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My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by tonye33(m): 1:37pm On May 01, 2023 |
Hi Dickson, I have seen your messages about wife denying husband sex and I must confess that mine is epic. I dated my wife for 4 years before marriage. After the first 2yrs of dating, she put a stop to our sex and said she felt guilt and all, I accepted because I have dated 2 girls previously with sex, so it wasn't a new deal. She is 2yrs older than me, I was younger and naïve, cos knowing what I know now, I wouldn't have done a lot of things. After marriage, she opened up to me that she has never enjoyed me cos I was huge, last more than 30mins and thrusts faster. I felt bad, started developing anxiety towards sex cos I was always thinking whether I was injuring her, she was enjoying it, or I will finish fast so she doesn't get angry cos she s hot tempered, can even get very very angry even during sex. Additionally, she cancelled all sex position because she said they were painful, only one position and its with her lying straight on her belly, or at most by her side. Anything that will make her raise any part of her body was painful, doggy was totally out of the way, and all these were never raised during our dating period. Any other position you attempt will make that night miserable because she will just be angry and asking every 5secs if you are not cumming. Something that was supposed to be fun ends up being a task. I wanted to meet her halfway and that was my huge mistake. I changed all my strategy and then I started losing my erections and most times I won't even be able to get one, and then her complaint changed that I was falling even in the act and that she was not enjoying me again cos i no longer thrust fast. Infact eeh........... I knew what the problem was, topped my game and we went back to square 1. The monthly count was like 7 or 8 times then as newly married couple while targeting conception. The moment she conception. The moment she took in, she locked up till the baby was in the 5th month. Infact the 9 months preg period was like 6 times only with curses, different conditions and rules before she will agree. I just managed the little wey i see. Mind you, we live peacefully, communicate almost every time, greet with kisses, pet names, dine and even play games but no sex. She is a full housewife and I earn 7 figures monthly. After our first baby, I begged for sex for 7 months and anytime I bring up the sex, it was followed with blackmail, anger, back talks and even silence. On the 8th month, the rule was "it must be with protection", I obliged. By the 9th month, which was the 5th time, she took in again. Almost same thing like the first preg period. After second delivery, I decided not to demand and just observe her. Bro, we stayed 1year living in the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I the same house without sex as couple. I work from home, so I was always around. I have househelps that does practically everything at home, except mixing food. Yes, I used mixing because they prepare everything needed to make food. I do the monthly shopping and even take care of the baby at night after working several hours during the day ooo, I support her to the best of my knowledge and still don't know why.......I just feel shedoesnt love me and not attractedto me, probably i was just the available status changer, because how can a woman stay in the same house with someone she loves and never feel the need to go intimate? I bumped into an ex and she suggested that I act like I was seeing someone, I then started living the house every evening and most times will drive to a car wash and stay for like 3 hours before coming home, and it didn't change anything, instead she became irate. This year, I have not even had it up to 10times with her for a marriage of 5yrs. Its really crazy. 25 Likes 6 Shares
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by BRIMBRAM: 1:42pm On May 01, 2023 |
Marry a second wife. 184 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Nobody: 1:54pm On May 01, 2023 |
Dangers of having a pestle in your pants. My advice seek out the help of a sex therapist. It's the best way to save your marriage. As for the comment above, please ignore. Nigerian men only have a single solution to all marital problems which is get a "new woman " sadly this doesn't solve their problems but compound them. 47 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by akwesenana: 1:59pm On May 01, 2023 |
Do you want to have sex? Or, you want to have sex with your wife? 139 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by almarthins(m): 2:01pm On May 01, 2023 |
tonye33: This Ur marriage look like a prison yard. 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by kkins25(m): 2:27pm On May 01, 2023 |
Sounds like a daft guy to be making 7 figures at home. If size is the problem, why not used the MB and money you have abundantly to learn how to manage the situation? Tried Lubes? Tried not sticking the whole stuff inside(after all just the base of the head is the sensitive part)? Tried going for a medical checkup in case, her Veejay has issues? How did you two get married in the first place, is what I want to know. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by kunchi(m): 2:42pm On May 01, 2023 |
Bros dey go hotel or asawo depending of money...but that's not the right thing to do just suggesting 23 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by ivandragon: 5:23pm On May 01, 2023 |
So many possible causes ranging from the physical to emotional. Retrace the origin of your relationship from the day you met & you will find your answer(s) somewhere in there... 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Sucre6: 7:40pm On May 01, 2023 |
I don't support polygamy but if I am to be on your shoes I would get. Side chick that satisfies my sexual needs, I have a very high sex drive, on a norms if my babes comes around we for the weekend we can have sex more than 15 times, not exaggerated before she goes, during lock down we had to go do family planning for her not to get pregnant because i was tired buying condoms everytime, the pharmacist in my area self don tire to dey sell condom for me , 😂 I ordered one carton on Jumia, I was just taking and using, one day I checked and it aff finish 😂, What am saying in essence is that no one should be in prison in the name of marriage, the op is really suffering, me I can't endure such 141 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Boogyman557: 7:44pm On May 01, 2023 |
Holly Gram ![]() Waiting I go advise u be say... Make u fine 1 better ASHAWOO house way u go de JAZZ in anytime way ur GBOLA don de on high-tension.. ASHAWOO don cheap now... u no say country don hard small now so ASHAWOO de find MONEY and CUSTOMERS.. Na 500h I use NACK ASHAWOO yesterday.. I even 4get my boxers for the ASHAWOO house but dis night I go JAZZ in der to collect my boxers.. mind u. rain don start de fall ooo.. LITE UP my WEED in peace WTF MAN! 38 Likes 4 Shares
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by kkins25(m): 8:14am On May 02, 2023 |
Sucre6:what kind was used on her? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by MechanicMike: 8:37am On May 02, 2023 |
tonye33: ![]() |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by MechanicMike: 8:39am On May 02, 2023 |
tonye33: Bros.. why are u nagggin hyena sir? .can't u juss fukkkk olosho 5k? (no offenscce) ![]() 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by shiwex: 1:19pm On May 02, 2023 |
Same shit everywhere. Really men are not suppose to get married, its all a scam that men get nothing out of. Its same shit everywhere....Its all a 10 year plan They marry you...... give you about two kids...... starve you of sex........ wait for you to go out and cheat........ divorce you....... Take your house and half of your shit. Marriage is a scam guys. Do not fall for it. 65 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by NoFucksToGive: 1:19pm On May 02, 2023 |
Boogyman557: ![]() No wonder this one of very poor and hungry. When he leaves his boxers in different ashewo houses . This one has no destiny of success at all, they have used all his boxers to clean clients sperm in different ashewo houses. Imagine any poor lady getting married to this bucket of failed destiny, na hunger poverty and suffering will be her portion. Ladies becareful whom you date o. just imagine this useless wasted son of somebody being proud of his wasted poverty life ...🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Las las na kidnapping or armed robbery this one will turn to for survival 🤣🤣 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by xavuv: 1:20pm On May 02, 2023 |
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by MrPOTUS: 1:20pm On May 02, 2023 |
![]() These dumb men keep giving women a sense of power because of sex. Sex is overrated, period! What does a man gain from it aside fatigue and tiredness and brain draining. Practice semen retention and see what you're missing. 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by sojayy(m): 1:20pm On May 02, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by inoki247: 1:21pm On May 02, 2023 |
Lol |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Risingblue008(m): 1:21pm On May 02, 2023 |
Ue |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Hades2016(m): 1:21pm On May 02, 2023 |
Because your wife denied you of sex and you write this whole note ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by SultanOfAbia: 1:22pm On May 02, 2023 |
I no fit pity simp again for my life!! Una deserve every rubbish una dey see A woman that deny her husband sex Didnt marry him as a lover She married him as a Provider She sees you as not but the guy that will feed her and her children. Thats all A womans true colors come out after marriage Marriage is poverty alievation for women You will provide for her like her father provided for her when she was small You are basically her step dad You will continue from where her father stopped Thats why fathers are very happy when they give out there daughters in marriage Father will be dancing saying to the husband Oya take her, she is now your problem The main goal of a woman marrying is not for her to enjoy sex. Its for her to find a provider that will take care of her like her father did. She can get 3 times more sex when she was single. So sex is not the reason why women go into marriage But men being stupid go into marriage for sex. Thats why women change it for men immediately they are married. You are now her step dad, continue feeding and providing for her plus your children 60 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by DMerciful(m): 1:22pm On May 02, 2023 |
Marry a second wife. Not side chick but a second wife, don't be a SIMP! 7 Likes |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by millionboi2: 1:23pm On May 02, 2023 |
Why |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Youngkhaleepha3(m): 1:23pm On May 02, 2023 |
May u get someone who love sex like u 5 Likes
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by SoftP(m): 1:24pm On May 02, 2023 |
All these long epistle on top of Pu*sy, He’s truly starved… 15k can get you a whole lots of fantasies bro, Save your self the stress by hitting the streets or online, Whole lots of ass awaiting harvest, Some men shaa get time to waste The only thing worth stress & time is making Mula, Know this & have peace 10 Likes
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by AngelicBeing: 1:24pm On May 02, 2023 |
Like seriously, Chai, sex, sex, sex, sex, una no dey taya for sexual related issues, people are talking about how to live in the moon, create scientific innovation to better humanity but on Nairaland.com, na sex wahala all the time, wetin person no go read for nairaland.com ![]() 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by money121(m): 1:25pm On May 02, 2023 |
This Life No balance |
Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Wealthoptulent(m): 1:25pm On May 02, 2023 |
Nawa oo, Quite unfortunate that MARRIAGE became POVERTY ALLEVIATION PROGRAMME for WOMEN! Morals are lost! They want all like a HAMPERS OF GOODIES, WHO wants a MAN RICH, HANDSOME, TALL, MASCULINE, CALM, GULLIBLE, STRONG TO PROTECT THEM, WEAK TO BE ABUSED BY THEM, FEED THEIR FAMILIES, and again they wan him to be POOR TO HIS RELATIVES, UGLY TO SIDE CHIC, WEAK TO TAKE CHARGE HOMES. Want MEN to die at OLD AGE, THEY INHERIT WEALTH, be the first to be invited abroad by children, highest cut of proceeds... they want A-MEN , eni jere , aje. 16 Likes 2 Shares
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Re: My Wife Denies Me Sex. Man Laments by Naija4love(m): 1:25pm On May 02, 2023 |
Shay man third leg done suffer for this woman hands 🙆🏾🙆🏾🙆🏾 6 Likes
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