp.

I am losing it, please help me. I went to his house for the weekend, on Saturday, he had left me and returned late at night without knowing he was going to have s.ex with his best friend. I just left the house this morning without him knowing cause he is a banker and he leaves home early. I left his door open, packed all my properties and haven't talked to him

He has been calling me since but I am not taking his calls. I couldn't concentrate at work today.

What should I do?

Please help me
love this man so much, he has been a blessing, and I am pregnant for him, but then, why this??

Should I cancel the wedding?
Should I confront him?
I'm confused
I want toMany run mad.
Many men are gays nowadays. A lady just lost her two years old marriage because of this gay behavior by her husband.

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Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by smile11s(m): 6:25pm On Apr 26, 2023
TemitayoMark:
[
Another G spotted
quote author=smile11s post=122763862]All these story that touches can be avoid if we support LGBTQ+*

Imagine a life that we all can live the truths, do you think there will be gay men faking it with women?

You don’t have to be gay to support gay, you are only supporting them to live the truth and be happy. This sister wouldn’t be in this situation if we allowed everyone to live in their truth.

In your dream. I’m woked
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by Judybash93(m): 6:26pm On Apr 26, 2023
Should you cancel it?
Are you kidneying me?
Re: Just Found Out My Husband To Be Is Gay, Please Help by MrBrownJay1(m): 6:27pm On Apr 26, 2023
GreatVocalist:
He could be attracted to the woman, and yet attracted to men. That's called bisexuality.

IRRELEVANT GIBBERISH #1
so because a man is bisexual, it is ok to waste a womans time and pretend to love and/or want to marry her, while in fact he is longing for a dude and his dikc?!?!?

Your suggestion for her to pretend to go ahead with the wedding plans, and expose his GAY PICTURES on the wedding day is not just a demonic suggestion, but a homophobic one.Why does she have to do that to him? Why shame him in that manner? Homosexuality is terrible, but it's not a crime.

IRRELEVANT GIBBERISH #2
so showing the whole world what type of DECEITFUL MAN her future husband was and the type of sexual practices he is into, is called homophobia in your world?! that man is a deceitful man and the above will be to point out his deceit, whether he is gay or attracted to fukcing donkeys.


The best thing for her to do is simply move in with her life, and not try to 'fix' him. He might actually love the woman, but can't help his homosexuality tendencies.

IRRELEVANT GIBBERISH #3
you cant fix such man, you just have to get rid of him... but in order for people not to blame HER, she must explain exactly why this marriage wont go through. outing the demonic deceitful being is just one way to do it

People like that need help, not condemnation. Haba!

FINAL IRRELEVANT GIBBERISH
help for what exactly?! that dude wants to sukc dikc and be fukced by other men... he has no business trying to pretend to be straight while crawling at the dead of night like a rat to go sukc dikc and be fukced. if thats what this man is then let him proudly stand for his yeye lifestyle and let women decide if they want to be with such demonic deceitful man (or not).

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