So my 14 year old cousin told me that she's a lesbo. Tbh I'm glad she thought I was someone who she could trust but I'm a bit worried about her. I feel like I should tell her parents about it. She specifically told me that she doesn't want her parents to know. All of our parents are somewhat strict but I don't want any fingers to be pointed at me if something went wrong. So I'm thinking I should tell them. BUT I won't be surprised if they tried to do something like taking her to a pastor . I'm conflicted about this. I'm not really upto snuff about LGBT stuff either.

She may have been abused to that nonsen$e in school. Why do you want to tell her parents? Is it to help her quit the practice or is it to protect other girls in the environment from being abused by your cousin? I don't believe telling her parents can make her stop it. All they will do is beat' her, and she will pretend to stop it. She will only stop it in future on her own free will. However, if you want to tell her parents so as to protect other children from her, then go ahead and tell, but get ready to be hated' for breaking her trust.

Failure2019:
So my 14 year old cousin told me that she's a lesbo. Tbh I'm glad she thought I was someone who she could trust but I'm a bit worried about her. I feel like I should tell her parents about it. She specifically told me that she doesn't want her parents to know. All of our parents are somewhat strict but I don't want any fingers to be pointed at me if something went wrong. So I'm thinking I should tell them. BUT I won't be surprised if they tried to do something like taking her to a pastor . I'm conflicted about this. I'm not really upto snuff about LGBT stuff either.

...is she having sex already that she now knows and has come to the conclusion its women she likes to fvck?? All these small children seff

She just entered teen years ...all she's doing is playing to the script of the movies and media content they watch these days, there by trying to put a label on what she doesnt even understand but what she's seeing.......its media influence and the doctored lgbt manipulation that is everywhere these days

I remeber my neighbors kid that used to say he has super powers like henry danger... u need to see how he gets serious about it...

dont tell her parents..they will just demonize her......let her figure herself out as her hormones start to rage.......but let her know she's not ready or mature for sex yet.... So there is no point sexually boxing or labelling herself based on any media content as her life just started ..... she should explore, process and engage things as they unravel in the real world with boys and girls

Failure2019:
So my 14 year old cousin told me that she's a lesbo.

and what did you do with the information she gave you? what questions did you ask her?
-why did she say so?
-does she know what she is saying or just felt like being called a lesbo?
-at what point in her 14 year life did she think she became a lesbo? or is this just an idea she is buying into because she thinks it is cool?
-why did she tell you? for nothing?

She trusted you
As an adult it's left for you to handle it and try to give her a new mindset.

Like what made her think she is into girls, she might just be a victim in school, or probably due to exposure to lesbian porn

Telling her parents will be the worst thing you will do, cuz the parents will surely beat her and u have lost her trust and the opportunity to make her explore the straight option


Since she is still a teen, please do the needful in counseling her

Nothing wrong with her being a lesbo at least she won't be hurt by men.

But isn't there a older female cousin she can talk to other than you.

LilMissFavvy:
She may have been abused to that nonsen$e in school. Why do you want to tell her parents? Is it to help her quit the practice or is it to protect other girls in the environment from being abused by your cousin? I don't believe telling her parents can make her stop it. All they will do is beat' her, and she will pretend to stop it. She will only stop it in future on her own free will. However, if you want to tell her parents so as to protect other children from her, then go ahead and tell, but get ready to be hated' for breaking her trust.

Listen to what you're saying.

Why do you assume she's automatically sexually active with other girls because she's a lesbian?

As a heterosexual person were you sexually active at 14, even though you already KNEW you liked men?

superCleanworks:


and what did you do with the information she gave you? what questions did you ask her?
-why did she say so?
-does she know what she is saying or just felt like being called a lesbo?
-at what point in her 14 year life did she think she became a lesbo? or is this just an idea she is buying into because she thinks it is cool?
-why did she tell you? for nothing?

Didn't you know you liked women at 14 years old?

Or you woke up one morning and suddenly realised you were attracted to women?

You can know if you’re gay or straight in your teens. No sexual activity required

advanceDNA:


...is she having sex already that she now knows and has come to the conclusion its women she likes to fvck?? All these small children seff

She just entered teen years ...all she's doing is playing to the script of the movies and media content they watch these days, there by trying to put a label on what she doesnt even understand but what she's seeing.......its media influence and the doctored lgbt manipulation that is everywhere these days

I remeber my neighbors kid that used to say he has super powers like henry danger... u need to see how he gets serious about it...

dont tell her parents..they will just demonize her......let her figure herself out as her hormones start to rage.......but let her know she's not ready or mature for sex yet.... So there is no point sexually boxing or labelling herself based on any media content as her life just started ..... she should explore, process and engage things as they unravel in the real world with boys and girls

cococandy:
You can know if you’re gay or straight in your teens. No sexual activity required

No dey quote lgbt text book abeg..

advanceDNA:


No dey quote lgbt text book abeg..

Didn't you know your sexual orientation as a teen?

advanceDNA:


No dey quote lgbt text book abeg..

I don’t know what that means. I’m just telling you I didn’t have sex as a teenager yet I knew I was sexually attracted to men. It’s the same for gay people. It’s not complicated

1Sharon:


Didn't you know your sexual orientation as a teen?

No he had to try men and women first before deciding which one he liked best

cococandy:


No he had to try men and women first before deciding which one he like best

😂

This is the impression they give with their stupid comments.

You don't want fingers pointing your direction, one thing's for sure, fingers will certainly go in your cousin's kitten.

cococandy:


I don’t know what that means. I’m just telling you I didn’t have sex as a teenager yet I knew I was sexually attracted to men. It’s the same for gay people. It’s not complicated

Same textbook call 5 -10 year old gay...u no dey see small children liking each other?

Ive seen many pple attracted the opposite sex yet the sex ddnt flow when they got down to it....they later realized they are gay....

yeah .. u can like men at 12 years old and get down to sex and it flowed fine....it may also not flow fine.....my point is u will have to get down to sex proper to cinfirm...

cos sexual attravtion isnt likeness or love.... its fvcking, raw, pure animalistic desire....

1Sharon:
Nothing wrong with her being a lesbo at least she won't be hurt by men.

But isn't there a older female cousin she can talk to other than you.

you're a big fool and an ugly one.
idiot

Failure2019:
So my 14 year old cousin told me that she's a lesbo. Tbh I'm glad she thought I was someone who she could trust but I'm a bit worried about her. I feel like I should tell her parents about it. She specifically told me that she doesn't want her parents to know. All of our parents are somewhat strict but I don't want any fingers to be pointed at me if something went wrong. So I'm thinking I should tell them. BUT I won't be surprised if they tried to do something like taking her to a pastor . I'm conflicted about this. I'm not really upto snuff about LGBT stuff either.

Tell your cousin she's not a lesbian or any of the endless letters.
She's a human being who's still growing and yet to fully discover herself.
How she feels sexually does not define her.
Let her put away sexual thoughts from her mind for now, and focus on building herself.

Homosexuality is not normal even in nature, it's a disorder.

cococandy:


I don’t know what that means. I’m just telling you I didn’t have sex as a teenager yet I knew I was sexually attracted to men. It’s the same for gay people. It’s not complicated

you this useless bastard, who do you think you can deceive?

JobNeededUrgent:
you're a big fool and an ugly one.
idiot

I will drink your tears.

religious folks and their obsession with what goes on in other peoples bedrooms. Meanwhile, tgem no dey see other commandments being broken left and right by themselves and their daddy GOs.

What are you talking about, and how am I supposed to know if the teenager is sexually active or not? Did the OP state clearly if she's sexually active? Have you not seen or read of teenage girls who became sexually active or had babies at young ages? Or have you not read about lesbianism and homosexual acts in schools? What exactly is your point?

1Sharon:


Listen to what you're saying.

Why do you assume she's automatically sexually active with other girls because she's a lesbian?

As a heterosexual person were you sexually active at 14, even though you already KNEW you liked men?

Failure2019:
So my 14 year old cousin told me that she's a lesbo. Tbh I'm glad she thought I was someone who she could trust but I'm a bit worried about her. I feel like I should tell her parents about it. She specifically told me that she doesn't want her parents to know. All of our parents are somewhat strict but I don't want any fingers to be pointed at me if something went wrong. So I'm thinking I should tell them. BUT I won't be surprised if they tried to do something like taking her to a pastor . I'm conflicted about this. I'm not really upto snuff about LGBT stuff either.

what would telling her parents do? Do you think it will stop her? Una funny self. Just advice her and move on

1Sharon:


Didn't you know you liked women at 14 years old?

Or you woke up one morning and suddenly realised you were attracted to women?

after you finish keeping your face like that, come back and tell me HOW DOES MY LIKING WOMEN RELATE TO THIS STORY? am I the subject of discussion?

superCleanworks:


after you finish keeping your face like that, come back and tell me HOW DOES MY LIKING WOMEN RELATE TO THIS STORY? am I the subject of discussion?

Your question is hypocritical. Because you yourself knew you liked women at her age so she herself knows she likes women at her age too.

Lol she's still in her formative years, when she's all grown up she will think otherwise.

LilMissFavvy:
What are you talking about, and how am I supposed to know if the teenager is sexually active or not? Did the OP state clearly if she's sexually active? Have you not seen or read of teenage girls who became sexually active or had babies at young ages? Or have you not read about lesbianism and homosexual acts in schools? What exactly is your point?

If you didn't know if she was sexually active, why did you say she should stop the act? Nonsense.

1Sharon:


Your question is hypocritical. Because you yourself knew you liked women at her age so she herself knows she likes women at her age too.

and are you the one she told all these? How do you know the age i started liking women? is it that YOU KNOW EVERYTHING or you just enjoy jumping into conclusions.?
I am done replying you. Bye

superCleanworks:


and are you the one she told all these? How do you know the age i started liking women? is it that YOU KNOW EVERYTHING or you just enjoy jumping into conclusions.?
I am done replying you. Bye

You can miss me with your denial and hypocrisy.

At 14 you already knew you were into women, I'd say you knew even much younger sef. We all knew our sexuality at that age.

You didn't wake one morning and realised you were a heterosexual.

1Sharon:
You can miss me with your denial and hypocrisy.

what denial? hypocrisy? are you done?

superCleanworks:

what denial? hypocrisy? are you done?

Haha.. I thought you said you won't respond to me anymore

You must be out of your mind, you dafttt thing. Read the Ops message again and tell me if you haven't seen where it is mentioned that the teen girl said she's gai...

1Sharon:


If you didn't know if she was sexually active, why did you say she should stop the act? Nonsense.